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4 00:00:26,276 00:00:27,736 [sigh] [sigh]
5 00:00:27,736 00:00:30,029 [Jan] Is that still us? [Jan] Is that still us?
6 00:00:31,072 00:00:33,032 [Steve] No, you know why? [Steve] No, you know why?
7 00:00:33,032 00:00:34,451 Surprise me. Surprise me.
8 00:00:42,000 00:00:44,919 Because my wife is even more beautiful than she Because my wife is even more beautiful than she
9 00:00:44,919 00:00:46,546 was the day I met her. was the day I met her.
10 00:00:48,631 00:00:50,967 And you are still crazy. And you are still crazy.
11 00:00:50,967 00:00:54,053 [laughs] Maybe, but that doesn't mean I'm not right. [laughs] Maybe, but that doesn't mean I'm not right.
12 00:00:59,768 00:01:01,603 You ready to see the world? You ready to see the world?
13 00:01:02,937 00:01:05,315 I thought I was looking at it. I thought I was looking at it.
14 00:01:19,120 00:01:21,331 Sure you want to do this? Sure you want to do this?
15 00:01:21,873 00:01:23,833 Plenty of other ways to spend our retirement. Plenty of other ways to spend our retirement.
16 00:01:23,833 00:01:26,002 No, of course I'm sure. No, of course I'm sure.
17 00:01:26,002 00:01:29,589 I mean, it's not practical. We have no plan. I mean, it's not practical. We have no plan.
18 00:01:29,839 00:01:32,217 I don't even know where I'm going. I don't even know where I'm going.
19 00:01:32,634 00:01:34,302 That's not us. That's not us.
20 00:01:34,302 00:01:37,597 Well, we can just have fun. Well, we can just have fun.
21 00:01:37,597 00:01:39,265 Remember fun? Remember fun?
22 00:01:41,434 00:01:42,727 I might. I might.
23 00:01:44,604 00:01:46,272 What do you want to do? What do you want to do?
24 00:01:49,442 00:01:50,485 I don't know. I don't know.
25 00:01:50,485 00:01:52,821 I guess we could do whatever we want. I guess we could do whatever we want.
26 00:01:52,821 00:01:54,489 [screeching tires, crash] [screeching tires, crash]
27 00:01:57,909 00:02:02,080 [mournful music] [mournful music]
28 00:03:39,093 00:03:41,596 [upbeat music] [upbeat music]
29 00:04:11,084 00:04:12,585 [Steve] Hi. [Steve] Hi.
30 00:04:13,878 00:04:14,963 You're new here? You're new here?
31 00:04:14,963 00:04:16,839 I'm new here too. I'm new here too.
32 00:04:16,839 00:04:18,424 [Jan] Do you want potatoes? [Jan] Do you want potatoes?
33 00:04:19,092 00:04:21,469 Yes yes. I definitely want potatoes. Yes yes. I definitely want potatoes.
34 00:04:22,470 00:04:24,222 You should keep moving. You should keep moving.
35 00:04:24,222 00:04:26,391 [Robbie] Hey, move it along. [Robbie] Hey, move it along.
36 00:04:26,891 00:04:29,894 [Airman] You wanna hear the story or what, Steve? [Airman] You wanna hear the story or what, Steve?
37 00:04:33,773 00:04:36,275 I'll- I'll see you tomorrow. I'll- I'll see you tomorrow.
38 00:04:39,612 00:04:41,948 [Julie] Why were you so mean to him? [Julie] Why were you so mean to him?
39 00:04:46,119 00:04:49,455
40 00:04:51,207 00:04:53,293 [Terri] I'm in the reception room. [Terri] I'm in the reception room.
41 00:04:55,253 00:04:57,005 Jan Hurst. Jan Hurst.
42 00:05:00,299 00:05:01,968 Okay. I found her. Okay. I found her.
43 00:05:01,968 00:05:03,428 I'll call you back. I'll call you back.
44 00:05:03,970 00:05:05,304 Mom. Mom.
45 00:05:07,140 00:05:08,641 Oohh! Oohh!
46 00:05:10,310 00:05:12,311 Are you alright? Are you alright?
47 00:05:13,062 00:05:14,647 I'm fine. I'm fine.
48 00:05:33,166 00:05:35,334 What's going on with dad? What's going on with dad?
49 00:05:36,169 00:05:37,754 It's not good. It's not good.
50 00:05:40,673 00:05:42,633 Is he alive? Is he alive?
51 00:05:43,092 00:05:44,844 Yeah. Yeah.
52 00:05:45,470 00:05:47,764 But he's in really bad shape. But he's in really bad shape.
53 00:05:48,806 00:05:51,684 They're gonna tell me more after he gets out of surgery. They're gonna tell me more after he gets out of surgery.
54 00:05:52,351 00:05:53,728 Okay. Okay.
55 00:06:00,318 00:06:01,861 [Michele] Hey mom. [Michele] Hey mom.
56 00:06:06,532 00:06:09,368 Hey I- I talked to the EMTs. Hey I- I talked to the EMTs.
57 00:06:09,368 00:06:11,662 You were extremely lucky. You were extremely lucky.
58 00:06:11,662 00:06:14,082 You know that. It could've been much worse. You know that. It could've been much worse.
59 00:06:15,083 00:06:17,376 That's not luck, sweetheart. That's not luck, sweetheart.
60 00:06:18,920 00:06:19,879 Okay. Okay.
61 00:06:20,797 00:06:23,674 Did they happen to give you the name of dad's surgeon. Did they happen to give you the name of dad's surgeon.
62 00:06:23,674 00:06:28,054 Oh you know I- with everything, and it happened so fast, Oh you know I- with everything, and it happened so fast,
63 00:06:28,054 00:06:30,431 I don't think I got that. I don't think I got that.
64 00:06:30,431 00:06:31,849 You know, they just rushed him into surgery. You know, they just rushed him into surgery.
65 00:06:31,849 00:06:34,519 It's fine, It's fine. I can find out. It's fine, It's fine. I can find out.
66 00:06:35,311 00:06:38,689 Did they give you any like, discharge papers. Did they give you any like, discharge papers.
67 00:06:38,689 00:06:40,233 Or did they give you any paperwork? Or did they give you any paperwork?
68 00:06:40,233 00:06:41,943 -Mh-mm. -Okay. -Mh-mm. -Okay.
69 00:06:44,237 00:06:45,071 Yep. Yep.
70 00:06:45,071 00:06:46,906 Good. That's what I need. Good. That's what I need.
71 00:06:47,824 00:06:50,785 Okay. I'm gonna go make sure they take care of dad. Okay. I'm gonna go make sure they take care of dad.
72 00:06:50,785 00:06:51,661 Hang on. Hang on.
73 00:06:51,661 00:06:54,664 Sweetie. This isn't your hospital. Sweetie. This isn't your hospital.
74 00:06:54,664 00:06:56,290 I'm sure the doctors know what they're doing. I'm sure the doctors know what they're doing.
75 00:06:56,290 00:06:59,502 Mom, the problem is that because I work in a hospital, Mom, the problem is that because I work in a hospital,
76 00:06:59,502 00:07:03,172 unfortunately I know that some doctors don't know what they're unfortunately I know that some doctors don't know what they're
77 00:07:03,172 00:07:05,716 doing, so I'm just gonna go talk to them. doing, so I'm just gonna go talk to them.
78 00:07:05,716 00:07:07,760 That's all, just get some information. That's all, just get some information.
79 00:07:07,760 00:07:11,055 I will be nice and I will be right back. I will be nice and I will be right back.
80 00:07:11,055 00:07:12,140 It's okay. It's okay.
81 00:07:15,810 00:07:19,564 She's probably gonna push the surgeon out and do it herself. She's probably gonna push the surgeon out and do it herself.
82 00:07:21,274 00:07:23,776 She would. She would do that. She would. She would do that.
83 00:07:23,776 00:07:25,111 Yes she would. Yes she would.
84 00:07:27,196 00:07:28,906 She'd do it well. She'd do it well.
85 00:07:34,078 00:07:36,539 I just want to see dad. I just want to see dad.
86 00:07:37,957 00:07:39,917 Me too, sweetheart. Me too, sweetheart.
87 00:07:42,128 00:07:45,506
88 00:08:05,234 00:08:06,736 [Steve] Hi. [Steve] Hi.
89 00:08:06,736 00:08:07,612 Corn? Corn?
90 00:08:09,322 00:08:11,490 I like your hair. I like your hair.
91 00:08:12,116 00:08:13,618 Very funny. Very funny.
92 00:08:13,618 00:08:15,995 I can just tell you have nice hair. I can just tell you have nice hair.
93 00:08:16,495 00:08:17,580 [Steve chuckles] [Steve chuckles]
94 00:08:17,580 00:08:19,624 [Robbie] Move on up, man. [Robbie] Move on up, man.
95 00:08:19,624 00:08:20,875 She's not buying it. She's not buying it.
96 00:08:22,210 00:08:23,878 I don't date GIs. I don't date GIs.
97 00:08:23,878 00:08:24,754 Yet. Yet.
98 00:08:24,754 00:08:25,421 Ever. Ever.
99 00:08:25,421 00:08:26,172 Until. Until.
100 00:08:26,172 00:08:27,131 It's not gonna happen. It's not gonna happen.
101 00:08:27,131 00:08:28,507 You say that now. You say that now.
102 00:08:28,507 00:08:31,177 Do you want the corn or not. Do you want the corn or not.
103 00:08:32,345 00:08:33,429 Yes. Yes.
104 00:08:33,429 00:08:34,972 Yes I do. Yes I do.
105 00:08:45,191 00:08:46,651 [giggles] What? [giggles] What?
106 00:08:46,651 00:08:49,195 Oh, he wants a hair net. Oh, he wants a hair net.
107 00:08:59,205 00:09:00,873 [Julie] We're breaking for lunch. [Julie] We're breaking for lunch.
108 00:09:05,378 00:09:08,047 So I'm going out with that guy Robbie on Friday. So I'm going out with that guy Robbie on Friday.
109 00:09:08,297 00:09:10,049 The tall one? The air man? The tall one? The air man?
110 00:09:10,049 00:09:11,300 Yes. Yes.
111 00:09:11,550 00:09:13,552 Speaking of airmen. Speaking of airmen.
112 00:09:13,552 00:09:14,971 Don't start with that. Don't start with that.
113 00:09:14,971 00:09:17,181 He's so cute, and Robbie knows him. He's so cute, and Robbie knows him.
114 00:09:17,181 00:09:18,557 He says he's a good guy. He says he's a good guy.
115 00:09:18,557 00:09:21,060 Seriously, what's your problem. Seriously, what's your problem.
116 00:09:21,060 00:09:23,229 My father won't approve. My father won't approve.
117 00:09:23,229 00:09:25,273 I'm not asking you to marry him. I'm not asking you to marry him.
118 00:09:25,273 00:09:26,941 Do you think he's cute. Do you think he's cute.
119 00:09:27,483 00:09:29,026 I think he's trouble. I think he's trouble.
120 00:09:29,026 00:09:30,152 Yes or no. Yes or no.
121 00:09:30,987 00:09:35,574 Some people might say he's handsome in the right light Some people might say he's handsome in the right light
122 00:09:35,574 00:09:37,201 when he's in uniform. when he's in uniform.
123 00:09:37,201 00:09:38,452 So you do think he's cute. So you do think he's cute.
124 00:09:38,452 00:09:41,998 Okay, fine yes, I think he's somewhat cute, Okay? Okay, fine yes, I think he's somewhat cute, Okay?
125 00:09:41,998 00:09:44,333 So then your father doesn't have to know. So then your father doesn't have to know.
126 00:09:44,333 00:09:45,418 You don't get it. You don't get it.
127 00:09:45,418 00:09:46,961 He said if he catches me dating a GI, He said if he catches me dating a GI,
128 00:09:46,961 00:09:49,588 he'll send me to live with my grandma in Nebraska. he'll send me to live with my grandma in Nebraska.
129 00:09:50,840 00:09:53,926 Well, do you want to go to Nebraska? Well, do you want to go to Nebraska?
130 00:09:54,427 00:09:55,469 No. No.
131 00:09:55,469 00:09:57,722 Then I guess we'll have to keep it a secret. Then I guess we'll have to keep it a secret.
132 00:09:57,722 00:10:00,641 I guess I can always meet another boy. I guess I can always meet another boy.
133 00:10:15,197 00:10:16,615 [Jim] Hey. [Jim] Hey.
134 00:10:17,241 00:10:18,284 Hi. Hi.
135 00:10:18,617 00:10:20,578 How was your shift today? How was your shift today?
136 00:10:21,120 00:10:22,621 It was fine. It was fine.
137 00:10:23,122 00:10:23,831 Fine. Fine.
138 00:10:24,123 00:10:26,000 [chuckles] Is that the age we're at now? [chuckles] Is that the age we're at now?
139 00:10:26,000 00:10:29,545 I ask you how your day is and all I get back is 'fine'. I ask you how your day is and all I get back is 'fine'.
140 00:10:29,545 00:10:31,797 The other dads tell me about it, I was hoping my girl The other dads tell me about it, I was hoping my girl
141 00:10:31,797 00:10:33,758 might treat me a little differently. might treat me a little differently.
142 00:10:33,758 00:10:35,634 It's just a regular day. It's just a regular day.
143 00:10:36,969 00:10:38,346 Hungry people. Hungry people.
144 00:10:38,346 00:10:39,639 Food. Food.
145 00:10:40,431 00:10:41,515 Just a job. Just a job.
146 00:10:41,807 00:10:44,268 Well, if you're doing it, I want to hear about it. Well, if you're doing it, I want to hear about it.
147 00:10:46,062 00:10:47,396 I serve potatoes. I serve potatoes.
148 00:10:47,396 00:10:49,148 Hours of potatoes. Hours of potatoes.
149 00:10:49,148 00:10:50,900 It's crushingly boring. It's crushingly boring.
150 00:10:51,359 00:10:53,027 Still happy you asked? Still happy you asked?
151 00:10:53,027 00:10:53,986 Absolutely. Absolutely.
152 00:10:53,986 00:10:55,821 How they treating you over there? How they treating you over there?
153 00:10:56,322 00:10:57,281 Fine. Fine.
154 00:10:58,574 00:11:00,618 Just been a couple months. Just been a couple months.
155 00:11:01,827 00:11:04,789 Any of the GIs getting too friendly with you? Any of the GIs getting too friendly with you?
156 00:11:06,165 00:11:07,541 Nothing I can't handle. Nothing I can't handle.
157 00:11:07,541 00:11:09,126 Oh, so they are? Oh, so they are?
158 00:11:09,126 00:11:11,337 You know how I feel about you dating. You know how I feel about you dating.
159 00:11:11,796 00:11:14,131 Who said I'm dating anyone? Who said I'm dating anyone?
160 00:11:14,131 00:11:15,091 Really? Really?
161 00:11:15,466 00:11:16,634 Really. Really.
162 00:11:17,176 00:11:20,012 Or are you just too shy to tell me about it? Or are you just too shy to tell me about it?
163 00:11:20,596 00:11:21,889 Really. Really.
164 00:11:24,517 00:11:25,726 Look. Look.
165 00:11:25,726 00:11:27,853 You're beautiful, and I know that you're gonna date. You're beautiful, and I know that you're gonna date.
166 00:11:27,853 00:11:30,898 I'm totally, totally fine with it. I'm totally, totally fine with it.
167 00:11:33,025 00:11:36,737 All I'm asking is that you don't date GIs. All I'm asking is that you don't date GIs.
168 00:11:36,737 00:11:37,697 That's all. That's all.
169 00:11:37,697 00:11:39,115 Who said I am? Who said I am?
170 00:11:40,032 00:11:41,075 Are you? Are you?
171 00:11:41,075 00:11:42,410 No. No.
172 00:11:42,410 00:11:43,702 Great. Great.
173 00:11:44,203 00:11:46,205 Mom dated you didn't she? Mom dated you didn't she?
174 00:11:46,205 00:11:49,041 Look, sweetie, I'm only saying this because I care about you. Look, sweetie, I'm only saying this because I care about you.
175 00:11:49,917 00:11:54,588 All those GIs I trained at Lachland, spending so much All those GIs I trained at Lachland, spending so much
176 00:11:54,588 00:11:57,716 time with other young men or getting yelled at by me, time with other young men or getting yelled at by me,
177 00:11:57,716 00:12:01,011 months without even seeing a woman, it's gotta change him. months without even seeing a woman, it's gotta change him.
178 00:12:01,637 00:12:03,848 They forget about their mothers and their sisters. They forget about their mothers and their sisters.
179 00:12:03,848 00:12:05,808 They forget how to treat a woman. They forget how to treat a woman.
180 00:12:05,808 00:12:07,601 They're never gonna commit. They're never gonna commit.
181 00:12:08,102 00:12:11,564 They don't know how to handle a relationship, and I know They don't know how to handle a relationship, and I know
182 00:12:11,564 00:12:13,441 that sounds harsh, but this is exactly why I that sounds harsh, but this is exactly why I
183 00:12:13,441 00:12:14,733 have to tell you. have to tell you.
184 00:12:17,153 00:12:20,281 I don't want anyone hurting my little girl. I don't want anyone hurting my little girl.
185 00:12:22,324 00:12:23,784 You understand? You understand?
186 00:12:25,494 00:12:26,412 Okay. Okay.
187 00:12:27,496 00:12:29,331 You promise? You promise?
188 00:12:29,331 00:12:30,416 Promise. Promise.
189 00:12:30,416 00:12:31,542 Promise me what. Promise me what.
190 00:12:31,542 00:12:34,211 Promise I won't date anyone in the military. Promise I won't date anyone in the military.
191 00:12:36,714 00:12:38,257 Thank you. Thank you.
192 00:12:40,968 00:12:42,094 Go on. Go on.
193 00:12:46,098 00:12:47,766
194 00:13:11,790 00:13:13,959 I heard you wanted to go out with me. I heard you wanted to go out with me.
195 00:13:19,632 00:13:21,467 Oh look at that. Oh look at that.
196 00:13:21,467 00:13:23,802 We need more baked beans. We need more baked beans.
197 00:13:27,973 00:13:29,433 I really like your hair. I really like your hair.
198 00:13:31,769 00:13:33,646 Will you go out with me? Will you go out with me?
199 00:13:33,646 00:13:35,147 Squash? Squash?
200 00:13:35,147 00:13:36,440 Sure. Sure.
201 00:13:37,274 00:13:38,359 Apple sauce? Apple sauce?
202 00:13:38,359 00:13:40,528 Can I serve you some food? Can I serve you some food?
203 00:13:40,528 00:13:41,570 No. No.
204 00:13:41,570 00:13:44,907 Okay then, I'll see you Monday. Okay then, I'll see you Monday.
205 00:14:00,005 00:14:01,674 You can see him now. You can see him now.
206 00:14:02,091 00:14:05,261 He's still sedated from surgery. He's still sedated from surgery.
207 00:14:06,053 00:14:07,179 Just ... Just ...
208 00:14:08,305 00:14:09,848 Just what? Just what?
209 00:14:10,349 00:14:11,976 Just be prepared. Just be prepared.
210 00:14:11,976 00:14:14,395 [machines beeping] [machines beeping]
211 00:14:15,729 00:14:18,148 [sobbing] [sobbing]
212 00:14:25,698 00:14:28,325 You know, it's very likely that he can hear you. You know, it's very likely that he can hear you.
213 00:14:28,867 00:14:31,579 Is he okay? What's gonna happen? Is he okay? What's gonna happen?
214 00:14:31,954 00:14:33,998 [Doctor] I'll give you a few more moments, [Doctor] I'll give you a few more moments,
215 00:14:33,998 00:14:35,874 then we should just let him rest. then we should just let him rest.
216 00:14:45,301 00:14:48,262 [sobbing] [sobbing]
217 00:14:51,473 00:14:53,267 You're gonna be okay. You're gonna be okay.
218 00:15:08,365 00:15:11,327 [upbeat music] [upbeat music]
219 00:15:14,580 00:15:16,498 Can I take you to the movies? Can I take you to the movies?
220 00:15:16,790 00:15:18,208 No. No.
221 00:15:23,756 00:15:25,341 What are you doing Monday? What are you doing Monday?
222 00:15:25,341 00:15:26,425 Washing my hair. Washing my hair.
223 00:15:30,554 00:15:31,430 Go for a walk? Go for a walk?
224 00:15:31,430 00:15:32,389 No. No.
225 00:15:33,849 00:15:34,975 Your eyes are beautiful. Your eyes are beautiful.
226 00:15:34,975 00:15:36,310 Not a chance. Not a chance.
227 00:15:38,312 00:15:38,979 Thursday? Thursday?
228 00:15:38,979 00:15:40,898 Washing my hair again. Washing my hair again.
229 00:15:42,232 00:15:42,816 Friday? Friday?
230 00:15:42,816 00:15:44,318 Doing laundry. Doing laundry.
231 00:15:50,366 00:15:51,450 Do you like me? Do you like me?
232 00:15:51,450 00:15:52,409 Nope. Nope.
233 00:15:55,454 00:15:57,289 Sunday. Sunday.
234 00:15:59,291 00:16:00,292 Maybe. Maybe.
235 00:16:00,876 00:16:03,170 Maybe is better than a no. Maybe is better than a no.
236 00:16:10,969 00:16:13,472 So where are we at post-surgery? So where are we at post-surgery?
237 00:16:13,472 00:16:16,725 Well, the medication is keeping his heart going. Well, the medication is keeping his heart going.
238 00:16:16,725 00:16:18,769 Breathing on a respirator. Breathing on a respirator.
239 00:16:19,978 00:16:22,022 I mean, his mind is still there. I mean, his mind is still there.
240 00:16:22,022 00:16:23,482 He's conscious. He's conscious.
241 00:16:24,149 00:16:31,365 But he's paralyzed, and his body's failing him everywhere. But he's paralyzed, and his body's failing him everywhere.
242 00:16:31,365 00:16:35,035 So, what happens next? So, what happens next?
243 00:16:35,661 00:16:38,205 We have some tough decisions to make We have some tough decisions to make
244 00:16:38,205 00:16:40,582 and he's only getting worse. and he's only getting worse.
245 00:16:43,502 00:16:46,130 Could you just give us a few minutes to talk Could you just give us a few minutes to talk
246 00:16:46,130 00:16:47,381 about it privately? about it privately?
247 00:16:47,381 00:16:49,466 Of course, of course. Of course, of course.
248 00:16:55,347 00:16:57,599 So he's gonna be in a wheelchair, right? So he's gonna be in a wheelchair, right?
249 00:16:58,892 00:17:00,269 Mom. Mom.
250 00:17:00,269 00:17:02,604 [Jan] I'll learn to take care of him. [Jan] I'll learn to take care of him.
251 00:17:03,230 00:17:04,773 We have a one-story house. We have a one-story house.
252 00:17:04,773 00:17:07,526 There are no stairs, we have a walk-in shower already, we can There are no stairs, we have a walk-in shower already, we can
253 00:17:07,526 00:17:10,696 make the whole place wheelchair accessible, we can put a ramp. make the whole place wheelchair accessible, we can put a ramp.
254 00:17:10,696 00:17:12,239 Thought I'd just- Thought I'd just-
255 00:17:12,239 00:17:13,532 Mom. Mom. Mom. Mom.
256 00:17:13,907 00:17:14,992 What? What?
257 00:17:14,992 00:17:18,996 I don't think you're understanding. I don't think you're understanding.
258 00:17:18,996 00:17:20,956 What am I not understanding? What am I not understanding?
259 00:17:23,041 00:17:24,877 You're scaring her. You're scaring her.
260 00:17:25,586 00:17:29,173 Okay, I just don't think that you're hearing Okay, I just don't think that you're hearing
261 00:17:29,173 00:17:32,551 maybe what's actually happening. maybe what's actually happening.
262 00:17:34,470 00:17:36,889 Dad isn't breathing on his own. Dad isn't breathing on his own.
263 00:17:38,724 00:17:41,727 His heart isn't beating on its own, Okay? His heart isn't beating on its own, Okay?
264 00:17:41,727 00:17:46,440 And so this is not just take him home and buy a wheelchair. And so this is not just take him home and buy a wheelchair.
265 00:17:46,440 00:17:49,193 This is much more serious than that. This is much more serious than that.
266 00:17:49,651 00:17:52,780 I heard what the doctor said, I was listening. I heard what the doctor said, I was listening.
267 00:17:53,238 00:17:54,948 But he could improve. But he could improve.
268 00:17:54,948 00:17:57,493 It's just not likely. It's just not likely.
269 00:17:58,660 00:18:01,497 Miracles can happen. I should be in a hospital Miracles can happen. I should be in a hospital
270 00:18:01,497 00:18:05,209 bed myself right now, I should be, and I'm not. bed myself right now, I should be, and I'm not.
271 00:18:05,209 00:18:08,712 I'm sorry, but a miracle is not going to happen. I'm sorry, but a miracle is not going to happen.
272 00:18:09,129 00:18:10,172 Okay? Okay?
273 00:18:10,172 00:18:13,217 He's just, he's not going to get better. He's just, he's not going to get better.
274 00:18:13,217 00:18:14,593 What happened to you? What happened to you?
275 00:18:14,593 00:18:19,681 I'm just- I'm just trying to be the grown-up at the table. I'm just- I'm just trying to be the grown-up at the table.
276 00:18:19,681 00:18:21,099 Okay? Okay?
277 00:18:21,099 00:18:25,395 Look, you can have hope, and you should, but all I want you to Look, you can have hope, and you should, but all I want you to
278 00:18:25,395 00:18:28,106 know is that having hope is not going to change a know is that having hope is not going to change a
279 00:18:28,106 00:18:30,609 medical diagnosis, Okay? medical diagnosis, Okay?
280 00:18:30,609 00:18:32,736 And I'd think a lawyer should understand that! And I'd think a lawyer should understand that!
281 00:18:32,736 00:18:35,989 And I would expect you to remember where we came from. And I would expect you to remember where we came from.
282 00:18:36,782 00:18:38,867 [Jan] Okay, girls. [Jan] Okay, girls.
283 00:18:43,664 00:18:44,915 Sweetie. Sweetie.
284 00:18:44,915 00:18:46,708 I know you're scared. I know you're scared.
285 00:18:46,708 00:18:48,001 It's okay. It's okay.
286 00:18:49,461 00:18:53,382 We have to place our faith in love to watch over your father. We have to place our faith in love to watch over your father.
287 00:18:56,134 00:18:57,678 You know that. You know that.
288 00:19:13,443 00:19:15,320 Where are you going, young lady? Where are you going, young lady?
289 00:19:15,320 00:19:17,322 I'm going to the movies with Julie. I'm going to the movies with Julie.
290 00:19:17,322 00:19:18,323 I told mom. I told mom.
291 00:19:18,323 00:19:19,408 Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm.
292 00:19:20,117 00:19:22,369 Alright, back before 10:00. Alright, back before 10:00.
293 00:19:23,245 00:19:24,246 I will. I will.
294 00:19:24,246 00:19:25,831 Just you and Julie, hm? Just you and Julie, hm?
295 00:19:25,831 00:19:26,623 [Jan] Yes. [Jan] Yes.
296 00:19:26,957 00:19:28,876 You don't have to interrogate her, honey. You don't have to interrogate her, honey.
297 00:19:29,251 00:19:30,502 You sure? You sure?
298 00:19:30,502 00:19:32,963 [Marion] She wouldn't lie to us. [Marion] She wouldn't lie to us.
299 00:19:34,214 00:19:36,091 I'll be back before 10:00. I'll be back before 10:00.
300 00:19:37,259 00:19:38,677 Alright. Alright.
301 00:19:40,345 00:19:41,847 [door closes] [door closes]
302 00:19:41,847 00:19:43,140 Relax. Relax.
303 00:19:46,602 00:19:48,353 What if he tries to kiss you? What if he tries to kiss you?
304 00:19:48,353 00:19:49,730 I'm not gonna let him. I'm not gonna let him.
305 00:19:49,730 00:19:52,232 Robbie kissed me on our first date. Robbie kissed me on our first date.
306 00:19:52,232 00:19:53,859 That's because you're easy. That's because you're easy.
307 00:19:55,527 00:19:58,238 I'm only doing this because you pushed me into it. I'm only doing this because you pushed me into it.
308 00:19:58,238 00:20:00,699 That's what you need to tell yourself. That's what you need to tell yourself.
309 00:20:00,699 00:20:03,535 By the end of the night I'm gonna have to pull you off him. By the end of the night I'm gonna have to pull you off him.
310 00:20:03,535 00:20:05,537 Not a chance. -[chuckling] Not a chance. -[chuckling]
311 00:20:08,165 00:20:09,875
312 00:20:10,375 00:20:11,627 Hi boys. Hi boys.
313 00:20:11,877 00:20:13,128 Hey, girls. Hey, girls.
314 00:20:27,893 00:20:29,102 Should we go? Should we go?
315 00:20:30,562 00:20:33,482 I actually don't really wanna see a movie. I actually don't really wanna see a movie.
316 00:20:33,482 00:20:35,484 I'd rather just hang and talk. I'd rather just hang and talk.
317 00:20:36,985 00:20:38,320 If that's okay. If that's okay.
318 00:20:38,779 00:20:41,907 I'd love to just sit and talk. I'd love to just sit and talk.
319 00:20:42,824 00:20:44,242 Okay then. Okay then.
320 00:20:44,242 00:20:45,661 You two coming? You two coming?
321 00:20:47,412 00:20:48,622 You go ahead. You go ahead.
322 00:20:48,622 00:20:50,874 Alright, you two have fun. Alright, you two have fun.
323 00:20:50,874 00:20:52,084 [laughs] [laughs]
324 00:20:56,004 00:20:58,173 There's a little park down this way. There's a little park down this way.
325 00:21:07,557 00:21:09,226 So. You-- So. You--
326 00:21:09,226 00:21:10,852 I'm not making out with you. I'm not making out with you.
327 00:21:12,270 00:21:14,022 Who said you were? Who said you were?
328 00:21:14,022 00:21:16,900 I know what "just sit and talk," means to boys. I know what "just sit and talk," means to boys.
329 00:21:16,900 00:21:18,610 No, not me. No, not me.
330 00:21:18,610 00:21:21,363 I just wanna get to know you. I just wanna get to know you.
331 00:21:23,991 00:21:26,118 I hope you don't get into trouble for sneaking I hope you don't get into trouble for sneaking
332 00:21:26,118 00:21:27,911 out to see me like this. out to see me like this.
333 00:21:28,286 00:21:29,705 Robbie told me. Robbie told me.
334 00:21:29,705 00:21:31,248 It'll be fine. It'll be fine.
335 00:21:33,542 00:21:34,626 Look. Look.
336 00:21:34,626 00:21:37,337 I just think you're beautiful, and cute. I just think you're beautiful, and cute.
337 00:21:37,337 00:21:39,798 And I just wanna spend time with you. And I just wanna spend time with you.
338 00:21:39,798 00:21:41,216 Is that so awful? Is that so awful?
339 00:21:42,300 00:21:43,844 No, it's not. No, it's not.
340 00:21:44,678 00:21:46,054 Good. Good.
341 00:21:47,848 00:21:52,227 It's just that my dad used to train recruits. It's just that my dad used to train recruits.
342 00:21:53,270 00:21:56,314 He told me what GIs were like. He told me what GIs were like.
343 00:21:56,815 00:21:57,983 He's not wrong. He's not wrong.
344 00:21:58,233 00:22:01,445 There are a lot of guys who don't know how to treat a lady. There are a lot of guys who don't know how to treat a lady.
345 00:22:02,696 00:22:05,907 But I'm not one of those guys. But I'm not one of those guys.
346 00:22:15,042 00:22:16,752 So, Jan. So, Jan.
347 00:22:16,752 00:22:18,336 What's your story? What's your story?
348 00:22:18,754 00:22:21,173 Unless you plan on being a career lunch lady. Unless you plan on being a career lunch lady.
349 00:22:21,173 00:22:22,632 No. No.
350 00:22:22,632 00:22:24,843 I wanna go to college. I wanna go to college.
351 00:22:24,843 00:22:26,678 I want a real career. I want a real career.
352 00:22:27,220 00:22:30,057 But my parents always say I'm just a girl. But my parents always say I'm just a girl.
353 00:22:30,682 00:22:32,726 They actually say that? They actually say that?
354 00:22:33,435 00:22:34,519 Yeah. Yeah.
355 00:22:34,519 00:22:36,104 My mom says it a lot. My mom says it a lot.
356 00:22:36,938 00:22:40,609 Well, you're not just a girl to me. Well, you're not just a girl to me.
357 00:22:44,696 00:22:48,617 My mom, we have some things we disagree on, too. My mom, we have some things we disagree on, too.
358 00:22:49,242 00:22:51,828 That's sort of why I joined the Air Force. That's sort of why I joined the Air Force.
359 00:22:51,828 00:22:53,371 To get away? To get away?
360 00:22:54,247 00:22:55,832 Maybe. Maybe.
361 00:22:56,750 00:22:58,376 Do you like it? Do you like it?
362 00:22:58,376 00:23:00,212 I do. I do.
363 00:23:00,212 00:23:01,880 It's not like back home. It's not like back home.
364 00:23:01,880 00:23:04,508 If you say you're gonna do something, you do it. If you say you're gonna do something, you do it.
365 00:23:04,508 00:23:08,261 People are responsible for their actions, no accountable. People are responsible for their actions, no accountable.
366 00:23:08,261 00:23:10,430 That's why I like it. That's why I like it.
367 00:23:11,389 00:23:13,058 You sound like my dad. You sound like my dad.
368 00:23:14,434 00:23:15,560 Sorry? Sorry?
369 00:23:15,560 00:23:17,479 That's not always a bad thing. That's not always a bad thing.
370 00:23:19,606 00:23:21,233 Oh, shoot, what time is it? Oh, shoot, what time is it?
371 00:23:21,233 00:23:22,526 Why? Why?
372 00:23:22,526 00:23:26,154 I promised my dad I'd be home early. I promised my dad I'd be home early.
373 00:23:28,406 00:23:30,075 I have a question. I have a question.
374 00:23:30,951 00:23:32,953 Please don't lie to me. Please don't lie to me.
375 00:23:33,578 00:23:34,996 Okay. Okay.
376 00:23:36,748 00:23:38,500 Do you have a girlfriend? Do you have a girlfriend?
377 00:23:38,500 00:23:39,835 What? What?
378 00:23:39,835 00:23:42,045 Where did that come from? Where did that come from?
379 00:23:42,045 00:23:44,881 Some guys think it's okay to talk to more than one girl Some guys think it's okay to talk to more than one girl
380 00:23:44,881 00:23:46,341 at a time. at a time.
381 00:23:47,425 00:23:49,386 I'm not one of those guys. I'm not one of those guys.
382 00:23:50,762 00:23:54,015 You are the only girl I wanna be talking to. You are the only girl I wanna be talking to.
383 00:23:58,937 00:24:00,730 [Robbie] Last call, Romeo. [Robbie] Last call, Romeo.
384 00:24:00,730 00:24:02,232 Robbie! Robbie!
385 00:24:02,232 00:24:03,525 [Robbie laughs] [Robbie laughs]
386 00:24:04,442 00:24:05,610 [Julie] Sorry. [Julie] Sorry.
387 00:24:05,610 00:24:07,737 We really do have to go though, Jan. We really do have to go though, Jan.
388 00:24:07,737 00:24:09,865 We're already late, my mom will be waiting up for me. We're already late, my mom will be waiting up for me.
389 00:24:09,865 00:24:11,908 [Jan] Why didn't you come get me sooner? [Jan] Why didn't you come get me sooner?
390 00:24:11,908 00:24:15,036 Robbie and I- talked- a little in the theatre after Robbie and I- talked- a little in the theatre after
391 00:24:15,036 00:24:16,580 the movie finished. the movie finished.
392 00:24:18,290 00:24:20,917 Yeah, we had a really nice- talk in there. Yeah, we had a really nice- talk in there.
393 00:24:21,835 00:24:25,005 Seems like you two were about to talk, too. Seems like you two were about to talk, too.
394 00:24:25,630 00:24:26,882 Bye. Bye.
395 00:24:27,465 00:24:29,050 Can I call you sometime? Can I call you sometime?
396 00:24:30,218 00:24:31,303 Okay. Okay.
397 00:24:31,803 00:24:33,263 [Robbie] Later, babe. [Robbie] Later, babe.
398 00:24:38,268 00:24:39,561 [Julie] Come on. [Julie] Come on.
399 00:24:40,770 00:24:43,273 Sorry man, I tried to stall her for you. Sorry man, I tried to stall her for you.
400 00:24:44,274 00:24:46,568 Jan, wait a second. Wait a second. Jan, wait a second. Wait a second.
401 00:24:51,865 00:24:53,283 [kiss] [kiss]
402 00:24:55,660 00:24:57,245 Bye. Bye.
403 00:24:57,245 00:24:58,288 Bye. Bye.
404 00:24:59,873 00:25:01,833 [giggling] [giggling]
405 00:25:01,833 00:25:02,959 Yeah! Yeah!
406 00:25:07,464 00:25:09,424 Good one. Good one.
407 00:25:09,424 00:25:10,258 Yeah. Yeah.
408 00:25:10,258 00:25:11,718 Come on. Come on.
409 00:25:12,969 00:25:15,305 Nice one, dude! You did it! Nice one, dude! You did it!
410 00:25:15,847 00:25:17,432 [Steve] Get out of here. [Steve] Get out of here.
411 00:25:25,106 00:25:27,859 [Doctor] He's awake, and responsive. [Doctor] He's awake, and responsive.
412 00:25:27,859 00:25:29,611 That's great! That's great!
413 00:25:31,821 00:25:34,199 Whoa, whoa, whoa, hey, what are you doing? No, no, no. Whoa, whoa, whoa, hey, what are you doing? No, no, no.
414 00:25:34,199 00:25:36,701 You have a strained shoulder, you have to put that back on. You have a strained shoulder, you have to put that back on.
415 00:25:36,701 00:25:39,037 I don't want your father worrying about me. I don't want your father worrying about me.
416 00:25:39,037 00:25:41,289 There's a reason they told you to wear it in the first place, There's a reason they told you to wear it in the first place,
417 00:25:41,289 00:25:43,333 I mean he's not ... Okay. I mean he's not ... Okay.
418 00:25:44,084 00:25:46,127 Come on, let's go see him. Here, I got this. Come on, let's go see him. Here, I got this.
419 00:25:56,012 00:25:57,472 Hey there. Hey there.
420 00:26:01,977 00:26:03,144 [Terri] Dad. [Terri] Dad.
421 00:26:06,898 00:26:08,316 Daddy. Daddy.
422 00:26:11,695 00:26:14,155 [Michele] Mom, he can't feel his arms. [Michele] Mom, he can't feel his arms.
423 00:26:15,240 00:26:18,952 But if you wanted to touch him on his face, But if you wanted to touch him on his face,
424 00:26:20,036 00:26:22,539 above his chin, he can feel there. above his chin, he can feel there.
425 00:26:29,337 00:26:30,505 I'm here. I'm here.
426 00:26:34,426 00:26:35,677 [Terri] You look good. [Terri] You look good.
427 00:26:36,928 00:26:39,180 Sweetheart, I love you. Sweetheart, I love you.
428 00:26:46,146 00:26:48,523 Sweetheart, I love you. Sweetheart, I love you.
429 00:26:55,947 00:26:57,490 Now who's easy? Now who's easy?
430 00:26:57,490 00:26:58,950 Stop it. Stop it.
431 00:26:58,950 00:27:00,618 I thought you weren't gonna kiss him. I thought you weren't gonna kiss him.
432 00:27:00,618 00:27:02,787 He's not like the others. He's not like the others.
433 00:27:02,787 00:27:04,789 Why, because he told you so? Why, because he told you so?
434 00:27:04,789 00:27:06,958 It's not that he told me, It's not that he told me,
435 00:27:06,958 00:27:09,544 it's how he looked at me when he said it. it's how he looked at me when he said it.
436 00:27:10,837 00:27:13,006 I don't know, I can't explain it. I don't know, I can't explain it.
437 00:27:13,757 00:27:18,720 Something about the way he looks at me, I understand him. Something about the way he looks at me, I understand him.
438 00:27:21,056 00:27:23,391 I think you're gonna see him again. I think you're gonna see him again.
439 00:27:23,975 00:27:25,643 I might. I might.
440 00:27:36,488 00:27:39,032 We had a really good time at the movies. We had a really good time at the movies.
441 00:27:39,032 00:27:40,992 We got ice cream after. We got ice cream after.
442 00:27:40,992 00:27:42,702 Well it's almost 11:00. Well it's almost 11:00.
443 00:27:42,702 00:27:44,662 It was really good ice cream. It was really good ice cream.
444 00:27:44,662 00:27:46,081 Really good. Really good.
445 00:27:46,414 00:27:47,499 Okay. Okay.
446 00:27:47,499 00:27:49,042 Good night. Good night.
447 00:27:52,670 00:27:55,423 I looked like that after our first date. I looked like that after our first date.
448 00:27:55,423 00:27:56,508 Yeah. Yeah.
449 00:27:56,841 00:27:58,885 That's what worries me. That's what worries me.
450 00:27:59,260 00:28:00,845 [laughs] [laughs]
451 00:28:01,930 00:28:03,640 Relax. Relax.
452 00:28:11,314 00:28:12,816 Delicious. Delicious.
453 00:28:13,149 00:28:14,359 Thank you, darling. Thank you, darling.
454 00:28:16,027 00:28:19,406 I wanna have a friend come eat with us sometime. I wanna have a friend come eat with us sometime.
455 00:28:20,156 00:28:21,199 Of course. Of course.
456 00:28:21,199 00:28:22,409 Which friend? Which friend?
457 00:28:23,368 00:28:25,286 He's a college student. He's a college student.
458 00:28:26,913 00:28:29,457 A college student you're dating? A college student you're dating?
459 00:28:29,457 00:28:30,417 No. No.
460 00:28:30,417 00:28:32,710 No, he's just a good friend. No, he's just a good friend.
461 00:28:34,546 00:28:35,588 Right. Right.
462 00:28:35,839 00:28:38,466 We think it's great you want your friends to come meet us We think it's great you want your friends to come meet us
463 00:28:38,466 00:28:41,094 honey, he's welcome anytime. honey, he's welcome anytime.
464 00:28:43,555 00:28:44,848 Great. Great.
465 00:28:47,142 00:28:48,184 Great. Great.
466 00:28:51,896 00:28:55,275 Thank you Lord for these gifts we are about to receive Thank you Lord for these gifts we are about to receive
467 00:28:55,275 00:28:56,443 from your bounty. from your bounty.
468 00:28:56,443 00:28:58,987 In Jesus' name, amen. In Jesus' name, amen.
469 00:28:58,987 00:29:00,363 [Marion] Amen. [Jim] Amen. [Marion] Amen. [Jim] Amen.
470 00:29:00,363 00:29:01,448 Amen. Amen.
471 00:29:02,574 00:29:04,909 [Jim] Alright, Steve. [Jim] Alright, Steve.
472 00:29:05,743 00:29:08,455 Couldn't help but notice your haircut. Couldn't help but notice your haircut.
473 00:29:09,247 00:29:10,540 High and tight. High and tight.
474 00:29:10,874 00:29:12,333 I like keeping it short. I like keeping it short.
475 00:29:13,585 00:29:14,836 Right. Right.
476 00:29:17,589 00:29:20,091 So, Steve, where are you from? So, Steve, where are you from?
477 00:29:20,383 00:29:21,468 Los Angeles. Los Angeles.
478 00:29:21,468 00:29:23,386 Oh, we know lots of people there. Oh, we know lots of people there.
479 00:29:23,386 00:29:24,804 Where did you live? Where did you live?
480 00:29:25,346 00:29:26,389 Brentwood. Brentwood.
481 00:29:26,764 00:29:28,641 Mm-hmm. You a rich kid? Mm-hmm. You a rich kid?
482 00:29:28,641 00:29:30,518 [Steve] No, uhm, [Steve] No, uhm,
483 00:29:30,935 00:29:33,104 everything there was my dad's, not mine. everything there was my dad's, not mine.
484 00:29:33,938 00:29:35,982 It's all gone now anyway. It's all gone now anyway.
485 00:29:36,274 00:29:38,776 What, he blow it all? What, he blow it all?
486 00:29:39,611 00:29:41,154 It's a long story. It's a long story.
487 00:29:42,864 00:29:44,532 What about you? What about you?
488 00:29:44,532 00:29:46,034 You have a job? You have a job?
489 00:29:46,034 00:29:47,285 Uhh-- Uhh--
490 00:29:47,285 00:29:48,661 He's a college student. He's a college student.
491 00:29:48,661 00:29:50,246 I told you that. I told you that.
492 00:29:50,246 00:29:51,456 Yes you did. Yes you did.
493 00:29:52,499 00:29:54,626 And how did you two meet? And how did you two meet?
494 00:29:54,626 00:29:55,668 [Steve] Well, we-- [Steve] Well, we--
495 00:29:55,668 00:29:57,629 He hangs out at the ice cream parlour. He hangs out at the ice cream parlour.
496 00:29:58,296 00:30:00,173 [Jim] Well, Steve, I guess you can go home. [Jim] Well, Steve, I guess you can go home.
497 00:30:00,173 00:30:02,800 Seems like Jan has all the answers for you. Seems like Jan has all the answers for you.
498 00:30:03,968 00:30:05,470 She's a good listener. She's a good listener.
499 00:30:09,641 00:30:11,768 Steve might tutor me in math. Steve might tutor me in math.
500 00:30:12,769 00:30:14,479 Why would he do that? Why would he do that?
501 00:30:14,479 00:30:16,564 So I can be ready for college math. So I can be ready for college math.
502 00:30:16,564 00:30:17,982 Oh, honey. Oh, honey.
503 00:30:17,982 00:30:20,151 Secretaries don't need math. Secretaries don't need math.
504 00:30:20,944 00:30:24,489 Well maybe I don't wanna be just a secretary. Well maybe I don't wanna be just a secretary.
505 00:30:25,323 00:30:26,449 I see. I see.
506 00:30:27,283 00:30:29,994 So your mommy's job isn't good enough for you, So your mommy's job isn't good enough for you,
507 00:30:29,994 00:30:31,579 is that what you're saying? is that what you're saying?
508 00:30:31,955 00:30:32,997 Never mind. Never mind.
509 00:30:32,997 00:30:35,291 This pot roast is excellent, Mrs. Nichols. This pot roast is excellent, Mrs. Nichols.
510 00:30:37,669 00:30:39,337 Thank you Steve. Thank you Steve.
511 00:30:39,337 00:30:40,505 You're welcome. You're welcome.
512 00:30:50,557 00:30:52,016 [Steve] Thank you so much. [Steve] Thank you so much.
513 00:30:52,016 00:30:53,434 I'd be happy to clean up. I'd be happy to clean up.
514 00:30:53,434 00:30:54,644 Oh, don't be silly. Oh, don't be silly.
515 00:30:54,644 00:30:56,563 No, that's very kind of him. No, that's very kind of him.
516 00:30:56,563 00:30:57,438 Go on, then. Go on, then.
517 00:30:57,438 00:30:58,481 Jim! Jim!
518 00:30:58,481 00:30:59,524 The boy just got a free meal The boy just got a free meal
519 00:30:59,524 00:31:01,150 the least he could do is the dishes. the least he could do is the dishes.
520 00:31:02,443 00:31:03,820 [Steve] I'd be happy to. [Steve] I'd be happy to.
521 00:31:04,153 00:31:06,030 [Jim] Hop on it son. Here you go. [Jim] Hop on it son. Here you go.
522 00:31:08,408 00:31:11,995 Hey, while you're at it, you wanna give her a fill up there? Hey, while you're at it, you wanna give her a fill up there?
523 00:31:12,537 00:31:13,371 Dad. Dad.
524 00:31:14,539 00:31:15,456 Sure. Sure.
525 00:31:15,456 00:31:16,541 Thank you. Thank you.
526 00:31:20,878 00:31:22,213 Too much. Too much.
527 00:31:27,552 00:31:29,637 He seemed in good spirits today. He seemed in good spirits today.
528 00:31:29,637 00:31:33,933 That's great, but unfortunately medically, he's not improving. That's great, but unfortunately medically, he's not improving.
529 00:31:35,727 00:31:37,895 Does Steve have a living will? Does Steve have a living will?
530 00:31:40,398 00:31:43,234 Why do they call it living when it's only about dying? Why do they call it living when it's only about dying?
531 00:31:43,234 00:31:44,569 [Doctor] But does he have one? [Doctor] But does he have one?
532 00:31:44,569 00:31:45,570 [Jan] Yeah. [Jan] Yeah.
533 00:31:45,570 00:31:47,280 Who has power of attorney? Who has power of attorney?
534 00:31:47,905 00:31:49,365 [Jan] I do. [Jan] I do.
535 00:31:49,741 00:31:51,909 What would he want you to do? What would he want you to do?
536 00:31:52,702 00:31:56,914 He'd wanna be given every chance to live. He'd wanna be given every chance to live.
537 00:31:58,625 00:32:00,835 To be here for his girls. To be here for his girls.
538 00:32:00,835 00:32:04,380 He can react to us, I mean that has to mean something, He can react to us, I mean that has to mean something,
539 00:32:04,380 00:32:05,590 surely, doesn't it? surely, doesn't it?
540 00:32:05,590 00:32:07,342 Unfortunately it doesn't. Unfortunately it doesn't.
541 00:32:07,717 00:32:10,720 But what if there is any chance? But what if there is any chance?
542 00:32:10,720 00:32:12,221 And if there's not? And if there's not?
543 00:32:14,766 00:32:18,519 The hospital would recommend moving him to hospice. The hospital would recommend moving him to hospice.
544 00:32:18,811 00:32:20,063 Why do we have to move him? Why do we have to move him?
545 00:32:20,063 00:32:21,981 He's been through enough already, hasn't he? He's been through enough already, hasn't he?
546 00:32:22,565 00:32:24,692 Ma'am, hospice is for-- Ma'am, hospice is for--
547 00:32:24,692 00:32:25,818 I know. I know. I know. I know.
548 00:32:25,818 00:32:27,195 I know what hospice is. I know what hospice is.
549 00:32:27,195 00:32:29,364 My husband is not a piece of furniture. My husband is not a piece of furniture.
550 00:32:29,364 00:32:30,281 Of course not. Of course not.
551 00:32:30,615 00:32:32,659 [Jan] I feel like you just want me to kill him-- [Jan] I feel like you just want me to kill him--
552 00:32:32,659 00:32:33,868 No, mom, no. No, mom, no.
553 00:32:33,868 00:32:35,495 [Jan] Like you want me to shut off the machines [Jan] Like you want me to shut off the machines
554 00:32:35,495 00:32:36,162 and the medicine. and the medicine.
555 00:32:36,162 00:32:36,537 Mom. Mom.
556 00:32:37,372 00:32:38,498 We don't want you to do anything you don't want to. We don't want you to do anything you don't want to.
557 00:32:38,998 00:32:41,459 But the fact of the matter is no matter how well we take care of But the fact of the matter is no matter how well we take care of
558 00:32:41,459 00:32:45,254 him, he'll never be able to function on his own. him, he'll never be able to function on his own.
559 00:32:46,047 00:32:48,132 He hates hospitals. He hates hospitals.
560 00:32:48,800 00:32:50,468 He always has. He always has.
561 00:32:52,136 00:32:54,972 We don't have to discuss this now, We don't have to discuss this now,
562 00:32:54,972 00:32:57,266 but we do have to make a decision. but we do have to make a decision.
563 00:32:57,266 00:32:58,685 [Jan] You can talk to me doctor. [Jan] You can talk to me doctor.
564 00:32:58,685 00:33:01,688 As I said, I have power of attorney, and I will decide As I said, I have power of attorney, and I will decide
565 00:33:01,688 00:33:03,439 what happens to my husband. what happens to my husband.
566 00:33:03,439 00:33:04,482 Of course. Of course.
567 00:33:05,525 00:33:07,318 I think we need to be alone. I think we need to be alone.
568 00:33:07,777 00:33:10,655 You know about a year ago, I lost my wife. You know about a year ago, I lost my wife.
569 00:33:12,240 00:33:16,452 And I didn't listen when the hospital recommended hospice. And I didn't listen when the hospital recommended hospice.
570 00:33:17,495 00:33:22,834 But if I could do it all over again, I know what I would do. But if I could do it all over again, I know what I would do.
571 00:33:29,006 00:33:32,051 Look, we can explore a lot of different options on Look, we can explore a lot of different options on
572 00:33:32,051 00:33:34,095 how to do this transition. how to do this transition.
573 00:33:34,095 00:33:37,140 I think maybe you were right, sweetheart. I think maybe you were right, sweetheart.
574 00:33:39,016 00:33:41,102 I've been fooling myself. I've been fooling myself.
575 00:33:41,102 00:33:43,438 No one is helping us on this one. No one is helping us on this one.
576 00:33:44,814 00:33:47,024 Good job, Michele. Good job, Michele.
577 00:33:48,359 00:33:50,319 Well- I- Mom. Well- I- Mom.
578 00:33:50,945 00:33:53,698 Hey, I didn't mean to- Hey, I didn't mean to-
579 00:33:54,741 00:33:56,159 I'm sorry. I'm sorry.
580 00:34:01,164 00:34:02,749 [Jan] So if you get stationed somewhere, [Jan] So if you get stationed somewhere,
581 00:34:02,749 00:34:03,958 where do you want to go? where do you want to go?
582 00:34:03,958 00:34:06,002 I haven't really given it that much thought. I haven't really given it that much thought.
583 00:34:06,002 00:34:08,504 I don't get much say in it as well. I don't get much say in it as well.
584 00:34:09,255 00:34:11,549 But if you could decide, where would you want to go? But if you could decide, where would you want to go?
585 00:34:13,050 00:34:16,471 Somewhere really cold. Somewhere really cold.
586 00:34:16,929 00:34:18,723 What? Why? What? Why?
587 00:34:19,182 00:34:21,809 I don't know. You know, everyone wants to go to Hawaii I don't know. You know, everyone wants to go to Hawaii
588 00:34:21,809 00:34:25,062 or the Caribbean or somewhere like that. or the Caribbean or somewhere like that.
589 00:34:25,396 00:34:27,523 You know, too many people want to go there. You know, too many people want to go there.
590 00:34:28,065 00:34:30,193 It's not special anymore. It's not special anymore.
591 00:34:30,193 00:34:31,944 So where do you want to go then? So where do you want to go then?
592 00:34:31,944 00:34:33,738 Like, Alaska? Like, Alaska?
593 00:34:36,491 00:34:38,576 Do I have to go alone? Do I have to go alone?
594 00:34:38,576 00:34:39,660 Maybe. Maybe.
595 00:34:40,536 00:34:45,041 Oh if I have to go alone, that's another story. Oh if I have to go alone, that's another story.
596 00:34:45,041 00:34:46,918 If I get to take someone with me, If I get to take someone with me,
597 00:34:46,918 00:34:49,629 I'm sticking with Alaska. I'm sticking with Alaska.
598 00:34:50,171 00:34:54,258 You know we can stay in, get a big fireplace, You know we can stay in, get a big fireplace,
599 00:34:55,092 00:34:56,761 be cozy together. be cozy together.
600 00:34:56,761 00:34:59,263 Go look out the window at night, Go look out the window at night,
601 00:34:59,263 00:35:01,766 stare at the frozen ice. stare at the frozen ice.
602 00:35:02,558 00:35:05,144 And just be warm in that little house. And just be warm in that little house.
603 00:35:06,103 00:35:07,730 And no one to bother us. And no one to bother us.
604 00:35:09,607 00:35:10,441 Why? Why?
605 00:35:10,983 00:35:12,527 Do you want to go to Hawaii? Do you want to go to Hawaii?
606 00:35:12,527 00:35:15,613 I'd look cuter in a bathing suit than a parka. I'd look cuter in a bathing suit than a parka.
607 00:35:17,156 00:35:19,367 You'd look cute in anything. You'd look cute in anything.
608 00:35:25,123 00:35:26,541 I have to go. I have to go.
609 00:35:26,541 00:35:27,625 Okay. Okay.
610 00:35:30,753 00:35:32,255 Close your eyes. Close your eyes.
611 00:35:32,630 00:35:33,631 Why? Why?
612 00:35:33,965 00:35:36,092 So I could break the spell. So I could break the spell.
613 00:35:45,476 00:35:48,104 You're just gonna run off without saying goodbye? You're just gonna run off without saying goodbye?
614 00:35:50,731 00:35:52,441 -Bye. -Bye. -Bye. -Bye.
615 00:35:57,822 00:36:00,741 [Jan] He's taking one night class, [Jan] He's taking one night class,
616 00:36:00,741 00:36:02,577 so technically I'm not lying. so technically I'm not lying.
617 00:36:04,120 00:36:06,998 You don't see the way that he looks at him. You don't see the way that he looks at him.
618 00:36:06,998 00:36:08,791 It's like he hates him. It's like he hates him.
619 00:36:08,791 00:36:09,917 [Pastor Robert] But you love him. [Pastor Robert] But you love him.
620 00:36:10,501 00:36:13,838 I ... Well, we've only been dating for six months. I ... Well, we've only been dating for six months.
621 00:36:13,838 00:36:16,340 Why, did I say that I love him? Why, did I say that I love him?
622 00:36:16,757 00:36:18,175 You didn't have to. You didn't have to.
623 00:36:20,469 00:36:21,888 I just- I just-
624 00:36:22,847 00:36:24,891 I just want my father to see him. I just want my father to see him.
625 00:36:24,891 00:36:30,021 Not the way that he thinks he is, but the way that I see him. Not the way that he thinks he is, but the way that I see him.
626 00:36:32,398 00:36:35,234 How long are you willing to wait for that to happen? How long are you willing to wait for that to happen?
627 00:36:35,943 00:36:37,862 For as long as it takes. For as long as it takes.
628 00:36:40,656 00:36:41,699 Then it will. Then it will.
629 00:36:42,366 00:36:45,703 But you'll struggle, and you'll doubt it. But you'll struggle, and you'll doubt it.
630 00:36:46,704 00:36:50,166 Stay patient and eventually you'll get there. Stay patient and eventually you'll get there.
631 00:36:51,042 00:36:52,543 How do you know that? How do you know that?
632 00:36:54,045 00:36:55,338 I don't. I don't.
633 00:36:55,338 00:36:57,590 I just have faith that it will. I just have faith that it will.
634 00:37:09,810 00:37:11,103 Ehm- Mom? Ehm- Mom?
635 00:37:11,103 00:37:12,772 Someone's here to see you. Someone's here to see you.
636 00:37:20,738 00:37:23,866 [Pastor Robert]Well I guess I'll just go back to California then. [Pastor Robert]Well I guess I'll just go back to California then.
637 00:37:25,117 00:37:26,410 Who told you? Who told you?
638 00:37:26,410 00:37:27,578 Your daughter. Your daughter.
639 00:37:27,578 00:37:28,829 [Jan] Terri? [Jan] Terri?
640 00:37:28,829 00:37:29,830 No. No.
641 00:37:30,748 00:37:32,667 [Michele] Don't give me too much credit, [Michele] Don't give me too much credit,
642 00:37:32,667 00:37:34,627 it was Terri's idea. it was Terri's idea.
643 00:37:35,461 00:37:38,255 I am sorry you travelled so far to be with us. I am sorry you travelled so far to be with us.
644 00:37:54,271 00:37:56,148 Sorry I wasted your time. Sorry I wasted your time.
645 00:37:56,565 00:37:59,110 It's not a waste for me to be here. It's not a waste for me to be here.
646 00:38:00,903 00:38:03,864 Is there any reason you chose to come in here? Is there any reason you chose to come in here?
647 00:38:07,785 00:38:10,454 Just wanted to be alone, I guess. Just wanted to be alone, I guess.
648 00:38:10,454 00:38:12,957 Oh, well, I'll leave you to it then. Oh, well, I'll leave you to it then.
649 00:38:12,957 00:38:13,916 [sighs] [sighs]
650 00:38:13,916 00:38:16,085 No, sorry. No, sorry.
651 00:38:18,087 00:38:19,297 Please stay. Please stay.
652 00:38:19,714 00:38:22,299 I got the feeling you're not spending much time in I got the feeling you're not spending much time in
653 00:38:22,299 00:38:23,759 chapels these days. chapels these days.
654 00:38:24,802 00:38:26,762 [Michele] No, I guess not. [Michele] No, I guess not.
655 00:38:27,096 00:38:31,767 I'm not preaching to you, it's just an observation. I'm not preaching to you, it's just an observation.
656 00:38:32,810 00:38:35,396 But it is a bit funny though, you called me But it is a bit funny though, you called me
657 00:38:35,396 00:38:37,064 and you coming here. and you coming here.
658 00:38:37,648 00:38:40,151 There are other places you could go to be alone. There are other places you could go to be alone.
659 00:38:41,318 00:38:43,612 It's just a coincidence I suppose. It's just a coincidence I suppose.
660 00:38:45,072 00:38:46,991 Yeah, it is. Yeah, it is.
661 00:38:47,408 00:38:50,161 You know, your mom's been talking with me You know, your mom's been talking with me
662 00:38:50,161 00:38:51,579 since she was young. since she was young.
663 00:38:51,579 00:38:54,123 I saw you when you were just a little girl. I saw you when you were just a little girl.
664 00:38:54,623 00:38:56,792 I know you were raised in church. I know you were raised in church.
665 00:38:57,043 00:39:01,213 And I also know you seem to have a mind of your own, And I also know you seem to have a mind of your own,
666 00:39:01,213 00:39:02,673 and that's a good thing. and that's a good thing.
667 00:39:04,508 00:39:05,509 Yeah? Yeah?
668 00:39:05,509 00:39:06,719 Definitely. Definitely.
669 00:39:06,719 00:39:08,346 She does, too. She does, too.
670 00:39:08,346 00:39:10,222 Always did. Always did.
671 00:39:10,222 00:39:12,266 You got that from her. You got that from her.
672 00:39:14,602 00:39:17,938 But sometimes you get preached something so much But sometimes you get preached something so much
673 00:39:17,938 00:39:22,193 it feels good to make your own decisions, and you should. it feels good to make your own decisions, and you should.
674 00:39:25,029 00:39:26,572 I have. I have.
675 00:39:26,572 00:39:30,701 And it just feels safer to shut out what you can't control. And it just feels safer to shut out what you can't control.
676 00:39:31,202 00:39:33,662 But that makes for a cold world. But that makes for a cold world.
677 00:39:34,497 00:39:37,833 And I think the world is warm, and full of love. And I think the world is warm, and full of love.
678 00:39:38,584 00:39:41,712 If we just open ourselves up to it. If we just open ourselves up to it.
679 00:39:45,966 00:39:47,301 Thanks. Thanks.
680 00:39:50,262 00:39:53,224 [Steve] Okay, well, thank you for another great meal, [Steve] Okay, well, thank you for another great meal,
681 00:39:53,224 00:39:54,183 Mrs. Nichols. Mrs. Nichols.
682 00:39:54,183 00:39:55,059 You're welcome. You're welcome.
683 00:39:55,643 00:39:58,229 And I'll see you for a tutoring session at the And I'll see you for a tutoring session at the
684 00:39:58,229 00:39:59,313 library on Thursday. library on Thursday.
685 00:40:00,022 00:40:00,898 Sir? Sir?
686 00:40:01,232 00:40:04,068 Yeah, eh, thanks for doing the dishes again Steve. Yeah, eh, thanks for doing the dishes again Steve.
687 00:40:04,068 00:40:05,152 I appreciate it. I appreciate it.
688 00:40:05,152 00:40:05,820 Pleasure. Pleasure.
689 00:40:06,070 00:40:06,779 You know while you're still here You know while you're still here
690 00:40:07,196 00:40:09,073 I could use some help out in the garage. I could use some help out in the garage.
691 00:40:09,073 00:40:10,491 No, he can't. No, he can't.
692 00:40:10,491 00:40:12,076 [Jim] I could use a pair of second, strong hands. [Jim] I could use a pair of second, strong hands.
693 00:40:12,076 00:40:14,787 Being in the military like I am, we tend to move around a lot, Being in the military like I am, we tend to move around a lot,
694 00:40:14,787 00:40:16,705 and basically I just throw everything in my truck and dump and basically I just throw everything in my truck and dump
695 00:40:16,705 00:40:17,832 it in the garage. it in the garage.
696 00:40:17,832 00:40:19,583 I could use some help sorting it out. I could use some help sorting it out.
697 00:40:19,583 00:40:21,710 [Marion] Jim. He's not your employee. [Marion] Jim. He's not your employee.
698 00:40:21,710 00:40:24,922 I'm sure Steve has his own life to get back to. I'm sure Steve has his own life to get back to.
699 00:40:24,922 00:40:28,092 I'm sure he does, but two of us working together, I'm sure he does, but two of us working together,
700 00:40:28,092 00:40:30,219 get it done in less than an hour. get it done in less than an hour.
701 00:40:30,219 00:40:32,847 Besides, I don't think Steve minds, do you Steve? Besides, I don't think Steve minds, do you Steve?
702 00:40:33,681 00:40:36,725 Okay. Sure. Yeah, of course, no problem. Okay. Sure. Yeah, of course, no problem.
703 00:40:37,351 00:40:37,810 Yeah. Yeah.
704 00:40:38,060 00:40:39,061 I'll meet you out there. I'll meet you out there.
705 00:40:39,687 00:40:40,813 Sure. Sure.
706 00:40:45,067 00:40:47,236 Don't you have some homework to do? Don't you have some homework to do?
707 00:41:03,043 00:41:05,296 [Jim] My wife's the sentimental type. [Jim] My wife's the sentimental type.
708 00:41:05,296 00:41:06,797 She likes to keep things. She likes to keep things.
709 00:41:06,797 00:41:09,008 This is all the stuff she's kept over all our moves. This is all the stuff she's kept over all our moves.
710 00:41:09,008 00:41:11,385 Looks like we've been here for 30 years. Looks like we've been here for 30 years.
711 00:41:11,385 00:41:12,803 Fact is, it's only been a couple. Fact is, it's only been a couple.
712 00:41:12,803 00:41:15,598 Yeah, I'd like to see the garage floor again. Yeah, I'd like to see the garage floor again.
713 00:41:15,598 00:41:18,475 Far as I'm concerned, you can junk all of this. Far as I'm concerned, you can junk all of this.
714 00:41:18,475 00:41:21,937 I'll get you some trash bags, you can put it all together, I'll get you some trash bags, you can put it all together,
715 00:41:21,937 00:41:24,899 take it out front, and I'll haul it off to the dump in my truck. take it out front, and I'll haul it off to the dump in my truck.
716 00:41:24,899 00:41:27,401 This is a lot of stuff. This is a lot of stuff.
717 00:41:27,401 00:41:29,153 Well you're a strong boy. Well you're a strong boy.
718 00:41:29,653 00:41:31,489 You got someplace you need to be? You got someplace you need to be?
719 00:41:32,781 00:41:36,785 Uhm- I have an early morning class. Uhm- I have an early morning class.
720 00:41:37,328 00:41:38,954 Oh. Oh.
721 00:41:38,954 00:41:41,040 Well, then you better get to it. Well, then you better get to it.
722 00:41:41,498 00:41:43,167 Mr. Smartypants. Mr. Smartypants.
723 00:42:08,442 00:42:10,819 You have roll call at 06:00. You have roll call at 06:00.
724 00:42:12,279 00:42:13,364 I know that. I know that.
725 00:42:13,364 00:42:15,908 Just leave. You don't owe him anything. Just leave. You don't owe him anything.
726 00:42:15,908 00:42:17,201 He's testing me. He's testing me.
727 00:42:17,201 00:42:20,120 He's crazy, you don't have to put up with this. He's crazy, you don't have to put up with this.
728 00:42:20,579 00:42:22,289 You're worth it. You're worth it.
729 00:42:22,289 00:42:24,500 Please, go home. Please, go home.
730 00:42:25,292 00:42:26,835 I'm not done yet. I'm not done yet.
731 00:42:27,169 00:42:27,920 [Jim] Hey! [Jim] Hey!
732 00:42:28,212 00:42:29,838 You're not properly dressed young lady. You're not properly dressed young lady.
733 00:42:29,838 00:42:32,925 And you, you better pick up the pace. And you, you better pick up the pace.
734 00:42:32,925 00:42:35,010 Sun's gonna be up soon! Sun's gonna be up soon!
735 00:42:41,600 00:42:43,060 You wanna help him? You wanna help him?
736 00:42:43,060 00:42:45,312 You put on some proper clothes. You put on some proper clothes.
737 00:42:45,312 00:42:49,275
738 00:42:57,533 00:42:59,827 I know he's just trying to break me. I know he's just trying to break me.
739 00:43:01,036 00:43:02,913 So what, I should just take it? So what, I should just take it?
740 00:43:02,913 00:43:04,248 Whatever he throws at me? Whatever he throws at me?
741 00:43:04,248 00:43:05,332 Yes. Yes.
742 00:43:05,332 00:43:09,128 It'll be painful, you'll wanna scream at him. It'll be painful, you'll wanna scream at him.
743 00:43:09,128 00:43:11,046 To stand up for yourself. To stand up for yourself.
744 00:43:11,463 00:43:14,091 But if you take it, eventually you will overcome. But if you take it, eventually you will overcome.
745 00:43:14,091 00:43:16,010 He's just trying to test you to make sure your He's just trying to test you to make sure your
746 00:43:16,010 00:43:17,553 intentions are pure. intentions are pure.
747 00:43:18,804 00:43:21,223 What do you think would happen if you lashed out at him? What do you think would happen if you lashed out at him?
748 00:43:23,976 00:43:26,186 I'd be proving him right? I'd be proving him right?
749 00:43:26,770 00:43:28,397 Exactly. Exactly.
750 00:43:31,734 00:43:34,236 This might be the end for us. This might be the end for us.
751 00:43:34,611 00:43:35,571 Today? Today?
752 00:43:36,363 00:43:37,656 Okay. Okay.
753 00:43:37,656 00:43:38,949 Well we had a good run. Well we had a good run.
754 00:43:38,949 00:43:40,242 I mean it. I mean it.
755 00:43:40,242 00:43:42,870 And why is this the end for us? And why is this the end for us?
756 00:43:43,245 00:43:45,914 I wanted to bring you here and get you a milkshake. I wanted to bring you here and get you a milkshake.
757 00:43:47,666 00:43:48,792 Right. Right.
758 00:43:48,792 00:43:51,587 But it might come as a shock to you But it might come as a shock to you
759 00:43:51,587 00:43:54,173 that I don't earn much money. that I don't earn much money.
760 00:43:54,423 00:43:55,424 No! No!
761 00:43:55,674 00:43:57,092 It's true. It's true.
762 00:43:57,092 00:43:59,261 You're probably expecting me to have you driven you around in You're probably expecting me to have you driven you around in
763 00:43:59,261 00:44:01,555 limousines and draped in gold-- limousines and draped in gold--
764 00:44:01,555 00:44:02,639 Draped in gold? Draped in gold?
765 00:44:02,639 00:44:05,434 Yeah. But reality is- Yeah. But reality is-
766 00:44:06,310 00:44:07,644 I'm kind of poor. I'm kind of poor.
767 00:44:08,604 00:44:10,481 And that's why this is the end of us? And that's why this is the end of us?
768 00:44:10,773 00:44:11,940 No. No.
769 00:44:12,691 00:44:14,360 Here, uhm- Here, uhm-
770 00:44:14,360 00:44:15,611 hold that thought. hold that thought.
771 00:44:28,457 00:44:29,541 This is why. This is why.
772 00:44:31,001 00:44:31,919 Oh. Oh.
773 00:44:32,544 00:44:34,672 I wouldn't blame you if you just walked. I wouldn't blame you if you just walked.
774 00:44:34,672 00:44:35,672 Right now. Right now.
775 00:44:36,131 00:44:38,675 Well, you've given me a tempting out. Well, you've given me a tempting out.
776 00:44:38,675 00:44:40,219 I promise I won't judge you. I promise I won't judge you.
777 00:44:40,219 00:44:42,888 So is this how it's always gonna be? So is this how it's always gonna be?
778 00:44:42,888 00:44:44,139 Probably. Probably.
779 00:44:46,350 00:44:47,309 Okay. Okay.
780 00:44:48,352 00:44:49,353 I'm out. I'm out.
781 00:44:51,438 00:44:52,481 Okay. Okay.
782 00:44:53,524 00:44:54,983 Are you sad? Are you sad?
783 00:44:55,609 00:44:56,985 Devastated. Devastated.
784 00:44:57,820 00:45:00,239 How long will it take you to find another girl? How long will it take you to find another girl?
785 00:45:01,365 00:45:02,449 Forever. Forever.
786 00:45:03,200 00:45:06,370 Oh it won't take you that long to find another girl. Oh it won't take you that long to find another girl.
787 00:45:06,370 00:45:08,122 There is no other girl. There is no other girl.
788 00:45:10,791 00:45:12,209 Well, Well,
789 00:45:12,209 00:45:15,838 maybe next time I can buy a milkshake maybe next time I can buy a milkshake
790 00:45:15,838 00:45:19,341 and maybe someday I can buy us a lot more. and maybe someday I can buy us a lot more.
791 00:45:20,384 00:45:23,178 What if I want to buy the milkshake? What if I want to buy the milkshake?
792 00:45:24,304 00:45:26,890 Are you afraid of me buying a milkshake? Are you afraid of me buying a milkshake?
793 00:45:27,307 00:45:28,976 I want to take care of you. I want to take care of you.
794 00:45:28,976 00:45:31,520 -I don't always need to be taken care of. -I don't always need to be taken care of.
795 00:45:32,896 00:45:33,856 How about- How about-
796 00:45:35,482 00:45:37,192 how about we take care of each other? how about we take care of each other?
797 00:45:39,445 00:45:40,737 Deal. Deal.
798 00:45:41,113 00:45:43,574 [Steve] Okay, it's a six. But this is a Y, it's an N, [Steve] Okay, it's a six. But this is a Y, it's an N,
799 00:45:43,574 00:45:48,245 close bracket, plus open bracket Y, plus three, equals what? close bracket, plus open bracket Y, plus three, equals what?
800 00:45:48,620 00:45:49,580 Four. Four.
801 00:45:49,580 00:45:51,623 No, you actually wrote three. No, you actually wrote three.
802 00:45:51,623 00:45:52,708 Negative four. Negative four.
803 00:45:53,250 00:45:56,336 It's a great try, but it's wrong. It's a great try, but it's wrong.
804 00:45:57,254 00:45:58,297 I don't think it's wrong. I don't think it's wrong.
805 00:45:58,297 00:46:00,340 -It's wrong. -I don't think so. -It's wrong. -I don't think so.
806 00:46:01,592 00:46:04,052 So here, ten questions right. So here, ten questions right.
807 00:46:04,678 00:46:05,679 [laughs] [laughs]
808 00:46:05,679 00:46:06,722 You got them. You got them.
809 00:46:07,347 00:46:08,432 Steve. Steve.
810 00:46:08,765 00:46:09,933 Great, you're here. Great, you're here.
811 00:46:09,933 00:46:11,727 Nice to see you, sir. Nice to see you, sir.
812 00:46:12,019 00:46:14,104 I got a serious weed problem out in the garden, I got a serious weed problem out in the garden,
813 00:46:14,104 00:46:15,481 wanna give me a hand? wanna give me a hand?
814 00:46:15,981 00:46:17,441 [Steve] Weeds? [Steve] Weeds?
815 00:46:17,441 00:46:20,110 [Jim] Out of control, like they do. [Jim] Out of control, like they do.
816 00:46:23,363 00:46:24,448 Sure. Sure.
817 00:46:50,974 00:46:52,142 Can I get some water? Can I get some water?
818 00:46:52,142 00:46:54,436 You're almost done, just push on through. You're almost done, just push on through.
819 00:46:59,817 00:47:00,651 Argh! Argh!
820 00:47:01,401 00:47:03,695 I think these gloves have holes in them. I think these gloves have holes in them.
821 00:47:03,695 00:47:05,322 It's the only ones we have. It's the only ones we have.
822 00:47:05,322 00:47:08,575 I- I- actually, there are some in the garage. I- I- actually, there are some in the garage.
823 00:47:08,575 00:47:10,244 No, I got rid of those. No, I got rid of those.
824 00:47:17,417 00:47:18,460 Aargh!! Aargh!!
825 00:47:18,835 00:47:19,670 All right. All right.
826 00:47:21,338 00:47:24,424 That's gonna hurt a whole lot worse without them. That's gonna hurt a whole lot worse without them.
827 00:47:25,008 00:47:26,843 What do I have to do? What do I have to do?
828 00:47:26,843 00:47:28,262 I don't know, what can you do? I don't know, what can you do?
829 00:47:28,262 00:47:29,846 What is your problem with me? What is your problem with me?
830 00:47:30,389 00:47:32,808 I don't know, I just don't trust you. I don't know, I just don't trust you.
831 00:47:34,393 00:47:36,061 Something not right about you. Something not right about you.
832 00:47:36,061 00:47:37,521 I don't even know what I've done. I don't even know what I've done.
833 00:47:37,521 00:47:39,815 You don't think I see the way you two look at each other? You don't think I see the way you two look at each other?
834 00:47:39,815 00:47:41,149 And would that be so bad? And would that be so bad?
835 00:47:41,149 00:47:43,026 Must be, or you two wouldn't keep telling me Must be, or you two wouldn't keep telling me
836 00:47:43,026 00:47:45,153 that you're just friends. that you're just friends.
837 00:47:47,114 00:47:48,699 I'm not one of your recruits. I'm not one of your recruits.
838 00:47:50,117 00:47:52,703 I knew what you were the moment I saw you. I knew what you were the moment I saw you.
839 00:47:52,703 00:47:53,704 And what's that? And what's that?
840 00:47:53,704 00:47:54,705 Soft. Soft.
841 00:47:55,664 00:47:56,832 [Marion] What's going on? [Marion] What's going on?
842 00:47:58,625 00:48:00,043 Oh, nothing. Oh, nothing.
843 00:48:00,419 00:48:02,796 Me and Steve were just joking around, huh? Me and Steve were just joking around, huh?
844 00:48:09,136 00:48:10,554 You okay? You okay?
845 00:48:30,198 00:48:31,950 I can't believe him. I can't believe him.
846 00:48:31,950 00:48:34,202 I shouldn't of lost it at him like that. I shouldn't of lost it at him like that.
847 00:48:34,202 00:48:37,372 Pastor Roberts was right, I gave him exactly what he wanted. Pastor Roberts was right, I gave him exactly what he wanted.
848 00:48:37,372 00:48:38,874 This isn't your fault. This isn't your fault.
849 00:48:39,916 00:48:41,335 He knows something's up. He knows something's up.
850 00:48:41,710 00:48:45,297 We'll tell him eventually, when he comes around to it. We'll tell him eventually, when he comes around to it.
851 00:48:45,297 00:48:48,925 I'm in the Air Police, he's a Chief Master Sargeant. I'm in the Air Police, he's a Chief Master Sargeant.
852 00:48:48,925 00:48:50,344 We work on the same base, We work on the same base,
853 00:48:50,344 00:48:52,095 we're just lucky he hasn't seen me yet. we're just lucky he hasn't seen me yet.
854 00:48:52,095 00:48:54,097 But he's never here, he's always off on temp duty But he's never here, he's always off on temp duty
855 00:48:54,097 00:48:56,933 at some other base. He's got another trip coming up. at some other base. He's got another trip coming up.
856 00:48:56,933 00:48:58,644 We're fine. We're fine.
857 00:49:02,981 00:49:04,524 I don't know. I don't know.
858 00:49:10,530 00:49:12,658 Just cover for me on guard duty. Just cover for me on guard duty.
859 00:49:12,658 00:49:14,242 [Robbie] I covered for you last time, [Robbie] I covered for you last time,
860 00:49:14,242 00:49:15,619 the watch commander caught me. the watch commander caught me.
861 00:49:15,619 00:49:18,747 I spent hours, hours cleaning toilets. I spent hours, hours cleaning toilets.
862 00:49:19,414 00:49:21,583 You know I can't pee in a public bathroom anymore? You know I can't pee in a public bathroom anymore?
863 00:49:22,042 00:49:24,961 You know how long it takes to scrub a toilet You know how long it takes to scrub a toilet
864 00:49:24,961 00:49:26,004 with a toothbrush? with a toothbrush?
865 00:49:26,755 00:49:28,715 You know how long it takes to scrub fifteen? You know how long it takes to scrub fifteen?
866 00:49:28,715 00:49:29,383 Fifteen of them. Fifteen of them.
867 00:49:29,383 00:49:30,300 Yeah. Yeah.
868 00:49:30,634 00:49:32,761 Because I did it when I covered for you with Julie. Because I did it when I covered for you with Julie.
869 00:49:33,136 00:49:34,805 You mean my wife? You mean my wife?
870 00:49:34,805 00:49:36,556 You haven't proposed yet. You haven't proposed yet.
871 00:49:36,973 00:49:39,893 Not yet, but I might do, maybe. Not yet, but I might do, maybe.
872 00:49:40,727 00:49:41,812 Maybe not. Maybe not.
873 00:49:41,812 00:49:43,480 She keeps me on my toes. She keeps me on my toes.
874 00:49:43,980 00:49:45,148 And she's cute. And she's cute.
875 00:49:45,148 00:49:46,400 Are you done yet? Are you done yet?
876 00:49:46,983 00:49:48,276 Maybe. Maybe.
877 00:49:49,111 00:49:50,737 Maybe not. Maybe not.
878 00:49:52,114 00:49:53,657 You owe me. You owe me.
879 00:49:53,657 00:49:54,574 I don't owe you. I don't owe you.
880 00:49:54,574 00:49:56,618 I paid you back, we're square. I paid you back, we're square.
881 00:49:57,703 00:49:59,871 Look, they haven't seen this guy in weeks. Look, they haven't seen this guy in weeks.
882 00:50:00,122 00:50:01,790 Or the- Or the-
883 00:50:06,461 00:50:07,504 [Jim] At ease. [Jim] At ease.
884 00:50:10,173 00:50:11,550 Whoops. Whoops.
885 00:50:15,095 00:50:16,638 Your friend here- Your friend here-
886 00:50:17,848 00:50:18,974 liar. liar.
887 00:50:29,192 00:50:30,569 Are you okay? Are you okay?
888 00:50:32,738 00:50:34,698 I won't be soon. I won't be soon.
889 00:50:40,829 00:50:42,497 [Jim] Marion? [Jim] Marion?
890 00:50:42,789 00:50:44,458 Jan? Jan? Jan? Jan?
891 00:50:45,709 00:50:48,128 You know that young man who comes into our house, You know that young man who comes into our house,
892 00:50:48,128 00:50:49,921 eats our food, your friend. eats our food, your friend.
893 00:50:49,921 00:50:51,465 The one you insulted? The one you insulted?
894 00:50:51,465 00:50:53,592 Didn't think I knew about that, did you? Didn't think I knew about that, did you?
895 00:50:53,592 00:50:56,720 I should've done worse considering the- student I should've done worse considering the- student
896 00:50:56,720 00:50:59,681 just waved me through the gate on base. just waved me through the gate on base.
897 00:51:00,807 00:51:01,808 Well? Well?
898 00:51:01,808 00:51:03,351 I wasn't lying. I wasn't lying.
899 00:51:03,351 00:51:06,855 He is a student, he's just also in the Air Force. He is a student, he's just also in the Air Force.
900 00:51:06,855 00:51:09,316 You don't think that was important for me to know? You don't think that was important for me to know?
901 00:51:09,316 00:51:11,401 I knew that you wouldn't like it, and I like him, I knew that you wouldn't like it, and I like him,
902 00:51:11,401 00:51:12,903 so I didn't tell you. so I didn't tell you.
903 00:51:12,903 00:51:14,654 You're dating a GI? You're dating a GI?
904 00:51:15,363 00:51:16,865 I guess I am. I guess I am.
905 00:51:19,284 00:51:20,494 Not anymore you're not. Not anymore you're not.
906 00:51:20,494 00:51:22,579 You can't stop me from seeing him. You can't stop me from seeing him.
907 00:51:22,579 00:51:24,414 What? You don't think I can find a way to get What? You don't think I can find a way to get
908 00:51:24,414 00:51:25,665 him dishonourably discharged? him dishonourably discharged?
909 00:51:25,916 00:51:28,251 I got a half a dozen officers on that base who would find a I got a half a dozen officers on that base who would find a
910 00:51:28,251 00:51:29,795 reason for me in a heartbeat. reason for me in a heartbeat.
911 00:51:29,795 00:51:30,921 You wouldn't do that. You wouldn't do that.
912 00:51:30,921 00:51:31,588 Of course I would. Of course I would.
913 00:51:31,588 00:51:32,923 No, he's a good man. No, he's a good man.
914 00:51:32,923 00:51:34,132 He's a liar. He's a liar.
915 00:51:34,382 00:51:40,138 He came in to my house and lied to my face night after night. He came in to my house and lied to my face night after night.
916 00:51:40,138 00:51:41,723 I asked him to. I asked him to.
917 00:51:42,432 00:51:45,352 Sweetheart, he's not good enough for you. Sweetheart, he's not good enough for you.
918 00:51:45,352 00:51:47,646 Well shouldn't I get to decide that? Well shouldn't I get to decide that?
919 00:51:48,438 00:51:50,732 This is for the best. This is for the best.
920 00:51:51,399 00:51:52,317 No. No.
921 00:51:52,317 00:51:53,693 No! No!
922 00:51:54,694 00:51:55,946 That's it. That's it.
923 00:51:55,946 00:51:57,656 It's done. It's done.
924 00:51:57,656 00:52:00,492
925 00:52:05,038 00:52:06,873 I'll talk to him. I'll talk to him.
926 00:52:16,299 00:52:17,926 Sweetheart. Sweetheart.
927 00:52:19,052 00:52:21,680 Steve, blink if you can hear me. Steve, blink if you can hear me.
928 00:52:26,476 00:52:28,770 Give us a little blink, dad. Give us a little blink, dad.
929 00:52:29,062 00:52:30,605 Please. Please.
930 00:52:35,944 00:52:41,491
931 00:52:54,170 00:52:55,714 Hey mom, Hey mom,
932 00:52:57,340 00:52:59,467 I know you don't wanna move dad. I know you don't wanna move dad.
933 00:53:00,343 00:53:01,595 Okay? Okay?
934 00:53:02,679 00:53:08,393 But I do think we probably have some decisions to make though. But I do think we probably have some decisions to make though.
935 00:53:08,393 00:53:10,228 What should we do? What should we do?
936 00:53:10,228 00:53:15,483 I talked to the staff here and they have an end-of-life I talked to the staff here and they have an end-of-life
937 00:53:15,483 00:53:22,782 physician, and maybe just tomorrow we go talk to him, physician, and maybe just tomorrow we go talk to him,
938 00:53:23,325 00:53:25,744 figure out what our options are. figure out what our options are.
939 00:53:26,745 00:53:29,956 [Terri] Can we just hold on a little longer? [Terri] Can we just hold on a little longer?
940 00:53:30,373 00:53:32,375 It's just to get information. It's just to get information.
941 00:53:32,751 00:53:35,170 Okay? That's all it is. Okay? That's all it is.
942 00:53:35,921 00:53:37,631 I understand. I understand.
943 00:53:40,759 00:53:43,345 [Dr. Russo] Your daughter has brought me up to speed [Dr. Russo] Your daughter has brought me up to speed
944 00:53:43,345 00:53:44,763 on your situation, on your situation,
945 00:53:44,763 00:53:48,475 and obviously there's no problem leaving Steve right where he is. and obviously there's no problem leaving Steve right where he is.
946 00:53:48,475 00:53:51,561 Our trauma centre staff can handle everything you need. Our trauma centre staff can handle everything you need.
947 00:53:51,561 00:53:52,812 Thank you. Thank you.
948 00:53:54,272 00:53:55,815 I have a question. I have a question.
949 00:53:55,815 00:53:57,901 Absolutely, that's what I'm here for. Absolutely, that's what I'm here for.
950 00:53:57,901 00:54:02,864 Everyone keeps telling me that there's no hope. Everyone keeps telling me that there's no hope.
951 00:54:03,406 00:54:04,407 Why? Why?
952 00:54:05,075 00:54:08,662 I am useless to you if I don't tell you the truth. I am useless to you if I don't tell you the truth.
953 00:54:09,204 00:54:13,083 The reason that everyone is telling you there's no hope The reason that everyone is telling you there's no hope
954 00:54:13,083 00:54:15,418 is because there is none. is because there is none.
955 00:54:15,669 00:54:18,922 Steve's lungs started to collapse before he arrived at Steve's lungs started to collapse before he arrived at
956 00:54:18,922 00:54:20,131 the hospital. the hospital.
957 00:54:20,715 00:54:24,386 Along with that and the paralysis as one thing, Along with that and the paralysis as one thing,
958 00:54:25,011 00:54:27,681 there's just too many things to deal with. there's just too many things to deal with.
959 00:54:27,681 00:54:31,434 But people just don't die because they're paralysed. But people just don't die because they're paralysed.
960 00:54:31,434 00:54:33,269 It's more than that. It's more than that.
961 00:54:33,269 00:54:34,354 [Dr. Russo] You're right. [Dr. Russo] You're right.
962 00:54:34,354 00:54:35,438 In Steve's case, In Steve's case,
963 00:54:35,438 00:54:38,274 if he recoverd the ability to breath, on his if he recoverd the ability to breath, on his
964 00:54:38,274 00:54:42,529 own, or if his heart could beat without the extreme medical own, or if his heart could beat without the extreme medical
965 00:54:42,529 00:54:47,617 interventions he's currently on, then yes he would have some sort interventions he's currently on, then yes he would have some sort
966 00:54:47,617 00:54:52,163 of opportunity for a functional life outside of the hospital of opportunity for a functional life outside of the hospital
967 00:54:52,163 00:54:53,999 as a quadriplegic. as a quadriplegic.
968 00:54:53,999 00:54:55,125 Okay. Okay.
969 00:54:55,125 00:54:57,961 Some people in these situations have recovered. Some people in these situations have recovered.
970 00:54:57,961 00:54:59,921 We researched it. We researched it.
971 00:54:59,921 00:55:01,006 I understand. But, I understand. But,
972 00:55:01,756 00:55:03,216 if that were going to happen if that were going to happen
973 00:55:03,550 00:55:06,928 we would have seen some sign of it by now. we would have seen some sign of it by now.
974 00:55:07,971 00:55:10,140 Your accident was Friday morning? Your accident was Friday morning?
975 00:55:10,140 00:55:11,391 Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm.
976 00:55:11,391 00:55:14,310 By Sunday evening Steve's heart still showed By Sunday evening Steve's heart still showed
977 00:55:14,310 00:55:17,147 no ability to tolerate reduced drugs. no ability to tolerate reduced drugs.
978 00:55:17,814 00:55:23,111 His lungs clearly still showed no ability to work on their own. His lungs clearly still showed no ability to work on their own.
979 00:55:24,070 00:55:29,534 And since then, every test consistently shows that he's not And since then, every test consistently shows that he's not
980 00:55:29,534 00:55:32,996 only not improving, he's getting worse. only not improving, he's getting worse.
981 00:55:34,622 00:55:39,294 Today is Tuesday, soon he won't be responsive in any way. Today is Tuesday, soon he won't be responsive in any way.
982 00:55:41,463 00:55:45,633 I'm sure we can prolong his life artificially but I'm sure we can prolong his life artificially but
983 00:55:45,633 00:55:47,802 would he want that? would he want that?
984 00:55:49,137 00:55:51,389 I can't answer that for you. I can't answer that for you.
985 00:55:52,098 00:55:55,977 You have to decide that together as a family. You have to decide that together as a family.
986 00:55:58,521 00:56:00,815 Do you think he knows? Do you think he knows?
987 00:56:02,275 00:56:03,526 What? What?
988 00:56:03,818 00:56:05,528 That's he's dying? That's he's dying?
989 00:56:08,073 00:56:11,868 [Jan] He was always the careful one, he was always careful. [Jan] He was always the careful one, he was always careful.
990 00:56:11,868 00:56:14,245 I am the one who should not be here. I am the one who should not be here.
991 00:56:14,245 00:56:15,121 [Michele] Hey. [Michele] Hey.
992 00:56:15,121 00:56:16,122 Mom, hey, Mom, hey,
993 00:56:16,122 00:56:17,999 you cannot feel guilty for surviving. you cannot feel guilty for surviving.
994 00:56:18,833 00:56:22,003 If I could trade places with him I would. If I could trade places with him I would.
995 00:56:25,006 00:56:29,969
996 00:56:36,392 00:56:39,729 [upbeat music] [upbeat music]
997 00:57:11,970 00:57:14,305 [Steve] Your dad's gonna go nuclear. [Steve] Your dad's gonna go nuclear.
998 00:57:14,597 00:57:17,600 That won't change if we go back now. That won't change if we go back now.
999 00:57:17,600 00:57:19,310 Something's happened. Something's happened.
1000 00:57:19,310 00:57:20,645 What? What?
1001 00:57:20,979 00:57:22,647 They're transferring me. They're transferring me.
1002 00:57:23,815 00:57:25,024 To where? To where?
1003 00:57:25,775 00:57:27,735 Omaha, Nebraska. Omaha, Nebraska.
1004 00:57:27,735 00:57:29,112 Nebraska? Nebraska?
1005 00:57:29,112 00:57:30,405 Why? Why?
1006 00:57:30,405 00:57:34,492 I'll be part of the Elite Guard at Strategic Air Command. I'll be part of the Elite Guard at Strategic Air Command.
1007 00:57:35,994 00:57:37,662 I'll be guarding generals. I'll be guarding generals.
1008 00:57:39,956 00:57:41,374 I'm proud of you. I'm proud of you.
1009 00:57:41,374 00:57:42,834 Thanks. Thanks.
1010 00:57:48,214 00:57:50,967 But what does it mean for us? But what does it mean for us?
1011 00:57:51,467 00:57:53,928 I might be gone for a long time. I might be gone for a long time.
1012 00:57:54,304 00:57:55,930 That's why I wanted to talk to you. That's why I wanted to talk to you.
1013 00:57:55,930 00:57:58,141 Are you really gonna do this right now? Are you really gonna do this right now?
1014 00:57:59,309 00:58:00,643 How did you know? How did you know?
1015 00:58:00,643 00:58:02,562 I'm not stupid, Steve. I'm not stupid, Steve.
1016 00:58:02,562 00:58:04,480 Well then, do you want to? Well then, do you want to?
1017 00:58:04,480 00:58:05,523 No. No.
1018 00:58:05,523 00:58:07,901 But I'll be gone, don't you think we should? But I'll be gone, don't you think we should?
1019 00:58:07,901 00:58:09,652 Why, I love you. Why, I love you.
1020 00:58:09,652 00:58:11,446 Yes that's exactly why. Yes that's exactly why.
1021 00:58:11,446 00:58:13,406 You want to break up with me because I love you? You want to break up with me because I love you?
1022 00:58:13,406 00:58:14,782 Break up? Break up?
1023 00:58:14,782 00:58:16,284 [laughs] [laughs]
1024 00:58:16,284 00:58:18,828 No, no, hey- No, no, hey-
1025 00:58:21,539 00:58:23,499 I want to marry you. I want to marry you.
1026 00:58:25,168 00:58:26,252 What? What?
1027 00:58:26,252 00:58:28,171 Before I get transferred. Before I get transferred.
1028 00:58:32,217 00:58:37,722 Don't people usually get a ring in these kind of situation? Don't people usually get a ring in these kind of situation?
1029 00:58:39,974 00:58:41,851 You know- I- You know- I-
1030 00:58:41,851 00:58:50,068 I make like $250 a month, I can't afford what you deserve. I make like $250 a month, I can't afford what you deserve.
1031 00:58:50,068 00:58:54,530 That's okay, you'd probably pick the wrong one anyway, That's okay, you'd probably pick the wrong one anyway,
1032 00:58:54,822 00:58:56,741 I can pick my own. I can pick my own.
1033 00:58:57,033 00:58:58,785 I've been saving up from work. I've been saving up from work.
1034 00:59:01,913 00:59:05,500 That's why I want to marry you, you know. That's why I want to marry you, you know.
1035 00:59:08,044 00:59:10,004 Don't get used to it. Don't get used to it.
1036 00:59:11,214 00:59:12,757 What? What?
1037 00:59:13,549 00:59:14,759 What? What?
1038 00:59:14,759 00:59:17,679 My dad always said that if he caught me dating a GI My dad always said that if he caught me dating a GI
1039 00:59:17,679 00:59:20,056 he'd ship me off to Nebraska. he'd ship me off to Nebraska.
1040 00:59:20,056 00:59:21,724 [laughter] [laughter]
1041 00:59:22,558 00:59:25,270 I want you to get my father's blessing. I want you to get my father's blessing.
1042 00:59:25,728 00:59:28,815 I know what he's been like, but he's still my dad. I know what he's been like, but he's still my dad.
1043 00:59:31,901 00:59:34,821 What if he doesn't give it to me? What if he doesn't give it to me?
1044 00:59:35,905 00:59:38,574 I don't see how we can be married if he doesn't. I don't see how we can be married if he doesn't.
1045 00:59:38,574 00:59:40,243 He'll always be my father. He'll always be my father.
1046 00:59:40,743 00:59:42,578 I don't want us to spend the rest of our I don't want us to spend the rest of our
1047 00:59:42,578 00:59:43,830 lives sneaking around. lives sneaking around.
1048 00:59:43,830 00:59:46,874 So you won't marry me if he doesn't? So you won't marry me if he doesn't?
1049 00:59:48,584 00:59:50,503 It's important to me. It's important to me.
1050 00:59:50,503 00:59:52,130 Okay. Okay.
1051 00:59:53,423 00:59:56,217 I'll do whatever I have to do to get it. I'll do whatever I have to do to get it.
1052 00:59:59,220 01:00:00,555 I love you. I love you.
1053 01:00:01,180 01:00:03,057 I love you too. I love you too.
1054 01:00:11,441 01:00:13,359 [car honks horn] [car honks horn]
1055 01:00:13,359 01:00:14,277 You think that's ... You think that's ...
1056 01:00:14,277 01:00:16,696 That's definitely him. That's definitely him.
1057 01:00:17,780 01:00:19,282 Get over here, young lady. Get over here, young lady.
1058 01:00:19,282 01:00:22,869 I'll deal with him, but you have to talk to him some time. I'll deal with him, but you have to talk to him some time.
1059 01:00:24,704 01:00:27,332 You'd tell me if he murdered one of your You'd tell me if he murdered one of your
1060 01:00:27,332 01:00:29,125 ex-boyfriends, right? ex-boyfriends, right?
1061 01:00:30,293 01:00:31,794 Right? Right?
1062 01:00:34,464 01:00:35,757 Right? Right?
1063 01:00:36,174 01:00:37,717 [Jim] Let's go. [Jim] Let's go.
1064 01:00:39,510 01:00:41,679 I will not forget this. I will not forget this.
1065 01:00:47,310 01:00:49,645 [Jeep drives off] [Jeep drives off]
1066 01:00:53,983 01:00:55,068 Chief? Chief?
1067 01:01:04,494 01:01:07,205 Liar who takes my daughter to make out in Liar who takes my daughter to make out in
1068 01:01:07,205 01:01:08,664 the middle of the night. the middle of the night.
1069 01:01:09,248 01:01:09,999 [clears throat] [clears throat]
1070 01:01:10,291 01:01:13,002 There is something I want to ask you. There is something I want to ask you.
1071 01:01:13,628 01:01:18,424 Well I'm going to do a little target practice later on, Well I'm going to do a little target practice later on,
1072 01:01:19,050 01:01:21,135 we can talk then. we can talk then.
1073 01:01:21,511 01:01:22,929 Okay. Okay.
1074 01:01:39,153 01:01:41,531 [Jim] So tell me something Steve, you a shooter? [Jim] So tell me something Steve, you a shooter?
1075 01:01:41,531 01:01:42,532 [Steve] Yes sir. [Steve] Yes sir.
1076 01:01:42,532 01:01:43,574 You any good? You any good?
1077 01:01:43,574 01:01:44,700 I'm okay. I'm okay.
1078 01:01:44,700 01:01:47,412 Have some pride son, come on let's go. Have some pride son, come on let's go.
1079 01:01:47,412 01:01:48,371 This way. This way.
1080 01:01:55,586 01:01:57,255 Shouldn't you lead the way? Shouldn't you lead the way?
1081 01:01:57,797 01:02:01,217 You're doing just fine, it's about 100 yards up here. You're doing just fine, it's about 100 yards up here.
1082 01:02:01,217 01:02:02,385 We'll be good. We'll be good.
1083 01:02:12,478 01:02:13,729 Keep going? Keep going?
1084 01:02:14,397 01:02:16,232 50 yards. 50 yards.
1085 01:02:17,358 01:02:18,734 [gun shot] [gun shot]
1086 01:02:19,235 01:02:20,236 Good shot, chief. Good shot, chief.
1087 01:02:20,236 01:02:22,697 Nobody likes a suck-up Steve, your turn. Nobody likes a suck-up Steve, your turn.
1088 01:02:29,203 01:02:30,163 [gun shot] [gun shot]
1089 01:02:30,997 01:02:33,082 You sure you qualified on the range? You sure you qualified on the range?
1090 01:02:33,082 01:02:34,459 I did. I did.
1091 01:02:34,459 01:02:35,960 You say so. You say so.
1092 01:02:37,253 01:02:41,466 Set me up a bottle, I'm going to move back here about 30 feet, Set me up a bottle, I'm going to move back here about 30 feet,
1093 01:02:41,466 01:02:43,259 challenge myself. challenge myself.
1094 01:02:52,393 01:02:53,769 [gun shot] [gun shot]
1095 01:02:55,521 01:02:56,814 Are you insane? Are you insane?
1096 01:02:56,814 01:03:00,234 Oh man calm down I could shoot a pimple off your face. Oh man calm down I could shoot a pimple off your face.
1097 01:03:00,234 01:03:00,943 [Steve] You're crazy. [Steve] You're crazy.
1098 01:03:01,277 01:03:03,654 Don't be so touchy Steve, you're fine. Don't be so touchy Steve, you're fine.
1099 01:03:03,654 01:03:04,614 Chief Nichols. Chief Nichols.
1100 01:03:04,614 01:03:05,114 What? What?
1101 01:03:05,907 01:03:08,034 I am here to ask for your blessing to marry your daughter. I am here to ask for your blessing to marry your daughter.
1102 01:03:10,244 01:03:11,787 Oh. Is that right? Oh. Is that right?
1103 01:03:11,787 01:03:12,705 Yes sir. Yes sir.
1104 01:03:13,372 01:03:16,167 Well I'll tell you what. You see that brown bottle Well I'll tell you what. You see that brown bottle
1105 01:03:16,167 01:03:18,377 back there, that's about 15 metres away. back there, that's about 15 metres away.
1106 01:03:18,377 01:03:21,047 That's far less than you need to qualify on the range. That's far less than you need to qualify on the range.
1107 01:03:21,047 01:03:24,300 I'm going to give you two shots. You hit one of them, I'm going to give you two shots. You hit one of them,
1108 01:03:24,300 01:03:27,803 you'll have my blessing to marry my daughter. you'll have my blessing to marry my daughter.
1109 01:03:29,263 01:03:30,348 You're on. You're on.
1110 01:03:30,973 01:03:32,808 Why do you want to marry her now anyway? Why do you want to marry her now anyway?
1111 01:03:32,808 01:03:33,809 What's the hurry? What's the hurry?
1112 01:03:33,809 01:03:35,686 I'm being transferred. I'm being transferred.
1113 01:03:35,686 01:03:36,812 Is that right? Is that right?
1114 01:03:36,812 01:03:37,688 Out of state? Out of state?
1115 01:03:37,688 01:03:39,565 Yes, can you stop talking. Yes, can you stop talking.
1116 01:03:39,565 01:03:40,441 Where to? Where to?
1117 01:03:40,858 01:03:43,486 Omaha. Can I shoot now? Omaha. Can I shoot now?
1118 01:03:43,486 01:03:45,321 Yeah, sure. Go ahead. Yeah, sure. Go ahead.
1119 01:03:47,448 01:03:48,616 [gun shot] [gun shot]
1120 01:03:49,534 01:03:51,869 Steve, it's a lot easier to fall in love with a girl that you can Steve, it's a lot easier to fall in love with a girl that you can
1121 01:03:51,869 01:03:55,957 see, but you're going to be on a new base and your air force see, but you're going to be on a new base and your air force
1122 01:03:55,957 01:03:58,501 buddies, they're going to be telling you that she's already buddies, they're going to be telling you that she's already
1123 01:03:58,501 01:04:00,711 forgotten about you and you're going to be sitting there forgotten about you and you're going to be sitting there
1124 01:04:00,711 01:04:02,505 waiting for your Dear John letter. waiting for your Dear John letter.
1125 01:04:02,505 01:04:04,048 It won't be like that for us. It won't be like that for us.
1126 01:04:04,048 01:04:07,093 You're going to be out on leave, out in the world socializing. You're going to be out on leave, out in the world socializing.
1127 01:04:07,093 01:04:08,344 There's going to be all sorts of other women. There's going to be all sorts of other women.
1128 01:04:08,678 01:04:11,138 Women that you can see and you can smell that are a lot more Women that you can see and you can smell that are a lot more
1129 01:04:11,138 01:04:13,516 real than anything you can write down on a piece of paper or real than anything you can write down on a piece of paper or
1130 01:04:13,516 01:04:15,268 what's in a photograph. what's in a photograph.
1131 01:04:15,268 01:04:16,227 That's not true. That's not true.
1132 01:04:16,686 01:04:18,604 You're still human, Steve. You're still human, Steve.
1133 01:04:19,355 01:04:23,317 Everything you're about to do is to push you away from her. Everything you're about to do is to push you away from her.
1134 01:04:24,026 01:04:26,612 The only thing pushing me away from your daughter The only thing pushing me away from your daughter
1135 01:04:26,612 01:04:28,906 is you, Mr. Nichols. is you, Mr. Nichols.
1136 01:04:29,448 01:04:33,286 But guess what, I qualified as an expert marksman too. But guess what, I qualified as an expert marksman too.
1137 01:04:34,453 01:04:35,496 Go on. Go on.
1138 01:04:35,496 01:04:37,373 [exhales] [exhales]
1139 01:04:50,886 01:04:52,430 [gun shot] [gun shot]
1140 01:04:55,433 01:04:57,351 Yeah well that was close. Yeah well that was close.
1141 01:04:57,893 01:05:00,896 Go ahead and do me a favour son, let her down easy. Go ahead and do me a favour son, let her down easy.
1142 01:05:03,274 01:05:08,988
1143 01:05:16,537 01:05:18,497 If you're ready to leave- If you're ready to leave-
1144 01:05:20,458 01:05:22,918 I need you to say goodbye. I need you to say goodbye.
1145 01:05:25,046 01:05:28,716 They think I should let you go, They think I should let you go,
1146 01:05:30,134 01:05:32,345 but it still feels wrong. but it still feels wrong.
1147 01:05:34,013 01:05:37,016 I need you to tell me what to do. I need you to tell me what to do.
1148 01:05:40,853 01:05:45,066 Please, please tell me what to do. Please, please tell me what to do.
1149 01:05:45,900 01:05:47,443 Please. Please.
1150 01:06:04,168 01:06:05,211 Okay. Okay.
1151 01:06:09,173 01:06:10,257 Okay. Okay.
1152 01:06:12,968 01:06:14,303 I love you. I love you.
1153 01:06:24,814 01:06:26,941 Your dad told me what he wants. Your dad told me what he wants.
1154 01:06:32,697 01:06:34,156 How? How?
1155 01:06:36,200 01:06:38,577 We've been together 46 years. We've been together 46 years.
1156 01:06:42,665 01:06:44,709 What did he say? What did he say?
1157 01:06:45,418 01:06:46,919 He's ready to go. He's ready to go.
1158 01:06:59,306 01:07:02,059 You think Pastor Roberts is still in town? You think Pastor Roberts is still in town?
1159 01:07:04,395 01:07:06,981 Another half hour and I'd have been on my flight. Another half hour and I'd have been on my flight.
1160 01:07:08,899 01:07:10,735 I didn't think I would see you again. I didn't think I would see you again.
1161 01:07:11,360 01:07:13,738 You're no more surprised than me. You're no more surprised than me.
1162 01:07:21,537 01:07:23,164 [sniffles] [sniffles]
1163 01:07:23,497 01:07:25,082 How does it happen? How does it happen?
1164 01:07:26,333 01:07:29,295 Without medication his heart rate will drop to critical Without medication his heart rate will drop to critical
1165 01:07:29,295 01:07:32,798 levels, and he won't be able to breathe. levels, and he won't be able to breathe.
1166 01:07:32,798 01:07:34,216 Will he be in pain? Will he be in pain?
1167 01:07:34,216 01:07:36,552 No, he'll be sedated. No, he'll be sedated.
1168 01:07:36,552 01:07:38,179 He'll be comfortable. He'll be comfortable.
1169 01:07:38,179 01:07:43,058 And then he'll pass peacefully when we turn off support. And then he'll pass peacefully when we turn off support.
1170 01:07:44,602 01:07:47,521 Is there a time you prefer? Is there a time you prefer?
1171 01:07:51,233 01:07:55,070 You- you want me to choose what time my husband dies? You- you want me to choose what time my husband dies?
1172 01:07:57,281 01:07:58,407 Yes. Yes.
1173 01:07:59,784 01:08:02,077 I'd suggest 11 a.m. I'd suggest 11 a.m.
1174 01:08:02,077 01:08:06,290 It's between visiting hours and it'll be quiet. It's between visiting hours and it'll be quiet.
1175 01:08:06,290 01:08:07,958 Can they stay with him? Can they stay with him?
1176 01:08:07,958 01:08:09,960 Absolutely. Absolutely.
1177 01:08:09,960 01:08:12,296 You can stay as long as you need. You can stay as long as you need.
1178 01:08:14,715 01:08:17,426 Heavenly Father, we come to you at a time Heavenly Father, we come to you at a time
1179 01:08:17,426 01:08:20,763 of sadness, asking you for peace. of sadness, asking you for peace.
1180 01:08:21,806 01:08:27,645 Almighty God, we are here today because Steve is ready to depart Almighty God, we are here today because Steve is ready to depart
1181 01:08:27,645 01:08:32,608 this world and we ask you, oh Lord that you allow him to pass this world and we ask you, oh Lord that you allow him to pass
1182 01:08:32,608 01:08:35,027 as he desired to live. as he desired to live.
1183 01:08:36,570 01:08:37,988 Can I say something? Can I say something?
1184 01:08:40,115 01:08:41,659 Of course. Of course.
1185 01:08:46,831 01:08:49,959 Will you please tell him that he will always be- Will you please tell him that he will always be-
1186 01:08:50,876 01:08:52,795 so loved- so loved-
1187 01:08:55,297 01:08:57,174 and remembered. and remembered.
1188 01:08:57,800 01:08:59,093 [sobbing] [sobbing]
1189 01:08:59,093 01:08:59,969 Amen. Amen.
1190 01:09:00,511 01:09:02,304 [Pastor Roberts] And amen. [Pastor Roberts] And amen.
1191 01:09:02,304 01:09:05,182
1192 01:09:05,182 01:09:07,268 [Steve] No that's it then. [Steve] No that's it then.
1193 01:09:07,268 01:09:09,019 We're never getting married. We're never getting married.
1194 01:09:09,019 01:09:12,231 You can try again, he'll warm up to you eventually. You can try again, he'll warm up to you eventually.
1195 01:09:12,231 01:09:14,525 No he won't, okay you weren't there. No he won't, okay you weren't there.
1196 01:09:14,525 01:09:16,235 You didn't see his face. You didn't see his face.
1197 01:09:16,235 01:09:18,696 And we don't have time for eventually. And we don't have time for eventually.
1198 01:09:19,488 01:09:21,991 We- we just, we can't give up. We- we just, we can't give up.
1199 01:09:21,991 01:09:25,619 He'll never accept me, okay you're right. He'll never accept me, okay you're right.
1200 01:09:26,120 01:09:28,289 It's not going to be any kind of life if we're sneaking It's not going to be any kind of life if we're sneaking
1201 01:09:28,289 01:09:31,625 around forever, Okay? That's your family. around forever, Okay? That's your family.
1202 01:09:31,625 01:09:33,544 I'm not going to come between him and you. I'm not going to come between him and you.
1203 01:09:33,544 01:09:34,753 Well you shouldn't have to. Well you shouldn't have to.
1204 01:09:34,753 01:09:36,547 You're not listening to me. You're not listening to me.
1205 01:09:37,006 01:09:38,215 Hey! Hey!
1206 01:09:39,174 01:09:40,968 I'm saying I won't. I'm saying I won't.
1207 01:09:43,095 01:09:44,930 You're saying that this is over? You're saying that this is over?
1208 01:09:45,681 01:09:46,932 It has to be. It has to be.
1209 01:09:55,441 01:09:57,026 [knocking continues] [knocking continues]
1210 01:10:01,363 01:10:03,991 Now we couldn't have discussed this in the morning? Now we couldn't have discussed this in the morning?
1211 01:10:04,700 01:10:06,702 I'm sorry, I just didn't know where to go, I'm sorry, I just didn't know where to go,
1212 01:10:06,702 01:10:08,996 and Steve's going to get transferred soon. and Steve's going to get transferred soon.
1213 01:10:09,580 01:10:10,915 It's alright. It's alright.
1214 01:10:13,709 01:10:18,255 Love is patient and kind, it does not envy or boast. Love is patient and kind, it does not envy or boast.
1215 01:10:19,840 01:10:22,801 It is not arrogant or rude. It is not arrogant or rude.
1216 01:10:23,510 01:10:26,138 It does not insist on its own way. It does not insist on its own way.
1217 01:10:27,306 01:10:30,935 It is not irritable It is not irritable
1218 01:10:33,312 01:10:36,273 and it never rejoices at wrongdoing. and it never rejoices at wrongdoing.
1219 01:10:36,273 01:10:39,068 It rejoices with truth. It rejoices with truth.
1220 01:10:40,194 01:10:42,237 With truth. With truth.
1221 01:10:42,237 01:10:43,572 [sniffles] [sniffles]
1222 01:10:44,490 01:10:48,035 That's Steve, he's taken everything my dad's thrown at That's Steve, he's taken everything my dad's thrown at
1223 01:10:48,035 01:10:50,955 him and he's done it with patience and kindness. him and he's done it with patience and kindness.
1224 01:10:53,207 01:10:58,587 Imagine that Steve did leave and never returned and you never Imagine that Steve did leave and never returned and you never
1225 01:10:58,587 01:11:03,259 got back together, imagine yourself two years from now. got back together, imagine yourself two years from now.
1226 01:11:03,259 01:11:04,343 What do you see? What do you see?
1227 01:11:05,511 01:11:07,054 Nothing. Nothing.
1228 01:11:08,055 01:11:10,933 How does that make you feel to think about it? How does that make you feel to think about it?
1229 01:11:12,935 01:11:16,271 Like trying to imagine walking on the moon. Like trying to imagine walking on the moon.
1230 01:11:20,192 01:11:21,318 Alright. Alright.
1231 01:11:22,111 01:11:23,654 Well? Well?
1232 01:11:24,947 01:11:26,865 You know what you have to do. You know what you have to do.
1233 01:11:26,865 01:11:29,576 Now let me get some sleep, I still have to conduct Now let me get some sleep, I still have to conduct
1234 01:11:29,576 01:11:30,828 morning services. morning services.
1235 01:11:30,828 01:11:33,122 But I don't know what to do, that's why I came here. But I don't know what to do, that's why I came here.
1236 01:11:33,122 01:11:35,624 I ... tell me what to do? I ... tell me what to do?
1237 01:11:35,624 01:11:37,334 You need to me say it for you? You need to me say it for you?
1238 01:11:38,127 01:11:42,214 You obviously love him, if you want him, You obviously love him, if you want him,
1239 01:11:43,257 01:11:44,842 then go fight for him. then go fight for him.
1240 01:12:04,945 01:12:05,988 [exhales] [exhales]
1241 01:12:08,574 01:12:09,908 I love him. I love him.
1242 01:12:10,617 01:12:12,995 You're still a teenager, you think you love him. You're still a teenager, you think you love him.
1243 01:12:12,995 01:12:15,164 Once he's gone, you'll forget about him. Once he's gone, you'll forget about him.
1244 01:12:15,497 01:12:17,750 I will never forget him. I will never forget him.
1245 01:12:20,419 01:12:22,296 Jan, I've said my piece. Jan, I've said my piece.
1246 01:12:23,630 01:12:25,090 You can't do this. You can't do this.
1247 01:12:25,090 01:12:26,300 Oh yeah? Try me! Oh yeah? Try me!
1248 01:12:26,800 01:12:28,427 You can't do this. You can't do this.
1249 01:12:28,427 01:12:30,679 Dad, you can't-- Dad, you can't--
1250 01:12:30,679 01:12:33,348 This conversation is over, young lady. This conversation is over, young lady.
1251 01:12:33,348 01:12:34,892 It will never be over. It will never be over.
1252 01:12:34,892 01:12:37,770 He left me, he's gone. He left me, he's gone.
1253 01:12:38,479 01:12:40,606 Because of you, you won. Because of you, you won.
1254 01:12:40,606 01:12:42,316 Does that make you happy? Does that make you happy?
1255 01:12:42,316 01:12:43,484 Does that bring you joy? Does that bring you joy?
1256 01:12:43,484 01:12:47,029 I hope so, I hope so. I hope so, I hope so.
1257 01:12:47,529 01:12:51,533 I hope so because you did lose one thing. I hope so because you did lose one thing.
1258 01:12:51,533 01:12:53,702 Do you know what that is? Do you know what that is?
1259 01:12:54,787 01:12:55,913 You lost me. You lost me.
1260 01:12:57,164 01:13:01,877 I will never forgive you, I'm never going to forget this, I will never forgive you, I'm never going to forget this,
1261 01:13:02,628 01:13:04,004 ever. ever.
1262 01:13:04,713 01:13:07,174 Well then there's no point in talking about this anymore, Well then there's no point in talking about this anymore,
1263 01:13:07,174 01:13:08,258 is there? is there?
1264 01:13:09,051 01:13:10,177 We're done. We're done.
1265 01:13:37,830 01:13:40,124 You're just like him, you know. You're just like him, you know.
1266 01:13:41,416 01:13:43,418 That why you're so scared? That why you're so scared?
1267 01:13:45,796 01:13:49,091 We were younger than they are when we got married. We were younger than they are when we got married.
1268 01:13:50,008 01:13:53,804 You think my friends didn't try to warn me about you? You think my friends didn't try to warn me about you?
1269 01:13:54,096 01:13:56,682 You think they didn't say exactly what you're You think they didn't say exactly what you're
1270 01:13:56,682 01:13:58,308 saying about Steve? saying about Steve?
1271 01:14:00,227 01:14:03,981 But I didn't judge you on what other people But I didn't judge you on what other people
1272 01:14:03,981 01:14:05,983 thought you might be. thought you might be.
1273 01:14:07,025 01:14:09,278 I judged you on your actions. I judged you on your actions.
1274 01:14:10,404 01:14:11,780 He lied to us. He lied to us.
1275 01:14:12,698 01:14:14,825 Because he was afraid. Because he was afraid.
1276 01:14:15,409 01:14:17,494 You do know that they've been seeing each other You do know that they've been seeing each other
1277 01:14:17,494 01:14:17,995 behind our backs? behind our backs?
1278 01:14:17,995 01:14:18,954 You hear her. You hear her.
1279 01:14:18,954 01:14:20,664 Creeping out, late at night. Creeping out, late at night.
1280 01:14:20,956 01:14:23,917 Is that how you want our future son-in-law to behave? Is that how you want our future son-in-law to behave?
1281 01:14:23,917 01:14:26,170 What other choice did you give them? What other choice did you give them?
1282 01:14:26,545 01:14:29,298 Well he's transferring. Well he's transferring.
1283 01:14:30,132 01:14:33,802 And if he wasn't serious about our daughter it would be a And if he wasn't serious about our daughter it would be a
1284 01:14:33,802 01:14:37,139 perfect opportunity for him to end it. perfect opportunity for him to end it.
1285 01:14:37,139 01:14:38,348 It is. It is.
1286 01:14:46,190 01:14:49,651 You remember when I was nine months pregnant with Jan You remember when I was nine months pregnant with Jan
1287 01:14:50,319 01:14:54,072 and we thought I would go in to labour at any moment? and we thought I would go in to labour at any moment?
1288 01:14:58,076 01:15:00,454 You would do this all night. You would do this all night.
1289 01:15:01,330 01:15:04,041 I have a meeting with General Robinson tomorrow. I have a meeting with General Robinson tomorrow.
1290 01:15:10,214 01:15:12,883 Your shoes are clean, honey, Your shoes are clean, honey,
1291 01:15:12,883 01:15:15,219 it's your conscience that isn't. it's your conscience that isn't.
1292 01:15:25,354 01:15:26,480 You're right. You're right.
1293 01:15:26,480 01:15:27,648 I am. I am.
1294 01:15:27,648 01:15:29,191 Yes you are. Yes you are.
1295 01:15:30,108 01:15:33,570 I need to make the choice for them. I need to make the choice for them.
1296 01:15:36,198 01:15:37,199 [sigh] [sigh]
1297 01:15:42,829 01:15:44,456 What are you going to do? What are you going to do?
1298 01:15:44,831 01:15:45,916 [Steve] What can I do? [Steve] What can I do?
1299 01:15:45,916 01:15:47,960 I don't have a choice. I don't have a choice.
1300 01:15:49,711 01:15:51,046 It's over. It's over.
1301 01:15:52,965 01:15:54,258 Might want to take a walk. Might want to take a walk.
1302 01:16:02,099 01:16:03,350 What do you want? What do you want?
1303 01:16:03,976 01:16:06,270 You'll address me as Chief, son. You'll address me as Chief, son.
1304 01:16:06,853 01:16:08,981 Okay, what do you want- Chief? Okay, what do you want- Chief?
1305 01:16:08,981 01:16:11,191 I can have you written up for insubordination. I can have you written up for insubordination.
1306 01:16:11,191 01:16:12,526 Yes sir, if that's all sir. Yes sir, if that's all sir.
1307 01:16:12,526 01:16:13,944 I have nothing to say to you. I have nothing to say to you.
1308 01:16:15,237 01:16:17,698 I just have one question for you. I just have one question for you.
1309 01:16:17,698 01:16:19,116 What's that? What's that?
1310 01:16:19,116 01:16:20,367 Why are you in the service? Why are you in the service?
1311 01:16:20,367 01:16:22,452 I am here to serve my country, sir. I am here to serve my country, sir.
1312 01:16:22,911 01:16:24,329 No, no. No, no.
1313 01:16:25,289 01:16:27,833 I want to know what it means to you. I want to know what it means to you.
1314 01:16:27,833 01:16:31,295 What does it mean to you to be in the military? What does it mean to you to be in the military?
1315 01:16:31,837 01:16:33,213 [breaking voice] Everything. [breaking voice] Everything.
1316 01:16:35,048 01:16:37,342 It hasn't just given my life purpose- It hasn't just given my life purpose-
1317 01:16:39,553 01:16:41,430 it's given me a family. it's given me a family.
1318 01:16:53,775 01:16:56,737 I've never seen anything like this happen, I've never seen anything like this happen,
1319 01:16:56,737 01:16:58,947 this bottle should have broke but it didn't. this bottle should have broke but it didn't.
1320 01:16:59,531 01:17:05,078 It got me thinking, maybe God is leaving this to me. It got me thinking, maybe God is leaving this to me.
1321 01:17:05,078 01:17:08,040 Now, I didn't have to tell you about that, Now, I didn't have to tell you about that,
1322 01:17:08,040 01:17:10,125 but I would have always known. but I would have always known.
1323 01:17:10,125 01:17:11,626 And I'm a man of my word. And I'm a man of my word.
1324 01:17:13,879 01:17:16,256 So I think you're going to marry my daughter, So I think you're going to marry my daughter,
1325 01:17:16,256 01:17:19,426 unless you've changed your mind of course. unless you've changed your mind of course.
1326 01:17:21,928 01:17:23,388 Are you serious? Are you serious?
1327 01:17:23,388 01:17:24,639 Yes sir. Yes sir.
1328 01:17:24,639 01:17:25,724 Thank you. Thank you.
1329 01:17:25,724 01:17:27,851 Hey, hey, hey show some dignity. Hey, hey, hey show some dignity.
1330 01:17:27,851 01:17:29,895 You're still on duty. You're still on duty.
1331 01:17:29,895 01:17:31,021 Sorry sir. Sorry sir.
1332 01:17:31,021 01:17:32,606 As you were. As you were.
1333 01:17:33,273 01:17:37,110 Now it's my understanding that you don't have a lot of time to Now it's my understanding that you don't have a lot of time to
1334 01:17:37,110 01:17:39,696 marry her before you transfer, is that right? marry her before you transfer, is that right?
1335 01:17:39,696 01:17:41,281 Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm.
1336 01:17:41,281 01:17:45,202 Well then, we better get to it. Well then, we better get to it.
1337 01:17:49,623 01:17:51,333 God bless you, son. God bless you, son.
1338 01:17:51,333 01:17:54,419
1339 01:18:11,770 01:18:13,313 [door opens] [door opens]
1340 01:18:20,404 01:18:23,740 You, somebody could have told me. You, somebody could have told me.
1341 01:18:23,740 01:18:27,244
1342 01:18:34,418 01:18:37,754 [Pastor Roberts] Repeat after me, I Steve Hearst. [Pastor Roberts] Repeat after me, I Steve Hearst.
1343 01:18:37,754 01:18:39,548 I Steve Hearst. I Steve Hearst.
1344 01:18:39,548 01:18:40,882 Take you Jan Nichols. Take you Jan Nichols.
1345 01:18:40,882 01:18:42,717 [Steve] Take you Jan Nichols. [Steve] Take you Jan Nichols.
1346 01:18:42,717 01:18:43,677 [Pastor Roberts] To be my wife. [Pastor Roberts] To be my wife.
1347 01:18:43,677 01:18:45,262 [Steve] To be my wife. [Steve] To be my wife.
1348 01:18:49,099 01:18:51,017 To have and to hold from this day forward. To have and to hold from this day forward.
1349 01:18:51,017 01:18:53,228 To have and to hold from this day forward. To have and to hold from this day forward.
1350 01:18:53,228 01:18:55,981 [Pastor Roberts] For better, for worse, for richer, for poorer. [Pastor Roberts] For better, for worse, for richer, for poorer.
1351 01:18:55,981 01:18:57,983 In sickness and in health. In sickness and in health.
1352 01:18:57,983 01:19:00,902 For better or worse, for richer or poorer, For better or worse, for richer or poorer,
1353 01:19:00,902 01:19:02,988 in sickness and health. in sickness and health.
1354 01:19:03,238 01:19:04,698 [Pastor Roberts] To love and to cherish. [Pastor Roberts] To love and to cherish.
1355 01:19:05,031 01:19:06,575 [Steve] To love and to cherish. [Steve] To love and to cherish.
1356 01:19:06,575 01:19:08,493 [Pastor Roberts] Until we are parted by death. [Pastor Roberts] Until we are parted by death.
1357 01:19:08,493 01:19:10,579 [Steve] Until we are parted by death. [Steve] Until we are parted by death.
1358 01:19:10,912 01:19:12,497 [Pastor Roberts] Repeat after me, Jan. [Pastor Roberts] Repeat after me, Jan.
1359 01:19:12,497 01:19:13,999 I Jan Nichols. I Jan Nichols.
1360 01:19:13,999 01:19:15,917 I, Jan Nichols. I, Jan Nichols.
1361 01:19:15,917 01:19:17,252 Take you Steve Hearst. Take you Steve Hearst.
1362 01:19:17,252 01:19:19,129 Take you, Steve Hearst. Take you, Steve Hearst.
1363 01:19:19,129 01:19:20,255 [Pastor Roberts] To be my husband. [Pastor Roberts] To be my husband.
1364 01:19:20,255 01:19:21,756 [Jan] To be my husband. [Jan] To be my husband.
1365 01:19:21,756 01:19:24,176 [Pastor Roberts] To have and to hold from this day forward. [Pastor Roberts] To have and to hold from this day forward.
1366 01:19:24,176 01:19:27,137 To have and to hold from this day forward. To have and to hold from this day forward.
1367 01:19:27,137 01:19:30,140 [Pastor Roberts] For better, for worse, for richer, for poorer. [Pastor Roberts] For better, for worse, for richer, for poorer.
1368 01:19:30,140 01:19:32,100 In sickness and in health. In sickness and in health.
1369 01:19:32,100 01:19:35,770 [Jan] For better, for worse, for richer, for poorer. [Jan] For better, for worse, for richer, for poorer.
1370 01:19:35,770 01:19:37,981 In sickness and in health. In sickness and in health.
1371 01:19:37,981 01:19:39,274 [Pastor Roberts] To love and to cherish. [Pastor Roberts] To love and to cherish.
1372 01:19:39,274 01:19:41,276 [Jan] To love and to cherish. [Jan] To love and to cherish.
1373 01:19:41,276 01:19:43,028 [Pastor Roberts] Until we are parted by death. [Pastor Roberts] Until we are parted by death.
1374 01:19:43,028 01:19:44,779 [Jan] Until we are parted by death. [Jan] Until we are parted by death.
1375 01:19:44,779 01:19:47,324 [flatline beep] [flatline beep]
1376 01:19:49,743 01:19:52,329 I love you. [sobbing] I love you. [sobbing]
1377 01:19:52,329 01:19:54,331 He's with God now. He's with God now.
1378 01:19:56,666 01:19:57,834 Okay. Okay.
1379 01:19:59,836 01:20:01,796 You may kiss the bride. You may kiss the bride.
1380 01:20:11,056 01:20:13,308 [applause] Woo! [applause] Woo!
1381 01:20:33,662 01:20:37,499 It is my honour to introduce Jan and Steven Hearst. It is my honour to introduce Jan and Steven Hearst.
1382 01:20:37,499 01:20:40,669 [applause] [applause]
1383 01:20:40,669 01:20:43,838
1384 01:21:26,256 01:21:28,425 Are you okay, mom? Are you okay, mom?
1385 01:21:30,176 01:21:32,262 I think I will be. I think I will be.
1386 01:21:34,514 01:21:49,404
1387 01:21:49,404 01:21:50,405
1387 01:21:49,404 01:21:50,405