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1 00:00:11,750 00:00:14,710 [light piano music] [light piano music]
2 00:01:21,559 00:01:25,085 [birds chirping] [birds chirping]
3 00:01:25,172 00:01:27,522 [bell ringing] [bell ringing]
4 00:01:33,397 00:01:35,225 [students chattering] [students chattering]
5 00:01:35,312 00:01:37,227 - [Teacher] I told you that you need to get off that phone. - [Teacher] I told you that you need to get off that phone.
6 00:01:37,314 00:01:38,489 You're always on that phone, now get to class. You're always on that phone, now get to class.
7 00:01:38,576 00:01:39,577 - Rico. - Rico.
8 00:01:39,664 00:01:40,970 - Whoa, whoa, you straight? - Whoa, whoa, you straight?
9 00:01:41,057 00:01:42,014 - Yeah, man I'm good. - You're good? - Yeah, man I'm good. - You're good?
10 00:01:42,102 00:01:43,364 - Yeah, I'm good, what's up? - Yeah, I'm good, what's up?
11 00:01:43,451 00:01:45,409 - What's up is your medical bills. - What's up is your medical bills.
12 00:01:45,496 00:01:47,368 Boy, you know you got broke up in practice. Boy, you know you got broke up in practice.
13 00:01:47,455 00:01:48,499 - Man, here he go. - Man, here he go.
14 00:01:48,586 00:01:50,022 I know you ain't talking mister, I know you ain't talking mister,
15 00:01:50,110 00:01:52,286 oh coach I can't see, the sun in my eyes. oh coach I can't see, the sun in my eyes.
16 00:01:52,373 00:01:54,114 - Man that happened one time, you know me. - Man that happened one time, you know me.
17 00:01:55,637 00:01:57,943 Aight, aight, about two or three times. Aight, aight, about two or three times.
18 00:01:58,030 00:01:59,380 Man, get off my back. Man, get off my back.
19 00:01:59,467 00:02:00,555 - Yeah, two or three times per practice - Yeah, two or three times per practice
20 00:02:00,642 00:02:02,600 and we on two-a days. and we on two-a days.
21 00:02:02,687 00:02:03,732 - Whatever man, what up Paul? - Whatever man, what up Paul?
22 00:02:03,819 00:02:05,168 - Nothin' much much. - Nothin' much much.
23 00:02:05,255 00:02:05,995 - Thinkin' about the game tonight huh? - Thinkin' about the game tonight huh?
24 00:02:06,082 00:02:07,388 - Not really, man. - Not really, man.
25 00:02:07,475 00:02:09,390 I'm not even really thinkin' about the game. I'm not even really thinkin' about the game.
26 00:02:09,477 00:02:11,087 - You ain't thinkin' about the game? - You ain't thinkin' about the game?
27 00:02:11,174 00:02:12,697 Man, if we gonna make it to the playoffs Man, if we gonna make it to the playoffs
28 00:02:12,784 00:02:14,351 you gotta be worried about this game right here. you gotta be worried about this game right here.
29 00:02:14,438 00:02:16,527 I mean you're one of the best players we got. I mean you're one of the best players we got.
30 00:02:16,614 00:02:17,485 Man, you should be focused. Man, you should be focused.
31 00:02:19,269 00:02:21,315 Plus, I hear they're gonna have scouts at the game tonight. Plus, I hear they're gonna have scouts at the game tonight.
32 00:02:21,402 00:02:22,925 - Man, you know Paul ain't worried about them scouts - Man, you know Paul ain't worried about them scouts
33 00:02:23,012 00:02:24,753 when he got a drawer full of scholarship offers. when he got a drawer full of scholarship offers.
34 00:02:24,840 00:02:27,016 - [Adrian] Boy you ain't gon' never be nothing! - [Adrian] Boy you ain't gon' never be nothing!
35 00:02:27,103 00:02:28,365 - This boy has God given talent he was put - This boy has God given talent he was put
36 00:02:28,452 00:02:29,410 on this earth to play ball. on this earth to play ball.
37 00:02:29,497 00:02:31,107 - Yeah you was an accident! - Yeah you was an accident!
38 00:02:32,630 00:02:33,936 - Man he ain't even listening. - Man he ain't even listening.
39 00:02:34,023 00:02:35,807 - Yo Paul, you listening? - Yo Paul, you listening?
40 00:02:35,894 00:02:37,635 - Yeah man, I hear y'all. - Yeah man, I hear y'all.
41 00:02:37,722 00:02:39,420 - He probably over there thinking about Nina. - He probably over there thinking about Nina.
42 00:02:41,248 00:02:42,945 - Speaking of y'all heard about that party tonight? - Speaking of y'all heard about that party tonight?
43 00:02:43,032 00:02:44,773 - Oh yeah I'ma be there. - Oh yeah I'ma be there.
44 00:02:44,860 00:02:46,862 [bell ringing] [bell ringing]
45 00:02:46,949 00:02:48,994 - I'ma see you man. - I'ma see you man.
46 00:02:49,081 00:02:50,039 - Aight bro. - Aight bro.
47 00:02:53,260 00:02:55,000 - What's up with ya boy man? - What's up with ya boy man?
48 00:02:55,087 00:02:56,219 - Man I don't even know. - Man I don't even know.
49 00:02:58,003 00:02:59,483 [speaking in foreign language] [speaking in foreign language]
50 00:02:59,570 00:03:01,398 Class can anybody conjugate that for me? Class can anybody conjugate that for me?
51 00:03:04,575 00:03:05,620 Miss Nina. Miss Nina.
52 00:03:05,707 00:03:07,187 - Yes? - Yes?
53 00:03:07,274 00:03:08,449 - Can you conjugate - Can you conjugate
54 00:03:08,536 00:03:12,279 [speaking in foreign language] [speaking in foreign language]
55 00:03:21,636 00:03:22,724 Matthew? Matthew?
56 00:03:22,811 00:03:23,812 - Yes ma'am. - Yes ma'am.
57 00:03:23,899 00:03:24,726 - Are you paying attention? - Are you paying attention?
58 00:03:24,813 00:03:25,857 Where's your book? Where's your book?
59 00:03:25,944 00:03:27,772 We're on page 548. We're on page 548.
60 00:03:27,859 00:03:29,339 You have to study and read You have to study and read
61 00:03:29,426 00:03:31,559 if you want to do perfect for those finals. if you want to do perfect for those finals.
62 00:03:31,646 00:03:32,821 Are you even listening? Are you even listening?
63 00:03:38,479 00:03:39,915 - One more remark like that - One more remark like that
64 00:03:40,002 00:03:41,612 and you'll be going straight to detention. and you'll be going straight to detention.
65 00:03:46,356 00:03:48,924 - All of my aggression is taken out on the field. - All of my aggression is taken out on the field.
66 00:03:50,447 00:03:53,189 Pain and hurt, oh I know how it feels. Pain and hurt, oh I know how it feels.
67 00:03:54,973 00:03:57,324 Tell me where's this peace, that they claim is real? Tell me where's this peace, that they claim is real?
68 00:03:58,890 00:04:02,024 Wish I was a clam, so I could live in my shell. Wish I was a clam, so I could live in my shell.
69 00:04:02,111 00:04:03,895 I hate life, I hate it. I hate life, I hate it.
70 00:04:03,982 00:04:05,506 What's the point of all of this? What's the point of all of this?
71 00:04:05,593 00:04:08,509 They say God is love but this heart was missed. They say God is love but this heart was missed.
72 00:04:08,596 00:04:12,513 Dismissed, off to hell I think burning is better. Dismissed, off to hell I think burning is better.
73 00:04:12,600 00:04:15,559 So God if you're real I hope you're moved by this letter. So God if you're real I hope you're moved by this letter.
74 00:04:15,646 00:04:18,040 [bell ringing] [bell ringing]
75 00:04:21,261 00:04:22,087 - Aye Paul! - Aye Paul!
76 00:04:23,959 00:04:27,179 Yo what up bruh you seem kinda off today. Yo what up bruh you seem kinda off today.
77 00:04:27,267 00:04:30,487 - Nothing much man I just been having a lot on my mind. - Nothing much man I just been having a lot on my mind.
78 00:04:30,574 00:04:31,836 - Like what? - Like what?
79 00:04:31,923 00:04:33,185 - Too much. - Too much.
80 00:04:33,273 00:04:34,274 A lot that I don't even feel like A lot that I don't even feel like
81 00:04:34,361 00:04:35,710 is worth talking about right now. is worth talking about right now.
82 00:04:35,797 00:04:36,841 - You sure? - You sure?
83 00:04:36,928 00:04:37,668 - Positive. - Positive.
84 00:04:39,235 00:04:40,367 - Well you know what's going to help you - Well you know what's going to help you
85 00:04:40,454 00:04:41,803 forget about all that right? forget about all that right?
86 00:04:41,890 00:04:43,631 - What's that? - What's that?
87 00:04:43,718 00:04:45,981 - That party they're throwing tonight after the game! - That party they're throwing tonight after the game!
88 00:04:46,068 00:04:48,157 - Man I don't know. - Man I don't know.
89 00:04:48,244 00:04:49,593 You know my people was tripping on the last party You know my people was tripping on the last party
90 00:04:49,680 00:04:50,986 that I went to. that I went to.
91 00:04:51,073 00:04:52,814 - Naw man see yo people was tripping - Naw man see yo people was tripping
92 00:04:52,901 00:04:55,730 more so on how late you came in and how messed up you were, more so on how late you came in and how messed up you were,
93 00:04:55,817 00:04:57,558 rather than the fact you went to a party. rather than the fact you went to a party.
94 00:04:57,645 00:04:59,342 How about this? How about this?
95 00:04:59,429 00:05:00,822 Go home after the game, wait until your people's sleep, Go home after the game, wait until your people's sleep,
96 00:05:00,909 00:05:03,041 shoot me a text and I'll come scoop you up. shoot me a text and I'll come scoop you up.
97 00:05:03,128 00:05:04,086 - Hey bro! - Hey bro!
98 00:05:04,173 00:05:04,869 - Hey sis. - Hey sis.
99 00:05:04,956 00:05:06,393 - What up D? - What up D?
100 00:05:06,480 00:05:07,219 - What up? - What up?
101 00:05:09,526 00:05:11,311 - Man I don't know. - Man I don't know.
102 00:05:11,398 00:05:13,356 - Come on man it's our last home game - Come on man it's our last home game
103 00:05:13,443 00:05:14,923 and your senior year in high school. and your senior year in high school.
104 00:05:16,446 00:05:17,839 Hold on wait wait don't tell me you're afraid Hold on wait wait don't tell me you're afraid
105 00:05:17,926 00:05:19,449 of your hypocriting Pastor. of your hypocriting Pastor.
106 00:05:19,536 00:05:20,972 - It's not him I'm worried about. - It's not him I'm worried about.
107 00:05:21,059 00:05:23,148 I just don't want to disappoint my mama. I just don't want to disappoint my mama.
108 00:05:23,235 00:05:24,628 - Okay I feel you, really. - Okay I feel you, really.
109 00:05:24,715 00:05:26,456 I see where you're coming from, I see where you're coming from,
110 00:05:26,543 00:05:27,805 but you're forgetting the best part. but you're forgetting the best part.
111 00:05:27,892 00:05:28,502 - Hey Paul. - Hey Paul.
112 00:05:28,589 00:05:29,938 - Hey Nina. - Hey Nina.
113 00:05:30,025 00:05:31,069 - Are you coming to my party tonight? - Are you coming to my party tonight?
114 00:05:31,156 00:05:32,854 - I'm thinking about it. - I'm thinking about it.
115 00:05:32,941 00:05:34,072 - I'll be there. - I'll be there.
116 00:05:34,159 00:05:35,030 So what's there to think about? So what's there to think about?
117 00:05:36,292 00:05:37,815 - I don't know. - I don't know.
118 00:05:37,902 00:05:40,165 - Well it'll make my night better if you came. - Well it'll make my night better if you came.
119 00:05:40,252 00:05:41,819 - We'll see. - We'll see.
120 00:05:41,906 00:05:42,690 - Okay. - Okay.
121 00:05:45,910 00:05:49,871 - For reasons I don't understand you're attracted to her, - For reasons I don't understand you're attracted to her,
122 00:05:49,958 00:05:52,874 and y'all been locking eyes ever since like freshman year and y'all been locking eyes ever since like freshman year
123 00:05:52,961 00:05:54,615 so you might as well make the relationship official so you might as well make the relationship official
124 00:05:54,702 00:05:55,964 tonight at the party. tonight at the party.
125 00:05:56,051 00:05:57,313 - I'ma think about it. - I'ma think about it.
126 00:05:57,400 00:05:58,270 - So I'll be waiting on your text. - So I'll be waiting on your text.
127 00:05:59,402 00:06:00,403 - Let me get out of here man. - Let me get out of here man.
128 00:06:00,490 00:06:01,230 - Alright bro. - Alright bro.
129 00:06:04,451 00:06:06,191 So I'll see you tonight! So I'll see you tonight!
130 00:06:06,278 00:06:07,671 - I said I'll think about it. - I said I'll think about it.
131 00:06:09,847 00:06:12,502 [vacuum whirring] [vacuum whirring]
132 00:06:18,508 00:06:19,509 Hey ma! Hey ma!
133 00:06:19,596 00:06:20,641 - Boy you better say something - Boy you better say something
134 00:06:20,728 00:06:21,859 before you walk in this house. before you walk in this house.
135 00:06:22,947 00:06:24,166 About to give me a heart attack. About to give me a heart attack.
136 00:06:24,253 00:06:25,036 - Hey mom. - Hey mom.
137 00:06:25,123 00:06:25,863 - Hey baby. - Hey baby.
138 00:06:32,827 00:06:34,045 So how was school today? So how was school today?
139 00:06:34,132 00:06:35,917 - School was school. - School was school.
140 00:06:36,004 00:06:37,179 - That's it? - That's it?
141 00:06:37,266 00:06:38,659 What'd you learn? What'd you learn?
142 00:06:38,746 00:06:41,401 - I learned how to fail a chemistry test. - I learned how to fail a chemistry test.
143 00:06:41,488 00:06:43,359 - Fail Tatiyanna? - Fail Tatiyanna?
144 00:06:43,446 00:06:46,231 - Not failed failed but I just don't think I did that well. - Not failed failed but I just don't think I did that well.
145 00:06:46,318 00:06:48,059 You know she don't like me. You know she don't like me.
146 00:06:48,146 00:06:49,191 - Always the teacher's fault. - Always the teacher's fault.
147 00:06:49,278 00:06:50,627 - Mm hmm. - Mm hmm.
148 00:06:50,714 00:06:52,063 - Now you know I taught you better than that. - Now you know I taught you better than that.
149 00:06:52,150 00:06:53,848 - I'm just playing mama. - I'm just playing mama.
150 00:06:53,935 00:06:55,023 - Alright. - Alright.
151 00:06:55,110 00:06:56,024 But you look pretty today. But you look pretty today.
152 00:06:56,111 00:06:57,634 - Thank you! - Thank you!
153 00:06:57,721 00:06:59,157 - And I like that make up on you. - And I like that make up on you.
154 00:06:59,244 00:07:00,376 - It's Friday gotta be ready for the game. - It's Friday gotta be ready for the game.
155 00:07:01,812 00:07:03,858 - You plan on wearing that all day? - You plan on wearing that all day?
156 00:07:03,945 00:07:05,599 - Nina just re-did it. - Nina just re-did it.
157 00:07:05,686 00:07:08,079 - But you know that make-up is a little bit too dark - But you know that make-up is a little bit too dark
158 00:07:08,166 00:07:09,516 for your daddy. for your daddy.
159 00:07:09,603 00:07:10,778 You're gonna have to take that off. You're gonna have to take that off.
160 00:07:10,865 00:07:12,475 - She just re-did it! - She just re-did it!
161 00:07:12,562 00:07:14,259 - I'm sorry Tatiana it's okay for me - I'm sorry Tatiana it's okay for me
162 00:07:14,346 00:07:15,696 but you know how your daddy is. but you know how your daddy is.
163 00:07:15,783 00:07:17,698 Go take that make-up off. Go take that make-up off.
164 00:07:17,785 00:07:18,481 - Man. - Man.
165 00:07:21,310 00:07:22,050 - So Paul. - So Paul.
166 00:07:22,137 00:07:23,399 - Yes mam. - Yes mam.
167 00:07:23,486 00:07:25,749 - How excited are you right now? - How excited are you right now?
168 00:07:25,836 00:07:27,011 - Over joyed. - Over joyed.
169 00:07:27,098 00:07:28,448 - All right, all right. - All right, all right.
170 00:07:28,535 00:07:29,927 I know you've been thinking about college I know you've been thinking about college
171 00:07:30,014 00:07:30,841 because I've been thinking about it too. because I've been thinking about it too.
172 00:07:30,928 00:07:31,755 - Awe yes mam. - Awe yes mam.
173 00:07:31,842 00:07:33,061 It's been on my mind. It's been on my mind.
174 00:07:33,148 00:07:34,758 - So have you made any decisions? - So have you made any decisions?
175 00:07:34,845 00:07:37,152 - Not really I haven't came to a sure decision yet. - Not really I haven't came to a sure decision yet.
176 00:07:37,239 00:07:38,675 I'm still undecided. I'm still undecided.
177 00:07:38,762 00:07:41,939 - Okay, well there's nothing wrong with that. - Okay, well there's nothing wrong with that.
178 00:07:42,026 00:07:43,941 But you know I've been praying. But you know I've been praying.
179 00:07:44,028 00:07:46,030 - Oh yes, of course. - Oh yes, of course.
180 00:07:46,117 00:07:48,729 - That God will lead and guide you in the right path. - That God will lead and guide you in the right path.
181 00:07:48,816 00:07:50,252 - Yes mam. - Yes mam.
182 00:07:50,339 00:07:52,297 - And you know which one that is right? - And you know which one that is right?
183 00:07:52,384 00:07:55,649 - Yes ma'am I know I know. - Yes ma'am I know I know.
184 00:07:55,736 00:07:58,303 - Well I'ma be there, I'm going to make sure I support you. - Well I'ma be there, I'm going to make sure I support you.
185 00:07:58,390 00:07:59,914 I'm your number one fan you know that right? I'm your number one fan you know that right?
186 00:08:00,001 00:08:00,784 - Oh of course! - Oh of course!
187 00:08:00,871 00:08:02,612 - Alright. - Alright.
188 00:08:02,699 00:08:05,789 - Hey are you and dad, y'all coming to the game tonight? - Hey are you and dad, y'all coming to the game tonight?
189 00:08:05,876 00:08:07,661 - I'ma have to call your daddy and see. - I'ma have to call your daddy and see.
190 00:08:17,322 00:08:19,890 [phone ringing] [phone ringing]
191 00:08:20,848 00:08:22,284 - Hello? - Hello?
192 00:08:22,371 00:08:23,764 - Hey Adrian I'm not going to keep you long - Hey Adrian I'm not going to keep you long
193 00:08:23,851 00:08:25,287 I know you're at work and pretty busy. I know you're at work and pretty busy.
194 00:08:25,374 00:08:26,767 But Paul has a game. But Paul has a game.
195 00:08:26,854 00:08:28,986 Do you think you'll be able to make it tonight? Do you think you'll be able to make it tonight?
196 00:08:29,073 00:08:30,640 - Game? - Game?
197 00:08:30,727 00:08:32,207 Woman I've been up since 3 o'clock this morning Woman I've been up since 3 o'clock this morning
198 00:08:32,294 00:08:33,556 I'm not going to no game. I'm not going to no game.
199 00:08:33,643 00:08:34,557 You know that! You know that!
200 00:08:34,644 00:08:36,167 - I understand. - I understand.
201 00:08:36,254 00:08:37,952 He's not going to be able to make it. He's not going to be able to make it.
202 00:08:38,039 00:08:39,736 - Yeah you're right I'm not going to be able to make it! - Yeah you're right I'm not going to be able to make it!
203 00:08:39,823 00:08:41,608 I'm out here working a 14 hour shift. I'm out here working a 14 hour shift.
204 00:08:41,695 00:08:43,348 It seem like I'm the only one worried about It seem like I'm the only one worried about
205 00:08:43,435 00:08:45,916 putting the food in the house, that you keep burning! putting the food in the house, that you keep burning!
206 00:08:46,003 00:08:49,311 So no I ain't going to no game that's out the question. So no I ain't going to no game that's out the question.
207 00:08:49,398 00:08:51,487 - I know that Adrian. - I know that Adrian.
208 00:08:51,574 00:08:53,358 - Okay so if you know it what you calling me for? - Okay so if you know it what you calling me for?
209 00:08:53,445 00:08:55,012 - I just thought we should spend - I just thought we should spend
210 00:08:55,099 00:08:56,797 some quality time as a family. some quality time as a family.
211 00:08:56,884 00:08:58,102 - Quality time. - Quality time.
212 00:08:58,189 00:08:59,495 - I think it would be a good idea - I think it would be a good idea
213 00:08:59,582 00:09:00,278 if we just support Paul as a family. if we just support Paul as a family.
214 00:09:00,365 00:09:01,192 - Support? - Support?
215 00:09:01,279 00:09:02,629 - Is that so much to ask? - Is that so much to ask?
216 00:09:02,716 00:09:04,021 - I'll tell you what I'm going to support Paul - I'll tell you what I'm going to support Paul
217 00:09:04,108 00:09:06,154 like you supported me my senior year. like you supported me my senior year.
218 00:09:06,241 00:09:07,547 You remember when you popped up and got pregnant? You remember when you popped up and got pregnant?
219 00:09:07,634 00:09:08,373 - Now you wanna go and bring that up? - Now you wanna go and bring that up?
220 00:09:08,460 00:09:09,897 - No you brought up. - No you brought up.
221 00:09:09,984 00:09:11,812 You the one started talking about support. You the one started talking about support.
222 00:09:11,899 00:09:13,770 Now I'm talking about my lack of support. Now I'm talking about my lack of support.
223 00:09:13,857 00:09:14,858 You know what if it wouldn't have been for you You know what if it wouldn't have been for you
224 00:09:14,945 00:09:16,599 I would've been in the pros. I would've been in the pros.
225 00:09:16,686 00:09:19,167 - Adrian we never do anything together as a family. - Adrian we never do anything together as a family.
226 00:09:19,254 00:09:21,952 I just thought maybe we could have that time together. I just thought maybe we could have that time together.
227 00:09:22,039 00:09:24,302 - Here you go again talking about time Leah. - Here you go again talking about time Leah.
228 00:09:24,389 00:09:27,175 I tell you what since you got so much time on your hands I tell you what since you got so much time on your hands
229 00:09:27,262 00:09:29,046 how about you go spend some time in front of the TV how about you go spend some time in front of the TV
230 00:09:29,133 00:09:30,744 and watch one of them cooking channels and watch one of them cooking channels
231 00:09:30,831 00:09:33,355 so maybe they can show you something about cooking. so maybe they can show you something about cooking.
232 00:09:33,442 00:09:37,228 Leah better yet just go down to one of those gyms Leah better yet just go down to one of those gyms
233 00:09:37,315 00:09:39,448 and spend some time with them since you then let yourself go and spend some time with them since you then let yourself go
234 00:09:39,535 00:09:40,841 since we got married. since we got married.
235 00:09:40,928 00:09:42,756 You got so much time on your hands. You got so much time on your hands.
236 00:09:42,843 00:09:44,279 - You know what Adrian? - You know what Adrian?
237 00:09:44,366 00:09:45,889 I'm sorry I should've never brought it up. I'm sorry I should've never brought it up.
238 00:09:45,976 00:09:48,109 - You being sorry is the smartest thing you said all day. - You being sorry is the smartest thing you said all day.
239 00:09:49,240 00:09:50,024 - Hello? - Hello?
240 00:10:00,991 00:10:03,167 [sobbing] [sobbing]
241 00:10:03,254 00:10:04,604 - Clean yourself up! - Clean yourself up!
242 00:10:04,691 00:10:06,823 Go fix your hair Leah look nice for a change! Go fix your hair Leah look nice for a change!
243 00:10:08,869 00:10:10,131 I'll tell you what I'm going to support Paul I'll tell you what I'm going to support Paul
244 00:10:10,218 00:10:12,307 like you supported me my senior year. like you supported me my senior year.
245 00:10:12,394 00:10:14,483 You remember when you popped up and got pregnant? You remember when you popped up and got pregnant?
246 00:10:14,570 00:10:16,354 It seem like I'm the only one worried It seem like I'm the only one worried
247 00:10:16,441 00:10:17,138 about putting the food in the house, that you keep burning! about putting the food in the house, that you keep burning!
248 00:10:17,225 00:10:18,661 No you brought up. No you brought up.
249 00:10:18,748 00:10:20,184 You the one started talking about support. You the one started talking about support.
250 00:10:20,271 00:10:21,969 Now I'm talking about my lack of support. Now I'm talking about my lack of support.
251 00:10:22,056 00:10:23,492 You know what if it wouldn't have been for you You know what if it wouldn't have been for you
252 00:10:23,579 00:10:25,102 I would've been in the pros. I would've been in the pros.
253 00:10:27,931 00:10:31,848 You being sorry is the smartest thing you said all day! You being sorry is the smartest thing you said all day!
254 00:10:41,292 00:10:42,337 - I'm trying! - I'm trying!
255 00:10:43,860 00:10:45,862 This is just too hard! This is just too hard!
256 00:10:48,778 00:10:50,911 I can't take this anymore. I can't take this anymore.
257 00:10:59,136 00:11:00,442 - It would be Nina to rent out - It would be Nina to rent out
258 00:11:00,529 00:11:01,835 one of the biggest spots in the city! one of the biggest spots in the city!
259 00:11:01,922 00:11:04,098 - Yeah she went all out with this one! - Yeah she went all out with this one!
260 00:11:04,185 00:11:06,274 - I know it's the perfect way to celebrate a win! - I know it's the perfect way to celebrate a win!
261 00:11:10,670 00:11:11,758 - See man what I told you. - See man what I told you.
262 00:11:11,845 00:11:13,107 You had fun didn't you? You had fun didn't you?
263 00:11:13,194 00:11:14,848 - Yeah man I had a real good time. - Yeah man I had a real good time.
264 00:11:14,935 00:11:16,763 Thanks for the ride though. Thanks for the ride though.
265 00:11:16,850 00:11:17,894 - No problem. - No problem.
266 00:11:39,394 00:11:41,004 - You know son. - You know son.
267 00:11:41,091 00:11:43,224 When I was yo age I learned that you couldn't When I was yo age I learned that you couldn't
268 00:11:43,311 00:11:46,836 go back through a window that's been locked from the inside. go back through a window that's been locked from the inside.
269 00:11:46,923 00:11:48,969 And if you would've tried to go back through that window. And if you would've tried to go back through that window.
270 00:11:49,056 00:11:51,188 You would've noticed that I locked it. You would've noticed that I locked it.
271 00:11:51,275 00:11:53,190 Then, you wouldn't of came through my front door Then, you wouldn't of came through my front door
272 00:11:53,277 00:11:55,715 with that dumb smile on your face. with that dumb smile on your face.
273 00:11:55,802 00:11:57,107 Where you been? Where you been?
274 00:11:58,805 00:12:00,284 Boy I said where you been? Boy I said where you been?
275 00:12:00,371 00:12:02,025 - I went to a party! - I went to a party!
276 00:12:02,112 00:12:04,767 - So I guess you ain't learn from the last time - So I guess you ain't learn from the last time
277 00:12:04,854 00:12:07,074 you just went to a party. you just went to a party.
278 00:12:07,161 00:12:09,467 You think I'ma keep letting you go out and come in my house You think I'ma keep letting you go out and come in my house
279 00:12:09,554 00:12:10,860 at three o'clock in the morning at three o'clock in the morning
280 00:12:10,947 00:12:12,427 and I ain't gon' to tell you nothing? and I ain't gon' to tell you nothing?
281 00:12:12,514 00:12:14,429 - Look I'm just trying to enjoy my time here - Look I'm just trying to enjoy my time here
282 00:12:14,516 00:12:15,909 before I go off to college! before I go off to college!
283 00:12:16,823 00:12:17,954 - What you said? - What you said?
284 00:12:18,041 00:12:20,000 Before you go off to college? Before you go off to college?
285 00:12:20,087 00:12:21,697 We then already had this conversation Paul. We then already had this conversation Paul.
286 00:12:21,784 00:12:23,786 You're not going off to college! You're not going off to college!
287 00:12:23,873 00:12:27,355 You're going to school in this city to get your education! You're going to school in this city to get your education!
288 00:12:27,442 00:12:30,053 You're already going out partying you think I'm let you go You're already going out partying you think I'm let you go
289 00:12:30,140 00:12:32,012 out of state and waste my money partying? out of state and waste my money partying?
290 00:12:32,099 00:12:34,014 - I wouldn't be wasting your money! - I wouldn't be wasting your money!
291 00:12:34,101 00:12:37,147 I got full ride scholarships and you know that! I got full ride scholarships and you know that!
292 00:12:37,234 00:12:39,933 And besides don't you think that should be my choice? And besides don't you think that should be my choice?
293 00:12:40,020 00:12:41,412 I mean it is my future! I mean it is my future!
294 00:12:41,499 00:12:43,327 - But guess what? - But guess what?
295 00:12:43,414 00:12:45,982 I'm still your father, that means I still got the final say I'm still your father, that means I still got the final say
296 00:12:46,069 00:12:47,723 so you understand? so you understand?
297 00:12:47,810 00:12:49,072 And for one, I'm not going to have you disrespect me And for one, I'm not going to have you disrespect me
298 00:12:49,159 00:12:50,334 in my house boy so watch your tone in my house boy so watch your tone
299 00:12:50,421 00:12:51,727 when you're talking to me. when you're talking to me.
300 00:12:51,814 00:12:53,381 - I'm not trying to hear this tonight. - I'm not trying to hear this tonight.
301 00:12:53,468 00:12:55,165 - Boy you gon' hear everything I gotta tell you - Boy you gon' hear everything I gotta tell you
302 00:12:55,252 00:12:56,514 don't you ever walk off when I'm trying to talk to you. don't you ever walk off when I'm trying to talk to you.
303 00:12:56,601 00:12:57,341 Go sit down. Go sit down.
304 00:12:58,865 00:13:00,780 Boy I said go sit down! Boy I said go sit down!
305 00:13:02,694 00:13:05,262 I'm trying to be patient with you Paul. I'm trying to be patient with you Paul.
306 00:13:05,349 00:13:07,656 I really am man. I really am man.
307 00:13:07,743 00:13:10,050 But you about to push me to that level and I don't want But you about to push me to that level and I don't want
308 00:13:10,137 00:13:11,486 to take it there with you, you understand me? to take it there with you, you understand me?
309 00:13:11,573 00:13:13,140 You gon' respect me in my house boy! You gon' respect me in my house boy!
310 00:13:13,227 00:13:14,532 - Why are y'all always arguing? - Why are y'all always arguing?
311 00:13:14,619 00:13:15,969 I can't never sleep. I can't never sleep.
312 00:13:16,056 00:13:17,405 - Tatiyanna, get back in your room little girl - Tatiyanna, get back in your room little girl
313 00:13:17,492 00:13:19,233 'cause right now this don't even concern you. 'cause right now this don't even concern you.
314 00:13:19,320 00:13:21,017 - Didn't you just preach a message about love - Didn't you just preach a message about love
315 00:13:21,104 00:13:22,062 and peace in the home? and peace in the home?
316 00:13:22,149 00:13:23,498 You know we never see that. You know we never see that.
317 00:13:23,585 00:13:25,108 - You want to see love and peace in this home? - You want to see love and peace in this home?
318 00:13:25,195 00:13:26,544 - Yes. - Yes.
319 00:13:26,631 00:13:27,937 - You gon' rest in peace if you don't get back - You gon' rest in peace if you don't get back
320 00:13:28,024 00:13:29,330 in that room like I told you. in that room like I told you.
321 00:13:29,417 00:13:32,637 That message anyway was for my congregation. That message anyway was for my congregation.
322 00:13:32,724 00:13:34,291 - So what you're saying is it's okay - So what you're saying is it's okay
323 00:13:34,378 00:13:36,685 to live one way at church and another way at home? to live one way at church and another way at home?
324 00:13:36,772 00:13:39,035 - Woman, get back in that room! - Woman, get back in that room!
325 00:13:39,122 00:13:42,038 - Adrian these are our kids. - Adrian these are our kids.
326 00:13:42,125 00:13:44,345 We're suppose to be an example to them. We're suppose to be an example to them.
327 00:13:44,432 00:13:46,695 - Be an example to your daughter by being submissive - Be an example to your daughter by being submissive
328 00:13:46,782 00:13:48,305 when I said get back in that room! when I said get back in that room!
329 00:13:49,785 00:13:51,134 Boy get your hands off me! Boy get your hands off me!
330 00:13:51,221 00:13:53,136 You thinking you this big super star athlete! You thinking you this big super star athlete!
331 00:13:53,223 00:13:54,964 You getting all kind of praise from your little partners You getting all kind of praise from your little partners
332 00:13:55,051 00:13:57,227 and stuff like you're all that but you're really not! and stuff like you're all that but you're really not!
333 00:13:57,314 00:13:58,794 You understand? You understand?
334 00:13:58,881 00:13:59,926 I've been in that same little spot you're in! I've been in that same little spot you're in!
335 00:14:00,013 00:14:01,492 I've been in them shoes boy! I've been in them shoes boy!
336 00:14:01,579 00:14:03,668 17 years old on my way to the pros! 17 years old on my way to the pros!
337 00:14:03,755 00:14:05,888 But I made one to the dumbest mistakes of my life But I made one to the dumbest mistakes of my life
338 00:14:05,975 00:14:07,455 and you remind me of that every time I look at you! and you remind me of that every time I look at you!
339 00:14:07,542 00:14:08,499 You understand? You understand?
340 00:14:08,586 00:14:10,327 - It's not even about that! - It's not even about that!
341 00:14:10,414 00:14:12,503 It's about the respect and honor that you preach about! It's about the respect and honor that you preach about!
342 00:14:12,590 00:14:13,896 Pastor Adrian! Pastor Adrian!
343 00:14:13,983 00:14:14,854 - That's right boy I'm your Pastor! - That's right boy I'm your Pastor!
344 00:14:14,941 00:14:15,985 - Mmm hmm hypocrite. - Mmm hmm hypocrite.
345 00:14:16,072 00:14:16,725 - Hypocrite? - Hypocrite?
346 00:14:16,812 00:14:18,161 - Yes, hypocrite. - Yes, hypocrite.
347 00:14:18,248 00:14:19,946 - I'm tired of your mouth little girl! - I'm tired of your mouth little girl!
348 00:14:20,033 00:14:20,903 Boy this my last time telling you not to put your hands Boy this my last time telling you not to put your hands
349 00:14:20,990 00:14:22,339 on me, you understand? on me, you understand?
350 00:14:22,426 00:14:24,559 Don't you ever put your hands on me again boy! Don't you ever put your hands on me again boy!
351 00:14:24,646 00:14:25,908 Woman didn't I just tell you to get back in that room? Woman didn't I just tell you to get back in that room?
352 00:14:25,995 00:14:28,955 - Shut up! - Mama? - Shut up! - Mama?
353 00:14:29,042 00:14:31,479 - Put that gun. - I said shut up! - Put that gun. - I said shut up!
354 00:14:31,566 00:14:33,524 - Mama what are you doing? - Paul move! - Mama what are you doing? - Paul move!
355 00:14:33,611 00:14:35,091 - Mama no please. - I said move! - Mama no please. - I said move!
356 00:14:35,178 00:14:37,267 - Leah put that-- - Leah put that--
357 00:14:37,354 00:14:41,010 - You don't know how hard it is to live with someone - You don't know how hard it is to live with someone
358 00:14:41,097 00:14:43,056 who's so controlling! who's so controlling!
359 00:14:43,143 00:14:44,840 I'm so sick of this! I'm so sick of this!
360 00:14:44,927 00:14:48,713 You don't know how hard I've cried every night! You don't know how hard I've cried every night!
361 00:14:50,150 00:14:52,369 I can't keep nothing down! I can't keep nothing down!
362 00:14:52,456 00:14:53,936 My weight is up and down! My weight is up and down!
363 00:14:54,023 00:14:55,982 My hair is falling out! My hair is falling out!
364 00:14:56,069 00:14:58,767 I just can't take this anymore! I just can't take this anymore!
365 00:14:58,854 00:14:59,942 - Leah okay. - Leah okay.
366 00:15:00,029 00:15:02,031 [gun banging] [gun banging]
367 00:15:03,424 00:15:06,862 - Do you Adrian Vincent take Leah Morris - Do you Adrian Vincent take Leah Morris
368 00:15:06,949 00:15:09,169 to be your beloved wife? to be your beloved wife?
369 00:15:09,256 00:15:12,737 To have and to hold from this day forward for better To have and to hold from this day forward for better
370 00:15:12,824 00:15:17,351 for worse for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health for worse for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health
371 00:15:18,352 00:15:20,876 to love honor and cherish to love honor and cherish
372 00:15:20,963 00:15:23,400 for as long as you both shall live? for as long as you both shall live?
373 00:15:23,487 00:15:23,792 - Yeah I do. - Yeah I do.
374 00:15:25,315 00:15:28,231 - Do you Leah Morris take Adrian Vincent - Do you Leah Morris take Adrian Vincent
375 00:15:28,318 00:15:30,190 to be your beloved husband? to be your beloved husband?
376 00:15:30,277 00:15:33,019 To have and to hold from this day forward To have and to hold from this day forward
377 00:15:33,106 00:15:37,327 for better for worse for richer or poorer, for better for worse for richer or poorer,
378 00:15:37,414 00:15:41,375 in sickness and in health to love honor and cherish in sickness and in health to love honor and cherish
379 00:15:41,462 00:15:43,507 for as long as you both shall live? for as long as you both shall live?
380 00:15:43,594 00:15:44,334 - I do. - I do.
381 00:15:49,818 00:15:54,518 ♪ Be thou my vision oh Lord of my heart ♪ ♪ Be thou my vision oh Lord of my heart ♪
382 00:15:59,349 00:16:03,658 ♪ Lot be else to me say that thou art ♪ ♪ Lot be else to me say that thou art ♪
383 00:16:07,749 00:16:08,968 - Don't do this to us mama please! - Don't do this to us mama please!
384 00:16:09,055 00:16:10,056 - 911 what's your emergency? - 911 what's your emergency?
385 00:16:10,143 00:16:12,145 - Please oh my God please! - Please oh my God please!
386 00:16:12,232 00:16:14,538 - Ma'am, calm down what's your emergency? - Ma'am, calm down what's your emergency?
387 00:16:14,625 00:16:15,975 - Please! - Please!
388 00:16:16,062 00:16:17,628 - Ma'am please calm down what's your emergency? - Ma'am please calm down what's your emergency?
389 00:16:17,715 00:16:20,109 - God my mama just shot herself I don't know what to do! - God my mama just shot herself I don't know what to do!
390 00:16:20,196 00:16:21,676 - Okay is she still with us? - Okay is she still with us?
391 00:16:21,763 00:16:23,808 - I don't know but there's blood everywhere! - I don't know but there's blood everywhere!
392 00:16:23,895 00:16:25,375 - Ma'am please go check and see if she's still breathing. - Ma'am please go check and see if she's still breathing.
393 00:16:25,462 00:16:26,376 - I can't, I can't! - I can't, I can't!
394 00:16:26,463 00:16:27,856 - Ma'am. - Ma'am.
395 00:16:27,943 00:16:29,989 - Please just hurry, please! - Please just hurry, please!
396 00:16:30,076 00:16:31,033 - Okay what's your address? - Okay what's your address?
397 00:16:31,120 00:16:33,296 - 2014 Alamo Street please! - 2014 Alamo Street please!
398 00:16:33,383 00:16:35,385 - I have an ambulance, I have a rescue - I have an ambulance, I have a rescue
399 00:16:35,472 00:16:37,387 and police officers in route. and police officers in route.
400 00:16:37,474 00:16:40,042 I need you to stay on the line with me and try to stay calm. I need you to stay on the line with me and try to stay calm.
401 00:16:40,129 00:16:41,217 - Why mama, why? - Why mama, why?
402 00:16:46,353 00:16:48,181 - God how could I have been so blind God? - God how could I have been so blind God?
403 00:16:48,268 00:16:49,834 Why didn't show me that? Why didn't show me that?
404 00:16:49,921 00:16:53,577 Why didn't you show me this was on her mind God? Why didn't you show me this was on her mind God?
405 00:16:58,713 00:17:00,758 God no Lord no God, Leah! God no Lord no God, Leah!
406 00:17:03,109 00:17:04,501 Leah please baby! Leah please baby!
407 00:17:05,937 00:17:07,678 - Back up this is all your fault! - Back up this is all your fault!
408 00:17:10,507 00:17:14,424 - I know I'm so, Lord I know I'm sorry I'm sorry. - I know I'm so, Lord I know I'm sorry I'm sorry.
409 00:17:15,425 00:17:16,165 I'm sorry. I'm sorry.
410 00:17:19,908 00:17:21,736 - God, how can I go on? - God, how can I go on?
411 00:17:25,653 00:17:29,700 She was all I had! She was all I had!
412 00:17:29,787 00:17:31,267 She was my strength! She was my strength!
413 00:17:32,355 00:17:34,705 She was my encouragement! She was my encouragement!
414 00:17:36,316 00:17:38,927 She was the one that I talked to! She was the one that I talked to!
415 00:17:40,102 00:17:41,712 I'm all alone now! I'm all alone now!
416 00:17:44,541 00:17:46,152 I'm all alone. I'm all alone.
417 00:17:46,239 00:17:48,850 [sirens wailing] [sirens wailing]
418 00:17:59,991 00:18:02,168 - Well Mr. Vincent, due to the extensive damage - Well Mr. Vincent, due to the extensive damage
419 00:18:02,255 00:18:05,519 on her head and face an open casket really isn't an option. on her head and face an open casket really isn't an option.
420 00:18:05,606 00:18:08,348 However, you may proceed with a closed casket. However, you may proceed with a closed casket.
421 00:18:10,567 00:18:12,395 - I don't think I want to use a casket. - I don't think I want to use a casket.
422 00:18:14,180 00:18:17,052 I feel as though, people should remember Leah as she was. I feel as though, people should remember Leah as she was.
423 00:18:18,532 00:18:20,316 Maybe we can get some of her best photos Maybe we can get some of her best photos
424 00:18:20,403 00:18:24,407 and put them out on an easel with some flowers all around. and put them out on an easel with some flowers all around.
425 00:18:24,494 00:18:26,714 You know, just, more of her personality. You know, just, more of her personality.
426 00:18:28,150 00:18:29,978 - And about the program. I want to make sure - And about the program. I want to make sure
427 00:18:30,065 00:18:31,849 I have everything correct. I have everything correct.
428 00:18:31,936 00:18:33,329 Leah, is that short for anything? Leah, is that short for anything?
429 00:18:37,420 00:18:39,292 Mr. Vincent, is that short for anything? Mr. Vincent, is that short for anything?
430 00:18:40,293 00:18:41,511 - You gotta show me that. - You gotta show me that.
431 00:18:41,598 00:18:42,643 You gotta show me that. You gotta show me that.
432 00:18:42,730 00:18:43,774 Man. Man.
433 00:18:45,211 00:18:47,256 - Excuse me, excuse me. - Excuse me, excuse me.
434 00:18:47,343 00:18:48,649 Say red don't I know you? Say red don't I know you?
435 00:18:48,736 00:18:49,519 - It's Leah. - It's Leah.
436 00:18:50,868 00:18:53,001 - I'm saying I know, I know you. - I'm saying I know, I know you.
437 00:18:53,088 00:18:54,655 Adrian. Adrian.
438 00:18:54,742 00:18:56,004 - Vincent, I know. - Vincent, I know.
439 00:18:56,091 00:18:57,527 We have algebra together. We have algebra together.
440 00:18:57,614 00:18:59,573 - Right. Okay. Yeah. Yeah. - Right. Okay. Yeah. Yeah.
441 00:18:59,660 00:19:02,445 But you ain't gotta to be that formal with me. But you ain't gotta to be that formal with me.
442 00:19:02,532 00:19:05,231 They call me Vinny or you can call me the great one. They call me Vinny or you can call me the great one.
443 00:19:05,318 00:19:06,449 - The great one? - The great. - The great one? - The great.
444 00:19:07,407 00:19:08,973 - Do you hear this? - Do you hear this?
445 00:19:09,060 00:19:10,453 I'm definitely not calling you that. I'm definitely not calling you that.
446 00:19:10,540 00:19:11,933 - Okay, it's funny? - Okay, it's funny?
447 00:19:12,020 00:19:14,501 - What ya mama call ya? - What ya mama call ya?
448 00:19:14,588 00:19:15,806 - I don't really see what my mama got to do with this - I don't really see what my mama got to do with this
449 00:19:15,893 00:19:16,938 but she call me lil boy. but she call me lil boy.
450 00:19:17,025 00:19:18,679 - Lil boy? - Lil boy?
451 00:19:18,766 00:19:20,898 - You know, get out my face lil boy. - You know, get out my face lil boy.
452 00:19:20,985 00:19:22,596 You getting on my nerves lil boy. You getting on my nerves lil boy.
453 00:19:22,683 00:19:23,423 That's funny? That's funny?
454 00:19:23,510 00:19:24,902 - Yeah. - Yeah.
455 00:19:24,989 00:19:26,295 - So Leah what's that short for Ah-leah? - So Leah what's that short for Ah-leah?
456 00:19:26,382 00:19:27,688 - No. - No.
457 00:19:27,775 00:19:28,471 - Is that short for anything? - Is that short for anything?
458 00:19:28,558 00:19:30,299 - No just Leah. - No just Leah.
459 00:19:30,386 00:19:32,910 L-E-A-H. L-E-A-H.
460 00:19:32,997 00:19:34,695 - Mr. Vincent. - Mr. Vincent.
461 00:19:34,782 00:19:36,262 Is that short for anything? Is that short for anything?
462 00:19:36,349 00:19:38,873 - No, just Leah. - No, just Leah.
463 00:19:38,960 00:19:40,614 L-E-A-H. L-E-A-H.
464 00:19:40,701 00:19:43,356 - Okay and since you're opting out of the casket. - Okay and since you're opting out of the casket.
465 00:19:43,443 00:19:45,009 Are you considering cremation? Are you considering cremation?
466 00:19:46,402 00:19:48,883 - I think cremation would be best. - I think cremation would be best.
467 00:19:48,970 00:19:50,058 - So the abuse never ends huh? - So the abuse never ends huh?
468 00:19:51,451 00:19:52,887 - Paul what are you talking about? - Paul what are you talking about?
469 00:19:52,974 00:19:54,932 - You preach one way, you live another, - You preach one way, you live another,
470 00:19:55,019 00:19:56,630 you abuse your family. you abuse your family.
471 00:19:56,717 00:19:58,414 You killed my mama and now you plan on burning her! You killed my mama and now you plan on burning her!
472 00:19:58,501 00:19:59,850 What else you plan on taking from me? What else you plan on taking from me?
473 00:19:59,937 00:20:01,548 - Taking from you? - Taking from you?
474 00:20:01,635 00:20:03,724 Paul you think you the only one hurting right now? Paul you think you the only one hurting right now?
475 00:20:03,811 00:20:05,682 Boy I've lost just as much as you have! Boy I've lost just as much as you have!
476 00:20:05,769 00:20:06,944 - Shut up! - Shut up!
477 00:20:07,031 00:20:08,816 Everybody just shut up! Everybody just shut up!
478 00:20:11,210 00:20:12,602 - You didn't lose nothing. - You didn't lose nothing.
479 00:20:12,689 00:20:13,995 You threw everything away! You threw everything away!
480 00:20:17,433 00:20:18,652 - Maybe you should come back at another time. - Maybe you should come back at another time.
481 00:20:18,739 00:20:20,001 - Yes sir! - Yes sir!
482 00:20:20,088 00:20:22,830 [dramatic music] [dramatic music]
483 00:20:34,145 00:20:36,060 - Everything was laid out so nice. - Everything was laid out so nice.
484 00:20:36,147 00:20:37,671 Did you see those flowers? Did you see those flowers?
485 00:20:37,758 00:20:38,933 - Girl yeah they were gorgeous I don't know why - Girl yeah they were gorgeous I don't know why
486 00:20:39,020 00:20:40,500 they left them at the church they left them at the church
487 00:20:40,587 00:20:41,718 I was going to ask him for that purple one. I was going to ask him for that purple one.
488 00:20:41,805 00:20:43,154 - Girl you silly. - Girl you silly.
489 00:20:43,242 00:20:44,199 Hey girl! Hey girl!
490 00:20:44,286 00:20:45,766 I thought you had to work today. I thought you had to work today.
491 00:20:45,853 00:20:47,898 - I did, but I cancelled, I had to be here. - I did, but I cancelled, I had to be here.
492 00:20:47,985 00:20:49,944 - Well I'm glad you could make it. - Well I'm glad you could make it.
493 00:20:50,031 00:20:51,641 Mary this is Monique. Mary this is Monique.
494 00:20:51,728 00:20:52,686 - Hi Mary. - Hi Mary.
495 00:20:52,773 00:20:53,687 - Hey nice to meet you. - Hey nice to meet you.
496 00:20:53,774 00:20:55,036 - Nice to meet you. - Nice to meet you.
497 00:20:55,123 00:20:56,298 I'm Leah's sister in law. I'm Leah's sister in law.
498 00:20:56,385 00:20:57,517 - Okay. - Okay.
499 00:20:57,604 00:20:58,648 - Do you go to church with them? - Do you go to church with them?
500 00:20:58,735 00:21:00,302 - Yes. - Yes.
501 00:21:00,389 00:21:01,912 - Anyway, did y'all see how Pastor Adrian - Anyway, did y'all see how Pastor Adrian
502 00:21:01,999 00:21:04,350 broke down during that eulogy? broke down during that eulogy?
503 00:21:04,437 00:21:06,526 - Yes, you could just see the pain in his eyes. - Yes, you could just see the pain in his eyes.
504 00:21:06,613 00:21:07,918 - Pain? - Pain?
505 00:21:08,005 00:21:09,572 Girl that was guilt. Girl that was guilt.
506 00:21:09,659 00:21:10,704 - What you mean? - What you mean?
507 00:21:10,791 00:21:11,879 - Come on now y'all. - Come on now y'all.
508 00:21:11,966 00:21:13,359 Everything was not all holy Everything was not all holy
509 00:21:13,446 00:21:14,621 and righteous like people thought. and righteous like people thought.
510 00:21:14,708 00:21:16,405 - Here she goes. - Here she goes.
511 00:21:16,492 00:21:19,103 - I'm serious, Leah use to call me all the time crying. - I'm serious, Leah use to call me all the time crying.
512 00:21:19,190 00:21:22,368 Telling me stuff that was going on. Y'all just don't know. Telling me stuff that was going on. Y'all just don't know.
513 00:21:22,455 00:21:24,544 - I know the Vincent's and they wouldn't act that way. - I know the Vincent's and they wouldn't act that way.
514 00:21:24,631 00:21:27,198 - You said the keyword right there boo. Act. - You said the keyword right there boo. Act.
515 00:21:27,286 00:21:29,026 That's all they ever do is put on a show. That's all they ever do is put on a show.
516 00:21:29,113 00:21:30,332 I'm telling you. I'm telling you.
517 00:21:30,419 00:21:31,725 - I don't know. - I don't know.
518 00:21:31,812 00:21:33,379 - I know this. - I know this.
519 00:21:33,466 00:21:35,163 She sure wouldn't have killed herself She sure wouldn't have killed herself
520 00:21:35,250 00:21:37,121 if everything was going good. if everything was going good.
521 00:21:37,208 00:21:39,646 Something had to have been going wrong. Something had to have been going wrong.
522 00:21:39,733 00:21:42,257 - Well I don't know, and I don't want to know. - Well I don't know, and I don't want to know.
523 00:21:42,344 00:21:43,954 - And I know too much. - And I know too much.
524 00:21:44,041 00:21:44,781 - Exactly. - Exactly.
525 00:21:54,356 00:21:56,576 - Do you mind if I sit with you? - Do you mind if I sit with you?
526 00:22:02,973 00:22:03,974 What's on your mind? What's on your mind?
527 00:22:05,062 00:22:06,542 - Just thinking about her. - Just thinking about her.
528 00:22:10,677 00:22:13,854 - I've been thinking about her a lot too. - I've been thinking about her a lot too.
529 00:22:15,029 00:22:16,465 You know she really loved you. You know she really loved you.
530 00:22:23,472 00:22:26,214 I know it's a lot going on with you right now. I know it's a lot going on with you right now.
531 00:22:26,301 00:22:27,737 It's a lot going on in your mind. It's a lot going on in your mind.
532 00:22:30,261 00:22:33,961 But I want you to know that I'm here with you. But I want you to know that I'm here with you.
533 00:22:34,048 00:22:37,007 And if it's anything you need I want you to let me know. And if it's anything you need I want you to let me know.
534 00:22:37,094 00:22:37,965 - Just save it. - Just save it.
535 00:22:39,445 00:22:41,272 - It's okay you can talk to me. - It's okay you can talk to me.
536 00:22:42,448 00:22:43,927 - I'ma be okay. - I'ma be okay.
537 00:22:44,014 00:22:46,365 Paul is who you really need to try to talk to. Paul is who you really need to try to talk to.
538 00:22:49,672 00:22:50,412 - You're right. - You're right.
539 00:22:51,457 00:22:53,284 Have you seen him? Have you seen him?
540 00:22:53,372 00:22:54,721 - He's in the back with Damian. - He's in the back with Damian.
541 00:22:58,855 00:23:01,641 - Listen I'ma go talk to your brother. - Listen I'ma go talk to your brother.
542 00:23:01,728 00:23:04,165 And if you need anything I want you to let me know, okay? And if you need anything I want you to let me know, okay?
543 00:23:05,427 00:23:06,385 I love you. I love you.
544 00:23:07,690 00:23:10,911 Tatiyanna I love you. Tatiyanna I love you.
545 00:23:13,653 00:23:14,523 All right I'm gone. All right I'm gone.
546 00:23:26,579 00:23:28,972 - Man I just want to thank you for coming over. - Man I just want to thank you for coming over.
547 00:23:29,059 00:23:30,496 - Awe It's no problem man. - Awe It's no problem man.
548 00:23:30,583 00:23:32,454 We're boys I wouldn't leave you hanging. We're boys I wouldn't leave you hanging.
549 00:23:32,541 00:23:34,543 Especially at a time like this. Especially at a time like this.
550 00:23:34,630 00:23:37,851 - Yeah man I feel so empty now. - Yeah man I feel so empty now.
551 00:23:37,938 00:23:39,809 My mom she was the one who took me to the side My mom she was the one who took me to the side
552 00:23:39,896 00:23:40,854 and had real talks with me. and had real talks with me.
553 00:23:42,377 00:23:44,901 I would feel nothing but love coming from her. I would feel nothing but love coming from her.
554 00:23:44,988 00:23:47,469 Even when she corrected me about things. Even when she corrected me about things.
555 00:23:47,556 00:23:49,384 My dad on the other hand. My dad on the other hand.
556 00:23:49,471 00:23:50,516 He always yelled at me. He always yelled at me.
557 00:23:51,691 00:23:54,433 He spoke at me and not to me. He spoke at me and not to me.
558 00:23:54,520 00:23:55,825 That's why I've been able to do so well That's why I've been able to do so well
559 00:23:55,912 00:23:58,349 on the football field all these years. on the football field all these years.
560 00:23:58,437 00:24:00,308 I learned how to channel my aggression. I learned how to channel my aggression.
561 00:24:01,440 00:24:02,919 Man I can't believe this. Man I can't believe this.
562 00:24:03,920 00:24:05,922 But then again I can. But then again I can.
563 00:24:06,009 00:24:09,099 Man he pushed her too far this time. Man he pushed her too far this time.
564 00:24:09,186 00:24:11,972 It's crazy though, none of this seems real. It's crazy though, none of this seems real.
565 00:24:12,059 00:24:14,365 - When you're driving the speed limit and your sure of it. - When you're driving the speed limit and your sure of it.
566 00:24:14,453 00:24:16,977 You see the police officer then you are not afraid You see the police officer then you are not afraid
567 00:24:17,064 00:24:18,805 but there's still some reverence. but there's still some reverence.
568 00:24:18,892 00:24:20,633 You still check him out you'll watch him in your rearview You still check him out you'll watch him in your rearview
569 00:24:20,720 00:24:24,158 mirror, even if you were driving the speed limit. mirror, even if you were driving the speed limit.
570 00:24:24,245 00:24:27,335 I'm telling you that because we are worried about a ticket I'm telling you that because we are worried about a ticket
571 00:24:27,422 00:24:28,771 that we can pay with money. that we can pay with money.
572 00:24:28,858 00:24:30,730 But I'm talking about a soul, But I'm talking about a soul,
573 00:24:30,817 00:24:33,863 that can spend forever in eternal hell fire. that can spend forever in eternal hell fire.
574 00:24:33,950 00:24:36,605 And a soul that can have a life where they never die. And a soul that can have a life where they never die.
575 00:24:36,692 00:24:38,781 The choice is yours to make. The choice is yours to make.
576 00:24:38,868 00:24:41,392 God said you choose whom you will serve. God said you choose whom you will serve.
577 00:24:43,177 00:24:45,527 God spoke of the earth will be filled with violence. God spoke of the earth will be filled with violence.
578 00:24:45,614 00:24:47,181 This is what's happening today. This is what's happening today.
579 00:24:47,268 00:24:48,922 He talked about in the end of time. He talked about in the end of time.
580 00:24:49,009 00:24:50,967 How that the mother would turn against the daughter How that the mother would turn against the daughter
581 00:24:51,054 00:24:52,534 and the daughter against her mother. and the daughter against her mother.
582 00:24:52,621 00:24:54,449 The son would rise up against his father The son would rise up against his father
583 00:24:54,536 00:24:56,320 and the father against the son. and the father against the son.
584 00:24:56,407 00:24:58,932 Now today whenever there's a murder many times Now today whenever there's a murder many times
585 00:24:59,019 00:25:02,544 that's unsolved, the prime suspect is a relative. that's unsolved, the prime suspect is a relative.
586 00:25:02,631 00:25:05,591 The Bible said the time would come that a man's foes The Bible said the time would come that a man's foes
587 00:25:05,678 00:25:07,375 would be, they of his own household. would be, they of his own household.
588 00:25:07,462 00:25:10,596 I never would've believed that I would see that. I never would've believed that I would see that.
589 00:25:10,683 00:25:14,251 But I believed what God said and I believed But I believed what God said and I believed
590 00:25:14,338 00:25:15,818 we were in the end of time. we were in the end of time.
591 00:25:15,905 00:25:18,995 And I prepared myself based on one occasion And I prepared myself based on one occasion
592 00:25:19,082 00:25:21,607 where I would hear of a family member fighting another. where I would hear of a family member fighting another.
593 00:25:21,694 00:25:23,391 I said that's what God said. I said that's what God said.
594 00:25:23,478 00:25:25,045 But now it's common place. But now it's common place.
595 00:25:25,132 00:25:26,916 What am I telling you this for? What am I telling you this for?
596 00:25:27,003 00:25:29,745 God as well as he's spoken these things would happen, God as well as he's spoken these things would happen,
597 00:25:29,832 00:25:32,792 he's also spoken of a time of judgment. he's also spoken of a time of judgment.
598 00:25:32,879 00:25:36,883 That we will all stand before him in that day. That we will all stand before him in that day.
599 00:25:36,970 00:25:39,755 The Bible has told us except a man be born of water The Bible has told us except a man be born of water
600 00:25:39,842 00:25:43,803 and spirit that man cannot see, the kingdom of God. and spirit that man cannot see, the kingdom of God.
601 00:25:43,890 00:25:45,674 You will not luck up and get to heaven You will not luck up and get to heaven
602 00:25:45,761 00:25:48,416 and the devil will tell you, well I just believe and the devil will tell you, well I just believe
603 00:25:48,503 00:25:50,157 God's gonna, let me by some how. God's gonna, let me by some how.
604 00:25:50,244 00:25:52,725 I just you know I just believe things gon' change. I just you know I just believe things gon' change.
605 00:25:52,812 00:25:55,292 You know I believe well when that time comes. You know I believe well when that time comes.
606 00:25:55,379 00:25:56,642 He wants you holding back, he wants you waiting, He wants you holding back, he wants you waiting,
607 00:25:56,729 00:25:58,905 he wants you trusting in a fantasy. he wants you trusting in a fantasy.
608 00:25:58,992 00:26:00,689 He don't want you getting up and doing something He don't want you getting up and doing something
609 00:26:00,776 00:26:03,083 and recognizing I see the police out there and recognizing I see the police out there
610 00:26:03,170 00:26:04,214 I better get of my gas. I better get of my gas.
611 00:26:04,301 00:26:05,738 I'm speeding! I'm speeding!
612 00:26:05,825 00:26:09,480 I better check my life, I may be speeding! I better check my life, I may be speeding!
613 00:26:09,568 00:26:13,267 Contact us on line, at www.refugetemple.net. Contact us on line, at www.refugetemple.net.
614 00:26:16,052 00:26:18,664 Thank you and may God bless you! Thank you and may God bless you!
615 00:26:18,751 00:26:20,361 - Man that's exactly what I needed! - Man that's exactly what I needed!
616 00:26:23,669 00:26:24,757 What's wrong with you? What's wrong with you?
617 00:26:26,846 00:26:27,760 - That man? - That man?
618 00:26:28,674 00:26:29,675 - Who? - Who?
619 00:26:31,067 00:26:32,460 - The man on the commercial. - The man on the commercial.
620 00:26:33,461 00:26:37,508 - Yeah, what about him? - Yeah, what about him?
621 00:26:37,596 00:26:39,772 - That's my bishop. - That's my bishop.
622 00:26:39,859 00:26:42,339 - What? What you mean? - What? What you mean?
623 00:26:42,426 00:26:44,472 - I grew up at the church he was preaching at. - I grew up at the church he was preaching at.
624 00:26:45,647 00:26:46,474 - What? - What?
625 00:26:47,867 00:26:50,086 - When I was young my dad got saved - When I was young my dad got saved
626 00:26:50,173 00:26:52,698 and begin to dedicate himself to the ministry. and begin to dedicate himself to the ministry.
627 00:26:52,785 00:26:54,700 After a few years my mom ended up leaving him After a few years my mom ended up leaving him
628 00:26:54,787 00:26:56,571 because she felt like he didn't love her. because she felt like he didn't love her.
629 00:26:56,658 00:26:59,879 But really it was because she wasn't as dedicated as he was. But really it was because she wasn't as dedicated as he was.
630 00:26:59,966 00:27:01,315 A few months after she moved out A few months after she moved out
631 00:27:01,402 00:27:03,056 she ended up getting custody of me. she ended up getting custody of me.
632 00:27:04,492 00:27:05,841 After only going to service on the weekends After only going to service on the weekends
633 00:27:05,928 00:27:07,669 I was with my dad and not connecting I was with my dad and not connecting
634 00:27:07,756 00:27:09,540 to the body and the ministry. to the body and the ministry.
635 00:27:09,628 00:27:11,804 I stopped wanting to go completely. I stopped wanting to go completely.
636 00:27:11,891 00:27:13,370 Before I knew it I started hanging out Before I knew it I started hanging out
637 00:27:13,457 00:27:15,372 with different groups at school. with different groups at school.
638 00:27:15,459 00:27:18,332 And eventually I started being influenced And eventually I started being influenced
639 00:27:18,419 00:27:20,290 rather than being the influence. rather than being the influence.
640 00:27:21,857 00:27:24,077 So you mean to tell me after all this time So you mean to tell me after all this time
641 00:27:24,164 00:27:25,992 you had what I needed and didn't say nothing? you had what I needed and didn't say nothing?
642 00:27:26,079 00:27:27,428 I'm sorry man. I'm sorry man.
643 00:27:27,515 00:27:29,169 How could I tell you what you should've How could I tell you what you should've
644 00:27:29,256 00:27:30,779 and could've been doing when I wasn't doing it myself? and could've been doing when I wasn't doing it myself?
645 00:27:30,866 00:27:32,868 - You could've at least said something. - You could've at least said something.
646 00:27:32,955 00:27:34,565 Man all my life I lived wondering Man all my life I lived wondering
647 00:27:34,653 00:27:36,785 what the solution to my problem was. what the solution to my problem was.
648 00:27:36,872 00:27:39,266 Wondering if there was people actually living the truth Wondering if there was people actually living the truth
649 00:27:39,353 00:27:41,137 and not just quoting it. and not just quoting it.
650 00:27:41,224 00:27:43,923 I always wondered if I could actually find truth peace, I always wondered if I could actually find truth peace,
651 00:27:44,010 00:27:45,968 and the person who I thought was my best friend and the person who I thought was my best friend
652 00:27:46,055 00:27:49,015 withheld all the answers from me and made it seem withheld all the answers from me and made it seem
653 00:27:49,102 00:27:51,321 like I could find it in the females, drugs and partying. like I could find it in the females, drugs and partying.
654 00:27:51,408 00:27:53,106 - I'm sorry man. - I'm sorry man.
655 00:27:53,193 00:27:54,324 - Man get out my house. - Man get out my house.
656 00:27:54,411 00:27:55,543 - I said I'm sorry. - I said I'm sorry.
657 00:27:55,630 00:27:56,936 - I said get out my house. - I said get out my house.
658 00:28:10,645 00:28:12,386 - There you go, there you go. - There you go, there you go.
659 00:28:12,473 00:28:13,300 Lock out, lock out! Lock out, lock out!
660 00:28:14,736 00:28:15,998 - So the dynamic duo then split huh? - So the dynamic duo then split huh?
661 00:28:16,085 00:28:17,608 - Lightweight, Lightweight - Lightweight, Lightweight
662 00:28:17,696 00:28:19,001 - Yep. - Yep.
663 00:28:19,088 00:28:22,004 - So what's gon' happen to the kids? - So what's gon' happen to the kids?
664 00:28:22,962 00:28:24,311 Come on man. Lighten up. Come on man. Lighten up.
665 00:28:24,398 00:28:25,399 I'm just messing with you. I'm just messing with you.
666 00:28:27,967 00:28:28,968 Coach want you man. Coach want you man.
667 00:28:40,806 00:28:41,632 - Close the door. - Close the door.
668 00:28:42,590 00:28:43,330 Have a seat. Have a seat.
669 00:28:50,163 00:28:52,339 I gotta talk to you about your grades. I gotta talk to you about your grades.
670 00:28:52,426 00:28:54,210 - What about 'em? - What about 'em?
671 00:28:54,297 00:28:55,777 - I just got your progress report man - I just got your progress report man
672 00:28:55,864 00:28:58,040 and it's not looking good. and it's not looking good.
673 00:28:58,127 00:28:59,476 I'ma have to sit you down. I'ma have to sit you down.
674 00:29:00,956 00:29:02,566 Now I talked to one of your teachers. Now I talked to one of your teachers.
675 00:29:02,653 00:29:04,307 She's willing to work with you. She's willing to work with you.
676 00:29:04,394 00:29:06,005 She's willing to help you and tutor you on the weekend She's willing to help you and tutor you on the weekend
677 00:29:06,092 00:29:07,789 and after school if need be. and after school if need be.
678 00:29:09,573 00:29:10,966 Vincent you hear me talking to you? Vincent you hear me talking to you?
679 00:29:11,053 00:29:12,576 - Yeah I hear you! - Yeah I hear you!
680 00:29:12,663 00:29:13,621 - Well you gon' get with this lady - Well you gon' get with this lady
681 00:29:13,708 00:29:14,753 about getting your grades up? about getting your grades up?
682 00:29:14,840 00:29:16,406 - I don't know. - I don't know.
683 00:29:16,493 00:29:18,626 - What you mean you don't know? - What you mean you don't know?
684 00:29:18,713 00:29:20,802 I'm trying to help you out. I'm trying to help you out.
685 00:29:20,889 00:29:22,456 I'm trying to help you so you can continue to play I'm trying to help you so you can continue to play
686 00:29:22,543 00:29:25,241 despite the fact you ain't even been playing well. despite the fact you ain't even been playing well.
687 00:29:25,328 00:29:26,852 - Yeah so I've been a little bit off my game lately. - Yeah so I've been a little bit off my game lately.
688 00:29:26,939 00:29:27,940 But at least I'm trying. But at least I'm trying.
689 00:29:28,027 00:29:29,332 - I don't need you to try. - I don't need you to try.
690 00:29:29,419 00:29:30,899 I need you to do it. I need you to do it.
691 00:29:30,986 00:29:31,944 Do it like you did it in the past. Do it like you did it in the past.
692 00:29:32,031 00:29:33,467 On and off the field. On and off the field.
693 00:29:34,816 00:29:36,078 Look man. Look man.
694 00:29:38,298 00:29:40,779 I understand that you're going through some things. I understand that you're going through some things.
695 00:29:40,866 00:29:41,910 I understand you just lost your mom. I understand you just lost your mom.
696 00:29:41,997 00:29:43,651 - No you don't understand! - No you don't understand!
697 00:29:43,738 00:29:46,001 That's the problem everybody thinks they understand! That's the problem everybody thinks they understand!
698 00:29:46,088 00:29:48,090 Nobody gets what I'm going through! Nobody gets what I'm going through!
699 00:29:48,177 00:29:50,701 - Well why don't you help me to help you? - Well why don't you help me to help you?
700 00:29:50,789 00:29:53,835 - Look I don't need your help or anybody else's help! - Look I don't need your help or anybody else's help!
701 00:29:53,922 00:29:55,924 - I tell you what, get out my office - I tell you what, get out my office
702 00:29:56,011 00:29:57,273 you're off the team until further notice! you're off the team until further notice!
703 00:29:57,360 00:29:58,448 - Man, whatever. - Man, whatever.
704 00:30:07,327 00:30:10,069 [dramatic music] [dramatic music]
705 00:30:57,203 00:30:58,726 - But he told the believers, - But he told the believers,
706 00:30:58,813 00:31:00,684 he told the ones that believed in him. he told the ones that believed in him.
707 00:31:00,771 00:31:04,906 Now, it's important for you, to continue in my word! Now, it's important for you, to continue in my word!
708 00:31:04,993 00:31:09,041 Not just believe me and go on about away from my word. Not just believe me and go on about away from my word.
709 00:31:09,128 00:31:11,782 But if you continue in my word. But if you continue in my word.
710 00:31:11,870 00:31:14,394 Then you are my disciple indeed. Then you are my disciple indeed.
711 00:31:14,481 00:31:15,656 And you shall know the truth. And you shall know the truth.
712 00:31:17,049 00:31:19,355 And the truth shall make you free. And the truth shall make you free.
713 00:31:19,442 00:31:21,444 It is only through you continuing in God's word It is only through you continuing in God's word
714 00:31:21,531 00:31:23,229 that you truly start, knowing the truth. that you truly start, knowing the truth.
715 00:31:24,752 00:31:27,102 This word know does not just mean you understand This word know does not just mean you understand
716 00:31:27,189 00:31:27,755 what was spoken. what was spoken.
717 00:31:28,930 00:31:30,714 You can understand what I speak You can understand what I speak
718 00:31:30,801 00:31:32,020 and still not know the truth. and still not know the truth.
719 00:31:32,107 00:31:33,282 I can speak this Bible all day long I can speak this Bible all day long
720 00:31:35,197 00:31:39,636 and you can believe what it says but until you continue and you can believe what it says but until you continue
721 00:31:39,723 00:31:43,249 in the word and start to know the truth in the word and start to know the truth
722 00:31:43,336 00:31:45,512 how do you know the truth? how do you know the truth?
723 00:31:45,599 00:31:49,211 We must understand this word know used in this context. We must understand this word know used in this context.
724 00:31:49,298 00:31:51,779 This word know in this context really meant This word know in this context really meant
725 00:31:51,866 00:31:52,693 to become intimate with. to become intimate with.
726 00:31:54,173 00:31:56,392 It is not the truth that you hear Bishop preach It is not the truth that you hear Bishop preach
727 00:31:56,479 00:31:59,091 that frees you from your old methods and your old ways. that frees you from your old methods and your old ways.
728 00:32:00,222 00:32:02,181 Because you can walk around here Because you can walk around here
729 00:32:02,268 00:32:04,226 and say oh yeah he preached the truth. and say oh yeah he preached the truth.
730 00:32:04,313 00:32:06,620 But it's only when you will open up your mind, But it's only when you will open up your mind,
731 00:32:06,707 00:32:09,536 your way of life and allow the truth to take part your way of life and allow the truth to take part
732 00:32:09,623 00:32:13,409 of your life and you exercise it in your everyday doing. of your life and you exercise it in your everyday doing.
733 00:32:13,496 00:32:15,890 That's the truth that'll free you from lesbianism. That's the truth that'll free you from lesbianism.
734 00:32:15,977 00:32:18,632 That's the truth that'll free you from homosexuality. That's the truth that'll free you from homosexuality.
735 00:32:18,719 00:32:21,635 That's the truth that'll free you from whoremonging. That's the truth that'll free you from whoremonging.
736 00:32:21,722 00:32:24,551 That's the truth that'll free you from being drunken That's the truth that'll free you from being drunken
737 00:32:24,638 00:32:26,596 or filled with drugs! or filled with drugs!
738 00:32:26,683 00:32:30,687 When you know the truth the truth is in your reasoning. When you know the truth the truth is in your reasoning.
739 00:32:31,862 00:32:34,561 When you reason to do something When you reason to do something
740 00:32:34,648 00:32:36,867 and you're tempted to do something. and you're tempted to do something.
741 00:32:36,955 00:32:39,435 The truth is in the midst of your reasoning The truth is in the midst of your reasoning
742 00:32:39,522 00:32:41,916 and you are not led away by how you feel and you are not led away by how you feel
743 00:32:42,003 00:32:43,700 about doing something. about doing something.
744 00:32:43,787 00:32:46,138 Oh so and so makes me feel good but you are lead to do Oh so and so makes me feel good but you are lead to do
745 00:32:46,225 00:32:49,271 what the truth of God's word says what the truth of God's word says
746 00:32:49,358 00:32:52,187 because you'll know the truth you have opened up because you'll know the truth you have opened up
747 00:32:52,274 00:32:53,623 and let it in you. and let it in you.
748 00:32:58,280 00:33:00,804 And that truth starts to change a man And that truth starts to change a man
749 00:33:02,197 00:33:03,982 from one condition to another. from one condition to another.
750 00:33:09,465 00:33:12,251 [birds chirping] [birds chirping]
751 00:33:16,081 00:33:17,821 - Hey, how you doing? - Hey, how you doing?
752 00:33:17,908 00:33:19,432 - Good I guess. - Good I guess.
753 00:33:19,519 00:33:21,216 - Can I help you with anything? - Can I help you with anything?
754 00:33:21,303 00:33:24,045 - Yeah, I'm looking for Bishop Wendell Archie. - Yeah, I'm looking for Bishop Wendell Archie.
755 00:33:24,132 00:33:27,135 I saw him on TV today and I want to ask him a few things. I saw him on TV today and I want to ask him a few things.
756 00:33:27,222 00:33:29,659 - Okay unfortunately he's not here right now. - Okay unfortunately he's not here right now.
757 00:33:31,444 00:33:33,924 I'm actually about to lock up and get out here myself I'm actually about to lock up and get out here myself
758 00:33:34,012 00:33:35,926 after I do a little touch up cleaning here. after I do a little touch up cleaning here.
759 00:33:36,014 00:33:39,713 - That's alright I'll just come back another time. - That's alright I'll just come back another time.
760 00:33:39,800 00:33:42,672 - Okay well look if you need someone to talk to - Okay well look if you need someone to talk to
761 00:33:42,759 00:33:44,892 I'll be here for about another 30 minutes or so. I'll be here for about another 30 minutes or so.
762 00:33:44,979 00:33:48,722 - No offense but I would rather get advice - No offense but I would rather get advice
763 00:33:48,809 00:33:51,072 from somebody that actually comes to this church, from somebody that actually comes to this church,
764 00:33:51,159 00:33:52,073 not the janitor. not the janitor.
765 00:33:52,900 00:33:54,162 - Is that right? - Is that right?
766 00:33:54,249 00:33:55,859 Well I don't think we formally met. Well I don't think we formally met.
767 00:33:55,946 00:33:57,296 What's your name? What's your name?
768 00:33:57,383 00:33:58,297 - Paul. - Paul.
769 00:33:58,384 00:33:59,298 - Paul my name is Eathan. - Paul my name is Eathan.
770 00:33:59,385 00:34:00,081 I'm a minister here. I'm a minister here.
771 00:34:00,168 00:34:01,517 - A minister? - A minister?
772 00:34:01,604 00:34:03,345 Like ordained and everything? Like ordained and everything?
773 00:34:03,432 00:34:06,566 - Yeah. The license, the horn of oil, the whole nine. - Yeah. The license, the horn of oil, the whole nine.
774 00:34:06,653 00:34:09,221 - I'm sorry I thought cause of the broom and all. - I'm sorry I thought cause of the broom and all.
775 00:34:09,308 00:34:12,180 - No need to apologize I'm not offended. At all. - No need to apologize I'm not offended. At all.
776 00:34:12,267 00:34:14,095 - You wouldn't catch any of the ministers - You wouldn't catch any of the ministers
777 00:34:14,182 00:34:17,533 at my father's church sweeping floors. at my father's church sweeping floors.
778 00:34:17,620 00:34:21,189 - Well Jesus is our example and the Bible says - Well Jesus is our example and the Bible says
779 00:34:21,276 00:34:23,191 how he made himself of no reputation. how he made himself of no reputation.
780 00:34:23,278 00:34:25,759 But took upon himself the form of a servant But took upon himself the form of a servant
781 00:34:25,846 00:34:28,805 and the thing about it the way up is down in this life. and the thing about it the way up is down in this life.
782 00:34:28,892 00:34:30,372 You know the Bible lets me know You know the Bible lets me know
783 00:34:30,459 00:34:32,548 that they that humble themselves under the mighty hand that they that humble themselves under the mighty hand
784 00:34:32,635 00:34:34,985 of God he said he'll exalt them in due time. of God he said he'll exalt them in due time.
785 00:34:35,073 00:34:37,988 - See that's one thing I noticed about the commercials - See that's one thing I noticed about the commercials
786 00:34:38,076 00:34:41,775 this church doesn't water down or over look scriptures this church doesn't water down or over look scriptures
787 00:34:41,862 00:34:43,516 they take them for what they are. they take them for what they are.
788 00:34:43,603 00:34:46,606 And when I finally watched one of his messages. And when I finally watched one of his messages.
789 00:34:46,693 00:34:48,477 I knew that everything that he was saying was true I knew that everything that he was saying was true
790 00:34:48,564 00:34:51,567 because he said it like he truly believed it. because he said it like he truly believed it.
791 00:34:51,654 00:34:54,570 He didn't make it seem like God didn't mean what he said. He didn't make it seem like God didn't mean what he said.
792 00:34:54,657 00:34:57,007 - Right and God definitely means what he says you know. - Right and God definitely means what he says you know.
793 00:34:57,095 00:34:59,053 We don't add to and we don't take away. We don't add to and we don't take away.
794 00:34:59,140 00:35:01,360 The Bible says man should not live by bread alone, The Bible says man should not live by bread alone,
795 00:35:01,447 00:35:03,579 but by every word that proceeds out of the mouth of God. but by every word that proceeds out of the mouth of God.
796 00:35:03,666 00:35:05,799 And we actually believe in applying those scriptures And we actually believe in applying those scriptures
797 00:35:05,886 00:35:08,323 to our lives every day. to our lives every day.
798 00:35:08,410 00:35:10,978 - Well maybe you can help me then. - Well maybe you can help me then.
799 00:35:11,065 00:35:12,588 - Okay maybe I can. - Okay maybe I can.
800 00:35:12,675 00:35:13,763 Let's take a seat over here. Let's take a seat over here.
801 00:35:21,467 00:35:24,122 - All my life, I've been abused by my father. - All my life, I've been abused by my father.
802 00:35:24,209 00:35:25,949 Mainly verbally. Mainly verbally.
803 00:35:26,036 00:35:28,169 But it's been going on for so long that, But it's been going on for so long that,
804 00:35:28,256 00:35:30,563 I've developed a hatred for him. I've developed a hatred for him.
805 00:35:30,650 00:35:33,000 I never really take it out on him. I never really take it out on him.
806 00:35:33,087 00:35:35,611 I usually take it out on the football field. I usually take it out on the football field.
807 00:35:35,698 00:35:37,657 Which has worked out pretty well for me in the past, Which has worked out pretty well for me in the past,
808 00:35:37,744 00:35:40,660 but, man now he's saying I can't choose what school but, man now he's saying I can't choose what school
809 00:35:40,747 00:35:42,096 I want to go to. I want to go to.
810 00:35:42,183 00:35:45,143 I mean it's so many different things. I mean it's so many different things.
811 00:35:45,230 00:35:47,406 I ended up coming home late from a party I ended up coming home late from a party
812 00:35:47,493 00:35:52,019 and when I came home me and my dad got into it. and when I came home me and my dad got into it.
813 00:35:52,106 00:35:55,501 One thing lead to another and before the argument was over One thing lead to another and before the argument was over
814 00:35:55,588 00:35:59,766 with my mom she ended up, she ended up killing herself! with my mom she ended up, she ended up killing herself!
815 00:36:01,550 00:36:04,640 I mean I'm I'm at the point I don't know what to do. I mean I'm I'm at the point I don't know what to do.
816 00:36:04,727 00:36:06,338 I don't know what to think. I don't know what to think.
817 00:36:06,425 00:36:10,907 At times I begin to think about committing suicide myself. At times I begin to think about committing suicide myself.
818 00:36:10,994 00:36:12,300 But when I seen that commercial But when I seen that commercial
819 00:36:12,387 00:36:14,781 it really did something for me. it really did something for me.
820 00:36:14,868 00:36:17,871 It's like everything he was preaching it was It's like everything he was preaching it was
821 00:36:17,958 00:36:19,960 what I've been searching for my whole life. what I've been searching for my whole life.
822 00:36:20,047 00:36:22,832 I mean this is my last hope. I mean this is my last hope.
823 00:36:22,919 00:36:27,794 - Wow, ummm, Look uhh I know, I know it must be pretty tough - Wow, ummm, Look uhh I know, I know it must be pretty tough
824 00:36:30,275 00:36:31,928 for you and your family right now. for you and your family right now.
825 00:36:33,452 00:36:38,152 But I also do know that God is able to bring us But I also do know that God is able to bring us
826 00:36:39,284 00:36:39,980 through the toughest of times. through the toughest of times.
827 00:36:41,460 00:36:43,157 You know and in this book called life. You know and in this book called life.
828 00:36:44,898 00:36:47,640 There's a lot of different chapters and different pressures There's a lot of different chapters and different pressures
829 00:36:47,727 00:36:48,336 that come upon a man. that come upon a man.
830 00:36:50,164 00:36:52,210 But the thing about God he's given man a free will. But the thing about God he's given man a free will.
831 00:36:54,124 00:36:57,911 That man does what he wants, in those times of pressure. That man does what he wants, in those times of pressure.
832 00:36:57,998 00:37:02,002 So we can't blame God and we can't charge God foolishly So we can't blame God and we can't charge God foolishly
833 00:37:02,089 00:37:04,265 for things that some one else does for things that some one else does
834 00:37:04,352 00:37:06,049 when the pressure comes upon them. when the pressure comes upon them.
835 00:37:07,660 00:37:09,966 And we can't hold unforgiveness in our heart And we can't hold unforgiveness in our heart
836 00:37:10,053 00:37:10,706 towards other people. towards other people.
837 00:37:12,621 00:37:14,493 Because ultimately it boils down to you and God. Because ultimately it boils down to you and God.
838 00:37:15,929 00:37:17,931 You know I heard you mention about You know I heard you mention about
839 00:37:19,454 00:37:20,412 this being your last hope. this being your last hope.
840 00:37:22,327 00:37:25,417 You know the Bible says how God has called us in one hope You know the Bible says how God has called us in one hope
841 00:37:25,504 00:37:29,812 of his calling and many times what God does is he uses of his calling and many times what God does is he uses
842 00:37:29,899 00:37:33,599 these situations that we encounter in life these situations that we encounter in life
843 00:37:33,686 00:37:36,036 to get us to realize that he is our only hope. to get us to realize that he is our only hope.
844 00:37:37,516 00:37:40,475 - So why does God have to draw people - So why does God have to draw people
845 00:37:40,562 00:37:43,130 by allowing things to happen to him? by allowing things to happen to him?
846 00:37:43,217 00:37:43,696 - Well let me ask you this. - Well let me ask you this.
847 00:37:45,524 00:37:48,091 If everything was going right in your life right now. If everything was going right in your life right now.
848 00:37:48,178 00:37:49,919 Would you be here talking to me? Would you be here talking to me?
849 00:37:50,920 00:37:51,965 - Probably not. - Probably not.
850 00:37:53,271 00:37:54,184 - You see many people. - You see many people.
851 00:37:55,664 00:37:58,188 They think they're all right with God. They think they're all right with God.
852 00:37:58,276 00:38:00,539 So God has to allow things to happen So God has to allow things to happen
853 00:38:02,367 00:38:05,283 to get people to really see where they put their trust to get people to really see where they put their trust
854 00:38:05,370 00:38:06,632 and where they put their confidence at and where they put their confidence at
855 00:38:08,503 00:38:11,724 and many people resort to things that are not like God. and many people resort to things that are not like God.
856 00:38:13,334 00:38:15,902 Women resort to men to take care of them. Women resort to men to take care of them.
857 00:38:17,382 00:38:19,340 Men resort to women for satisfaction. Men resort to women for satisfaction.
858 00:38:21,037 00:38:24,954 Resort to alcohol, resort to drugs, partying. Resort to alcohol, resort to drugs, partying.
859 00:38:25,041 00:38:26,652 A life that does not include God at all. A life that does not include God at all.
860 00:38:28,393 00:38:31,004 He's given us so many different situations in that Bible. He's given us so many different situations in that Bible.
861 00:38:31,091 00:38:32,962 That teaches us how we should handle things That teaches us how we should handle things
862 00:38:33,049 00:38:34,355 that we encounter. that we encounter.
863 00:38:36,183 00:38:39,447 The Bible says how Jesus he said it was need be that he go. The Bible says how Jesus he said it was need be that he go.
864 00:38:39,534 00:38:43,408 He said if I don't go, he said the comforter will not come. He said if I don't go, he said the comforter will not come.
865 00:38:43,495 00:38:45,975 He would give us another comforter so we wouldn't have He would give us another comforter so we wouldn't have
866 00:38:46,062 00:38:48,543 to put our confidence and our trust and try to find comfort to put our confidence and our trust and try to find comfort
867 00:38:48,630 00:38:53,156 in things that do not pertain to God. in things that do not pertain to God.
868 00:38:53,243 00:38:56,290 - Man well what do I have to do? - Man well what do I have to do?
869 00:38:56,377 00:38:59,249 I mean I'm tired of my life falling apart like this. I mean I'm tired of my life falling apart like this.
870 00:38:59,337 00:39:01,121 - You need the spirit of God in your life. - You need the spirit of God in your life.
871 00:39:02,252 00:39:03,732 - What is that? - What is that?
872 00:39:03,819 00:39:06,213 - The Holy Ghost which is the spirit of God. - The Holy Ghost which is the spirit of God.
873 00:39:06,300 00:39:08,824 It is that comforter that I'm telling you about. It is that comforter that I'm telling you about.
874 00:39:08,911 00:39:12,654 And what happens when God gives a man his spirit And what happens when God gives a man his spirit
875 00:39:12,741 00:39:16,484 he gives that man power to say no to the things he gives that man power to say no to the things
876 00:39:16,571 00:39:18,921 that he always wanted to say no to that he always wanted to say no to
877 00:39:19,008 00:39:21,271 but never could really commit to. but never could really commit to.
878 00:39:21,359 00:39:24,623 It gives that man power over sin in his life. It gives that man power over sin in his life.
879 00:39:24,710 00:39:27,190 It gives that man a conviction about things It gives that man a conviction about things
880 00:39:27,277 00:39:30,193 that normally seemed okay. that normally seemed okay.
881 00:39:30,280 00:39:34,415 But what it is the mind of God it is his personality But what it is the mind of God it is his personality
882 00:39:34,502 00:39:38,201 that he puts inside of man and he begins to feel that he puts inside of man and he begins to feel
883 00:39:38,288 00:39:40,247 a conviction about things that God says I don't like. a conviction about things that God says I don't like.
884 00:39:42,118 00:39:46,079 Without the spirit of God a man can't really please God Without the spirit of God a man can't really please God
885 00:39:46,166 00:39:49,169 because he doesn't know how God really feels about things, because he doesn't know how God really feels about things,
886 00:39:49,256 00:39:50,692 so he'll continue to do things so he'll continue to do things
887 00:39:50,779 00:39:52,651 that he thinks God is okay with. that he thinks God is okay with.
888 00:39:52,738 00:39:54,479 That God really is not okay with. That God really is not okay with.
889 00:39:56,089 00:40:00,398 - I mean but my dad told me if I accept - I mean but my dad told me if I accept
890 00:40:00,485 00:40:03,792 the Lord Jesus Christ as my personal savior the Lord Jesus Christ as my personal savior
891 00:40:03,879 00:40:05,577 if I confessed with my mouth and I truly meant it if I confessed with my mouth and I truly meant it
892 00:40:05,664 00:40:09,319 in my heart then I was saved everything would be alright. in my heart then I was saved everything would be alright.
893 00:40:09,407 00:40:12,322 - Right. But the Bible goes on to tell us - Right. But the Bible goes on to tell us
894 00:40:12,410 00:40:15,021 in Romans chapter 10. It says with the mouth in Romans chapter 10. It says with the mouth
895 00:40:15,108 00:40:18,285 confession is made, but with the heart confession is made, but with the heart
896 00:40:18,372 00:40:20,287 man believes onto righteousness. man believes onto righteousness.
897 00:40:21,810 00:40:25,248 As far as accepting the Lord the Bible tells us As far as accepting the Lord the Bible tells us
898 00:40:25,335 00:40:28,382 that we have to be accepted of him. that we have to be accepted of him.
899 00:40:28,469 00:40:32,517 We don't accept the Lord he approves us. We don't accept the Lord he approves us.
900 00:40:34,649 00:40:36,912 But with the heart he said you'll believe onto righteousness But with the heart he said you'll believe onto righteousness
901 00:40:36,999 00:40:38,653 you'll begin to do something different. you'll begin to do something different.
902 00:40:40,176 00:40:42,004 When a man receives the spirit of God When a man receives the spirit of God
903 00:40:42,091 00:40:44,529 and begins to walk after God there's a change and begins to walk after God there's a change
904 00:40:44,616 00:40:46,313 that takes place in his life. that takes place in his life.
905 00:40:46,400 00:40:48,489 He can't remain the same. He can't remain the same.
906 00:40:48,576 00:40:50,752 He can't remain around the same old friends. He can't remain around the same old friends.
907 00:40:50,839 00:40:54,103 He can't remain around the same influences He can't remain around the same influences
908 00:40:54,190 00:40:56,410 because they'll continue to be an influence. because they'll continue to be an influence.
909 00:40:56,497 00:40:58,630 But when God gets a hold of him and he begins to do But when God gets a hold of him and he begins to do
910 00:40:58,717 00:41:03,983 what's right to God, God becomes the influence in his life. what's right to God, God becomes the influence in his life.
911 00:41:04,070 00:41:08,291 - Man they really don't teach this at my dad's church. - Man they really don't teach this at my dad's church.
912 00:41:09,989 00:41:12,295 - And most churches don't but it doesn't do away - And most churches don't but it doesn't do away
913 00:41:12,382 00:41:14,646 with the fact that it's still true. with the fact that it's still true.
914 00:41:14,733 00:41:18,954 The Bible says let God's word be true and every man a liar. The Bible says let God's word be true and every man a liar.
915 00:41:19,041 00:41:22,654 So regardless if it's popular or if it's not popular, So regardless if it's popular or if it's not popular,
916 00:41:22,741 00:41:25,047 if the world agrees or disagrees. if the world agrees or disagrees.
917 00:41:25,134 00:41:26,440 It's still true. It's still true.
918 00:41:27,572 00:41:30,966 - Man I'm really glad I came. - Man I'm really glad I came.
919 00:41:31,053 00:41:32,620 - Look I'll tell you what. - Look I'll tell you what.
920 00:41:37,146 00:41:40,106 I want to give you my information here. I want to give you my information here.
921 00:41:41,760 00:41:42,761 My phone number. My phone number.
922 00:41:44,763 00:41:46,721 I want to stay in touch with you. I want to stay in touch with you.
923 00:41:46,808 00:41:48,331 So feel free to give me a call anytime. So feel free to give me a call anytime.
924 00:41:50,116 00:41:53,946 - Okay man thank you I'll definitely be using this. - Okay man thank you I'll definitely be using this.
925 00:41:54,033 00:41:56,339 I mean I'm starting to feel better already. I mean I'm starting to feel better already.
926 00:41:56,426 00:41:57,210 - Amen. - Amen.
927 00:41:57,297 00:41:58,211 That's how God does. That's how God does.
928 00:41:58,298 00:42:00,256 He knows what you need. He knows what you need.
929 00:42:00,343 00:42:01,867 But before you leave here today But before you leave here today
930 00:42:01,954 00:42:04,522 I would like to pray with you if you don't mind. I would like to pray with you if you don't mind.
931 00:42:06,001 00:42:06,698 - Okay. - Okay.
932 00:42:11,964 00:42:14,793 - You know the Bible says when a man repents, - You know the Bible says when a man repents,
933 00:42:14,880 00:42:18,797 which means to turn away from that lifestyle which means to turn away from that lifestyle
934 00:42:18,884 00:42:20,450 that he use to living the sinful life that he use to living the sinful life
935 00:42:20,538 00:42:22,322 he's use to chasing after. he's use to chasing after.
936 00:42:22,409 00:42:25,455 What mom and dad may have taught what sister and brother What mom and dad may have taught what sister and brother
937 00:42:25,543 00:42:27,414 or grandfather may have instilled in you or grandfather may have instilled in you
938 00:42:27,501 00:42:29,416 that was contrary to God. that was contrary to God.
939 00:42:29,503 00:42:32,767 When you repent God looks at you and says When you repent God looks at you and says
940 00:42:32,854 00:42:35,378 I want to fill that man with the spirit of God. I want to fill that man with the spirit of God.
941 00:42:35,465 00:42:38,556 So today when I pray with you I want you to repent So today when I pray with you I want you to repent
942 00:42:38,643 00:42:40,296 and I want you to talk to God and I want you to talk to God
943 00:42:40,383 00:42:42,995 so that God will fill you with the Holy Ghost. so that God will fill you with the Holy Ghost.
944 00:42:43,082 00:42:44,692 Amen? - Amen. Amen? - Amen.
945 00:42:44,779 00:42:46,607 - Remember you just talk to God and you pray. - Remember you just talk to God and you pray.
946 00:42:47,739 00:42:50,437 Father in the name of Jesus. Father in the name of Jesus.
947 00:42:50,524 00:42:54,049 God I pray right now God first and foremost oh God. God I pray right now God first and foremost oh God.
948 00:42:54,136 00:42:55,616 God that you would help this young man God that you would help this young man
949 00:42:55,703 00:42:57,705 to forgive his father God to forgive his father God
950 00:42:57,792 00:43:00,447 . God for you said if we do not forgive that you will not . God for you said if we do not forgive that you will not
951 00:43:00,534 00:43:02,797 forgive us our trespasses God. forgive us our trespasses God.
952 00:43:02,884 00:43:06,105 God teach him how to mend the relationship between him God teach him how to mend the relationship between him
953 00:43:06,192 00:43:07,846 and his father God. and his father God.
954 00:43:07,933 00:43:09,804 God I pray God that you would help him to be strong God I pray God that you would help him to be strong
955 00:43:09,891 00:43:12,111 oh God for his family at this time oh God. oh God for his family at this time oh God.
956 00:43:12,198 00:43:15,157 That they would see your power operating in him oh God. That they would see your power operating in him oh God.
957 00:43:15,244 00:43:18,465 That they would begin to inquire at what this is That they would begin to inquire at what this is
958 00:43:18,552 00:43:21,250 that is keeping him strong in this hour oh God. that is keeping him strong in this hour oh God.
959 00:43:21,337 00:43:24,123 God I pray father that you would give him wisdom God God I pray father that you would give him wisdom God
960 00:43:24,210 00:43:27,126 to counter the influences of the peer pressures oh God. to counter the influences of the peer pressures oh God.
961 00:43:27,213 00:43:29,215 The things that he deals with on the day to day basis The things that he deals with on the day to day basis
962 00:43:29,302 00:43:31,086 at his school God. at his school God.
963 00:43:31,173 00:43:34,046 God help him to renounce and to denounce God the lifestyle God help him to renounce and to denounce God the lifestyle
964 00:43:34,133 00:43:36,309 that has kept him bound for so long God. that has kept him bound for so long God.
965 00:43:36,396 00:43:38,093 To put aside the things oh God To put aside the things oh God
966 00:43:38,180 00:43:40,313 that are keeping him away from you Father. that are keeping him away from you Father.
967 00:43:40,400 00:43:42,620 God the iniquity that is in his heart oh God. God the iniquity that is in his heart oh God.
968 00:43:42,707 00:43:45,187 The things God the sin in his heart that is keeping him The things God the sin in his heart that is keeping him
969 00:43:45,274 00:43:47,102 away from you God. away from you God.
970 00:43:47,189 00:43:48,974 God I pray father that you would help him oh God. God I pray father that you would help him oh God.
971 00:43:49,061 00:43:51,890 Give him a heart and a mind God to change oh God. Give him a heart and a mind God to change oh God.
972 00:43:51,977 00:43:54,414 God help him to be free today God by filling him God help him to be free today God by filling him
973 00:43:54,501 00:43:56,242 with your power oh God. with your power oh God.
974 00:43:56,329 00:43:58,810 Which this is the only way that a man can be free oh God. Which this is the only way that a man can be free oh God.
975 00:43:58,897 00:44:00,812 God By receiving your spirit oh God. God By receiving your spirit oh God.
976 00:44:00,899 00:44:03,031 God and I pray today that you would forgive him God and I pray today that you would forgive him
977 00:44:03,118 00:44:05,904 of his sins oh God. God wash him clean God. of his sins oh God. God wash him clean God.
978 00:44:05,991 00:44:09,037 God wash him white as snow as your word has declared oh God. God wash him white as snow as your word has declared oh God.
979 00:44:09,124 00:44:12,301 God that he may walk away today a new man God God that he may walk away today a new man God
980 00:44:12,388 00:44:15,174 that people might see him with a different identity God. that people might see him with a different identity God.
981 00:44:15,261 00:44:17,611 They might see him manifesting a different character They might see him manifesting a different character
982 00:44:17,698 00:44:19,439 that comes only from heaven oh God. that comes only from heaven oh God.
983 00:44:19,526 00:44:22,529 God that they might see Christ and your word walking in him God that they might see Christ and your word walking in him
984 00:44:22,616 00:44:23,661 and talking through him oh God. and talking through him oh God.
985 00:44:25,532 00:44:27,012 But you have said in your word oh God that if we come out But you have said in your word oh God that if we come out
986 00:44:27,099 00:44:28,753 from among them oh God and be separate God. from among them oh God and be separate God.
987 00:44:28,840 00:44:32,147 You said then will you receive us unto you oh God. You said then will you receive us unto you oh God.
988 00:44:32,234 00:44:33,540 And you will be a father unto us And you will be a father unto us
989 00:44:34,628 00:44:36,238 and we would be your children. and we would be your children.
990 00:44:36,325 00:44:38,719 We would be your people and you would be our God. We would be your people and you would be our God.
991 00:44:38,806 00:44:43,289 - And the alcohol and the drugs and the lust. - And the alcohol and the drugs and the lust.
992 00:44:43,376 00:44:45,378 I forgive my dad! I forgive my dad!
993 00:44:45,465 00:44:47,380 I release him from my heart! I release him from my heart!
994 00:44:47,467 00:44:49,599 I surrender to you Lord! I surrender to you Lord!
995 00:44:49,687 00:44:52,341 I'm done fighting I give it all up to you! I'm done fighting I give it all up to you!
996 00:44:53,908 00:44:58,739 ♪ Take the world but give me Jesus ♪ ♪ Take the world but give me Jesus ♪
997 00:45:00,001 00:45:04,789 ♪ All its joys are but a name; ♪ ♪ All its joys are but a name; ♪
998 00:45:04,876 00:45:09,358 ♪ But His love abideth ever ♪ ♪ But His love abideth ever ♪
999 00:45:10,882 00:45:14,102 ♪ Through eternal years the same ♪ ♪ Through eternal years the same ♪
1000 00:45:22,589 00:45:24,112 - Yeah they coming out good now. - Yeah they coming out good now.
1001 00:45:25,635 00:45:26,680 - You think these brownies gon' come out - You think these brownies gon' come out
1002 00:45:26,767 00:45:28,203 like mama use to make 'em? like mama use to make 'em?
1003 00:45:28,290 00:45:30,553 - Nobody can make 'em like mama made 'em. - Nobody can make 'em like mama made 'em.
1004 00:45:30,640 00:45:32,642 - I know I would always tell her - I know I would always tell her
1005 00:45:32,730 00:45:34,862 that she could make a fortune for making brownies. that she could make a fortune for making brownies.
1006 00:45:34,949 00:45:38,083 And once I made it to the pros she would have her own shop. And once I made it to the pros she would have her own shop.
1007 00:45:38,170 00:45:39,867 - That's the only way they would've got out - That's the only way they would've got out
1008 00:45:39,954 00:45:41,913 'cause mama wasn't giving that recipe to nobody. 'cause mama wasn't giving that recipe to nobody.
1009 00:45:42,000 00:45:43,305 - Man you sure got that right! - Man you sure got that right!
1010 00:45:50,312 00:45:52,793 Tatiyanna what's this? Tatiyanna what's this?
1011 00:45:52,880 00:45:53,576 - What's what? - What's what?
1012 00:45:55,361 00:45:57,232 Oh that's nothing! Oh that's nothing!
1013 00:45:57,319 00:45:58,973 - Nothing? - Nothing?
1014 00:45:59,060 00:46:00,540 It sure looked like something to me! It sure looked like something to me!
1015 00:46:02,890 00:46:04,892 Let me ask you something. Let me ask you something.
1016 00:46:04,979 00:46:06,241 You've been going by Rico's house? You've been going by Rico's house?
1017 00:46:06,328 00:46:07,590 - That's none of your business. - That's none of your business.
1018 00:46:07,677 00:46:09,505 - None of my business? - None of my business?
1019 00:46:09,592 00:46:12,291 I'm your brother and I'm suppose to look out for you. I'm your brother and I'm suppose to look out for you.
1020 00:46:12,378 00:46:14,641 - You said it right your my brother. Not my daddy. - You said it right your my brother. Not my daddy.
1021 00:46:14,728 00:46:15,903 It's none of your business. It's none of your business.
1022 00:46:15,990 00:46:17,775 - Tatiyanna you don't know Rico. - Tatiyanna you don't know Rico.
1023 00:46:19,646 00:46:22,388 Don't let him fool you with this silly lover boy act. Don't let him fool you with this silly lover boy act.
1024 00:46:22,475 00:46:24,912 He can get pretty aggressive and he goes He can get pretty aggressive and he goes
1025 00:46:24,999 00:46:27,001 around school dating girls with one goal in mind. around school dating girls with one goal in mind.
1026 00:46:27,088 00:46:28,524 - Yeah whatever. - Yeah whatever.
1027 00:46:28,611 00:46:31,440 - I'm serious I know Rico and I don't think - I'm serious I know Rico and I don't think
1028 00:46:31,527 00:46:34,704 you should be dating him let alone going to his house. you should be dating him let alone going to his house.
1029 00:46:34,792 00:46:36,445 Tell me y'all haven't been sleep-- Tell me y'all haven't been sleep--
1030 00:46:36,532 00:46:37,620 - And if we have? - And if we have?
1031 00:46:37,707 00:46:39,231 - Let me ask you something. - Let me ask you something.
1032 00:46:39,318 00:46:41,320 Do you think God would be okay with you sleeping Do you think God would be okay with you sleeping
1033 00:46:41,407 00:46:43,322 with somebody, that you're not married to? with somebody, that you're not married to?
1034 00:46:43,409 00:46:45,150 - God this. God that. - God this. God that.
1035 00:46:45,237 00:46:47,282 You act like you've been an angel all your life! You act like you've been an angel all your life!
1036 00:46:47,369 00:46:49,676 - I haven't but I've turned away from my old ways - I haven't but I've turned away from my old ways
1037 00:46:49,763 00:46:52,070 and I'm no longer living in sin. and I'm no longer living in sin.
1038 00:46:52,157 00:46:54,899 - And now you think you can tell everybody what to do. - And now you think you can tell everybody what to do.
1039 00:46:54,986 00:46:57,336 - Look I'm just trying to look out for you. - Look I'm just trying to look out for you.
1040 00:46:57,423 00:46:59,991 I know Rico and he's not the person you think he is. I know Rico and he's not the person you think he is.
1041 00:47:00,078 00:47:01,862 - You and daddy need to leave me alone - You and daddy need to leave me alone
1042 00:47:01,949 00:47:03,821 and let me live life how I want to. and let me live life how I want to.
1043 00:47:12,568 00:47:15,702 [upbeat dramatic music] [upbeat dramatic music]
1044 00:48:27,600 00:48:29,036 - I need to call Damian and get this right. - I need to call Damian and get this right.
1045 00:48:39,003 00:48:40,439 - Hello? - Hello?
1046 00:48:40,526 00:48:41,875 - Hey man you busy? - Hey man you busy?
1047 00:48:43,050 00:48:43,833 - On my way to Rico's house. - On my way to Rico's house.
1048 00:48:43,921 00:48:44,399 What's up? What's up?
1049 00:48:45,835 00:48:47,446 - I don't even know where to start. - I don't even know where to start.
1050 00:48:50,188 00:48:52,016 - Well it's really good to hear from you man. - Well it's really good to hear from you man.
1051 00:48:53,887 00:48:55,715 After that last time we spoke I was starting to wonder After that last time we spoke I was starting to wonder
1052 00:48:55,802 00:48:56,759 if we'd ever talk again. if we'd ever talk again.
1053 00:48:58,370 00:49:00,763 - Yeah God really started showing me myself - Yeah God really started showing me myself
1054 00:49:00,850 00:49:01,982 and I hated what I saw. and I hated what I saw.
1055 00:49:03,418 00:49:05,203 I'm so sorry for blowing up on you I'm so sorry for blowing up on you
1056 00:49:05,290 00:49:06,856 and for the person that I've been. and for the person that I've been.
1057 00:49:08,249 00:49:09,990 I'm sorry for taking my aggression I'm sorry for taking my aggression
1058 00:49:10,077 00:49:10,904 and my confusion out on you. and my confusion out on you.
1059 00:49:12,427 00:49:15,082 I realized now how hard it must've been for you I realized now how hard it must've been for you
1060 00:49:15,169 00:49:17,389 to know the truth and not be doing it. to know the truth and not be doing it.
1061 00:49:19,173 00:49:21,567 I just want to apologize for being so inconsiderate. I just want to apologize for being so inconsiderate.
1062 00:49:24,222 00:49:26,224 Hello, you still there? Hello, you still there?
1063 00:49:27,877 00:49:32,795 - Yeah man I'm here I'm just speechless. - Yeah man I'm here I'm just speechless.
1064 00:49:33,753 00:49:34,667 Did something happen? Did something happen?
1065 00:49:36,582 00:49:40,803 - Well honestly man I got tired of being sick and tired - Well honestly man I got tired of being sick and tired
1066 00:49:40,890 00:49:42,414 and I got fed up with my life. and I got fed up with my life.
1067 00:49:43,981 00:49:45,634 I knew there had to be something different I knew there had to be something different
1068 00:49:45,721 00:49:48,202 because if not I knew all hope for me was gone. because if not I knew all hope for me was gone.
1069 00:49:50,030 00:49:52,380 I knew I couldn't go on living the way I was living, I knew I couldn't go on living the way I was living,
1070 00:49:52,467 00:49:53,816 so I went to the only place I figured so I went to the only place I figured
1071 00:49:53,903 00:49:54,774 I can find out answers. I can find out answers.
1072 00:49:56,167 00:49:58,169 I literally was seeking a place of refuge I literally was seeking a place of refuge
1073 00:49:58,256 00:50:00,998 and I found it at your church. and I found it at your church.
1074 00:50:01,085 00:50:02,869 I went there and I met this man I went there and I met this man
1075 00:50:02,956 00:50:04,697 who turned out to be a minister. who turned out to be a minister.
1076 00:50:04,784 00:50:06,699 - Wow I've been thinking a lot lately - Wow I've been thinking a lot lately
1077 00:50:06,786 00:50:08,440 about getting my life back together. about getting my life back together.
1078 00:50:10,485 00:50:13,619 - Hey Damian that's my dad. - Hey Damian that's my dad.
1079 00:50:13,706 00:50:14,837 Let me call you back. Let me call you back.
1080 00:50:14,924 00:50:16,274 - Oh okay. Later. - Oh okay. Later.
1081 00:50:18,232 00:50:19,755 - You didn't have to get off the phone. - You didn't have to get off the phone.
1082 00:50:19,842 00:50:21,061 I just came in to tell you that I'm about I just came in to tell you that I'm about
1083 00:50:21,148 00:50:22,802 to go back to work. to go back to work.
1084 00:50:22,889 00:50:24,543 Y'all take of the house tonight. Y'all take of the house tonight.
1085 00:50:24,630 00:50:27,502 - That's fine I'll text Tatiyanna and let her know. - That's fine I'll text Tatiyanna and let her know.
1086 00:50:27,589 00:50:29,113 - Text her? - Text her?
1087 00:50:29,200 00:50:29,852 Where she at? Where she at?
1088 00:50:31,419 00:50:33,595 - She said something about Allison's house. - She said something about Allison's house.
1089 00:50:35,075 00:50:36,685 - Just make sure she gets in this house - Just make sure she gets in this house
1090 00:50:36,772 00:50:37,686 at a decent time, okay? at a decent time, okay?
1091 00:50:37,773 00:50:39,036 - Okay. - Alright. - Okay. - Alright.
1092 00:50:47,522 00:50:49,220 - Hello? - Hello?
1093 00:50:49,307 00:50:51,831 - Why you not texting me back? - Why you not texting me back?
1094 00:50:51,918 00:50:53,267 - I'm busy. - I'm busy.
1095 00:50:53,354 00:50:54,051 - Busy doing what? - Busy doing what?
1096 00:50:55,661 00:50:56,923 - Studying. - Studying.
1097 00:50:57,010 00:50:57,924 - Studying? - Studying?
1098 00:50:58,011 00:50:58,838 Okay studying with who? Okay studying with who?
1099 00:50:58,925 00:50:59,752 - What does it matter? - What does it matter?
1100 00:50:59,839 00:51:01,232 - Because I want to know! - Because I want to know!
1101 00:51:01,319 00:51:04,104 - Look I told you I'm changing my life. - Look I told you I'm changing my life.
1102 00:51:04,191 00:51:06,237 If I was studying with anyone it would most likely If I was studying with anyone it would most likely
1103 00:51:06,324 00:51:07,890 be one of my team mates. be one of my team mates.
1104 00:51:07,977 00:51:10,415 You know? Somebody who wouldn't tempt me. You know? Somebody who wouldn't tempt me.
1105 00:51:10,502 00:51:12,330 - Whatever. - Whatever.
1106 00:51:12,417 00:51:15,942 - What? I don't even know why I'm explaining myself to you. - What? I don't even know why I'm explaining myself to you.
1107 00:51:16,029 00:51:17,552 We're not even dating anymore. We're not even dating anymore.
1108 00:51:17,639 00:51:20,077 - So Paul we agreed to be friends so as a friend - So Paul we agreed to be friends so as a friend
1109 00:51:20,164 00:51:22,296 I text you to check upon you but you're too busy I text you to check upon you but you're too busy
1110 00:51:22,383 00:51:24,733 tied up with whoever, you're not replying tied up with whoever, you're not replying
1111 00:51:24,820 00:51:26,083 to any of my messages. to any of my messages.
1112 00:51:26,170 00:51:27,910 - I'm at home studying by myself. - I'm at home studying by myself.
1113 00:51:27,997 00:51:29,782 I'm not tied up with nobody but God. I'm not tied up with nobody but God.
1114 00:51:29,869 00:51:31,784 - Oh you're by yourself? - Oh you're by yourself?
1115 00:51:31,871 00:51:32,611 Well I'm on my way. Well I'm on my way.
1116 00:51:33,612 00:51:36,876 - Man why did I say that? - Man why did I say that?
1117 00:51:45,928 00:51:47,626 - Do you believe in God? - Do you believe in God?
1118 00:51:47,713 00:51:50,629 - I guess, never really think about it though. - I guess, never really think about it though.
1119 00:51:50,716 00:51:52,326 Why you ask? Why you ask?
1120 00:51:52,413 00:51:54,067 - I was just wondering. - I was just wondering.
1121 00:51:55,503 00:51:57,853 You ever thought about getting saved? You ever thought about getting saved?
1122 00:51:57,940 00:51:59,246 - Man I don't know. - Man I don't know.
1123 00:51:59,333 00:52:01,509 Why you asking all these questions? Why you asking all these questions?
1124 00:52:01,596 00:52:03,990 - I just been thinking about it a lot lately. - I just been thinking about it a lot lately.
1125 00:52:04,077 00:52:06,862 - Okay you say that like it's going to change something. - Okay you say that like it's going to change something.
1126 00:52:06,949 00:52:09,778 - Well if I did it would change a lot - Well if I did it would change a lot
1127 00:52:09,865 00:52:10,605 but it would be for the best. but it would be for the best.
1128 00:52:11,563 00:52:13,739 - What you mean by that? - What you mean by that?
1129 00:52:13,826 00:52:15,349 - We're gonna have to stop sleeping together. - We're gonna have to stop sleeping together.
1130 00:52:15,436 00:52:17,656 I don't think God's okay with that. I don't think God's okay with that.
1131 00:52:17,743 00:52:19,310 - We've been together all this time - We've been together all this time
1132 00:52:19,397 00:52:21,312 and you ain't never have a problem with that. and you ain't never have a problem with that.
1133 00:52:21,399 00:52:23,314 - Even beyond that what if I get pregnant - Even beyond that what if I get pregnant
1134 00:52:23,401 00:52:24,402 or what if we get caught? or what if we get caught?
1135 00:52:25,229 00:52:26,273 - Get caught? - Get caught?
1136 00:52:26,360 00:52:27,796 Girl we ain't get caught yet. Girl we ain't get caught yet.
1137 00:52:27,883 00:52:28,884 - But you don't know what's gon' happen - But you don't know what's gon' happen
1138 00:52:28,971 00:52:30,843 if we keep taking chances. if we keep taking chances.
1139 00:52:30,930 00:52:32,497 - Man I see you really buggin. - Man I see you really buggin.
1140 00:52:32,584 00:52:35,500 - Look I just think it's time for a change. - Look I just think it's time for a change.
1141 00:52:35,587 00:52:38,024 I love you but we just need some space for right now. I love you but we just need some space for right now.
1142 00:52:38,111 00:52:40,679 I don't want to keep disappointing God. I don't want to keep disappointing God.
1143 00:52:40,766 00:52:43,856 - Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, let me get this straight. - Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, let me get this straight.
1144 00:52:43,943 00:52:47,294 You love me, but don't want to be with me You love me, but don't want to be with me
1145 00:52:47,381 00:52:50,254 and why all of a sudden you care about what God thinks? and why all of a sudden you care about what God thinks?
1146 00:52:50,341 00:52:51,298 - Look all I'm trying to say-- - Look all I'm trying to say--
1147 00:52:51,385 00:52:52,430 - Man listen! - Man listen!
1148 00:52:52,517 00:52:55,824 We together and always will be. We together and always will be.
1149 00:52:55,911 00:52:58,262 You ain't going nowhere and I ain't either. You ain't going nowhere and I ain't either.
1150 00:52:58,349 00:53:00,177 Ain't no giving each other space. Ain't no giving each other space.
1151 00:53:00,264 00:53:03,658 I like things the way they is and you gon' like it too! I like things the way they is and you gon' like it too!
1152 00:53:03,745 00:53:05,094 - Man I knew this was gon' happen I'm leaving. - Man I knew this was gon' happen I'm leaving.
1153 00:53:05,182 00:53:07,662 - Didn't I say you ain't going nowhere! - Didn't I say you ain't going nowhere!
1154 00:53:07,749 00:53:10,012 - Wait what'd you just say? - Wait what'd you just say?
1155 00:53:10,099 00:53:13,581 - I said you ain't going nowhere! - I said you ain't going nowhere!
1156 00:53:13,668 00:53:14,713 - I said. - I said.
1157 00:53:14,800 00:53:16,889 - Let me go. Stop let me go. - Let me go. Stop let me go.
1158 00:53:23,417 00:53:24,549 God how did I get here? God how did I get here?
1159 00:53:26,246 00:53:29,162 - Come on Bae you know how much I care about you. - Come on Bae you know how much I care about you.
1160 00:53:29,249 00:53:30,946 I mean I just got caught in the moment I mean I just got caught in the moment
1161 00:53:31,033 00:53:34,080 I ain't trying to lose you. Come on at least talk to me. I ain't trying to lose you. Come on at least talk to me.
1162 00:53:34,167 00:53:35,647 - Look I just got a lot I need to think about - Look I just got a lot I need to think about
1163 00:53:35,734 00:53:36,909 and I'd rather be alone. and I'd rather be alone.
1164 00:53:38,040 00:53:39,172 - At least take your phone. - At least take your phone.
1165 00:53:40,260 00:53:42,610 - Rico stop! What are you doing? - Rico stop! What are you doing?
1166 00:53:42,697 00:53:43,698 Let me go! Let me go!
1167 00:53:43,785 00:53:44,656 - Get back in the house. - Get back in the house.
1168 00:53:44,743 00:53:45,439 - Stop! - Stop!
1169 00:53:49,269 00:53:51,619 - I know that's not Tatiyanna. - I know that's not Tatiyanna.
1170 00:53:53,317 00:53:55,710 - Go! Stop! Let me go! Stop! - Go! Stop! Let me go! Stop!
1171 00:53:59,279 00:54:01,150 - Man what you doing? - Man what you doing?
1172 00:54:01,238 00:54:02,935 - Man Damian get back in the car - Man Damian get back in the car
1173 00:54:03,022 00:54:04,763 this ain't got nothing to do with you! this ain't got nothing to do with you!
1174 00:54:04,850 00:54:07,113 - It's got everything to do with me she's like my sister! - It's got everything to do with me she's like my sister!
1175 00:54:07,200 00:54:09,028 Tatiyanna get in the car! Tatiyanna get in the car!
1176 00:54:09,115 00:54:10,159 Don't even look at her! Don't even look at her!
1177 00:54:20,387 00:54:22,259 - Lord please don't let this be Nina. - Lord please don't let this be Nina.
1178 00:54:31,920 00:54:32,660 Where's your key? Where's your key?
1179 00:54:38,013 00:54:39,188 Tatiyanna what's wrong? Tatiyanna what's wrong?
1180 00:54:41,539 00:54:42,279 - Everything! - Everything!
1181 00:54:43,715 00:54:45,194 - What are you talking about? - What are you talking about?
1182 00:54:46,674 00:54:48,328 - Everything you said was right! - Everything you said was right!
1183 00:54:58,817 00:55:00,166 - It'll be alright sis. - It'll be alright sis.
1184 00:55:09,306 00:55:12,047 - Now God want you to front slide so you can bring - Now God want you to front slide so you can bring
1185 00:55:12,134 00:55:14,876 some of them other back sliders back to sliding back! some of them other back sliders back to sliding back!
1186 00:55:14,963 00:55:16,965 Get on back in the church! Get on back in the church!
1187 00:55:17,052 00:55:19,011 Get on back where you use to be! Get on back where you use to be!
1188 00:55:19,098 00:55:21,013 Stop feeling sorry for yourself! Stop feeling sorry for yourself!
1189 00:55:21,100 00:55:24,538 Get your Bible in your hand and walk in Jesus name! Get your Bible in your hand and walk in Jesus name!
1190 00:55:24,625 00:55:26,714 Let nobody stop you or turn you around. Let nobody stop you or turn you around.
1191 00:55:26,801 00:55:28,194 Stand up on your feet everybody! Stand up on your feet everybody!
1192 00:55:29,587 00:55:31,197 - Alright man I'm starving. - Alright man I'm starving.
1193 00:55:31,284 00:55:33,155 I'm about to go. I'm about to go.
1194 00:55:33,242 00:55:34,200 About to get out of here. About to get out of here.
1195 00:55:34,287 00:55:35,070 - We'll catch up with you later. - We'll catch up with you later.
1196 00:55:35,157 00:55:36,115 - Okay. Alright T. - Okay. Alright T.
1197 00:55:36,202 00:55:37,290 - Bless Him preach! - Bless Him preach!
1198 00:55:37,377 00:55:38,030 - Bless Him. - Bless Him.
1199 00:55:38,944 00:55:40,641 - How you doing? - How you doing?
1200 00:55:40,728 00:55:41,990 - Good. I want to introduce you to my sister. - Good. I want to introduce you to my sister.
1201 00:55:42,077 00:55:43,688 Tatiyanna this is minister Eathan. Tatiyanna this is minister Eathan.
1202 00:55:43,775 00:55:44,819 - Hello. How you doing? - Hello. How you doing?
1203 00:55:44,906 00:55:45,603 - Hello. Finally get to meet you. - Hello. Finally get to meet you.
1204 00:55:45,690 00:55:46,734 - Mmm hmm. - Mmm hmm.
1205 00:55:46,821 00:55:47,648 - Did you enjoy yourself today? - Did you enjoy yourself today?
1206 00:55:47,735 00:55:49,041 - I did it was real nice. - I did it was real nice.
1207 00:55:49,128 00:55:50,825 Everything he said I needed to hear. Everything he said I needed to hear.
1208 00:55:50,912 00:55:52,566 Especially when he was talking about forgiving everybody Especially when he was talking about forgiving everybody
1209 00:55:52,653 00:55:54,263 and letting go of the past. and letting go of the past.
1210 00:55:54,351 00:55:56,396 And it's not just okay to just to come to church. And it's not just okay to just to come to church.
1211 00:55:56,483 00:55:58,398 You gotta build a relationship with God. You gotta build a relationship with God.
1212 00:55:58,485 00:56:00,182 It was nice. It was nice.
1213 00:56:00,269 00:56:02,489 - That's good. That's good and you know a relationship - That's good. That's good and you know a relationship
1214 00:56:02,576 00:56:05,057 is not just about coming to God only when you need something is not just about coming to God only when you need something
1215 00:56:05,144 00:56:07,538 and it's not just about a verbal confession with the mouth and it's not just about a verbal confession with the mouth
1216 00:56:07,625 00:56:10,323 but a relationship with God is action. but a relationship with God is action.
1217 00:56:10,410 00:56:12,238 You know the Bible says if you love me he said You know the Bible says if you love me he said
1218 00:56:12,325 00:56:16,242 you'll keep my commandments and that's what it's all about. you'll keep my commandments and that's what it's all about.
1219 00:56:16,329 00:56:18,375 - Dad! You decided to come? - Dad! You decided to come?
1220 00:56:18,462 00:56:19,985 - Yeah. - Yeah.
1221 00:56:20,072 00:56:22,117 - Minister Eathan this is my dad. - Minister Eathan this is my dad.
1222 00:56:22,204 00:56:23,205 - How you doing? - How you doing?
1223 00:56:23,292 00:56:24,250 - I'm doing good Adrian Vincent. - I'm doing good Adrian Vincent.
1224 00:56:24,337 00:56:25,991 - Adrian. It's nice to meet you. - Adrian. It's nice to meet you.
1225 00:56:26,078 00:56:27,819 - It's nice to meet you I've heard a lot of about you. - It's nice to meet you I've heard a lot of about you.
1226 00:56:27,906 00:56:29,168 - Hopefully good things. - Hopefully good things.
1227 00:56:29,255 00:56:31,431 - All good things. All good things. - All good things. All good things.
1228 00:56:31,518 00:56:33,128 I've seen the affect that you've had on my son I've seen the affect that you've had on my son
1229 00:56:33,215 00:56:36,175 and it's caused me to make some changes in my life as well. and it's caused me to make some changes in my life as well.
1230 00:56:36,262 00:56:38,307 In fact, if you have a moment In fact, if you have a moment
1231 00:56:38,395 00:56:39,439 maybe I can speak with you in private. maybe I can speak with you in private.
1232 00:56:39,526 00:56:41,093 For just a minute. For just a minute.
1233 00:56:41,180 00:56:43,443 - Yeah we can go in the back, excuse me guys. - Yeah we can go in the back, excuse me guys.
1234 00:56:54,759 00:56:59,459 ♪ We invite you in ♪ ♪ We invite you in ♪
1235 00:57:04,464 00:57:07,336 ♪ We invite you in ♪ ♪ We invite you in ♪
1236 00:57:15,344 00:57:20,349 ♪ We invite you in ♪ ♪ We invite you in ♪
1237 00:57:24,528 00:57:29,489 ♪ In this place ♪ ♪ In this place ♪
1238 00:57:33,537 00:57:38,237 ♪ We We We invite you in Jesus ♪ ♪ We We We invite you in Jesus ♪
1239 00:57:42,110 00:57:45,636 ♪ Oh Lord We invite you in. ♪ ♪ Oh Lord We invite you in. ♪
1240 00:57:54,166 00:57:56,690 ♪ Come and rest ♪ ♪ Come and rest ♪
1241 00:58:19,104 00:58:22,716 ♪ In ♪ ♪ In ♪
1242 00:58:22,803 00:58:28,069 ♪ In ♪ ♪ In ♪
1243 00:58:28,156 00:58:33,161 ♪ In ♪ ♪ In ♪
1244 00:58:37,514 00:58:42,519 ♪ This place ♪ ♪ This place ♪
1245 00:58:45,217 00:58:50,178 ♪ Holy Spirit ♪ ♪ Holy Spirit ♪
1246 00:58:52,746 00:58:54,705 ♪ Holy spirit ♪ ♪ Holy spirit ♪
1247 00:58:54,792 00:58:59,753 ♪ You are welcome ♪ ♪ You are welcome ♪
1248 00:59:01,799 00:59:04,192 ♪ You are welcome ♪ ♪ You are welcome ♪
1249 00:59:04,279 00:59:08,936 ♪ Come and rest ♪ ♪ Come and rest ♪
1250 00:59:12,244 00:59:16,988 ♪ In this place ♪ ♪ In this place ♪
1251 00:59:17,945 00:59:21,732 ♪ In this place ♪ ♪ In this place ♪
1252 00:59:21,819 00:59:26,737 ♪ Holy spirit ♪ ♪ Holy spirit ♪
1253 00:59:29,043 00:59:31,524 ♪ Holy Spirit ♪ ♪ Holy Spirit ♪
1254 00:59:31,611 00:59:36,573 ♪ You are welcome ♪ ♪ You are welcome ♪
1255 00:59:37,617 00:59:41,752 ♪ You are welcome ♪ ♪ You are welcome ♪
1256 00:59:41,839 00:59:46,757 ♪ Welcome ♪ ♪ Welcome ♪
1257 00:59:48,019 00:59:51,675 ♪ In this place ♪ ♪ In this place ♪
1258 00:59:51,762 00:59:56,418 ♪ In In In this place ♪ ♪ In In In this place ♪
1259 00:59:57,463 01:00:01,989 ♪ We invite you in ♪ ♪ We invite you in ♪
1260 01:00:03,251 01:00:07,429 ♪ We, We invite you in Jesus ♪ ♪ We, We invite you in Jesus ♪
1261 01:00:07,516 01:00:09,823 ♪ We invite you in ♪ ♪ We invite you in ♪
1262 01:00:09,910 01:00:14,219 ♪ Oh Lord we invite you in ♪ ♪ Oh Lord we invite you in ♪
1263 01:00:14,306 01:00:19,224 ♪ We invite you in ♪ ♪ We invite you in ♪
1264 01:00:22,444 01:00:26,492 ♪ In this place ♪ ♪ In this place ♪
1265 01:00:26,579 01:00:31,236 ♪ In this place ♪ ♪ In this place ♪
1266 01:00:32,280 01:00:36,937 ♪ We invite you in ♪ ♪ We invite you in ♪
1267 01:00:39,897 01:00:44,466 ♪ We invite you in ♪ ♪ We invite you in ♪
1268 01:00:44,553 01:00:46,294 ♪ Thank you Jesus ♪ ♪ Thank you Jesus ♪
1269 01:00:46,381 01:00:48,122 ♪ Thank you Jesus ♪ ♪ Thank you Jesus ♪
1270 01:00:48,209 01:00:49,733 ♪ Hallelujah ♪ ♪ Hallelujah ♪
1271 01:00:49,820 01:00:52,736 ♪ Rest In this place ♪ ♪ Rest In this place ♪
1272 01:01:00,657 01:01:02,354 ♪ Come and rest Jesus ♪ ♪ Come and rest Jesus ♪
1273 01:01:02,441 01:01:05,357 ♪ Come and rest Jesus ♪ ♪ Come and rest Jesus ♪
1274 01:01:05,444 01:01:06,619 ♪ Oh Lord ♪ ♪ Oh Lord ♪
1275 01:01:06,706 01:01:11,537 ♪ Rest In this place ♪ ♪ Rest In this place ♪
1276 01:01:16,237 01:01:20,285 ♪ Come and rest in this place ♪ ♪ Come and rest in this place ♪
1277 01:01:20,372 01:01:22,896 ♪ Come and rest ♪ ♪ Come and rest ♪
1278 01:01:31,383 01:01:36,344 ♪ In this place ♪ ♪ In this place ♪
1279 01:01:37,737 01:01:40,174 ♪ This place ♪ ♪ This place ♪
1280 01:01:44,701 01:01:47,399 Hallelujah! Glory to God! Hallelujah! Glory to God!
1281 01:01:47,486 01:01:49,096 Hallelujah! Hallelujah! Hallelujah! Hallelujah!
1282 01:01:50,619 01:01:53,492 Oh God I feel you in this place Lord! Oh God I feel you in this place Lord!
1283 01:01:53,579 01:01:56,147 I feel your presence Jesus! I feel your presence Jesus!
1284 01:01:56,234 01:01:59,150 Hallelujah Lord! Glory to your name! Hallelujah Lord! Glory to your name!
1285 01:01:59,237 01:02:02,283 Thank you Jesus! Hallelujah Lord! Thank you Jesus! Hallelujah Lord!
1286 01:02:02,370 01:02:03,023 Thank you Jesus! Thank you Jesus!
1287 01:02:04,764 01:02:09,595 And now I present to you at this time your pastor. And now I present to you at this time your pastor.
1288 01:02:10,596 01:02:11,815 Pastor Adrian. Pastor Adrian.
1289 01:02:26,220 01:02:27,961 - Amen give God some praise for this wonderful choir. - Amen give God some praise for this wonderful choir.
1290 01:02:28,048 01:02:29,746 Refuge Temple Ministries Deliverance Choir. Refuge Temple Ministries Deliverance Choir.
1291 01:02:29,833 01:02:30,616 Amen? Amen?
1292 01:02:31,791 01:02:32,792 Hallelujah. Hallelujah.
1293 01:02:35,882 01:02:37,449 I know many of you might be wondering as to why I know many of you might be wondering as to why
1294 01:02:37,536 01:02:40,147 we've been collaborating with this other ministry. we've been collaborating with this other ministry.
1295 01:02:40,234 01:02:41,583 And I will get to that. And I will get to that.
1296 01:02:43,716 01:02:45,326 But first off I want to do something But first off I want to do something
1297 01:02:45,413 01:02:46,632 that I don't normally do. that I don't normally do.
1298 01:02:48,068 01:02:49,591 This morning I would like to speak to you all This morning I would like to speak to you all
1299 01:02:49,678 01:02:51,245 from my heart is that alright? from my heart is that alright?
1300 01:02:52,246 01:02:52,943 Amen. Amen.
1301 01:02:59,340 01:03:02,126 Saints I stand before you all, today full of Godly sorrow. Saints I stand before you all, today full of Godly sorrow.
1302 01:03:04,084 01:03:07,871 As many of you know, that this past year for my family and I As many of you know, that this past year for my family and I
1303 01:03:07,958 01:03:11,135 has been a very tragic one with the lost of my wife Leah. has been a very tragic one with the lost of my wife Leah.
1304 01:03:13,050 01:03:18,403 For this tragic incident I hold myself completely guilty For this tragic incident I hold myself completely guilty
1305 01:03:18,490 01:03:21,493 for it because as the head of my household I'm responsible for it because as the head of my household I'm responsible
1306 01:03:21,580 01:03:25,062 for everyone in my household, as well as their actions. for everyone in my household, as well as their actions.
1307 01:03:27,151 01:03:30,197 Saints with that guilt I'm also guilty of preaching to you Saints with that guilt I'm also guilty of preaching to you
1308 01:03:30,284 01:03:31,808 all only half of the word of God. all only half of the word of God.
1309 01:03:33,244 01:03:36,943 The half that was convenient for me The half that was convenient for me
1310 01:03:37,030 01:03:38,815 and was comfortable for most of you. and was comfortable for most of you.
1311 01:03:41,687 01:03:42,340 Saints with that guilt Saints with that guilt
1312 01:03:43,994 01:03:46,257 I'm also guilty of verbally abusing my family. I'm also guilty of verbally abusing my family.
1313 01:03:47,954 01:03:51,392 I would tell them exactly what was on my mind I would tell them exactly what was on my mind
1314 01:03:51,479 01:03:54,091 and expect for them to deal with it the best way they could. and expect for them to deal with it the best way they could.
1315 01:03:55,875 01:03:58,051 I've let my children down. I've let my children down.
1316 01:03:59,270 01:04:01,533 I've driven my wife to a point, I've driven my wife to a point,
1317 01:04:07,278 01:04:09,976 I now understand clearer than ever I now understand clearer than ever
1318 01:04:10,063 01:04:12,544 the scripture that tells us that there is death the scripture that tells us that there is death
1319 01:04:12,631 01:04:14,938 and there's life in the power of your tongue. and there's life in the power of your tongue.
1320 01:04:17,114 01:04:22,249 I once heard a man of God say that anger itself is not sin, I once heard a man of God say that anger itself is not sin,
1321 01:04:23,990 01:04:27,341 But it's when you use that anger in the wrong way But it's when you use that anger in the wrong way
1322 01:04:27,428 01:04:30,605 or for the wrong purpose it becomes of evil. or for the wrong purpose it becomes of evil.
1323 01:04:33,347 01:04:34,914 Let me ask you a question how many fools Let me ask you a question how many fools
1324 01:04:35,001 01:04:36,350 do I have in the house tonight? do I have in the house tonight?
1325 01:04:38,570 01:04:39,310 Nobody. Nobody.
1326 01:04:41,225 01:04:45,403 The Bible says that anger rests in the bosom of a fool. The Bible says that anger rests in the bosom of a fool.
1327 01:04:45,490 01:04:49,015 And if you have any anger if you have the temper And if you have any anger if you have the temper
1328 01:04:49,102 01:04:52,453 or the frustration as I've once had. or the frustration as I've once had.
1329 01:04:52,540 01:04:53,672 Then who are you really? Then who are you really?
1330 01:04:57,023 01:04:59,634 Because of my anger I've lost something valuable. Because of my anger I've lost something valuable.
1331 01:05:02,115 01:05:04,770 And because of my foolishness And because of my foolishness
1332 01:05:04,857 01:05:06,772 I've thrown away something irreplaceable. I've thrown away something irreplaceable.
1333 01:05:09,035 01:05:12,996 You see, everything that grows has a root. You see, everything that grows has a root.
1334 01:05:14,736 01:05:18,784 And because I nurtured and watered one tiny seed And because I nurtured and watered one tiny seed
1335 01:05:18,871 01:05:21,874 of inconsistency, It has grown into a great vine of inconsistency, It has grown into a great vine
1336 01:05:21,961 01:05:24,311 and I've allowed it to choke the life out of my family. and I've allowed it to choke the life out of my family.
1337 01:05:28,141 01:05:32,580 Because of me, I won't ever get back the warm embrace Because of me, I won't ever get back the warm embrace
1338 01:05:32,667 01:05:33,407 of sister Leah. of sister Leah.
1339 01:05:35,018 01:05:36,367 Because of my foolishness. Because of my foolishness.
1340 01:05:38,412 01:05:42,416 Often times I just sit down and I just ask God Often times I just sit down and I just ask God
1341 01:05:42,503 01:05:43,852 and I would just cry. and I would just cry.
1342 01:05:45,463 01:05:46,943 God just one more time God! God just one more time God!
1343 01:05:48,466 01:05:50,598 If I could just hold her hand just one more time! If I could just hold her hand just one more time!
1344 01:05:52,426 01:05:54,994 God if I can just hold one more conversation with her. God if I can just hold one more conversation with her.
1345 01:05:56,822 01:05:59,172 What would I tell her how would I make it different? What would I tell her how would I make it different?
1346 01:06:15,101 01:06:17,538 Saints, are your eyes still closed this morning? Saints, are your eyes still closed this morning?
1347 01:06:17,625 01:06:18,975 How much will it take? How much will it take?
1348 01:06:19,062 01:06:21,499 Does blood have to be shed on your carpet also Does blood have to be shed on your carpet also
1349 01:06:21,586 01:06:22,979 for your eyes to be open today? for your eyes to be open today?
1350 01:06:25,285 01:06:27,766 My prayer this morning is that, My prayer this morning is that,
1351 01:06:27,853 01:06:29,637 is that your eyes will be open. is that your eyes will be open.
1352 01:06:29,724 01:06:30,116 That you will see clearly That you will see clearly
1353 01:06:32,031 01:06:35,469 before another loved ones eyes will be permanently closed. before another loved ones eyes will be permanently closed.
1354 01:06:36,862 01:06:38,298 Saints I feel as though, Saints I feel as though,
1355 01:06:40,257 01:06:42,824 I feel unworthy to be before you this morning. I feel unworthy to be before you this morning.
1356 01:06:44,696 01:06:47,264 In fact I feel as though it would be unfair to you all In fact I feel as though it would be unfair to you all
1357 01:06:47,351 01:06:49,962 if I were to continue to Shepard this church. if I were to continue to Shepard this church.
1358 01:06:51,529 01:06:55,489 With that being said from this moment forth With that being said from this moment forth
1359 01:06:55,576 01:06:57,622 I relinquish my rights as the pastor of this church I relinquish my rights as the pastor of this church
1360 01:06:59,058 01:07:01,756 and I will bring to you a man of God and I will bring to you a man of God
1361 01:07:03,541 01:07:07,327 that actually lives the life that he preaches about. that actually lives the life that he preaches about.
1362 01:07:09,068 01:07:11,549 A man of God that has helped my children A man of God that has helped my children
1363 01:07:11,636 01:07:16,510 with their unbelief and with their hatred towards me with their unbelief and with their hatred towards me
1364 01:07:18,077 01:07:21,211 and through their change my eyes have been open. and through their change my eyes have been open.
1365 01:07:22,995 01:07:25,128 He's no stranger to you all. He's no stranger to you all.
1366 01:07:25,215 01:07:27,086 You've seen him in our retreats, You've seen him in our retreats,
1367 01:07:27,173 01:07:29,349 you've seen him in our camp meetings. you've seen him in our camp meetings.
1368 01:07:29,436 01:07:33,701 I want you all to welcome with me your minister and mine, I want you all to welcome with me your minister and mine,
1369 01:07:33,788 01:07:37,053 Refuge Temple Ministries own minister Eathan Williams. Refuge Temple Ministries own minister Eathan Williams.
1370 01:07:37,140 01:07:40,491 [congregation applauding] [congregation applauding]
1371 01:07:46,497 01:07:46,845 - Amen. - Amen.
1372 01:07:48,281 01:07:50,283 Come on give Jesus a big hand praise. Come on give Jesus a big hand praise.
1373 01:07:52,111 01:07:52,981 Hallelujah. Hallelujah.
1374 01:07:55,071 01:07:57,943 You know It takes true humility for someone to do You know It takes true humility for someone to do
1375 01:08:00,163 01:08:02,382 what Pastor Adrian just did. what Pastor Adrian just did.
1376 01:08:04,210 01:08:05,603 And the Bible teaches us And the Bible teaches us
1377 01:08:05,690 01:08:08,084 that we should be clothed with humility. that we should be clothed with humility.
1378 01:08:09,955 01:08:13,698 It goes on to speak about those that humble themselves It goes on to speak about those that humble themselves
1379 01:08:13,785 01:08:16,222 he said they will be exalted in due time. he said they will be exalted in due time.
1380 01:08:18,137 01:08:22,620 You know I'm humbled and I respect Pastor Adrian so much You know I'm humbled and I respect Pastor Adrian so much
1381 01:08:22,707 01:08:25,362 for the decision he's made of his own will. for the decision he's made of his own will.
1382 01:08:26,972 01:08:29,757 The Bible teaches us that in the last days The Bible teaches us that in the last days
1383 01:08:29,844 01:08:32,412 he said perilous times would come. he said perilous times would come.
1384 01:08:34,936 01:08:36,721 He said how men would be lovers of themselves He said how men would be lovers of themselves
1385 01:08:36,808 01:08:41,029 more than lovers of God seeking to do what they desire more than lovers of God seeking to do what they desire
1386 01:08:41,117 01:08:45,251 what makes them feel good rather than seeking the one what makes them feel good rather than seeking the one
1387 01:08:45,338 01:08:48,385 that created us for his own pleasure. that created us for his own pleasure.
1388 01:08:48,472 01:08:49,125 God almighty. God almighty.
1389 01:08:50,996 01:08:55,043 It goes on to tell us they'll have a form of godliness, It goes on to tell us they'll have a form of godliness,
1390 01:08:55,131 01:08:59,004 look just like the church, but deny the power thereof. look just like the church, but deny the power thereof.
1391 01:09:00,658 01:09:03,835 The power that causes a man to change The power that causes a man to change
1392 01:09:03,922 01:09:06,881 from one creation to another. from one creation to another.
1393 01:09:09,232 01:09:11,712 The Bible says it like this in second Corinthians The Bible says it like this in second Corinthians
1394 01:09:11,799 01:09:13,105 chapter five. chapter five.
1395 01:09:15,760 01:09:17,631 It says how a man can be a new creature. It says how a man can be a new creature.
1396 01:09:19,416 01:09:23,333 He said old things would be past away and all things He said old things would be past away and all things
1397 01:09:23,420 01:09:26,466 would become new and all things would be of God. would become new and all things would be of God.
1398 01:09:28,251 01:09:33,256 But it takes something in order to become a new creature. But it takes something in order to become a new creature.
1399 01:09:35,475 01:09:39,262 Today I want to talk to you about that something Today I want to talk to you about that something
1400 01:09:39,349 01:09:41,786 that it's going to take for a man to change. that it's going to take for a man to change.
1401 01:09:42,917 01:09:45,050 Ask yourself this question. Ask yourself this question.
1402 01:09:45,137 01:09:47,748 The truth that you have believed all the way The truth that you have believed all the way
1403 01:09:47,835 01:09:49,097 up until this point. up until this point.
1404 01:09:50,447 01:09:51,709 Has it made you free? Has it made you free?
1405 01:09:54,451 01:09:55,365 Are you still lying? Are you still lying?
1406 01:09:55,452 01:09:56,801 Still cursing? Still cursing?
1407 01:09:56,888 01:09:59,195 Still full of deceit and unforgiveness? Still full of deceit and unforgiveness?
1408 01:09:59,282 01:10:00,196 Still drinking? Still drinking?
1409 01:10:02,285 01:10:03,677 You can be free today. You can be free today.
1410 01:10:06,506 01:10:10,423 I want to talk to you today about receiving the Holy Ghost. I want to talk to you today about receiving the Holy Ghost.
1411 01:10:17,952 01:10:19,215 - Oh yeah I remember that. - Oh yeah I remember that.
1412 01:10:20,738 01:10:23,088 Hey you remember my first football game? Hey you remember my first football game?
1413 01:10:23,175 01:10:24,481 - Yeah. - Yeah.
1414 01:10:24,568 01:10:26,874 - Man I was so happy when I caught that ball. - Man I was so happy when I caught that ball.
1415 01:10:26,961 01:10:28,963 I just knew everybody would be excited I just knew everybody would be excited
1416 01:10:29,050 01:10:30,226 if I could make a touch down. if I could make a touch down.
1417 01:10:31,314 01:10:32,880 And so I ran as hard as I could. And so I ran as hard as I could.
1418 01:10:33,968 01:10:36,493 Man I felt so untouchable. Man I felt so untouchable.
1419 01:10:36,580 01:10:38,799 And I can remember them screaming out my name. And I can remember them screaming out my name.
1420 01:10:38,886 01:10:40,497 Paul. Paul. Paul. Paul.
1421 01:10:40,584 01:10:41,454 - Then you realized it was cause you were running - Then you realized it was cause you were running
1422 01:10:41,541 01:10:42,890 the wrong way. the wrong way.
1423 01:10:42,977 01:10:45,328 - Oh so now you decided to get off the phone? - Oh so now you decided to get off the phone?
1424 01:10:45,415 01:10:47,155 - Naw I'm playing man I'm just excited. - Naw I'm playing man I'm just excited.
1425 01:10:47,243 01:10:48,679 That was my mom on the phone. That was my mom on the phone.
1426 01:10:48,766 01:10:50,637 She said her and my dad are getting remarried. She said her and my dad are getting remarried.
1427 01:10:50,724 01:10:52,248 - Really? - Really?
1428 01:10:52,335 01:10:53,074 - Yeah. - Yeah.
1429 01:10:53,161 01:10:54,946 - Man look at God! - Man look at God!
1430 01:10:55,033 01:10:56,948 You see what can happen if you give your life over to him? You see what can happen if you give your life over to him?
1431 01:10:57,035 01:10:59,080 He'll cause everything else to fall into place. He'll cause everything else to fall into place.
1432 01:10:59,167 01:11:00,865 - That's right. - That's right.
1433 01:11:00,952 01:11:02,780 You know I felt like I was having to give up everything You know I felt like I was having to give up everything
1434 01:11:02,867 01:11:05,522 when I came back to this ministry but I didn't realize when I came back to this ministry but I didn't realize
1435 01:11:05,609 01:11:08,089 he was just giving me so much more in return. he was just giving me so much more in return.
1436 01:11:08,176 01:11:10,309 - I know exactly what you mean. - I know exactly what you mean.
1437 01:11:10,396 01:11:11,876 For me giving up my church was the hardest thing For me giving up my church was the hardest thing
1438 01:11:11,963 01:11:12,964 I ever had to do. I ever had to do.
1439 01:11:14,922 01:11:16,446 I guess because I tried to build it up into something I guess because I tried to build it up into something
1440 01:11:16,533 01:11:20,798 that I wanted to my expectations but I realized that I wanted to my expectations but I realized
1441 01:11:20,885 01:11:23,366 it was never mine to begin with. it was never mine to begin with.
1442 01:11:23,453 01:11:27,152 Ever since I gave it back over to God put it in his hands Ever since I gave it back over to God put it in his hands
1443 01:11:27,239 01:11:29,981 he made it into something that I could never do on my own. he made it into something that I could never do on my own.
1444 01:11:30,068 01:11:31,417 - He did the same thing for me with football. - He did the same thing for me with football.
1445 01:11:33,332 01:11:36,683 Man I was running my little football career in the ground. Man I was running my little football career in the ground.
1446 01:11:36,770 01:11:38,381 Going off on my coach. Going off on my coach.
1447 01:11:38,468 01:11:40,296 Getting suspended from the team. Getting suspended from the team.
1448 01:11:41,384 01:11:42,559 Man I was losing it. Man I was losing it.
1449 01:11:44,212 01:11:46,127 But after I gave everything to God But after I gave everything to God
1450 01:11:47,564 01:11:48,826 he turned it all around for my good. he turned it all around for my good.
1451 01:11:50,567 01:11:55,789 Took a lot of apologizing but it all was worth it. Took a lot of apologizing but it all was worth it.
1452 01:11:55,876 01:11:57,791 - So now you then went from running the wrong way - So now you then went from running the wrong way
1453 01:11:57,878 01:11:59,010 to running God's way right? to running God's way right?
1454 01:12:01,273 01:12:02,666 - Speaking of football. - Speaking of football.
1455 01:12:02,753 01:12:04,189 I know by now you decided which college I know by now you decided which college
1456 01:12:04,276 01:12:05,408 you're gonna play for right? you're gonna play for right?
1457 01:12:06,365 01:12:07,540 - I got one in mind. - I got one in mind.
1458 01:12:12,763 01:12:14,895 - So you decided to stay home huh? - So you decided to stay home huh?
1459 01:12:14,982 01:12:17,637 - Yeah I really wanted to stay connected to the ministry - Yeah I really wanted to stay connected to the ministry
1460 01:12:17,724 01:12:20,161 and I believe God has a work for me here. and I believe God has a work for me here.
1461 01:12:20,248 01:12:20,945 - Hey guys look over here! - Hey guys look over here!
1462 01:12:23,382 01:12:25,950 [upbeat music] [upbeat music]
1463 01:14:00,174 01:14:04,483 ♪ To God be the glory ♪ ♪ To God be the glory ♪
1464 01:14:05,658 01:14:09,923 ♪ To God be the glory ♪ ♪ To God be the glory ♪
1465 01:14:11,055 01:14:15,320 ♪ To God be the glory ♪ ♪ To God be the glory ♪
1466 01:14:16,539 01:14:21,152 ♪ For the things you have done ♪ ♪ For the things you have done ♪
1467 01:14:21,239 01:14:23,720 ♪ You have done ♪ ♪ You have done ♪
1468 01:14:24,895 01:14:29,116 [audience applauding] [audience applauding]
1469 01:14:29,203 01:14:31,554 If y'all don't mind before I bring up the speaker tonight If y'all don't mind before I bring up the speaker tonight
1470 01:14:31,641 01:14:34,818 I just want to give a brief testimony about him. I just want to give a brief testimony about him.
1471 01:14:34,905 01:14:38,430 As you may or may not know he's my brother and if it wasn't As you may or may not know he's my brother and if it wasn't
1472 01:14:38,517 01:14:40,606 for him I would not be standing before you tonight. for him I would not be standing before you tonight.
1473 01:14:42,434 01:14:45,350 I can honestly say that he practices what he preaches I can honestly say that he practices what he preaches
1474 01:14:45,437 01:14:48,440 and his life truly lines up with the word of God. and his life truly lines up with the word of God.
1475 01:14:48,527 01:14:50,442 And because of the example that he set And because of the example that he set
1476 01:14:50,529 01:14:52,052 I'm here before you today. I'm here before you today.
1477 01:14:53,532 01:14:56,187 After watching him I begin looking at myself After watching him I begin looking at myself
1478 01:14:56,274 01:14:58,711 and seeing how much I needed to be changed and seeing how much I needed to be changed
1479 01:14:58,798 01:15:01,627 and I started seeking God and just repenting and I started seeking God and just repenting
1480 01:15:01,714 01:15:04,151 of everything that I knew wasn't like him of everything that I knew wasn't like him
1481 01:15:04,238 01:15:06,763 and he finally filled me with the Holy Ghost. and he finally filled me with the Holy Ghost.
1482 01:15:06,850 01:15:09,069 [audience applauding] [audience applauding]
1483 01:15:09,156 01:15:11,419 And none of that would've happened if it wasn't And none of that would've happened if it wasn't
1484 01:15:11,507 01:15:14,814 for my brother and the example that he set before me. for my brother and the example that he set before me.
1485 01:15:14,901 01:15:17,774 So without further ado I present to you the speaker So without further ado I present to you the speaker
1486 01:15:17,861 01:15:20,298 for the night my brother Paul Vincent. for the night my brother Paul Vincent.
1487 01:15:20,385 01:15:23,562 [audience applauding] [audience applauding]
1488 01:15:28,567 01:15:30,221 - Amen. - Amen.
1489 01:15:30,308 01:15:32,179 Can you all give Jesus Christ a great big hand clap? Can you all give Jesus Christ a great big hand clap?
1490 01:15:35,531 01:15:38,055 I see a lot of you brought your notebooks and your Bibles, I see a lot of you brought your notebooks and your Bibles,
1491 01:15:38,142 01:15:40,100 that's good. that's good.
1492 01:15:40,187 01:15:42,581 If you will can you please turn with me to Ephesians If you will can you please turn with me to Ephesians
1493 01:15:42,668 01:15:45,410 chapter five verses 15 and 16. chapter five verses 15 and 16.
1494 01:15:50,197 01:15:53,157 The title of tonight's message is Redeeming The Time. The title of tonight's message is Redeeming The Time.
1495 01:16:14,570 01:16:16,659 ♪ We've come with our burdens ♪ ♪ We've come with our burdens ♪
1496 01:16:16,746 01:16:19,923 ♪ We've come with our pain ♪ ♪ We've come with our pain ♪
1497 01:16:20,010 01:16:24,623 ♪ With our arms stretched wide will you restore us again ♪ ♪ With our arms stretched wide will you restore us again ♪
1498 01:16:26,277 01:16:29,628 ♪ We've come with sorrow ♪ ♪ We've come with sorrow ♪
1499 01:16:29,715 01:16:33,023 ♪ We've even come with some shame ♪ ♪ We've even come with some shame ♪
1500 01:16:33,110 01:16:37,984 ♪ Again I ask you will you restore us again ♪ ♪ Again I ask you will you restore us again ♪
1501 01:16:39,638 01:16:44,600 ♪ Restore us again ♪ ♪ Restore us again ♪
1502 01:16:46,253 01:16:51,519 ♪ Again ♪ ♪ Again ♪
1503 01:16:53,870 01:16:56,481 ♪ We've come with our burdens ♪ ♪ We've come with our burdens ♪
1504 01:16:56,568 01:16:59,702 ♪ We come with our pain ♪ ♪ We come with our pain ♪
1505 01:16:59,789 01:17:04,663 ♪ With our arms stretched wide will you restore us again ♪ ♪ With our arms stretched wide will you restore us again ♪
1506 01:17:06,534 01:17:09,537 ♪ We've come with some sorrow ♪ ♪ We've come with some sorrow ♪
1507 01:17:09,625 01:17:12,976 ♪ We've even come with some shame ♪ ♪ We've even come with some shame ♪
1508 01:17:13,063 01:17:17,937 ♪ Again I ask you will you restore us again ♪ ♪ Again I ask you will you restore us again ♪
1509 01:17:19,373 01:17:24,335 ♪ Restore us again ♪ ♪ Restore us again ♪
1510 01:17:26,250 01:17:31,385 ♪ Again ♪ ♪ Again ♪
1511 01:17:32,691 01:17:36,216 ♪ We've come with our burdens ♪ ♪ We've come with our burdens ♪
1512 01:17:36,303 01:17:40,046 ♪ We've come with our pain ♪ ♪ We've come with our pain ♪
1513 01:17:40,133 01:17:44,485 ♪ With our arms stretched wide will you restore us again ♪ ♪ With our arms stretched wide will you restore us again ♪
1514 01:17:45,704 01:17:49,099 ♪ We come with some sorrow ♪ ♪ We come with some sorrow ♪
1515 01:17:49,186 01:17:52,929 ♪ We've even come with some shame ♪ ♪ We've even come with some shame ♪
1516 01:17:53,016 01:17:57,890 ♪ Again I ask you will you restore us again ♪ ♪ Again I ask you will you restore us again ♪
1517 01:17:59,849 01:18:02,416 ♪ Savior ♪ ♪ Savior ♪
1518 01:18:02,503 01:18:05,289 ♪ Redeemer ♪ ♪ Redeemer ♪
1519 01:18:05,376 01:18:08,771 ♪ Master ♪ ♪ Master ♪
1520 01:18:08,858 01:18:10,381 ♪ Restore us ♪ ♪ Restore us ♪
1521 01:18:10,468 01:18:13,036 ♪ Restore us again ♪ ♪ Restore us again ♪
1522 01:18:13,123 01:18:16,300 ♪ Savior ♪ ♪ Savior ♪
1523 01:18:16,387 01:18:19,216 ♪ Redeemer ♪ ♪ Redeemer ♪
1524 01:18:19,303 01:18:22,393 ♪ Master ♪ ♪ Master ♪
1525 01:18:22,480 01:18:27,398 ♪ Restore us again ♪ ♪ Restore us again ♪
1526 01:18:32,403 01:18:35,493 ♪ You did it for me again ♪ ♪ You did it for me again ♪
1527 01:18:35,580 01:18:38,714 ♪ Grateful the last time ♪ ♪ Grateful the last time ♪
1528 01:18:38,801 01:18:42,021 ♪ I repented for the last time ♪ ♪ I repented for the last time ♪
1529 01:18:42,108 01:18:44,545 ♪ Been turned around ♪ ♪ Been turned around ♪
1530 01:18:44,632 01:18:47,418 ♪ I've been healed ♪ ♪ I've been healed ♪
1531 01:19:20,581 01:19:23,541 ♪ Heal me ♪ ♪ Heal me ♪
1532 01:19:23,628 01:19:26,544 ♪ Reveal me ♪ ♪ Reveal me ♪
1533 01:19:26,631 01:19:29,199 ♪ Change me ♪ ♪ Change me ♪
1534 01:19:29,286 01:19:32,593 ♪ Restore us again ♪ ♪ Restore us again ♪
1535 01:19:32,680 01:19:35,988 ♪ Heal me ♪ ♪ Heal me ♪
1536 01:19:36,075 01:19:39,818 ♪ Reveal me ♪ ♪ Reveal me ♪
1537 01:19:39,905 01:19:42,516 ♪ Change me ♪ ♪ Change me ♪
1538 01:19:42,603 01:19:45,389 ♪ Restore us again ♪ ♪ Restore us again ♪
1539 01:19:45,476 01:19:48,609 ♪ Forgive me ♪ ♪ Forgive me ♪
1540 01:19:48,696 01:19:51,874 ♪ Release me ♪ ♪ Release me ♪
1541 01:19:51,961 01:19:55,094 ♪ Love me ♪ ♪ Love me ♪
1542 01:19:55,181 01:19:58,489 ♪ Restore us again ♪ ♪ Restore us again ♪
1543 01:19:58,576 01:20:01,622 ♪ Forgive me ♪ ♪ Forgive me ♪
1544 01:20:01,709 01:20:04,451 ♪ Release me ♪ ♪ Release me ♪
1545 01:20:04,538 01:20:09,152 ♪ Redeem us ♪ ♪ Redeem us ♪
1546 01:20:10,240 01:20:12,285 ♪ Restore us again ♪ ♪ Restore us again ♪
1547 01:20:12,372 01:20:14,592 ♪ Restore us ♪ ♪ Restore us ♪
1548 01:20:25,733 01:20:30,390 ♪ Restore us again ♪ ♪ Restore us again ♪
1549 01:20:31,261 01:20:32,871 ♪ Come heal me ♪ ♪ Come heal me ♪
1550 01:20:32,958 01:20:36,657 ♪ Restore us again ♪ ♪ Restore us again ♪
1551 01:20:36,744 01:20:41,445 ♪ You've done it again ♪ ♪ You've done it again ♪
1552 01:20:43,055 01:20:48,017 ♪ Oh Jesus ♪ ♪ Oh Jesus ♪
1553 01:20:50,106 01:20:55,024 ♪ Restore ♪ ♪ Restore ♪
1554 01:20:56,242 01:20:58,331 ♪ Ooh yeah, yeah ♪ ♪ Ooh yeah, yeah ♪
1555 01:20:58,418 01:21:03,119 ♪ I'm restored ♪ ♪ I'm restored ♪
1556 01:21:03,206 01:21:04,685 ♪ Yes I am ♪ ♪ Yes I am ♪
1557 01:21:04,772 01:21:07,471 ♪ I'm restored ♪ ♪ I'm restored ♪
1558 01:21:07,558 01:21:11,301 ♪ Yeah, yeah ♪ ♪ Yeah, yeah ♪
1559 01:21:11,388 01:21:14,521 ♪ I'm restored ♪ ♪ I'm restored ♪
1560 01:21:14,608 01:21:18,961 ♪ I'm finally put together again ♪ ♪ I'm finally put together again ♪
1561 01:21:20,092 01:21:24,749 ♪ I've been changed ♪ ♪ I've been changed ♪
1562 01:21:24,836 01:21:29,797 ♪ I'm restored ♪ ♪ I'm restored ♪
1563 01:21:30,929 01:21:33,540 ♪ I'm restored ♪ ♪ I'm restored ♪
1564 01:21:33,627 01:21:38,284 ♪ I am a new man now I can walk again ♪ ♪ I am a new man now I can walk again ♪
1565 01:21:39,372 01:21:44,160 ♪ Oh ♪ ♪ Oh ♪
1566 01:21:44,247 01:21:49,165 ♪ I'm restored ♪ ♪ I'm restored ♪
1567 01:21:50,949 01:21:56,172 ♪ I'm restored ♪ ♪ I'm restored ♪
1568 01:21:56,259 01:21:58,087 ♪ I'm standing before you as a new me ♪ ♪ I'm standing before you as a new me ♪
1569 01:21:58,174 01:22:03,005 ♪ I'm restored ♪ ♪ I'm restored ♪
1570 01:22:04,006 01:22:09,185 ♪ I'm restored ♪ ♪ I'm restored ♪
1571 01:22:11,056 01:22:13,493 ♪ I'm restored ♪ ♪ I'm restored ♪
1572 01:22:35,341 01:22:37,909 ♪ All I can say is thank you Jesus ♪ ♪ All I can say is thank you Jesus ♪
1573 01:22:37,996 01:22:42,392 ♪ I'm restored ♪ ♪ I'm restored ♪
1574 01:22:42,479 01:22:44,133 ♪ Yes I am ♪ ♪ Yes I am ♪
1575 01:22:44,220 01:22:49,138 ♪ I'm restored ♪ ♪ I'm restored ♪
1576 01:22:50,443 01:22:55,666 ♪ I'm restored ♪ ♪ I'm restored ♪
1577 01:22:57,146 01:22:59,844 ♪ I'm restored ♪ ♪ I'm restored ♪