1 00:00:03,304 --> 00:00:04,472 >> THAT'S WHAT YOU KEPT SAYING. 2 00:00:04,472 --> 00:00:05,139 [chime dings] 3 00:00:05,139 --> 00:00:06,640 HI, I'M SABRINA. 4 00:00:06,640 --> 00:00:08,176 I'M 17 YEARS OLD AND GREW UP 5 00:00:08,176 --> 00:00:09,810 IN LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA. 6 00:00:09,810 --> 00:00:11,179 MY PARENTS SPLIT UP WHEN I WAS 7 00:00:11,179 --> 00:00:13,581 A KID, AND AFTER LIVING WITH MY 8 00:00:13,581 --> 00:00:15,149 DAD FOR THE LAST TEN YEARS, 9 00:00:15,149 --> 00:00:17,185 I DECIDED I WANTED TO BE NEAR MY 10 00:00:17,185 --> 00:00:19,087 MOM, SO AFTER MY JUNIOR YEAR, 11 00:00:19,087 --> 00:00:21,189 I PACKED MY THINGS AND MOVED ALL 12 00:00:21,189 --> 00:00:22,123 THE WAY ACROSS THE COUNTRY 13 00:00:22,123 --> 00:00:23,857 TO FRANKLIN, TENNESSEE. 14 00:00:23,857 --> 00:00:25,059 THERE'S SO MUCH MORE, LIKE, 15 00:00:25,059 --> 00:00:26,294 NATURE OUT HERE. 16 00:00:26,294 --> 00:00:27,328 IT'S A LOT DIFFERENT HERE, 17 00:00:27,328 --> 00:00:28,696 AND MY MOM'S HOUSE IS ALWAYS 18 00:00:28,696 --> 00:00:29,763 HECTIC, BECAUSE SHE HAS 19 00:00:29,763 --> 00:00:30,764 THREE LITTLE KIDS. 20 00:00:30,764 --> 00:00:32,133 >> DON'T HIT ME. 21 00:00:32,133 --> 00:00:32,833 >> NO. 22 00:00:32,833 --> 00:00:33,934 >> SAY YOU'RE SORRY. 23 00:00:33,934 --> 00:00:35,269 >> SO ME AND MY SISTER REBECCA 24 00:00:35,269 --> 00:00:36,070 LIVE NEARBY 25 00:00:36,070 --> 00:00:37,071 AT OUR GRANDPARENTS' HOUSE, 26 00:00:37,071 --> 00:00:38,139 WHERE THERE'S MORE SPACE. 27 00:00:38,139 --> 00:00:39,140 WHY DOES YOUR HAIR OR MY HAIR 28 00:00:39,140 --> 00:00:39,973 ALWAYS END UP IN MY SPAGHETTI? 29 00:00:39,973 --> 00:00:42,343 >> IT'S YOUR HAIR. 30 00:00:42,343 --> 00:00:43,611 >> MY SISTER AND I ARE REALLY 31 00:00:43,611 --> 00:00:45,213 CLOSE, BUT I MISS MY FRIENDS 32 00:00:45,213 --> 00:00:46,280 BACK IN CALIFORNIA... 33 00:00:46,280 --> 00:00:46,980 >> HELLO? 34 00:00:46,980 --> 00:00:48,116 >> ESPECIALLY MY BOYFRIEND, 35 00:00:48,116 --> 00:00:48,949 IMAN. 36 00:00:48,949 --> 00:00:50,251 WE'VE BEEN TOGETHER FOR A COUPLE 37 00:00:50,251 --> 00:00:51,552 OF YEARS, AND MOVING AWAY HAS 38 00:00:51,552 --> 00:00:52,753 BEEN KIND OF HARD ON OUR 39 00:00:52,753 --> 00:00:53,754 RELATIONSHIP. 40 00:00:53,754 --> 00:00:54,688 BUT NOW IMAN IS THINKING 41 00:00:54,688 --> 00:00:56,190 ABOUT MOVING TO TENNESSEE TO BE 42 00:00:56,190 --> 00:00:56,857 WITH ME. 43 00:00:56,857 --> 00:00:58,326 >> I CAN'T SAY "I-MAN" VERY-- 44 00:00:58,326 --> 00:00:59,793 >> IMAN, NOT "I-MAN." 45 00:00:59,793 --> 00:01:00,461 >> SEE? 46 00:01:00,461 --> 00:01:02,096 I DON'T KNOW HIM AT ALL. 47 00:01:02,096 --> 00:01:03,231 >> THINGS WILL DEFINITELY BE A 48 00:01:03,231 --> 00:01:04,498 LITTLE AWKWARD IF HE MOVES HERE, 49 00:01:04,498 --> 00:01:05,966 BUT I'M DETERMINED TO MAKE IT 50 00:01:05,966 --> 00:01:08,569 WORK, BECAUSE I'M PREGNANT. 51 00:01:17,511 --> 00:01:18,746 LIVING HERE IN TENNESSEE IS SO 52 00:01:18,746 --> 00:01:19,947 MUCH DIFFERENT THAN MY LIFE BACK 53 00:01:19,947 --> 00:01:21,715 IN CALIFORNIA, BUT I REALLY 54 00:01:21,715 --> 00:01:22,916 MISSED HAVING MY MOM AROUND 55 00:01:22,916 --> 00:01:24,051 WHEN I WAS A KID. 56 00:01:24,051 --> 00:01:25,153 MADRE! 57 00:01:25,153 --> 00:01:26,086 AND AFTER I FOUND OUT I WAS 58 00:01:26,086 --> 00:01:27,488 PREGNANT, I KNEW I NEEDED HER 59 00:01:27,488 --> 00:01:28,756 MORE THAN EVER. 60 00:01:28,756 --> 00:01:29,957 I WISH WE COULD LIVE TOGETHER, 61 00:01:29,957 --> 00:01:31,325 BUT I GUESS THIS IS THE NEXT 62 00:01:31,325 --> 00:01:32,293 BEST THING. 63 00:01:32,293 --> 00:01:34,962 >> WHEN YOU WENT WITH YOUR DAD, 64 00:01:34,962 --> 00:01:36,864 WHEN YOU WERE AROUND SEVEN, 65 00:01:36,864 --> 00:01:37,831 IT'S BECAUSE I WAS HAVING 66 00:01:37,831 --> 00:01:39,367 LOTS OF PROBLEMS. 67 00:01:39,367 --> 00:01:41,335 I WASN'T STABLE ENOUGH TO TAKE 68 00:01:41,335 --> 00:01:42,236 CARE OF YOU. 69 00:01:42,236 --> 00:01:43,337 >> WHEN I WAS LITTLE, I 70 00:01:43,337 --> 00:01:45,906 REMEMBER, LIKE, I'D ALWAYS WANT 71 00:01:45,906 --> 00:01:47,175 TO BE WITH YOU AND STUFF, BUT, 72 00:01:47,175 --> 00:01:48,776 YOU KNOW, LIKE, IN SOME WAYS, 73 00:01:48,776 --> 00:01:49,743 I THINK IT WAS, LIKE, 74 00:01:49,743 --> 00:01:50,878 BEST FOR ME TO BE THERE, 75 00:01:50,878 --> 00:01:52,413 BUT A LOT OF TIME, I JUST 76 00:01:52,413 --> 00:01:53,414 WANTED TO BE WITH YOU. 77 00:01:53,414 --> 00:01:55,583 >> YOUR DAD DID THE BEST THAT 78 00:01:55,583 --> 00:01:57,351 HE KNEW HOW. 79 00:01:57,351 --> 00:01:58,452 YOU KNOW, HE SHOULDN'T HAVE 80 00:01:58,452 --> 00:02:00,754 GAVE YOU SO MUCH FREEDOM. 81 00:02:00,754 --> 00:02:02,089 DID YOUR DAD TALK TO YOU ABOUT 82 00:02:02,089 --> 00:02:04,358 BIRTH CONTROL EVER? 83 00:02:04,358 --> 00:02:06,394 >> NO, WE NEVER EVEN TALKED. 84 00:02:06,394 --> 00:02:07,661 I LEARNED, LIKE, WHAT SEX WAS, 85 00:02:07,661 --> 00:02:09,463 LIKE, IN THE SEX ED CLASS, 86 00:02:09,463 --> 00:02:10,531 'CAUSE IT WAS, LIKE, MANDATORY 87 00:02:10,531 --> 00:02:11,432 TO TAKE. 88 00:02:11,432 --> 00:02:12,466 >> I KNOW I'VE TALKED TO YOU 89 00:02:12,466 --> 00:02:14,067 ABOUT IT. 90 00:02:14,067 --> 00:02:15,603 I KNOW I'VE TOLD YOU STUFF-- 91 00:02:15,603 --> 00:02:18,071 THAT YOU'RE NOT READY. 92 00:02:18,071 --> 00:02:19,407 >> YOU GUYS, LIKE, ALWAYS TOLD 93 00:02:19,407 --> 00:02:22,843 ME TO PREVENT IT, BUT, LIKE, 94 00:02:22,843 --> 00:02:23,844 IN THE CLASS, THEY ACTUALLY 95 00:02:23,844 --> 00:02:25,112 SHOWED ME, LIKE, WHAT IT WAS. 96 00:02:25,112 --> 00:02:27,147 >> WE JUST TOLD YOU NOT TO, 97 00:02:27,147 --> 00:02:28,816 INSTEAD OF ACTUALLY TELLING YOU 98 00:02:28,816 --> 00:02:31,952 WHAT IT WAS AND WHY YOU 99 00:02:31,952 --> 00:02:33,554 SHOULDN'T DO IT. 100 00:02:33,554 --> 00:02:34,722 WE JUST TOLD YOU, "DON'T." 101 00:02:34,722 --> 00:02:36,224 I MEAN, WE ALL MAKE OUR 102 00:02:36,224 --> 00:02:38,125 MISTAKES, AND NOBODY'S PERFECT 103 00:02:38,125 --> 00:02:39,393 AS PARENTS, AND YOU'RE GOING TO 104 00:02:39,393 --> 00:02:40,961 LEARN THAT TOO. 105 00:02:40,961 --> 00:02:43,931 IT SURPRISES ME THAT YOU MADE 106 00:02:43,931 --> 00:02:46,434 THOSE TYPE OF DECISIONS, BUT IT 107 00:02:46,434 --> 00:02:48,869 DOESN'T MAKE YOU A BAD PERSON, 108 00:02:48,869 --> 00:02:50,971 AT ALL. 109 00:02:50,971 --> 00:02:53,474 IT JUST--YOU DID SOMETHING, 110 00:02:53,474 --> 00:02:56,277 AND NOW YOU GOT TO PAY THE 111 00:02:56,277 --> 00:02:58,379 CONSEQUENCES. 112 00:02:58,379 --> 00:02:59,347 >> EVEN THOUGH I DON'T LIVE WITH 113 00:02:59,347 --> 00:03:01,081 HER, IT'S NICE FINALLY HAVING MY 114 00:03:01,081 --> 00:03:02,283 MOM AROUND TO TALK TO. 115 00:03:02,283 --> 00:03:03,584 [chime dings] 116 00:03:03,584 --> 00:03:04,752 GROWING UP IN A BROKEN HOME 117 00:03:04,752 --> 00:03:06,420 WAS REALLY PAINFUL, AND I'M 118 00:03:06,420 --> 00:03:07,721 DESPERATE FOR MY BABY TO HAVE 119 00:03:07,721 --> 00:03:09,423 BOTH PARENTS IN ITS LIFE. 120 00:03:09,423 --> 00:03:10,724 I WAS NERVOUS ABOUT MOVING SO 121 00:03:10,724 --> 00:03:12,460 FAR AWAY FROM IMAN AFTER I GOT 122 00:03:12,460 --> 00:03:14,094 PREGNANT, BUT HE PROMISED ME HE 123 00:03:14,094 --> 00:03:15,563 WAS SAVING HIS MONEY AND WOULD 124 00:03:15,563 --> 00:03:16,864 MAKE IT TO TENNESSEE BEFORE THE 125 00:03:16,864 --> 00:03:18,098 BABY CAME. 126 00:03:18,098 --> 00:03:19,633 BUT I'M DUE IN SIX WEEKS, 127 00:03:19,633 --> 00:03:20,934 AND IMAN STILL DOESN'T HAVE 128 00:03:20,934 --> 00:03:22,169 HIS PLANE TICKET. 129 00:03:22,169 --> 00:03:23,036 HELLO? 130 00:03:23,036 --> 00:03:24,238 >> WHERE YOU AT? 131 00:03:24,238 --> 00:03:26,240 >> I'M IN MY BACKYARD. 132 00:03:27,908 --> 00:03:29,176 >> MY SISTER. 133 00:03:29,176 --> 00:03:31,111 >> DID HE BUY THE TICKETS YET? 134 00:03:31,111 --> 00:03:33,647 >> NO, HE'S WAITING TO BUY THEM. 135 00:03:33,647 --> 00:03:35,215 >> OH. 136 00:03:35,215 --> 00:03:36,484 WHEN DOES, LIKE, HE PLAN ON 137 00:03:36,484 --> 00:03:37,385 COMING OUT HERE? 138 00:03:37,385 --> 00:03:40,554 >> NOT TILL THE DAY OF--LIKE, MY 139 00:03:40,554 --> 00:03:42,990 DUE DATE, AUGUST 26TH, RIGHT? 140 00:03:42,990 --> 00:03:44,191 IS THAT WHEN YOU'RE COMING OUT? 141 00:03:44,191 --> 00:03:45,359 >> WHAT IF IT COMES EARLY, AND 142 00:03:45,359 --> 00:03:47,661 HE'S GOING TO MISS EVERYTHING? 143 00:03:47,661 --> 00:03:49,096 >> [sighs] 144 00:03:49,096 --> 00:03:51,299 WHY CAN'T YOU JUST COME, 145 00:03:51,299 --> 00:03:53,301 LIKE, EARLIER? 146 00:03:54,535 --> 00:03:56,003 >> A FAMILY THING. 147 00:03:56,003 --> 00:03:56,970 >> SO THAT'S MORE IMPORTANT THAN 148 00:03:56,970 --> 00:03:59,973 HIS FAMILY THAT HE MADE? 149 00:03:59,973 --> 00:04:01,342 >> ARE YOU EXCITED TO COME OUT, 150 00:04:01,342 --> 00:04:02,175 OR DO YOU NOT WANT TO COME OUT 151 00:04:02,175 --> 00:04:04,177 ANYMORE? 152 00:04:07,348 --> 00:04:08,482 >> WHERE IS IMAN GOING TO STAY 153 00:04:08,482 --> 00:04:09,483 WHEN HE GETS OUT HERE? 154 00:04:09,483 --> 00:04:11,352 >> HE'S--WELL, HE WAS GOING TO 155 00:04:11,352 --> 00:04:13,687 STAY OVER HERE. 156 00:04:13,687 --> 00:04:14,688 [laughs] 157 00:04:14,688 --> 00:04:16,223 >> HE'S NOT TAKING MY ROOM. 158 00:04:16,223 --> 00:04:17,391 >> WHAT DO YOU THINK IT'S GOING 159 00:04:17,391 --> 00:04:18,326 TO BE LIKE, LIKE, WHEN YOU COME 160 00:04:18,326 --> 00:04:20,328 OUT HERE? 161 00:04:29,537 --> 00:04:32,306 >> WELL, ONCE YOU KNOW WHEN 162 00:04:32,306 --> 00:04:33,040 YOU'RE GETTING OUT, 163 00:04:33,040 --> 00:04:34,074 THEN TELL ME. 164 00:04:34,074 --> 00:04:34,875 >> I LOVE YOU. 165 00:04:34,875 --> 00:04:37,845 >> I LOVE YOU TOO. 166 00:04:37,845 --> 00:04:39,012 NONSENSE. 167 00:04:39,012 --> 00:04:39,680 [laughs] 168 00:04:39,680 --> 00:04:41,582 >> SOMETIMES I, LIKE--IT JUST 169 00:04:41,582 --> 00:04:42,650 MAKES ME THINK, LIKE, HE'S 170 00:04:42,650 --> 00:04:43,817 REALLY STUBBORN, AND HE'S NOT 171 00:04:43,817 --> 00:04:44,785 WILLING TO GIVE UP THAT MUCH 172 00:04:44,785 --> 00:04:47,621 FOR YOU. 173 00:04:47,621 --> 00:04:49,122 >> LIKE, HE TELLS ME SO MUCH 174 00:04:49,122 --> 00:04:51,759 THAT HE IS, AND I WANT TO 175 00:04:51,759 --> 00:04:52,826 BELIEVE HIM, BUT... 176 00:04:52,826 --> 00:04:53,861 >> I THINK, FOR ME, IN THE 177 00:04:53,861 --> 00:04:55,896 BEGINNING WHEN IMAN MOVES OUT 178 00:04:55,896 --> 00:04:56,764 HERE, IT'S GONNA BE, LIKE, A 179 00:04:56,764 --> 00:04:59,600 LITTLE WEIRD AND UNCOMFORTABLE. 180 00:04:59,600 --> 00:05:01,134 >> I KNOW MY SISTER IS WORRIED 181 00:05:01,134 --> 00:05:02,202 THAT THINGS WILL CHANGE WHEN 182 00:05:02,202 --> 00:05:03,837 IMAN MOVES HERE, BUT I'M HOPING 183 00:05:03,837 --> 00:05:05,238 WE CAN ALL MAKE IT WORK AND BE 184 00:05:05,238 --> 00:05:08,642 A FAMILY. 185 00:05:08,642 --> 00:05:10,378 DOES A SPATULA WORK TO GET 186 00:05:10,378 --> 00:05:11,645 SPAGHETTI OUT? 187 00:05:11,645 --> 00:05:13,647 OH, I GUESS SO. 188 00:05:19,853 --> 00:05:21,622 >> WHEN'S "E-MAN" COMING? 189 00:05:21,622 --> 00:05:22,690 DO YOU KNOW FOR SURE? 190 00:05:22,690 --> 00:05:23,591 [both laugh] 191 00:05:23,591 --> 00:05:24,758 I MEAN "I-MAN"? 192 00:05:24,758 --> 00:05:26,159 SORRY, SABRINA, I HAVEN'T GOT 193 00:05:26,159 --> 00:05:27,595 USED TO THE NAME YET. 194 00:05:27,595 --> 00:05:28,462 >> I THOUGHT HE SHOULD HAVE BEEN 195 00:05:28,462 --> 00:05:29,897 HERE BY NOW. 196 00:05:29,897 --> 00:05:31,865 >> YEAH, I DO TOO. 197 00:05:31,865 --> 00:05:33,133 >> IT'S GONNA BE A LOT MORE 198 00:05:33,133 --> 00:05:34,001 DIFFERENT WITH THE BABY HERE. 199 00:05:34,001 --> 00:05:34,868 >> UH-HUH. 200 00:05:34,868 --> 00:05:35,869 >> NOISY. 201 00:05:35,869 --> 00:05:36,770 >> YEAH, BECAUSE ONCE THE BABY 202 00:05:36,770 --> 00:05:38,472 COMES, IMAN'S COMING TOO. 203 00:05:38,472 --> 00:05:39,707 SO IT'S GONNA GO FROM FOUR 204 00:05:39,707 --> 00:05:41,074 PEOPLE AT THE TABLE TO SIX. 205 00:05:41,074 --> 00:05:42,643 >> WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT HOW 206 00:05:42,643 --> 00:05:44,077 LONG YOU MIGHT BE HERE? 207 00:05:44,077 --> 00:05:45,345 >> LIKE, RIGHT AFTER I GRADUATE, 208 00:05:45,345 --> 00:05:46,514 WE'RE GONNA LOOK INTO, LIKE, 209 00:05:46,514 --> 00:05:47,948 OTHER PLACES. 210 00:05:47,948 --> 00:05:49,650 >> I THINK IT'S GONNA BE KIND OF 211 00:05:49,650 --> 00:05:51,318 HARD ON YOU TO RENT AN APARTMENT 212 00:05:51,318 --> 00:05:54,688 FOR, YOU KNOW, $1,000 A MONTH, 213 00:05:54,688 --> 00:05:56,023 YOU KNOW, WHEN YOU FIRST START 214 00:05:56,023 --> 00:05:58,358 OUT. 215 00:05:58,358 --> 00:05:59,359 >> IT'S AWESOME THAT MY 216 00:05:59,359 --> 00:06:00,928 GRANDPARENTS ARE BEING SO COOL, 217 00:06:00,928 --> 00:06:02,396 BUT IF THEY'RE GONNA LET IMAN 218 00:06:02,396 --> 00:06:04,097 MOVE IN WITH US, I NEED TO KNOW 219 00:06:04,097 --> 00:06:05,365 HE'S GOING TO HELP SUPPORT 220 00:06:05,365 --> 00:06:06,333 OUR BABY. 221 00:06:06,333 --> 00:06:08,636 [line ringing] 222 00:06:08,636 --> 00:06:09,670 >> HELLO? 223 00:06:09,670 --> 00:06:11,104 >> HI. 224 00:06:11,104 --> 00:06:12,105 >> SO WHAT'S UP? 225 00:06:12,105 --> 00:06:13,441 >> LIKE, WHAT ARE YOUR PLANS 226 00:06:13,441 --> 00:06:15,476 WHEN YOU COME OUT HERE? 227 00:06:16,777 --> 00:06:17,711 >> SO DO YOU HAVE MONEY SAVED 228 00:06:17,711 --> 00:06:19,747 UP, OR ARE YOU SPENDING IT? 229 00:06:24,184 --> 00:06:25,385 >> SO YOU'RE NOT GONNA SAVE 230 00:06:25,385 --> 00:06:27,387 ANYTHING FOR THE BABY? 231 00:06:31,158 --> 00:06:32,493 CAN WE JUST... 232 00:06:32,493 --> 00:06:34,495 OH, GOD. 233 00:06:35,829 --> 00:06:37,297 >> OKAY, BYE. 234 00:06:37,297 --> 00:06:39,132 >> BYE. 235 00:06:39,132 --> 00:06:40,267 >> UGH. 236 00:06:40,267 --> 00:06:41,635 IMAN PROMISED ME HE'D START 237 00:06:41,635 --> 00:06:43,737 SAVING HIS MONEY AND GET HERE IN 238 00:06:43,737 --> 00:06:44,838 TIME FOR THE BABY, BUT TIME IS 239 00:06:44,838 --> 00:06:46,840 RUNNING OUT. 240 00:07:00,621 --> 00:07:01,622 >> WHAT YOU DOING? 241 00:07:01,622 --> 00:07:02,890 >> TRYING TO CHECK IF IMAN'S 242 00:07:02,890 --> 00:07:03,857 ONLINE. 243 00:07:03,857 --> 00:07:04,525 >> IS HE? 244 00:07:04,525 --> 00:07:05,192 >> NO. 245 00:07:05,192 --> 00:07:06,093 >> ARE YOU JUST GOING TO CALL 246 00:07:06,093 --> 00:07:06,960 HIM THEN, I GUESS? 247 00:07:06,960 --> 00:07:08,896 >> NO. 248 00:07:08,896 --> 00:07:10,430 AFTER OUR TALK LAST NIGHT, 249 00:07:10,430 --> 00:07:11,565 I'M WORRIED ABOUT IMAN MAKING 250 00:07:11,565 --> 00:07:12,733 IT TO TENNESSEE IN TIME FOR 251 00:07:12,733 --> 00:07:13,400 THE DELIVERY. 252 00:07:13,400 --> 00:07:14,167 [chime dings] 253 00:07:14,167 --> 00:07:15,268 SCHOOL STARTS RIGHT AROUND MY 254 00:07:15,268 --> 00:07:16,904 DUE DATE, AND I'M GONNA NEED HIS 255 00:07:16,904 --> 00:07:18,572 HELP WITH THE BABY TO HAVE ANY 256 00:07:18,572 --> 00:07:21,174 CHANCE OF GRADUATING THIS YEAR. 257 00:07:21,174 --> 00:07:22,676 >> ARE YOU LOOKING FORWARD TO 258 00:07:22,676 --> 00:07:24,645 SCHOOL, WITH YOUR BABY 259 00:07:24,645 --> 00:07:25,813 AND WHATNOT? 260 00:07:25,813 --> 00:07:27,681 >> IN SCHOOL, I WOULD HAVE THAT 261 00:07:27,681 --> 00:07:29,783 DAY CARE, SO DURING THE DAY, 262 00:07:29,783 --> 00:07:31,051 SHE'S GONNA BE, LIKE, WITH ME 263 00:07:31,051 --> 00:07:31,919 AT THE SCHOOL. 264 00:07:31,919 --> 00:07:33,086 I DON'T WANT TO JUST, LIKE, 265 00:07:33,086 --> 00:07:34,722 LEAVE HER WITH MOM OR GRANDMA 266 00:07:34,722 --> 00:07:35,523 ALL THE TIME. 267 00:07:35,523 --> 00:07:37,190 >> I THINK I'M CONCERNED ABOUT 268 00:07:37,190 --> 00:07:40,828 YOU GETTING TOO FAR BEHIND IN 269 00:07:40,828 --> 00:07:42,395 YOUR SCHOOLWORK WHILE YOU'RE NOT 270 00:07:42,395 --> 00:07:43,430 AT SCHOOL. 271 00:07:43,430 --> 00:07:46,033 YOU MIGHT NOT HAVE TIME TO 272 00:07:46,033 --> 00:07:48,201 ACTUALLY DO IT, WITH THE BABY. 273 00:07:48,201 --> 00:07:52,005 >> WELL, NEWBORNS SLEEP A LOT. 274 00:07:52,005 --> 00:07:53,340 >> THEY ALSO WHINE A LOT AND 275 00:07:53,340 --> 00:07:54,407 POOP A LOT. 276 00:07:54,407 --> 00:07:55,743 >> LIKE, I'M GONNA GET THE TUTOR 277 00:07:55,743 --> 00:07:56,810 FROM THE SCHOOL. 278 00:07:56,810 --> 00:07:58,278 JUST A CERTAIN COUPLE OF HOURS, 279 00:07:58,278 --> 00:07:59,713 JUST SO I CAN GET MY STUFF AND 280 00:07:59,713 --> 00:08:03,350 KEEP ON TRACK, AND THEN GO BACK 281 00:08:03,350 --> 00:08:04,652 AS SOON AS POSSIBLE. 282 00:08:04,652 --> 00:08:06,987 OH, AND I HAVE TO GET FITTED 283 00:08:06,987 --> 00:08:08,055 FOR MY CAP AND GOWN. 284 00:08:08,055 --> 00:08:09,757 LIKE, THE GOWN IS GONNA BE, 285 00:08:09,757 --> 00:08:11,091 LIKE, FIVE TIMES AS BIG ON ME. 286 00:08:11,091 --> 00:08:12,459 >> ARE THEY SERIOUSLY GONNA 287 00:08:12,459 --> 00:08:14,628 MEASURE IT WITH THE BELLY? 288 00:08:14,628 --> 00:08:15,629 >> I'M LIKE, "SUBTRACT." 289 00:08:15,629 --> 00:08:16,664 >> YOU'RE NOT GONNA BE 290 00:08:16,664 --> 00:08:17,865 THAT HUGE WHEN YOU'RE-- 291 00:08:17,865 --> 00:08:20,568 >> I'M LIKE, "MEASURE HER." 292 00:08:25,205 --> 00:08:26,640 IT'S HOT IN HERE, MOM. 293 00:08:26,640 --> 00:08:28,075 >> NO, IT'S NOT. 294 00:08:28,075 --> 00:08:29,109 I JUST THINK YOU'RE NOT FEELING 295 00:08:29,109 --> 00:08:30,477 GOOD TODAY. 296 00:08:30,477 --> 00:08:31,511 >> I FEEL LIKE I'M SWEATING 297 00:08:31,511 --> 00:08:32,680 TO DEATH. 298 00:08:32,680 --> 00:08:34,147 MY DUE DATE IS LESS THAN A MONTH 299 00:08:34,147 --> 00:08:35,616 AWAY, AND I STILL DON'T HAVE 300 00:08:35,616 --> 00:08:36,750 EVERYTHING I'LL NEED FOR WHEN 301 00:08:36,750 --> 00:08:37,618 THE BABY COMES HOME. 302 00:08:37,618 --> 00:08:38,652 >> EVEN THAT CONSIGNMENT SALE 303 00:08:38,652 --> 00:08:40,453 THAT WE WENT TO OVER HERE IN 304 00:08:40,453 --> 00:08:42,222 FRANKLIN, THOSE CRIBS WERE, 305 00:08:42,222 --> 00:08:43,356 LIKE, $300 TO $400. 306 00:08:43,356 --> 00:08:44,892 >> I KNOW. 307 00:08:44,892 --> 00:08:46,393 AS SOON AS I FOUND OUT I WAS 308 00:08:46,393 --> 00:08:48,195 HAVING A GIRL, MY MOM AND 309 00:08:48,195 --> 00:08:49,663 SISTER WANTED TO GO SHOPPING, 310 00:08:49,663 --> 00:08:51,064 BUT SINCE IMAN IS STILL TRYING 311 00:08:51,064 --> 00:08:52,165 TO SAVE UP FOR A PLANE TICKET, 312 00:08:52,165 --> 00:08:53,801 IT'S UP TO ME TO BUY EVERYTHING 313 00:08:53,801 --> 00:08:55,669 WE NEED. 314 00:08:55,669 --> 00:08:56,770 THE BABY NEEDS A TRAMPOLINE, 315 00:08:56,770 --> 00:08:57,705 MOM. 316 00:08:57,705 --> 00:08:59,006 >> THE BABY NEEDS A TRAMPOLINE. 317 00:08:59,006 --> 00:09:00,173 >> THOSE ARE EXPENSIVE. 318 00:09:00,173 --> 00:09:01,508 I ALMOST FORGOT. 319 00:09:01,508 --> 00:09:03,343 YOU'RE GONNA NEED SOME PADS 320 00:09:03,343 --> 00:09:04,878 FOR YOUR-- 321 00:09:04,878 --> 00:09:05,713 YOUR BOOBS ARE GONNA START 322 00:09:05,713 --> 00:09:06,814 LEAKING AFTER THE BABY AND 323 00:09:06,814 --> 00:09:08,716 PROBABLY BEFORE THE BABY. 324 00:09:08,716 --> 00:09:10,350 I DON'T KNOW. 325 00:09:10,350 --> 00:09:11,151 >> THAT'S GROSS. 326 00:09:11,151 --> 00:09:11,919 >> SO--BUT YOU'RE GONNA 327 00:09:11,919 --> 00:09:12,552 NEED PADS. 328 00:09:12,552 --> 00:09:13,353 I ALMOST FORGOT ABOUT THAT. 329 00:09:13,353 --> 00:09:14,154 >> THAT'S NOT NORMAL. 330 00:09:14,154 --> 00:09:15,455 >> ARE YOU JUST PREPARED, 331 00:09:15,455 --> 00:09:16,757 MENTALLY, FOR THE BABY TO COME 332 00:09:16,757 --> 00:09:18,926 NOW OR... 333 00:09:18,926 --> 00:09:19,860 >> NO. 334 00:09:19,860 --> 00:09:20,527 [laughs] 335 00:09:20,527 --> 00:09:21,762 >> WHAT IS THE NAMES YOU'RE 336 00:09:21,762 --> 00:09:22,996 THINKING ABOUT FOR THE BABY? 337 00:09:22,996 --> 00:09:24,364 >> REMEMBER, I TOLD YOU I WAS 338 00:09:24,364 --> 00:09:26,233 THINKING ABOUT AUDREY? 339 00:09:26,233 --> 00:09:27,234 >> AUDREY? 340 00:09:27,234 --> 00:09:28,368 NO, I DON'T LIKE AUDREY. 341 00:09:28,368 --> 00:09:29,269 >> TOO BAD. 342 00:09:29,269 --> 00:09:31,104 >> AND IT'S GONNA HAVE IMAN'S 343 00:09:31,104 --> 00:09:32,005 LAST NAME? 344 00:09:32,005 --> 00:09:33,774 >> YEAH. 345 00:09:33,774 --> 00:09:34,908 >> IT IS? 346 00:09:34,908 --> 00:09:37,310 YOU'RE NOT MARRIED TO HIM. 347 00:09:37,310 --> 00:09:38,912 >> BUT HE'S THE FATHER 348 00:09:38,912 --> 00:09:39,947 OF THE BABY. 349 00:09:39,947 --> 00:09:42,082 >> I THINK THAT IF HE SAVED THE 350 00:09:42,082 --> 00:09:44,618 MONEY ENOUGH AND HE WAS 351 00:09:44,618 --> 00:09:45,686 RESPONSIBLE ENOUGH TO SAVE 352 00:09:45,686 --> 00:09:47,054 ENOUGH MONEY TO GET OUT HERE-- 353 00:09:47,054 --> 00:09:48,221 >> TO SEE THE BABY. 354 00:09:48,221 --> 00:09:49,723 >> TO SEE THE BABY, THEN HE 355 00:09:49,723 --> 00:09:52,059 DESERVES TO HAVE THE BABY NAMED 356 00:09:52,059 --> 00:09:53,093 AFTER HIM. 357 00:09:53,093 --> 00:09:54,127 DO YOU AGREE WITH ME? 358 00:09:54,127 --> 00:09:55,028 >> YEAH. 359 00:09:55,028 --> 00:09:56,596 WELL, THAT'S WHAT I THINK TOO. 360 00:09:56,596 --> 00:09:57,597 LIKE, IF HE'S NOT GOING TO COME 361 00:09:57,597 --> 00:09:59,566 OUT HERE AND EVERYTHING AFTER, 362 00:09:59,566 --> 00:10:00,600 LIKE, ALL THESE MONTHS OF HIM 363 00:10:00,600 --> 00:10:02,135 SAYING THAT HE'S COMING OUT 364 00:10:02,135 --> 00:10:02,970 HERE, THEN-- 365 00:10:02,970 --> 00:10:04,404 >> WELL, HE CAN'T JUST COME OUT 366 00:10:04,404 --> 00:10:06,073 HERE LAST-MINUTE EITHER. 367 00:10:06,073 --> 00:10:07,908 >> I FEEL SAD, BECAUSE I'M NOT 368 00:10:07,908 --> 00:10:09,209 GONNA BE ABLE TO SPEND AS MUCH 369 00:10:09,209 --> 00:10:11,244 TIME WITH YOU. 370 00:10:11,244 --> 00:10:12,880 >> WHAT ARE YOU UPSET ABOUT, 371 00:10:12,880 --> 00:10:14,715 BECCA LEE? 372 00:10:14,715 --> 00:10:16,149 >> THAT I'M NOT GONNA BE ABLE TO 373 00:10:16,149 --> 00:10:18,986 SPEND TIME WITH MY SISTER, 374 00:10:18,986 --> 00:10:22,389 HANG OUT AND DO FUN STUFF 375 00:10:22,389 --> 00:10:24,191 LIKE WE ALWAYS DO. 376 00:10:24,191 --> 00:10:25,525 IMAN'S ALWAYS GOING TO BE THERE 377 00:10:25,525 --> 00:10:26,994 TO DO STUFF WITH HER. 378 00:10:26,994 --> 00:10:29,296 >> I FEEL LIKE EITHER--IF IMAN 379 00:10:29,296 --> 00:10:30,964 WAS HERE OR NOT, I WOULD STILL 380 00:10:30,964 --> 00:10:32,299 WANT YOU AROUND ALL THE TIME 381 00:10:32,299 --> 00:10:33,834 AND EVERYTHING. 382 00:10:33,834 --> 00:10:35,803 [sniffling] 383 00:10:37,871 --> 00:10:39,606 IF IMAN DOESN'T COME, I'M STUCK 384 00:10:39,606 --> 00:10:41,308 RAISING THIS BABY ALONE, AND IF 385 00:10:41,308 --> 00:10:42,876 HE DOES, I'M WORRIED ABOUT HOW 386 00:10:42,876 --> 00:10:45,112 REBECCA WILL REACT. 387 00:10:45,112 --> 00:10:46,413 >> YOU CAN'T HARDLY LIFT 388 00:10:46,413 --> 00:10:47,514 YOUR BELLY. 389 00:10:47,514 --> 00:10:49,416 YOU HAVEN'T DROPPED YET. 390 00:10:49,416 --> 00:10:50,483 >> ALL THE STRESS HAS BEEN 391 00:10:50,483 --> 00:10:51,885 KEEPING ME UP AT NIGHT, AND MY 392 00:10:51,885 --> 00:10:54,454 FEET HAVE GOTTEN HUGE. 393 00:10:54,454 --> 00:10:56,289 >> SHE'S BEEN SWELLING LATELY, 394 00:10:56,289 --> 00:10:57,490 AND I'VE BEEN WORRIED ABOUT 395 00:10:57,490 --> 00:10:58,692 HER SWELLING. 396 00:10:58,692 --> 00:10:59,693 >> ACTUALLY, SWELLING IS NORMAL 397 00:10:59,693 --> 00:11:00,928 IN PREGNANCY. 398 00:11:00,928 --> 00:11:02,495 IT'S WHEN IT'S IN COMBINATION 399 00:11:02,495 --> 00:11:05,465 WITH HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE-- 400 00:11:05,465 --> 00:11:08,035 123 OVER 68. 401 00:11:08,035 --> 00:11:09,803 >> THAT'S GOOD. 402 00:11:09,803 --> 00:11:12,005 [heart beating on ultrasound] 403 00:11:12,005 --> 00:11:13,673 >> HELLO. 404 00:11:13,673 --> 00:11:14,742 HOW YOU DOING? 405 00:11:14,742 --> 00:11:15,743 >> I'M GOOD. 406 00:11:15,743 --> 00:11:16,710 >> FEELING ALL RIGHT? 407 00:11:16,710 --> 00:11:17,711 WHAT'S NEW? 408 00:11:17,711 --> 00:11:18,545 >> SWELLING. 409 00:11:18,545 --> 00:11:19,446 >> YEAH. 410 00:11:19,446 --> 00:11:20,180 >> SWELLING. 411 00:11:20,180 --> 00:11:21,281 YOU KNOW WHY THAT IS? 412 00:11:21,281 --> 00:11:22,249 >> I'M PREGNANT? 413 00:11:22,249 --> 00:11:22,950 >> YOU'RE PREGNANT. 414 00:11:22,950 --> 00:11:24,918 >> 'CAUSE YOU'RE PREGNANT. 415 00:11:25,953 --> 00:11:26,619 >> YEAH. 416 00:11:26,619 --> 00:11:30,457 >> THAT'S GOOD. 417 00:11:30,457 --> 00:11:31,892 EVERYTHING'S ON TRACK. 418 00:11:31,892 --> 00:11:33,060 YOU SHOULD BE GOOD TO GO. 419 00:11:33,060 --> 00:11:34,561 THE BABY'S MOVING PLENTY. 420 00:11:34,561 --> 00:11:35,662 >> WELL, AND THEN HER BIRTH 421 00:11:35,662 --> 00:11:37,230 CONTROL AFTER, PROBABLY 422 00:11:37,230 --> 00:11:38,398 AN I.U.D. WOULD BE BEST. 423 00:11:38,398 --> 00:11:39,199 >> THAT'S WHAT I WOULD DO, 424 00:11:39,199 --> 00:11:39,933 IF IT WAS ME. 425 00:11:39,933 --> 00:11:40,567 >> WHAT'S THAT? 426 00:11:40,567 --> 00:11:41,935 >> AN I.U.D. THAT LOOKS LIKE 427 00:11:41,935 --> 00:11:43,771 A LITTLE ANCHOR, KIND OF... 428 00:11:43,771 --> 00:11:44,437 FFT! 429 00:11:44,437 --> 00:11:45,739 >> [laughs] 430 00:11:45,739 --> 00:11:46,740 YEAH, THERE YOU GO, 431 00:11:46,740 --> 00:11:47,674 A LITTLE ANCHOR. 432 00:11:47,674 --> 00:11:49,242 >> LITTLE ANCHOR. 433 00:11:49,242 --> 00:11:50,443 >> SO HOW MANY PEOPLE CAN 434 00:11:50,443 --> 00:11:52,479 ACTUALLY BE IN THE ROOM? 435 00:11:52,479 --> 00:11:53,413 >> I DON'T KNOW IF THERE'S 436 00:11:53,413 --> 00:11:54,547 A REAL HOSPITAL POLICY. 437 00:11:54,547 --> 00:11:55,515 I MEAN, YOU OBVIOUSLY DON'T WANT 438 00:11:55,515 --> 00:11:56,583 A DOZEN PEOPLE IN THERE. 439 00:11:56,583 --> 00:11:57,584 IT GETS KIND OF CRAZY. 440 00:11:57,584 --> 00:11:58,585 BUT YOUR IMMEDIATE FAMILY, 441 00:11:58,585 --> 00:11:59,987 MOST OF THE TIME, WE'RE FINE. 442 00:11:59,987 --> 00:12:00,687 YOU DON'T WANT IT TO 443 00:12:00,687 --> 00:12:01,755 BE A CIRCUS. 444 00:12:01,755 --> 00:12:03,223 THIS IS YOUR MOMENT. 445 00:12:03,223 --> 00:12:04,424 THIS IS ABOUT YOU, SO I WOULD 446 00:12:04,424 --> 00:12:05,558 JUST HAVE THE PEOPLE IN THERE 447 00:12:05,558 --> 00:12:06,459 YOU WANT. 448 00:12:06,459 --> 00:12:07,727 >> OKAY. 449 00:12:07,727 --> 00:12:09,529 >> THANK YOU VERY MUCH. 450 00:12:09,529 --> 00:12:10,430 >> THANK YOU. 451 00:12:10,430 --> 00:12:12,766 >> THANKS. 452 00:12:12,766 --> 00:12:14,001 >> I KNOW I'LL HAVE MY MOM 453 00:12:14,001 --> 00:12:15,035 AND SISTER WITH ME IN THE 454 00:12:15,035 --> 00:12:18,405 DELIVERY ROOM. 455 00:12:18,405 --> 00:12:19,773 >> OOH, ICE CREAM. 456 00:12:19,773 --> 00:12:21,408 >> AND IF I CAN JUST MAKE IT 457 00:12:21,408 --> 00:12:23,110 TO MY DUE DATE, IMAN MIGHT BE 458 00:12:23,110 --> 00:12:26,346 THERE TOO. 459 00:12:26,346 --> 00:12:28,348 SO IMAN JUST CALLED ME, LIKE, 460 00:12:28,348 --> 00:12:30,383 TWO SECONDS AGO. 461 00:12:30,383 --> 00:12:32,052 >> DID YOU TALK TO HIM OR... 462 00:12:32,052 --> 00:12:33,987 >> WHAT ARE YOU DOING? 463 00:12:35,989 --> 00:12:37,424 >> I'M AT THE ICE CREAM-- 464 00:12:37,424 --> 00:12:38,358 GELATO PLACE...THING. 465 00:12:38,358 --> 00:12:40,360 WHAT ARE YOU DOING? 466 00:12:43,797 --> 00:12:45,966 >> WHAT'S WRONG WITH YOU? 467 00:12:47,801 --> 00:12:49,803 >> WHY NOT? 468 00:12:52,639 --> 00:12:54,641 >> OKAY. 469 00:13:01,048 --> 00:13:02,582 >> HANG UP. 470 00:13:02,582 --> 00:13:05,886 >> OKAY, WHATEVER. 471 00:13:05,886 --> 00:13:07,487 >> THAT WAS RUDE. 472 00:13:07,487 --> 00:13:10,557 >> [crying] 473 00:13:13,660 --> 00:13:14,995 >> DID ANYTHING HAPPEN TO MAKE 474 00:13:14,995 --> 00:13:16,529 HIM MAD OR... 475 00:13:16,529 --> 00:13:17,597 >> NO, LIKE, I HAVEN'T EVEN 476 00:13:17,597 --> 00:13:19,833 TALKED TO HIM, LIKE... 477 00:13:19,833 --> 00:13:21,969 >> WHY IS HE BEING LIKE THAT 478 00:13:21,969 --> 00:13:22,970 TO YOU? 479 00:13:22,970 --> 00:13:24,371 >> I DON'T KNOW. 480 00:13:24,371 --> 00:13:28,508 HE'S NEVER LIKE THAT. 481 00:13:28,508 --> 00:13:30,277 >> MAYBE HE'S SCARED OF THE 482 00:13:30,277 --> 00:13:31,879 RESPONSIBILITIES. 483 00:13:31,879 --> 00:13:32,980 >> HE'S LIKE, 484 00:13:32,980 --> 00:13:34,147 "OF COURSE I'M SCARED. 485 00:13:34,147 --> 00:13:35,415 LIKE, AREN'T YOU SCARED OF 486 00:13:35,415 --> 00:13:36,316 BEING A MOTHER?" 487 00:13:36,316 --> 00:13:37,584 >> I'M LIKE, "YEAH, IT'S SCARY," 488 00:13:37,584 --> 00:13:39,219 BUT IT'S, LIKE, WHAT I HAVE 489 00:13:39,219 --> 00:13:40,587 TO DO. 490 00:13:40,587 --> 00:13:41,788 >> DO YOU THINK, IF HE DOESN'T 491 00:13:41,788 --> 00:13:42,923 COME, YOU GUYS WILL TRY TO MAKE 492 00:13:42,923 --> 00:13:45,458 IT WORK OR... 493 00:13:45,458 --> 00:13:46,826 JUST THAT'S IT? 494 00:13:46,826 --> 00:13:48,028 >> IF HE'S NOT GONNA COME, 495 00:13:48,028 --> 00:13:49,897 THEN I DON'T THINK WE'LL BE 496 00:13:49,897 --> 00:13:51,899 TOGETHER ANYMORE. 497 00:14:03,010 --> 00:14:04,411 [laughter] 498 00:14:04,411 --> 00:14:05,412 >> I'VE BEEN SO WORRIED ABOUT 499 00:14:05,412 --> 00:14:06,379 IMAN GETTING HIS PLANE TICKET 500 00:14:06,379 --> 00:14:07,747 THAT I HAVEN'T FELT LIKE HANGING 501 00:14:07,747 --> 00:14:08,681 OUT WITH ANY OF MY FRIENDS 502 00:14:08,681 --> 00:14:09,349 IN A WHILE. 503 00:14:09,349 --> 00:14:10,717 >> SO HOW DO YOU LIKE TENNESSEE 504 00:14:10,717 --> 00:14:11,618 SO FAR? 505 00:14:11,618 --> 00:14:13,353 >> I'M NOT USED TO IT. 506 00:14:13,353 --> 00:14:14,754 AND SINCE EVERYBODY IS ABOUT TO 507 00:14:14,754 --> 00:14:16,689 GO BACK TO SCHOOL, AND I'M ABOUT 508 00:14:16,689 --> 00:14:18,258 TO HAVE A BABY, I WON'T BE 509 00:14:18,258 --> 00:14:20,060 SEEING THEM MUCH AFTER TODAY. 510 00:14:20,060 --> 00:14:21,361 >> WE'RE GONNA GO LOOK IN THERE 511 00:14:21,361 --> 00:14:22,695 FOR BABY CLOTHES. 512 00:14:22,695 --> 00:14:24,264 >> OH, LOOK, BABY NAMES. 513 00:14:24,264 --> 00:14:26,566 >> AUDREY! 514 00:14:26,566 --> 00:14:27,634 THAT'S SO WEIRD. 515 00:14:27,634 --> 00:14:29,369 >> SAY, "TENNESSEE," INSTEAD 516 00:14:29,369 --> 00:14:30,370 OF "CHEESE." 517 00:14:30,370 --> 00:14:33,340 [laughter] 518 00:14:33,340 --> 00:14:34,707 >> SO WHERE ARE WE GOING NOW? 519 00:14:34,707 --> 00:14:36,676 >> WE SHOULD GO DO SOME ARTS 520 00:14:36,676 --> 00:14:37,544 AND CRAFTS. 521 00:14:37,544 --> 00:14:38,478 ARE YOU GUYS READY TO MAKE SOME 522 00:14:38,478 --> 00:14:41,014 FINE ARTS? 523 00:14:41,014 --> 00:14:42,115 >> SO, LIKE, ARE YOU READY 524 00:14:42,115 --> 00:14:43,850 FOR THE BABY TO COME? 525 00:14:43,850 --> 00:14:45,152 >> SOME DAYS IT'S LIKE, "OKAY, 526 00:14:45,152 --> 00:14:46,019 I'M READY. 527 00:14:46,019 --> 00:14:47,554 WHEN IS IT COMING?" 528 00:14:47,554 --> 00:14:48,688 AND THEN OTHER DAYS, IT'S LIKE, 529 00:14:48,688 --> 00:14:50,190 "OH, MY GOD." 530 00:14:50,190 --> 00:14:51,458 >> DID YOU EVER THINK ABOUT, 531 00:14:51,458 --> 00:14:55,062 LIKE, ABORTION OR ADOPTION? 532 00:14:55,062 --> 00:14:56,463 >> I DIDN'T THINK OF ABORTION 533 00:14:56,463 --> 00:14:57,397 AT ALL. 534 00:14:57,397 --> 00:14:59,299 I KNEW I WANTED TO KEEP IT. 535 00:14:59,299 --> 00:15:00,833 BUT IT WAS STILL, LIKE, YOU 536 00:15:00,833 --> 00:15:01,834 KNOW, IN MY MIND, LIKE, 537 00:15:01,834 --> 00:15:02,936 "OH, WHAT IF..." 538 00:15:02,936 --> 00:15:04,137 IT WAS ALWAYS IN THE BACK OF MY 539 00:15:04,137 --> 00:15:05,438 MIND, LIKE, HOW MY LIFE WOULD 540 00:15:05,438 --> 00:15:07,507 BE, LIKE, IF I DIDN'T HAVE HER 541 00:15:07,507 --> 00:15:09,142 AND, LIKE, HOW IT WOULD CHANGE 542 00:15:09,142 --> 00:15:10,110 WITH HER THERE. 543 00:15:10,110 --> 00:15:11,011 >> YEAH. 544 00:15:11,011 --> 00:15:11,778 HOW DO YOU THINK THAT, LIKE, 545 00:15:11,778 --> 00:15:12,845 THAT'S GONNA CHANGE, LIKE, YOURS 546 00:15:12,845 --> 00:15:15,415 AND REBECCA'S RELATIONSHIP? 547 00:15:15,415 --> 00:15:17,150 >> WELL, IT'S JUST GONNA BE 548 00:15:17,150 --> 00:15:17,951 DIFFERENT. 549 00:15:17,951 --> 00:15:20,153 >> HOW DOES SHE FEEL ABOUT IMAN 550 00:15:20,153 --> 00:15:21,521 COMING OUT AND MOVING IN 551 00:15:21,521 --> 00:15:22,589 WITH YOU GUYS? 552 00:15:22,589 --> 00:15:24,057 >> SHE--SHE ACTS LIKE SHE 553 00:15:24,057 --> 00:15:25,758 DOESN'T EVEN WANT HIM TO COME. 554 00:15:25,758 --> 00:15:26,926 >> REALLY? 555 00:15:26,926 --> 00:15:28,461 >> BECAUSE SHE'S LIKE, "HE'S NOT 556 00:15:28,461 --> 00:15:29,796 GONNA GET HIS TICKET." 557 00:15:29,796 --> 00:15:30,863 >> YEAH. 558 00:15:30,863 --> 00:15:32,465 >> YES, HE IS. 559 00:15:32,465 --> 00:15:34,367 DESPITE WHAT MY SISTER THINKS... 560 00:15:34,367 --> 00:15:35,202 [chime dings] 561 00:15:35,202 --> 00:15:36,269 I STILL HOPE IMAN WILL COME 562 00:15:36,269 --> 00:15:38,605 THROUGH FOR ME AND OUR BABY. 563 00:15:38,605 --> 00:15:40,207 AND LATER THAT NIGHT, HE CALLED 564 00:15:40,207 --> 00:15:42,709 AND SAID HE BOUGHT A TICKET. 565 00:15:42,709 --> 00:15:44,411 HIS FLIGHT'S NOT TILL NEXT WEEK, 566 00:15:44,411 --> 00:15:45,912 SO I JUST HAVE TO MAKE IT TO MY 567 00:15:45,912 --> 00:15:48,215 DUE DATE, BUT THE NEXT MORNING, 568 00:15:48,215 --> 00:15:49,949 I WOKE UP FEELING DIZZY AND WITH 569 00:15:49,949 --> 00:15:52,452 A BADLY SWOLLEN FOOT. 570 00:15:52,452 --> 00:15:53,720 MY MOM CALLED THE DOCTOR, JUST 571 00:15:53,720 --> 00:15:56,289 TO, LIKE, LET HIM KNOW, LIKE, 572 00:15:56,289 --> 00:15:57,290 HOW, LIKE, MY FOOT IS, LIKE, 573 00:15:57,290 --> 00:15:58,458 REALLY SWOLLEN. 574 00:15:58,458 --> 00:16:00,960 SO HE JUST WANTED ME TO GO IN 575 00:16:00,960 --> 00:16:02,195 TO MAKE SURE EVERYTHING WAS OKAY 576 00:16:02,195 --> 00:16:03,496 AND STUFF. 577 00:16:03,496 --> 00:16:04,331 NO, HE TOLD ME TO GO 578 00:16:04,331 --> 00:16:05,398 TO THE HOSPITAL. 579 00:16:05,398 --> 00:16:06,666 I DON'T WANT TO GO INTO LABOR 580 00:16:06,666 --> 00:16:08,501 BEFORE IMAN GETS HERE, BUT WHEN 581 00:16:08,501 --> 00:16:09,702 I GOT TO THE HOSPITAL, THE NURSE 582 00:16:09,702 --> 00:16:10,937 SAID I WAS SHOWING SIGNS OF 583 00:16:10,937 --> 00:16:13,873 PREECLAMPSIA. 584 00:16:13,873 --> 00:16:15,008 >> A LOT OF TIMES WITH 585 00:16:15,008 --> 00:16:17,310 PREECLAMPSIA, PATIENTS COME IN, 586 00:16:17,310 --> 00:16:18,611 AND THEY'RE FINE, THEY'RE FINE, 587 00:16:18,611 --> 00:16:20,713 THEY'RE FINE, AND THEN THEY WAKE 588 00:16:20,713 --> 00:16:22,682 UP ONE DAY, AND THEIR NOSE IS 589 00:16:22,682 --> 00:16:23,650 PUFFY, AND THEY HAVE THE WORST 590 00:16:23,650 --> 00:16:24,751 HEADACHE OF THEIR LIFE, AND THEY 591 00:16:24,751 --> 00:16:26,253 JUST SAY, "I JUST FEEL HORRIBLE. 592 00:16:26,253 --> 00:16:27,487 I'M VOMITING." 593 00:16:27,487 --> 00:16:28,888 I'M GOING TO CALL DR. LODGE AND 594 00:16:28,888 --> 00:16:30,323 SEE WHAT HE WANTS TO DO, AND I 595 00:16:30,323 --> 00:16:31,691 WILL COME IN IN A COUPLE MINUTES 596 00:16:31,691 --> 00:16:33,593 AND LET YOU KNOW WHAT HE SAID. 597 00:16:33,593 --> 00:16:35,662 >> THANK YOU. 598 00:16:42,035 --> 00:16:43,536 >> OKAY, SO HE'S DECIDED TO 599 00:16:43,536 --> 00:16:46,106 DELIVER YOU, OKAY? 600 00:16:46,106 --> 00:16:47,707 IT'S TIME TO STAY. 601 00:16:47,707 --> 00:16:48,775 WHAT'S WRONG? 602 00:16:48,775 --> 00:16:49,642 >> HER BOYFRIEND'S NOT HERE 603 00:16:49,642 --> 00:16:50,910 FROM CALIFORNIA YET, SO SHE'S 604 00:16:50,910 --> 00:16:52,212 SO UPSET. 605 00:16:52,212 --> 00:16:53,513 HE COMES THURSDAY. 606 00:16:53,513 --> 00:16:56,216 HE'S GONNA MISS IT. 607 00:16:56,216 --> 00:16:59,052 LET'S CALL HIM, HONEY. 608 00:16:59,052 --> 00:17:01,088 >> HELLO? 609 00:17:05,392 --> 00:17:06,959 >> OH, MY GOD, YOU'RE SHAKING 610 00:17:06,959 --> 00:17:08,095 SO BAD. 611 00:17:08,095 --> 00:17:10,197 WE'RE HAVING A BABY. 612 00:17:10,197 --> 00:17:13,733 >> [crying] 613 00:17:13,733 --> 00:17:16,269 MM-HMM. 614 00:17:16,269 --> 00:17:17,604 >> SO I'M GOING TO NEED TO START 615 00:17:17,604 --> 00:17:18,505 AN I.V. 616 00:17:18,505 --> 00:17:20,207 IS THAT OKAY WITH YOU? 617 00:17:20,207 --> 00:17:21,908 OKAY, ONE, TWO, THREE. 618 00:17:21,908 --> 00:17:23,710 WE'LL START THAT PITOCIN. 619 00:17:23,710 --> 00:17:24,611 >> IS SHE GOING TO START 620 00:17:24,611 --> 00:17:26,246 BEING IN PAIN NOW BECAUSE OF 621 00:17:26,246 --> 00:17:26,979 THAT STUFF? 622 00:17:26,979 --> 00:17:27,914 >> SHE WILL START FEELING 623 00:17:27,914 --> 00:17:29,048 SOME CRAMPING. 624 00:17:29,048 --> 00:17:31,050 IT'LL BE A GRADUAL THING. 625 00:17:40,260 --> 00:17:42,662 >> [exhales] 626 00:17:42,662 --> 00:17:43,496 >> YOU WONDERED WHAT 627 00:17:43,496 --> 00:17:44,897 A CONTRACTION FELT LIKE, 628 00:17:44,897 --> 00:17:46,866 AND NOW YOU KNOW. 629 00:17:46,866 --> 00:17:49,802 >> OW, IT HURTS MY BACK. 630 00:17:49,802 --> 00:17:51,003 THE CONTRACTIONS STARTED GETTING 631 00:17:51,003 --> 00:17:52,672 REALLY PAINFUL, SO I DECIDED TO 632 00:17:52,672 --> 00:17:55,142 GET AN EPIDURAL. 633 00:17:55,142 --> 00:17:55,975 >> ALL RIGHT, SWEETIE, SO WHAT 634 00:17:55,975 --> 00:17:56,976 WE'RE GONNA HAVE YOU DO IS, 635 00:17:56,976 --> 00:17:58,145 YOU'RE GONNA SIT UP 636 00:17:58,145 --> 00:18:00,147 FACING TOWARDS ME. 637 00:18:03,850 --> 00:18:05,385 OKAY, IT'S GONNA FEEL LIKE 638 00:18:05,385 --> 00:18:06,052 A LITTLE TWINGE. 639 00:18:06,052 --> 00:18:07,154 TAKE A BIG DEEP BREATH. 640 00:18:07,154 --> 00:18:08,388 DULL, ACHY PRESSURE. 641 00:18:08,388 --> 00:18:09,689 LOTS OF PRESSURE, THOUGH. 642 00:18:09,689 --> 00:18:10,990 GREAT JOB. 643 00:18:10,990 --> 00:18:12,058 OKAY, THAT'S IT. 644 00:18:12,058 --> 00:18:14,661 YOU CAN RELAX. 645 00:18:14,661 --> 00:18:17,164 HEAD ON BACK. 646 00:18:17,164 --> 00:18:18,097 YOU MIGHT NOTICE YOUR LEGS ARE 647 00:18:18,097 --> 00:18:19,366 GOING TO START TO GET WARM, 648 00:18:19,366 --> 00:18:20,500 TINGLY, MAYBE A LITTLE HEAVY 649 00:18:20,500 --> 00:18:21,468 HERE IN THE NEXT FEW. 650 00:18:21,468 --> 00:18:22,635 I PROMISE IT'LL WORK ITS WAY UP 651 00:18:22,635 --> 00:18:23,436 TO YOUR BELLY. 652 00:18:23,436 --> 00:18:24,137 >> OKAY. 653 00:18:24,137 --> 00:18:26,139 >> OKAY? 654 00:18:29,776 --> 00:18:30,643 >> HEY, SWEETIE. 655 00:18:30,643 --> 00:18:31,611 >> HI. 656 00:18:31,611 --> 00:18:35,148 >> I'M GONNA CHECK YOU, OKAY? 657 00:18:35,148 --> 00:18:35,982 >> SHE'S THERE? 658 00:18:35,982 --> 00:18:38,185 >> WELL, YEAH, YOU'RE COMPLETE. 659 00:18:38,185 --> 00:18:39,486 THE HEAD'S RIGHT THERE. 660 00:18:39,486 --> 00:18:40,453 ALL RIGHT, I'M GOING TO GO 661 00:18:40,453 --> 00:18:41,454 LET HIM KNOW THAT YOU ARE 662 00:18:41,454 --> 00:18:43,590 COMPLETE, AND WE'LL START 663 00:18:43,590 --> 00:18:44,657 PUSHING. 664 00:18:44,657 --> 00:18:46,726 >> SHE'S RIGHT THERE. 665 00:18:46,726 --> 00:18:48,127 >> DID YOU TEXT IMAN? 666 00:18:48,127 --> 00:18:52,165 >> I TEXTED HIM ALREADY. 667 00:18:52,165 --> 00:18:53,833 >> SO WHO'S YOUR LEG HOLDERS? 668 00:18:53,833 --> 00:18:55,968 >> ME AND LAURA? 669 00:18:55,968 --> 00:18:57,370 >> DON'T PUSH HER LEGS BACK, 670 00:18:57,370 --> 00:18:58,971 OKAY, JUST SUPPORT THEM. 671 00:18:58,971 --> 00:19:00,440 YOU FEEL ONE NOW? 672 00:19:00,440 --> 00:19:02,108 OKAY, SO GRAB YOUR LEGS. 673 00:19:02,108 --> 00:19:02,975 PULL THEM BACK. 674 00:19:02,975 --> 00:19:04,010 PUSH. 675 00:19:04,010 --> 00:19:07,847 TWO, THREE, FOUR, FIVE, SIX, 676 00:19:07,847 --> 00:19:10,049 SEVEN, EIGHT. 677 00:19:10,049 --> 00:19:11,050 >> IT'S COMIN'. 678 00:19:11,050 --> 00:19:12,018 IT'S COMIN'. 679 00:19:12,018 --> 00:19:13,019 >> KEEP PUSHING. 680 00:19:13,019 --> 00:19:16,923 YOU'RE DOING GOOD. 681 00:19:16,923 --> 00:19:17,924 >> ALL RIGHT, LET'S PUSH 682 00:19:17,924 --> 00:19:19,091 THE BABY OUT. 683 00:19:19,091 --> 00:19:19,826 >> PUSH, BABY. 684 00:19:19,826 --> 00:19:20,860 >> PUSH, PUSH, PUSH, PUSH, 685 00:19:20,860 --> 00:19:21,728 PUSH, PUSH, PUSH. 686 00:19:21,728 --> 00:19:22,695 >> OH, GOOD. 687 00:19:22,695 --> 00:19:24,030 THERE SHE IS. 688 00:19:24,030 --> 00:19:24,964 OH, MY GOD. 689 00:19:24,964 --> 00:19:26,566 THERE SHE IS. 690 00:19:26,566 --> 00:19:28,235 >> JUST BREATHE. 691 00:19:28,235 --> 00:19:29,035 >> [crying] 692 00:19:29,035 --> 00:19:31,037 >> HI. 693 00:19:34,674 --> 00:19:36,543 [sobbing] 694 00:19:36,543 --> 00:19:38,745 >> THERE SHE IS. 695 00:19:38,745 --> 00:19:41,748 [baby crying] 696 00:19:43,483 --> 00:19:47,254 >> OH, MY GOD. 697 00:19:47,254 --> 00:19:49,489 OH, SHE'S TURNING PURPLE. 698 00:19:49,489 --> 00:19:52,124 SHE'S TURNING PURPLE. 699 00:19:52,124 --> 00:19:53,460 >> I'M GOING TO TAKE HER OVER 700 00:19:53,460 --> 00:19:55,462 HERE FOR JUST A SECOND, OKAY? 701 00:19:55,462 --> 00:19:57,630 >> SHE'S PURPLE. 702 00:19:57,630 --> 00:20:01,468 [crying stops] 703 00:20:01,468 --> 00:20:02,602 >> I WAS SO HAPPY TO BE DONE 704 00:20:02,602 --> 00:20:04,170 WITH LABOR, BUT WHEN AUDREY 705 00:20:04,170 --> 00:20:06,239 SUDDENLY STOPPED CRYING, I COULD 706 00:20:06,239 --> 00:20:09,276 TELL SOMETHING WAS WRONG. 707 00:20:09,276 --> 00:20:10,343 >> WE NEED NICU NOW. 708 00:20:10,343 --> 00:20:11,177 >> NOW! 709 00:20:11,177 --> 00:20:12,512 >> THEY'RE HERE. 710 00:20:12,512 --> 00:20:13,646 >> WHAT'S GOING ON? 711 00:20:13,646 --> 00:20:14,314 >> IT'S OKAY. 712 00:20:14,314 --> 00:20:15,248 IT'S OKAY. 713 00:20:15,248 --> 00:20:16,283 IT'S OKAY. 714 00:20:16,283 --> 00:20:17,884 >> OH, MY BABY. 715 00:20:17,884 --> 00:20:19,886 GOD, LORD, JESUS! 716 00:20:30,430 --> 00:20:31,931 >> THEY TOOK AUDREY TO INTENSIVE 717 00:20:31,931 --> 00:20:33,466 CARE RIGHT AFTER SHE WAS BORN, 718 00:20:33,466 --> 00:20:34,834 AND I'M WAITING TO HEAR IF 719 00:20:34,834 --> 00:20:36,168 SHE'S OKAY. 720 00:20:36,168 --> 00:20:38,538 I CAN'T STOP SHAKING. 721 00:20:38,538 --> 00:20:39,806 >> IT'S A LITTLE SCARY. 722 00:20:39,806 --> 00:20:41,073 >> YEAH. 723 00:20:41,073 --> 00:20:42,509 >> ARE YOU OKAY? 724 00:20:42,509 --> 00:20:43,810 MY BEST GUESS WOULD BE THAT THE 725 00:20:43,810 --> 00:20:46,346 BABY GOT SOME FLUID IN THE BACK 726 00:20:46,346 --> 00:20:48,348 OF ITS THROAT, MAYBE DOWN-- 727 00:20:48,348 --> 00:20:49,482 THAT WENT INTO ITS LUNGS. 728 00:20:49,482 --> 00:20:50,717 IT ALL HAPPENED VERY QUICKLY. 729 00:20:50,717 --> 00:20:52,285 SO SHE'S JUST GONNA GO TO NICU. 730 00:20:52,285 --> 00:20:53,453 THEY'RE GONNA WATCH HER FOR 731 00:20:53,453 --> 00:20:54,387 A LITTLE BIT. 732 00:20:54,387 --> 00:20:55,588 I KNOW IT WAS A LITTLE BIT 733 00:20:55,588 --> 00:20:56,723 SCARY. 734 00:20:56,723 --> 00:20:58,725 ALL RIGHT, I'LL BE BACK. 735 00:21:02,729 --> 00:21:04,497 >> I HAVE TO CALL PEOPLE NOW. 736 00:21:04,497 --> 00:21:07,534 HELLO? 737 00:21:07,534 --> 00:21:10,537 THE BABY CAME. 738 00:21:10,537 --> 00:21:11,838 SHE, LIKE, STOPPED BREATHING 739 00:21:11,838 --> 00:21:14,407 FOR A LITTLE BIT. 740 00:21:14,407 --> 00:21:15,575 WHERE'D YOU GUYS GO, 741 00:21:15,575 --> 00:21:16,676 TO THE NICU? 742 00:21:16,676 --> 00:21:17,510 >> YEAH. 743 00:21:17,510 --> 00:21:18,311 >> THEY'RE GONNA KEEP HER 744 00:21:18,311 --> 00:21:19,111 DOWN THERE. 745 00:21:19,111 --> 00:21:20,046 >> WHY? 746 00:21:20,046 --> 00:21:21,047 >> BECAUSE THEY THINK SHE MIGHT 747 00:21:21,047 --> 00:21:23,082 HAVE A LUNG INFECTION. 748 00:21:23,082 --> 00:21:25,051 JUST SOME KIND OF--SHE'S GONNA 749 00:21:25,051 --> 00:21:26,118 BE FINE, BUT THEY'RE GONNA 750 00:21:26,118 --> 00:21:27,253 PROBABLY KEEP HER 751 00:21:27,253 --> 00:21:31,057 FOR A FEW DAYS. 752 00:21:31,057 --> 00:21:33,059 MY CHEST HURTS. 753 00:21:36,195 --> 00:21:37,163 >> MY FIRST NIGHT IN THE 754 00:21:37,163 --> 00:21:38,431 HOSPITAL WAS THE SCARIEST 755 00:21:38,431 --> 00:21:40,199 OF MY LIFE, BUT I WAS SO 756 00:21:40,199 --> 00:21:41,401 RELIEVED TO HEAR THAT AUDREY WAS 757 00:21:41,401 --> 00:21:42,435 GONNA BE OKAY. 758 00:21:42,435 --> 00:21:43,470 >> SO WE'RE GONNA GO DOWN 759 00:21:43,470 --> 00:21:45,572 AND SEE THE BABY IN THE NICU. 760 00:21:45,572 --> 00:21:46,706 >> I DON'T WANT TO LEAVE 761 00:21:46,706 --> 00:21:48,441 HER HERE. 762 00:21:48,441 --> 00:21:49,642 I CAN'T WAIT TO FINALLY SEE HER, 763 00:21:49,642 --> 00:21:51,177 BUT I CAN'T BRING HER HOME YET, 764 00:21:51,177 --> 00:21:52,278 BECAUSE THE DOCTORS WANT TO KEEP 765 00:21:52,278 --> 00:21:53,680 HER AT THE HOSPITAL FOR A COUPLE 766 00:21:53,680 --> 00:21:55,548 OF DAYS, JUST TO BE SAFE. 767 00:21:55,548 --> 00:21:56,583 >> ARE YOU REALLY UPSET, 768 00:21:56,583 --> 00:21:57,316 SABRINA? 769 00:21:57,316 --> 00:21:58,351 >> YEAH. 770 00:21:58,351 --> 00:21:59,452 >> WELL, AT LEAST WE KNOW SHE'S 771 00:21:59,452 --> 00:22:01,888 HEALTHY NOW. 772 00:22:01,888 --> 00:22:03,923 OKAY. 773 00:22:03,923 --> 00:22:06,659 >> AUDREY. 774 00:22:06,659 --> 00:22:08,495 MOM'S BABY. 775 00:22:08,495 --> 00:22:10,497 >> HI, AUDREY. 776 00:22:10,497 --> 00:22:12,499 YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL. 777 00:22:12,499 --> 00:22:14,033 SHE WANTS TO WAKE UP, BUT SHE'S 778 00:22:14,033 --> 00:22:17,737 JUST SO TIRED. 779 00:22:17,737 --> 00:22:18,838 >> SO DO YOU HAVE ANY QUESTIONS 780 00:22:18,838 --> 00:22:20,507 ABOUT GOING HOME? 781 00:22:20,507 --> 00:22:23,576 >> NO. 782 00:22:23,576 --> 00:22:24,744 >> I KNOW IT'S HARD. 783 00:22:24,744 --> 00:22:25,512 I KNOW IT'S HARD. 784 00:22:25,512 --> 00:22:26,413 THERE'S NOTHING HARDER THAN 785 00:22:26,413 --> 00:22:27,514 LEAVING YOUR BABY. 786 00:22:27,514 --> 00:22:29,382 IT'S OKAY, SABRINA. 787 00:22:29,382 --> 00:22:30,717 DO YOU HAVE PICTURES OF HER? 788 00:22:30,717 --> 00:22:31,818 YOU'VE GOT PICTURES ON YOUR 789 00:22:31,818 --> 00:22:33,886 PHONE. 790 00:22:33,886 --> 00:22:35,054 ALL RIGHT. 791 00:22:35,054 --> 00:22:36,623 AND I HAVE YOUR NUMBER, SO I'LL 792 00:22:36,623 --> 00:22:38,625 CALL YOU IF ANYTHING HAPPENS. 793 00:22:44,664 --> 00:22:48,668 >> BYE, BEAUTIFUL GIRL. 794 00:22:48,668 --> 00:22:50,670 [chime dings] 795 00:22:54,006 --> 00:22:54,941 >> LEAVING AUDREY AT THE 796 00:22:54,941 --> 00:22:57,309 HOSPITAL WAS REALLY HARD, BUT AT 797 00:22:57,309 --> 00:22:58,511 LEAST SHE'LL BE HOME BY THE TIME 798 00:22:58,511 --> 00:23:00,647 HER DAD ARRIVES NEXT WEEK. 799 00:23:00,647 --> 00:23:01,914 >> WHAT ARE YOU DOING? 800 00:23:01,914 --> 00:23:05,117 >> I'M GONNA SKYPE IMAN. 801 00:23:05,117 --> 00:23:06,553 >> RING. 802 00:23:06,553 --> 00:23:07,987 >> HI. 803 00:23:07,987 --> 00:23:10,089 >> OH, HI. 804 00:23:10,089 --> 00:23:11,023 >> I THOUGHT I WAS SUPPOSED TO 805 00:23:11,023 --> 00:23:12,324 BE TALKING TO YOU, NOT HER. 806 00:23:12,324 --> 00:23:13,826 >> I DIDN'T SAY ANYTHING. 807 00:23:13,826 --> 00:23:15,562 >> HOW'S THE BABY? 808 00:23:15,562 --> 00:23:17,864 >> SHE'S FINE. 809 00:23:17,864 --> 00:23:19,198 >> SHE'S EATING PROPERLY NOW 810 00:23:19,198 --> 00:23:20,132 AND ALL THAT GOOD STUFF? 811 00:23:20,132 --> 00:23:21,233 >> NO. 812 00:23:21,233 --> 00:23:23,870 LIKE, SHE ATE TWO TIMES TODAY, 813 00:23:23,870 --> 00:23:24,871 AND THAT'S IT. 814 00:23:24,871 --> 00:23:25,905 >> HOW ARE YOU? 815 00:23:25,905 --> 00:23:27,039 >> I'M FINE. 816 00:23:27,039 --> 00:23:28,475 ARE YOU EXCITED TO SEE THE BABY 817 00:23:28,475 --> 00:23:29,175 OR WHAT? 818 00:23:29,175 --> 00:23:30,510 >> YES, I AM, ACTUALLY. 819 00:23:30,510 --> 00:23:31,478 I'M VERY EXCITED. 820 00:23:31,478 --> 00:23:33,212 >> WHEN ARE YOU COMING? 821 00:23:33,212 --> 00:23:34,981 >> POSSIBLY THURSDAY OR FRIDAY. 822 00:23:34,981 --> 00:23:36,215 MOST LIKELY THURSDAY-- 823 00:23:36,215 --> 00:23:37,149 MOST LIKELY THURSDAY. 824 00:23:37,149 --> 00:23:39,318 >> WHY, "OR FRIDAY"? 825 00:23:39,318 --> 00:23:40,252 >> JUST IN CASE I CAN'T GET 826 00:23:40,252 --> 00:23:42,622 A TICKET OR ANYTHING. 827 00:23:42,622 --> 00:23:43,990 >> SO YOU STILL HAVEN'T GOTTEN 828 00:23:43,990 --> 00:23:45,191 IT YET? 829 00:23:45,191 --> 00:23:46,826 >> NO, I HAVE NOT. 830 00:23:46,826 --> 00:23:48,828 BUT I WILL. 831 00:23:57,136 --> 00:24:01,140 >> [crying] 832 00:24:01,140 --> 00:24:02,642 >> HE JUST HUNG UP. 833 00:24:02,642 --> 00:24:05,177 >> I DON'T WANT TO TALK TO HIM. 834 00:24:05,177 --> 00:24:06,445 HE'S BEEN SAYING THAT HE HAD 835 00:24:06,445 --> 00:24:08,180 HIS TICKET. 836 00:24:08,180 --> 00:24:10,049 HE TOLD ME THURSDAY, SO I TOLD 837 00:24:10,049 --> 00:24:12,485 EVERYBODY ELSE THURSDAY. 838 00:24:20,126 --> 00:24:21,494 >> YOU'RE KIDDING ME. 839 00:24:21,494 --> 00:24:22,695 HE LIED? 840 00:24:22,695 --> 00:24:23,462 >> YEAH. 841 00:24:23,462 --> 00:24:24,864 AND HE WAS JUST LIKE, "OH, WELL, 842 00:24:24,864 --> 00:24:25,698 I DIDN'T EVEN GET MY TICKET 843 00:24:25,698 --> 00:24:26,933 YET," SO I DON'T EVEN THINK 844 00:24:26,933 --> 00:24:27,834 HE'S GOING TO GET IT. 845 00:24:27,834 --> 00:24:29,869 >> I'M UPSET. 846 00:24:29,869 --> 00:24:31,137 >> I KNOW. 847 00:24:31,137 --> 00:24:32,238 >> YOU JUST HAD A BEAUTIFUL 848 00:24:32,238 --> 00:24:34,574 BABY, HIS BEAUTIFUL BABY. 849 00:24:34,574 --> 00:24:38,310 WHY IN THE HELL DID HE KEEP IT 850 00:24:38,310 --> 00:24:40,747 FOR THE LAST SECOND, KNOWING 851 00:24:40,747 --> 00:24:42,314 THAT HE WAS HAVING A BABY? 852 00:24:42,314 --> 00:24:43,716 I DON'T WANT YOU TO HURT, BUT 853 00:24:43,716 --> 00:24:45,451 WHAT'S GOING TO MAKE IT EASIER 854 00:24:45,451 --> 00:24:46,485 IS AUDREY. 855 00:24:46,485 --> 00:24:48,821 AND YOU THINK MAYBE NOT, BECAUSE 856 00:24:48,821 --> 00:24:50,156 IT'S GOING TO REMIND YOU OF HIM, 857 00:24:50,156 --> 00:24:51,457 BUT, NO, BECAUSE YOU'LL BE SO 858 00:24:51,457 --> 00:24:53,225 BUSY TRYING TO TAKE CARE OF HER 859 00:24:53,225 --> 00:24:55,094 THAT YOU'RE NOT GOING TO HAVE 860 00:24:55,094 --> 00:24:58,097 TIME TO DWELL OVER HIM. 861 00:25:01,367 --> 00:25:02,468 I THINK THIS WOULD BE A GOOD 862 00:25:02,468 --> 00:25:04,470 CHANCE TO START CLEAN. 863 00:25:19,185 --> 00:25:20,219 >> AFTER A FEW EXTRA DAYS 864 00:25:20,219 --> 00:25:21,954 IN THE HOSPITAL, IT'S TIME TO 865 00:25:21,954 --> 00:25:23,389 TAKE AUDREY HOME. 866 00:25:23,389 --> 00:25:24,356 >> IS SHE ASLEEP? 867 00:25:24,356 --> 00:25:25,825 >> YEAH. 868 00:25:25,825 --> 00:25:26,593 >> SHE IS? 869 00:25:26,593 --> 00:25:27,860 >> YEAH. 870 00:25:27,860 --> 00:25:29,261 I'M REALLY SAD IMAN ISN'T HERE 871 00:25:29,261 --> 00:25:30,396 TO WELCOME HER. 872 00:25:30,396 --> 00:25:31,698 IT LOOKS LIKE I BETTER GET USED 873 00:25:31,698 --> 00:25:33,465 TO DOING THINGS ON MY OWN. 874 00:25:33,465 --> 00:25:34,400 I'M KIND OF SCARED TO GO IN, 875 00:25:34,400 --> 00:25:35,167 MOM. 876 00:25:35,167 --> 00:25:36,703 >> HI, GUYS. 877 00:25:36,703 --> 00:25:37,604 DON'T TOUCH HER. 878 00:25:37,604 --> 00:25:41,874 >> FINE. 879 00:25:41,874 --> 00:25:43,142 >> ALL RIGHT, GIVE ME A KISS, 880 00:25:43,142 --> 00:25:44,310 'CAUSE I'M GONNA GO-- 881 00:25:44,310 --> 00:25:47,780 TAKE THE KIDS AND GO. 882 00:25:47,780 --> 00:25:50,783 LOVE YOU. 883 00:25:50,783 --> 00:25:53,319 >> COME ON. 884 00:25:53,319 --> 00:25:55,154 OH, YOU PEED. 885 00:25:55,154 --> 00:25:56,255 LET'S EAT. 886 00:25:56,255 --> 00:25:57,724 [baby crying] 887 00:25:57,724 --> 00:25:58,424 SHH. 888 00:25:58,424 --> 00:26:02,629 THERE YOU GO. 889 00:26:02,629 --> 00:26:04,931 >> BABY HERE? 890 00:26:04,931 --> 00:26:05,898 BABY'S HERE. 891 00:26:05,898 --> 00:26:07,066 >> SHE WAS JUST AWAKE 892 00:26:07,066 --> 00:26:08,134 A SECOND AGO. 893 00:26:08,134 --> 00:26:09,035 >> AW! 894 00:26:09,035 --> 00:26:11,570 AWW... 895 00:26:11,570 --> 00:26:14,240 AUNTIE BECCA WANTS BABY. 896 00:26:14,240 --> 00:26:16,408 OH, HOW CUTE. 897 00:26:16,408 --> 00:26:17,944 I'M ONLY THE SECOND PERSON TO 898 00:26:17,944 --> 00:26:19,879 HOLD BABY, RIGHT AFTER MOM, 899 00:26:19,879 --> 00:26:20,713 RIGHT? 900 00:26:20,713 --> 00:26:21,681 >> YEAH. 901 00:26:21,681 --> 00:26:24,116 >> SO FAR, AS WE KNOW IT, YOU'RE 902 00:26:24,116 --> 00:26:25,618 GOING TO BE RAISING BABY AUDREY 903 00:26:25,618 --> 00:26:28,621 AS A SINGLE MOM? 904 00:26:28,621 --> 00:26:33,525 >> THAT'S HOW IT IS RIGHT NOW. 905 00:26:33,525 --> 00:26:36,495 I JUST WANTED HIM TO BE HERE 906 00:26:36,495 --> 00:26:38,564 TO HELP OUT AND STUFF. 907 00:26:44,236 --> 00:26:45,672 HI. 908 00:26:45,672 --> 00:26:47,674 [baby fussing] 909 00:26:52,178 --> 00:26:55,181 [baby crying] 910 00:26:55,181 --> 00:26:57,183 OHH. 911 00:27:02,454 --> 00:27:05,958 [baby crying] 912 00:27:05,958 --> 00:27:09,161 WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU? 913 00:27:09,161 --> 00:27:10,763 AUDREY WAKES UP EVERY COUPLE OF 914 00:27:10,763 --> 00:27:11,931 HOURS AT NIGHT, SO I'M 915 00:27:11,931 --> 00:27:16,235 COMPLETELY EXHAUSTED. 916 00:27:16,235 --> 00:27:17,503 AND NOW THAT SCHOOL HAS STARTED, 917 00:27:17,503 --> 00:27:18,905 MY TEACHERS ARE SENDING ALL OF 918 00:27:18,905 --> 00:27:20,406 MY WORK HOME UNTIL I'M READY 919 00:27:20,406 --> 00:27:21,173 TO GO BACK. 920 00:27:21,173 --> 00:27:22,308 [baby crying] 921 00:27:22,308 --> 00:27:23,342 OH, WHAT'S WRONG? 922 00:27:23,342 --> 00:27:24,711 ARE YOU HUNGRY? 923 00:27:24,711 --> 00:27:26,212 IT'S SO HARD TO STAY ON TOP OF 924 00:27:26,212 --> 00:27:27,013 IT ALL. 925 00:27:27,013 --> 00:27:27,880 >> GET TO IT. 926 00:27:27,880 --> 00:27:29,348 I TAKE BABY! 927 00:27:29,348 --> 00:27:30,917 >> LUCKILY, MY SISTER WATCHES 928 00:27:30,917 --> 00:27:32,084 AUDREY FOR A COUPLE OF HOURS 929 00:27:32,084 --> 00:27:33,720 EVERY NIGHT SO I CAN GET MY WORK 930 00:27:33,720 --> 00:27:35,321 DONE, BUT I CAN'T HELP BUT THINK 931 00:27:35,321 --> 00:27:36,555 HOW MUCH EASIER THIS WOULD ALL 932 00:27:36,555 --> 00:27:38,324 BE IF IMAN WERE HERE TO PITCH 933 00:27:38,324 --> 00:27:40,827 IN. 934 00:27:40,827 --> 00:27:42,094 >> DO YOU THINK I'D BE HELPING 935 00:27:42,094 --> 00:27:44,764 AS MUCH IF, LIKE, IMAN WAS HERE? 936 00:27:44,764 --> 00:27:46,065 LIKE, I'D BE ABLE TO? 937 00:27:46,065 --> 00:27:47,266 >> I THINK YOU WOULD. 938 00:27:47,266 --> 00:27:49,135 YOU WOULD JUST KICK HIM OUT. 939 00:27:49,135 --> 00:27:50,803 >> I DO GET UPSET, BECAUSE I SEE 940 00:27:50,803 --> 00:27:52,671 YOU SAD AND HURT LIKE THAT. 941 00:27:52,671 --> 00:27:55,241 IT'S ANNOYING. 942 00:27:55,241 --> 00:27:56,642 IT MAKES ME ANGRY. 943 00:27:56,642 --> 00:27:59,311 >> FROM HOW I KNEW HIM, EVEN THE 944 00:27:59,311 --> 00:28:02,148 BIG THINGS, HE WOULD ALWAYS COME 945 00:28:02,148 --> 00:28:03,149 THROUGH WITH IT. 946 00:28:03,149 --> 00:28:05,818 AND THEN, LIKE, NOW THAT HE'S 947 00:28:05,818 --> 00:28:06,953 NOT HERE, LIKE, THAT WAS 948 00:28:06,953 --> 00:28:07,987 SOMETHING TOTALLY DIFFERENT, 949 00:28:07,987 --> 00:28:09,055 AND I WAS, LIKE, SHOCKED. 950 00:28:09,055 --> 00:28:11,891 >> HE KIND OF KEEPS FLAKING OUT. 951 00:28:11,891 --> 00:28:15,561 >> I JUST FEEL LIKE IF I TELL 952 00:28:15,561 --> 00:28:17,897 HIM, "JUST DON'T COME OUT HERE," 953 00:28:17,897 --> 00:28:21,400 THEN, LIKE, IN THE FUTURE, 954 00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:22,769 I'LL GET BLAMED FOR IT, LIKE, 955 00:28:22,769 --> 00:28:24,136 BY HER OR SOMETHING. 956 00:28:24,136 --> 00:28:25,637 [chime dings] 957 00:28:25,637 --> 00:28:26,773 I KNOW MY FAMILY WANTS ME TO 958 00:28:26,773 --> 00:28:28,407 GIVE UP ON IMAN AND JUST MOVE ON 959 00:28:28,407 --> 00:28:30,142 WITH MY LIFE, BUT HE KEEPS 960 00:28:30,142 --> 00:28:31,343 TEXTING ME THAT HE'S TRYING TO 961 00:28:31,343 --> 00:28:32,845 FIND A WAY TO TENNESSEE. 962 00:28:32,845 --> 00:28:34,346 PLUS, I NEED HIS HELP MORE THAN 963 00:28:34,346 --> 00:28:35,714 EVER, BECAUSE I'M ABOUT TO GO 964 00:28:35,714 --> 00:28:37,683 BACK TO SCHOOL, AND MY PLANS TO 965 00:28:37,683 --> 00:28:38,851 HAVE AUDREY THERE WITH ME 966 00:28:38,851 --> 00:28:40,319 JUST FELL THROUGH. 967 00:28:40,319 --> 00:28:41,821 THEY CALLED ME FROM THE SCHOOL 968 00:28:41,821 --> 00:28:43,522 AND TOLD ME THAT THEY WEREN'T 969 00:28:43,522 --> 00:28:44,690 GONNA HAVE A SPOT FOR THE BABY 970 00:28:44,690 --> 00:28:45,657 TILL JANUARY. 971 00:28:45,657 --> 00:28:47,126 >> AREN'T YOU REALLY UPSET ABOUT 972 00:28:47,126 --> 00:28:48,160 THAT? 973 00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:49,228 >> YEAH, BECAUSE I WANTED HER TO 974 00:28:49,228 --> 00:28:50,496 COME TO SCHOOL WITH ME AND 975 00:28:50,496 --> 00:28:51,597 STUFF, SO I COULD SEE HER, LIKE, 976 00:28:51,597 --> 00:28:53,665 A LOT IN THE DAYTIME. 977 00:28:53,665 --> 00:28:55,334 >> SO WHAT ARE WE GOING TO DO 978 00:28:55,334 --> 00:28:56,836 WITH BABY-FACE? 979 00:28:56,836 --> 00:28:58,871 >> I GUESS I'LL JUST... 980 00:28:59,939 --> 00:29:00,739 >> DO YOU THINK IT WOULD HAVE 981 00:29:00,739 --> 00:29:02,008 BEEN DIFFERENT IF IMAN WAS 982 00:29:02,008 --> 00:29:02,775 THERE? 983 00:29:02,775 --> 00:29:03,843 >> YEAH, 'CAUSE THEN I WOULDN'T 984 00:29:03,843 --> 00:29:05,611 HAVE TO, LIKE, ASK YOU GUYS TO 985 00:29:05,611 --> 00:29:06,846 WATCH THE BABY. 986 00:29:06,846 --> 00:29:08,180 >> I THINK HE'S JUST BEEN 987 00:29:08,180 --> 00:29:10,016 PROMISING YOU AND PROMISING YOU 988 00:29:10,016 --> 00:29:12,184 THINGS, AND HE HASN'T CAME 989 00:29:12,184 --> 00:29:13,585 THROUGH ON ONE OF THOSE THINGS 990 00:29:13,585 --> 00:29:14,887 YET. 991 00:29:14,887 --> 00:29:16,622 >> IT'S BEEN ONE THING. 992 00:29:16,622 --> 00:29:18,124 >> WHAT? 993 00:29:18,124 --> 00:29:19,892 >> THAT HE HASN'T CAME OUT. 994 00:29:19,892 --> 00:29:21,360 >> YEAH, BUT HOW MANY TIMES DID 995 00:29:21,360 --> 00:29:23,796 HE PROMISE TO COME OUT ALREADY? 996 00:29:23,796 --> 00:29:25,397 I THINK YOU NEED TO JUST THINK 997 00:29:25,397 --> 00:29:27,166 ABOUT IT SOME MORE, AND I THINK 998 00:29:27,166 --> 00:29:28,700 YOU SHOULD MOVE ON AFTER THAT. 999 00:29:28,700 --> 00:29:30,136 YOU SHOULDN'T HAVE TO DO IT 1000 00:29:30,136 --> 00:29:31,570 BY YOURSELF. 1001 00:29:31,570 --> 00:29:35,407 YOU DIDN'T HAVE HER BY YOURSELF. 1002 00:29:35,407 --> 00:29:36,843 >> I DON'T KNOW--YOU KEEP 1003 00:29:36,843 --> 00:29:38,677 TELLING ME TO MOVE ON. 1004 00:29:38,677 --> 00:29:40,012 IT'S GETTING ANNOYING. 1005 00:29:40,012 --> 00:29:41,013 >> WELL, I HAVE TO TELL YOU 1006 00:29:41,013 --> 00:29:43,015 THE TRUTH. 1007 00:29:43,015 --> 00:29:45,017 YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT HE'S DOING. 1008 00:29:59,131 --> 00:30:00,732 [baby crying] 1009 00:30:00,732 --> 00:30:03,469 >> DOO-DOO-DOO. 1010 00:30:03,469 --> 00:30:05,471 HEY. 1011 00:30:16,448 --> 00:30:17,716 >> MY DAUGHTER AND MY GIRL 1012 00:30:17,716 --> 00:30:19,718 LIVE HERE. 1013 00:30:20,752 --> 00:30:21,487 ARE YOU EXCITED? 1014 00:30:21,487 --> 00:30:23,289 >> I AM--I'M--I MEAN, I AM 1015 00:30:23,289 --> 00:30:24,256 EXCITED, BUT I THINK I'M MORE 1016 00:30:24,256 --> 00:30:26,192 NERVOUS THAN ANYTHING. 1017 00:30:26,192 --> 00:30:28,194 [baby crying] 1018 00:30:31,864 --> 00:30:32,631 >> NAH, SHE DOESN'T KNOW 1019 00:30:32,631 --> 00:30:33,199 ANYTHING. 1020 00:30:33,199 --> 00:30:34,000 >> SHE DON'T KNOW ANYTHING? 1021 00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:34,901 >> RIGHT NOW, SHE THINKS I'M 1022 00:30:34,901 --> 00:30:36,735 AT HOME, SLEEPING. 1023 00:30:38,670 --> 00:30:39,338 >> YEAH. 1024 00:30:39,338 --> 00:30:41,107 A LOT OF THINGS ARE FLOWING 1025 00:30:41,107 --> 00:30:43,109 THROUGH MY HEAD RIGHT NOW. 1026 00:31:05,164 --> 00:31:06,298 >> OH, YOU WANT TO LEARN? 1027 00:31:06,298 --> 00:31:07,934 OKAY. 1028 00:31:07,934 --> 00:31:09,201 HISTORY. 1029 00:31:09,201 --> 00:31:11,170 DO YOU KNOW HISTORY? 1030 00:31:11,170 --> 00:31:12,939 >> WHAT YOU DOING? 1031 00:31:12,939 --> 00:31:14,240 >> MY HOMEWORK. 1032 00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:15,041 >> ARE YOU TIRED? 1033 00:31:15,041 --> 00:31:16,208 >> YEAH. 1034 00:31:16,208 --> 00:31:17,343 [sighs] 1035 00:31:17,343 --> 00:31:18,510 DO YOU WANT TO DO IT FOR ME? 1036 00:31:18,510 --> 00:31:19,545 >> IF I'M NOT GONNA DO MY 1037 00:31:19,545 --> 00:31:20,512 HOMEWORK, WHY WOULD I DO 1038 00:31:20,512 --> 00:31:21,213 YOUR HOMEWORK? 1039 00:31:21,213 --> 00:31:23,215 >> I DON'T KNOW. 1040 00:31:28,654 --> 00:31:30,322 DID YOU SEE MY ESSAY I WROTE IN, 1041 00:31:30,322 --> 00:31:31,490 LIKE, 20 MINUTES, AND I DIDN'T 1042 00:31:31,490 --> 00:31:33,192 EVEN READ THE BOOK? 1043 00:31:33,192 --> 00:31:34,726 >> GOOD JOB, CHEATER. 1044 00:31:34,726 --> 00:31:36,662 [doorbell rings] 1045 00:31:36,662 --> 00:31:40,566 >> OH, IS THAT MOM? 1046 00:31:40,566 --> 00:31:42,001 >> WHAT? 1047 00:31:42,001 --> 00:31:43,936 MOM'S NOT COMING. 1048 00:31:46,338 --> 00:31:48,340 >> WHO IS IT? 1049 00:31:53,045 --> 00:31:53,946 >> HI. 1050 00:31:53,946 --> 00:31:56,248 >> HEY. 1051 00:31:56,248 --> 00:31:59,518 >> WHO IS IT? 1052 00:31:59,518 --> 00:32:01,988 >> HI. 1053 00:32:01,988 --> 00:32:04,656 >> SURPRISE. 1054 00:32:04,656 --> 00:32:05,424 HOW ARE YOU? 1055 00:32:05,424 --> 00:32:06,658 >> WHAT ARE YOU DOING HERE? 1056 00:32:06,658 --> 00:32:07,459 >> I'M SHAKING RIGHT NOW. 1057 00:32:07,459 --> 00:32:10,096 I'M ALL NERVOUS. 1058 00:32:10,096 --> 00:32:11,363 YOU ALL RIGHT? 1059 00:32:11,363 --> 00:32:13,332 >> I DON'T KNOW. 1060 00:32:13,332 --> 00:32:15,867 >> I MISS YOU. 1061 00:32:15,867 --> 00:32:17,936 MAY I? 1062 00:32:23,275 --> 00:32:24,410 SHE LIKE BEING SNUGGLED? 1063 00:32:24,410 --> 00:32:26,312 >> YES. 1064 00:32:26,312 --> 00:32:28,314 YOU'RE FREEZING. 1065 00:32:31,383 --> 00:32:32,384 >> I MISSED YOU. 1066 00:32:32,384 --> 00:32:34,386 >> I MISSED YOU TOO. 1067 00:32:39,225 --> 00:32:41,960 [laughter] 1068 00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:44,763 WHERE ARE WE SITTING DOWN AT? 1069 00:32:44,763 --> 00:32:46,032 >> WELL, I'M GOING TO GO TO MY 1070 00:32:46,032 --> 00:32:48,067 ROOM SO YOU GUYS CAN TALK. 1071 00:32:53,139 --> 00:32:54,506 >> I THINK IT'S VERY COOL I GET 1072 00:32:54,506 --> 00:32:55,407 TO SEE YOU AGAIN. 1073 00:32:55,407 --> 00:32:56,908 BUT I MISSED EVERYTHING, AND 1074 00:32:56,908 --> 00:32:57,709 THAT'S WHY I'M HERE. 1075 00:32:57,709 --> 00:32:58,877 I WANT TO MAKE UP FOR LOST TIME, 1076 00:32:58,877 --> 00:33:01,180 FOR THINGS I COULDN'T DO. 1077 00:33:01,180 --> 00:33:02,114 HOW IS SHE AT NIGHT AND ALL 1078 00:33:02,114 --> 00:33:03,349 THAT STUFF? 1079 00:33:03,349 --> 00:33:04,583 >> SHE SLEEPS THROUGH THE 1080 00:33:04,583 --> 00:33:05,484 NIGHTTIME. 1081 00:33:05,484 --> 00:33:07,053 >> VERY NICE. 1082 00:33:07,053 --> 00:33:10,822 ANYTHING ELSE I SHOULD KNOW? 1083 00:33:10,822 --> 00:33:11,857 SO I GOT TO DO THIS? 1084 00:33:11,857 --> 00:33:12,524 >> YEAH. 1085 00:33:12,524 --> 00:33:13,692 >> YOU GONNA WALK ME THROUGH IT? 1086 00:33:13,692 --> 00:33:14,960 >> YOU DON'T KNOW HOW TO CHANGE 1087 00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:15,627 A DIAPER? 1088 00:33:15,627 --> 00:33:16,428 >> NO, WHY WOULD I CHANGE 1089 00:33:16,428 --> 00:33:17,096 A DIAPER? 1090 00:33:17,096 --> 00:33:17,763 >> I DON'T KNOW. 1091 00:33:17,763 --> 00:33:18,997 >> I'VE NEVER HAD A KID BEFORE. 1092 00:33:18,997 --> 00:33:19,898 >> SHE DIDN'T POOP. 1093 00:33:19,898 --> 00:33:20,632 SHE ONLY PEED. 1094 00:33:20,632 --> 00:33:22,334 >> YES! 1095 00:33:22,334 --> 00:33:26,438 YOU WANNA GIVE ME THIS LEG? 1096 00:33:26,438 --> 00:33:28,740 YEAH. 1097 00:33:28,740 --> 00:33:30,109 [baby fussing] 1098 00:33:30,109 --> 00:33:31,677 OH, THERE IT IS. 1099 00:33:31,677 --> 00:33:33,112 >> DID HE DO GOOD? 1100 00:33:33,112 --> 00:33:34,213 [baby fussing] 1101 00:33:34,213 --> 00:33:34,946 OH, THAT'S A NO. 1102 00:33:34,946 --> 00:33:36,014 >> THAT'S CODE NAME FOR "GOOD." 1103 00:33:36,014 --> 00:33:37,249 I TOLD YOU. 1104 00:33:37,249 --> 00:33:38,484 THAT'S CODE NAME FOR, 1105 00:33:38,484 --> 00:33:39,251 "MOM BETTER FEED ME." 1106 00:33:39,251 --> 00:33:40,186 THAT'S WHAT THAT'S CODE FOR. 1107 00:33:40,186 --> 00:33:41,520 >> NO, YOU'RE DOING HER BOTTLE. 1108 00:33:41,520 --> 00:33:42,421 >> UGH. 1109 00:33:42,421 --> 00:33:43,955 >> SHE DRINKS 4 OUNCES. 1110 00:33:43,955 --> 00:33:44,990 >> SO TWO SCOOPS. 1111 00:33:44,990 --> 00:33:45,657 >> YEAH. 1112 00:33:45,657 --> 00:33:47,726 >> YEAH. 1113 00:33:47,726 --> 00:33:50,662 PRECISION. 1114 00:33:50,662 --> 00:33:53,665 [baby fussing] 1115 00:33:55,234 --> 00:33:57,636 AM I FEEDING HER TOO? 1116 00:33:57,636 --> 00:34:00,772 HI. 1117 00:34:00,772 --> 00:34:02,741 >> MOVE YOUR HAND. 1118 00:34:06,445 --> 00:34:07,546 >> YOU NEVER THOUGHT I'D COME, 1119 00:34:07,546 --> 00:34:08,980 DID YOU? 1120 00:34:08,980 --> 00:34:11,850 >> IT'S, LIKE, WEIRD TO SEE YOU 1121 00:34:11,850 --> 00:34:15,754 EVEN HERE TODAY. 1122 00:34:15,754 --> 00:34:17,689 >> COME AND EAT. 1123 00:34:17,689 --> 00:34:19,291 >> IMAN TOTALLY CAUGHT ME OFF 1124 00:34:19,291 --> 00:34:20,792 GUARD BY SHOWING UP, BUT HIS 1125 00:34:20,792 --> 00:34:22,228 TIMING IS PERFECT. 1126 00:34:22,228 --> 00:34:23,061 I'M GOING BACK TO SCHOOL 1127 00:34:23,061 --> 00:34:24,396 TOMORROW, AND SINCE THERE'S NO 1128 00:34:24,396 --> 00:34:26,098 ROOM AT THE DAY CARE ON CAMPUS, 1129 00:34:26,098 --> 00:34:28,200 I WAS RELYING ON MY GRANDPARENTS 1130 00:34:28,200 --> 00:34:29,468 TO WATCH AUDREY ALL DAY, SO 1131 00:34:29,468 --> 00:34:31,470 THEY'RE HAPPY HE'S HERE TOO. 1132 00:34:31,470 --> 00:34:32,804 >> I'M REALLY SURPRISED THAT YOU 1133 00:34:32,804 --> 00:34:34,606 GOT HERE, SO... 1134 00:34:34,606 --> 00:34:35,974 THIS REALLY IS A BIG SURPRISE 1135 00:34:35,974 --> 00:34:36,675 TO US. 1136 00:34:36,675 --> 00:34:38,043 WELL, I HEARD THAT HE'S 1137 00:34:38,043 --> 00:34:38,910 GONNA STAY. 1138 00:34:38,910 --> 00:34:39,711 IS THAT TRUE? 1139 00:34:39,711 --> 00:34:40,646 ARE YOU GONNA STAY NOW? 1140 00:34:40,646 --> 00:34:41,480 >> I'M HERE INDEFINITELY, 1141 00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:42,148 FOR RIGHT NOW. 1142 00:34:42,148 --> 00:34:43,014 THAT'S WHY I BOUGHT A ONE-WAY 1143 00:34:43,014 --> 00:34:43,649 TICKET HERE. 1144 00:34:43,649 --> 00:34:44,350 >> OH, THAT'S GOOD. 1145 00:34:44,350 --> 00:34:46,318 >> SO I'M KIND OF HERE FOR GOOD. 1146 00:34:47,853 --> 00:34:48,587 >> WHATEVER. 1147 00:34:48,587 --> 00:34:49,921 IF IT PAYS--YOU KNOW, IF IT PAYS 1148 00:34:49,921 --> 00:34:51,022 AN HOURLY WAGE CONSISTENTLY, 1149 00:34:51,022 --> 00:34:51,757 I'LL DO IT. 1150 00:34:51,757 --> 00:34:53,292 I DON'T WANT TO JUST BE HERE 1151 00:34:53,292 --> 00:34:54,360 AND JUST BE DEAD WEIGHT. 1152 00:34:54,360 --> 00:34:55,294 I WANT TO BE HERE AND TRY TO 1153 00:34:55,294 --> 00:34:56,328 BE PRODUCTIVE. 1154 00:34:56,328 --> 00:34:57,496 LIKE, THE MAIN THING IS, I WANT 1155 00:34:57,496 --> 00:34:58,264 HER TO FINISH SCHOOL. 1156 00:34:58,264 --> 00:35:00,031 THAT'S WHAT I'M REALLY PUSHING. 1157 00:35:00,031 --> 00:35:01,833 >> THAT'S IT. 1158 00:35:01,833 --> 00:35:03,068 >> I'LL BEND OVER BACKWARDS TO 1159 00:35:03,068 --> 00:35:04,102 MAKE SURE SHE GETS HER STUFF 1160 00:35:04,102 --> 00:35:05,737 DONE, YOU KNOW? 1161 00:35:05,737 --> 00:35:07,239 >> I THINK IMAN MADE A GOOD 1162 00:35:07,239 --> 00:35:08,974 IMPRESSION WITH MY GRANDPARENTS, 1163 00:35:08,974 --> 00:35:10,108 BUT REBECCA DIDN'T SEEM 1164 00:35:10,108 --> 00:35:11,543 THRILLED. 1165 00:35:11,543 --> 00:35:13,345 I WAS SO EXCITED FOR OUR FIRST 1166 00:35:13,345 --> 00:35:14,946 DAY OF SCHOOL TOGETHER, BUT THE 1167 00:35:14,946 --> 00:35:16,315 NEXT MORNING, SHE SAID SHE 1168 00:35:16,315 --> 00:35:17,316 DIDN'T FEEL GOOD AND WAS 1169 00:35:17,316 --> 00:35:18,950 STAYING HOME. 1170 00:35:18,950 --> 00:35:20,419 BEING IN SCHOOL AGAIN WAS 1171 00:35:20,419 --> 00:35:21,687 REALLY WEIRD. 1172 00:35:21,687 --> 00:35:23,689 I WAS DEAD TIRED, DIDN'T KNOW 1173 00:35:23,689 --> 00:35:25,191 MY WAY AROUND, AND DIDN'T KNOW 1174 00:35:25,191 --> 00:35:26,925 ANYBODY IN MY CLASSES. 1175 00:35:26,925 --> 00:35:27,926 AND BECAUSE REBECCA STAYED 1176 00:35:27,926 --> 00:35:29,695 AT HOME, I DIDN'T HAVE ANYONE 1177 00:35:29,695 --> 00:35:31,297 TO EAT LUNCH WITH. 1178 00:35:31,297 --> 00:35:32,698 I COULD BARELY WAIT FOR IMAN AND 1179 00:35:32,698 --> 00:35:34,300 AUDREY TO COME PICK ME UP, BUT 1180 00:35:34,300 --> 00:35:36,202 THEN MY DAY JUST GOT WORSE. 1181 00:35:36,202 --> 00:35:37,503 >> REBECCA DIDN'T GO TO SCHOOL 1182 00:35:37,503 --> 00:35:39,671 TODAY. 1183 00:35:39,671 --> 00:35:40,672 I DON'T KNOW IF YOU KNOW THIS 1184 00:35:40,672 --> 00:35:41,573 OR IF THEY'RE LYING TO YOU, BUT 1185 00:35:41,573 --> 00:35:42,941 I GOT SOME OTHER NEWS FOR YOU. 1186 00:35:42,941 --> 00:35:44,009 >> WHAT? 1187 00:35:44,009 --> 00:35:47,246 >> SHE UNENROLLED TODAY. 1188 00:35:47,246 --> 00:35:48,380 SHE UNENROLLED 1189 00:35:48,380 --> 00:35:49,181 FROM SCHOOL TODAY. 1190 00:35:49,181 --> 00:35:49,848 >> TODAY? 1191 00:35:49,848 --> 00:35:51,149 >> TODAY. 1192 00:35:51,149 --> 00:35:52,551 >> OH, MY GOD. 1193 00:35:52,551 --> 00:35:53,885 >> SHE TOLD ME THAT SHE'S MOVING 1194 00:35:53,885 --> 00:35:55,887 OUT TO LIVE WITH HER MOM. 1195 00:35:59,791 --> 00:36:01,493 YOU OKAY? 1196 00:36:01,493 --> 00:36:03,495 YOU GONNA MISS YOUR SISTER? 1197 00:36:07,433 --> 00:36:08,300 YOU ALL RIGHT, BABY? 1198 00:36:08,300 --> 00:36:09,201 YOU WANT TO CALL YOUR MOM 1199 00:36:09,201 --> 00:36:10,001 OR YOUR SISTER OR ANYTHING 1200 00:36:10,001 --> 00:36:10,669 LIKE THAT? 1201 00:36:10,669 --> 00:36:11,337 >> NO. 1202 00:36:11,337 --> 00:36:12,304 >> WHY NOT? 1203 00:36:12,304 --> 00:36:14,806 >> I DON'T WANT TO TALK TO THEM. 1204 00:36:14,806 --> 00:36:16,041 >> SO NOBODY TOLD YOU NOTHING, 1205 00:36:16,041 --> 00:36:17,443 OBVIOUSLY. 1206 00:36:17,443 --> 00:36:19,878 YEAH, THAT'S PRETTY MESSED UP. 1207 00:36:19,878 --> 00:36:21,580 >> [crying] 1208 00:36:21,580 --> 00:36:23,582 >> YOU WANT ME TO TAKE HER? 1209 00:36:29,555 --> 00:36:30,856 >> MY MOM AND REBECCA KEPT 1210 00:36:30,856 --> 00:36:32,258 CALLING ME TO TALK, BUT I 1211 00:36:32,258 --> 00:36:34,293 WOULDN'T PICK UP. 1212 00:36:38,564 --> 00:36:41,567 [crying] 1213 00:36:47,005 --> 00:36:49,007 >> WE LOVE YOU VERY MUCH. 1214 00:36:57,516 --> 00:36:58,484 >> I DIDN'T. 1215 00:36:58,484 --> 00:36:59,785 WE HAVE TO TALK ABOUT THIS. 1216 00:36:59,785 --> 00:37:00,986 YOU THINK WE JUST DID THIS 1217 00:37:00,986 --> 00:37:02,988 BEHIND YOUR BACK OR SOMETHING? 1218 00:37:16,502 --> 00:37:18,203 AND I DO ALL THIS STUFF FOR HER, 1219 00:37:18,203 --> 00:37:21,273 AND SHE JUST LEAVES ME. 1220 00:37:21,273 --> 00:37:24,910 JUST GET OUT, PLEASE! 1221 00:37:24,910 --> 00:37:27,913 [crying] 1222 00:37:40,258 --> 00:37:41,092 >> female announcer: DON'T 1223 00:37:41,092 --> 00:37:41,693 GO AWAY. 1224 00:37:41,693 --> 00:37:42,594 THIS EPISODE OF 16 AND PREGNANT 1225 00:37:42,594 --> 00:37:44,596 CONTINUES RIGHT NOW. 1226 00:37:46,898 --> 00:37:48,066 [baby crying] 1227 00:37:48,066 --> 00:37:49,735 >> ARE YOU AWAKE? 1228 00:37:49,735 --> 00:37:51,102 I DIDN'T GET MUCH SLEEP 1229 00:37:51,102 --> 00:37:51,837 LAST NIGHT. 1230 00:37:51,837 --> 00:37:53,339 AUDREY WAS UP A LOT, AND I SPENT 1231 00:37:53,339 --> 00:37:54,740 MOST OF MY TIME THINKING ABOUT 1232 00:37:54,740 --> 00:37:56,475 WHAT HAPPENED WITH MY SISTER. 1233 00:37:56,475 --> 00:37:58,043 I'M HAPPY IMAN IS HERE, BUT I'M 1234 00:37:58,043 --> 00:37:59,511 USED TO DEPENDING ON REBECCA FOR 1235 00:37:59,511 --> 00:38:01,580 SO MANY THINGS, AND I'M WORRIED 1236 00:38:01,580 --> 00:38:02,714 ABOUT WHAT IT'S GONNA BE LIKE 1237 00:38:02,714 --> 00:38:03,915 NOW THAT SHE'S GONE. 1238 00:38:03,915 --> 00:38:04,583 I DON'T KNOW. 1239 00:38:04,583 --> 00:38:06,652 I JUST FEEL HURT THAT I HAD TO 1240 00:38:06,652 --> 00:38:07,719 HEAR IT FROM IMAN AND NOT, 1241 00:38:07,719 --> 00:38:09,588 LIKE, YOU OR IMAN OR ANYBODY. 1242 00:38:09,588 --> 00:38:11,590 >> I PLANNED ON TELLING YOU. 1243 00:38:14,460 --> 00:38:15,527 >> LIKE, I WENT TO SCHOOL, AND I 1244 00:38:15,527 --> 00:38:16,762 COME HOME, AND IT'S LIKE YOU'RE 1245 00:38:16,762 --> 00:38:18,464 MOVING OUT, ALREADY GONE. 1246 00:38:18,464 --> 00:38:19,998 WHEN DID YOU DECIDE THAT YOU 1247 00:38:19,998 --> 00:38:20,999 WERE GOING TO MOVE OUT? 1248 00:38:20,999 --> 00:38:21,767 LIKE, YOU ALREADY HAD IT 1249 00:38:21,767 --> 00:38:22,434 PLANNED? 1250 00:38:22,434 --> 00:38:24,436 OR WAS IT JUST, LIKE... 1251 00:38:30,041 --> 00:38:31,477 >> HMM. 1252 00:38:31,477 --> 00:38:32,944 I WANT TO BE WITH MOM TOO, 1253 00:38:32,944 --> 00:38:35,180 BUT I JUST CAN'T NOW, BECAUSE 1254 00:38:35,180 --> 00:38:36,682 OF IMAN AND THE BABY AND 1255 00:38:36,682 --> 00:38:38,884 EVERYTHING, SO... 1256 00:38:38,884 --> 00:38:40,819 YOU WERE JUST, LIKE, MY CLOSEST 1257 00:38:40,819 --> 00:38:44,956 FRIEND AND EVERYTHING. 1258 00:38:44,956 --> 00:38:46,925 NOW THAT MY SISTER LEFT, I FEEL 1259 00:38:46,925 --> 00:38:49,461 LIKE WE'RE NOT AS CLOSE AS WE 1260 00:38:49,461 --> 00:38:50,462 WERE BEFORE. 1261 00:38:50,462 --> 00:38:52,330 IT'S KIND OF SAD, BECAUSE I 1262 00:38:52,330 --> 00:38:53,565 STILL THOUGHT ME AND HER WOULD 1263 00:38:53,565 --> 00:38:56,001 BE BEST FRIENDS AND REALLY CLOSE 1264 00:38:56,001 --> 00:38:57,536 AND TELL EACH OTHER EVERYTHING, 1265 00:38:57,536 --> 00:38:59,938 BUT IT'S NOT LIKE THAT ANYMORE. 1266 00:38:59,938 --> 00:39:01,973 >> I KNOW YOU GUYS WERE, LIKE, 1267 00:39:01,973 --> 00:39:04,009 SUPER CLOSE, BEST FRIENDS. 1268 00:39:04,009 --> 00:39:05,744 AND NOW SHE'S, LIKE, GONE. 1269 00:39:05,744 --> 00:39:06,945 LIKE, I WOULD WANT TO CRY. 1270 00:39:06,945 --> 00:39:08,647 >> YEAH, I CRIED, LIKE, THAT 1271 00:39:08,647 --> 00:39:10,916 WHOLE NIGHT. 1272 00:39:10,916 --> 00:39:12,183 MAYBE IT WAS, LIKE, EVERYTHING 1273 00:39:12,183 --> 00:39:14,085 ALTOGETHER, AND THEN PLUS IMAN 1274 00:39:14,085 --> 00:39:15,220 WAS COMING OUT. 1275 00:39:15,220 --> 00:39:16,588 SHE PROBABLY DIDN'T BELIEVE 1276 00:39:16,588 --> 00:39:18,457 HE WAS GONNA COME OUT, AND THEN 1277 00:39:18,457 --> 00:39:22,260 HE CAME, AND SHE WAS LIKE, "OH." 1278 00:39:22,260 --> 00:39:24,362 >> READY TO TAKE A BATH? 1279 00:39:24,362 --> 00:39:28,667 >> I THINK IMAN'S A GREAT DAD. 1280 00:39:28,667 --> 00:39:30,969 HE'S TAKING CARE OF HER ALL DAY, 1281 00:39:30,969 --> 00:39:34,172 ALL NIGHT. 1282 00:39:34,172 --> 00:39:35,474 HE KNOWS HER CRIES. 1283 00:39:35,474 --> 00:39:37,042 HE KNOWS WHEN TO FEED HER, 1284 00:39:37,042 --> 00:39:38,577 WHEN TO JUST HOLD HER, 1285 00:39:38,577 --> 00:39:39,511 WHEN TO BURP HER, 1286 00:39:39,511 --> 00:39:40,746 WHEN TO CHANGE HER. 1287 00:39:40,746 --> 00:39:42,147 >> YOU ACTUALLY LIKE ME BEING 1288 00:39:42,147 --> 00:39:43,114 HERE, HELPING YOU OUT? 1289 00:39:43,114 --> 00:39:43,782 >> YES. 1290 00:39:43,782 --> 00:39:44,850 >> YEAH? 1291 00:39:44,850 --> 00:39:45,751 ARE YOU SURE? 1292 00:39:45,751 --> 00:39:46,752 YOU'RE NOT LYING TO ME? 1293 00:39:46,752 --> 00:39:47,419 >> NO. 1294 00:39:47,419 --> 00:39:48,086 >> ALL RIGHT. 1295 00:39:48,086 --> 00:39:48,754 IT'S A TOUGH JOB. 1296 00:39:48,754 --> 00:39:50,422 IT'S A VERY TOUGH JOB, ACTUALLY. 1297 00:39:50,422 --> 00:39:52,624 >> I KNOW. 1298 00:39:52,624 --> 00:39:54,626 ARE YOU GOING CRAZY? 1299 00:39:54,626 --> 00:39:56,962 NOW THAT I'M A MOM, IT'S A LOT 1300 00:39:56,962 --> 00:39:58,530 OF RESPONSIBILITY AND HARD WORK 1301 00:39:58,530 --> 00:40:00,331 THAT I HAVE TO DO, AND IT'S JUST 1302 00:40:00,331 --> 00:40:01,867 STRESSFUL SOMETIMES, BECAUSE 1303 00:40:01,867 --> 00:40:03,101 WHEN SHE'S CRYING, AND YOU DON'T 1304 00:40:03,101 --> 00:40:05,003 KNOW WHY SHE'S CRYING... 1305 00:40:05,003 --> 00:40:06,738 WHAT'S WRONG? 1306 00:40:06,738 --> 00:40:07,739 IT'S KIND OF HARD. 1307 00:40:07,739 --> 00:40:09,340 WELL, IT IS HARD. 1308 00:40:09,340 --> 00:40:10,909 AND IT'S STRESSFUL TRYING TO 1309 00:40:10,909 --> 00:40:12,811 GRADUATE ON TIME. 1310 00:40:12,811 --> 00:40:14,713 I'M HOPING AFTER I GRADUATE HIGH 1311 00:40:14,713 --> 00:40:17,148 SCHOOL, THAT I'M GOING TO GO TO 1312 00:40:17,148 --> 00:40:19,217 COSMETOLOGY SCHOOL, AND IMAN'S 1313 00:40:19,217 --> 00:40:20,385 GOING TO BE IN SCHOOL BY THEN 1314 00:40:20,385 --> 00:40:22,320 AND HAVE HIS JOB. 1315 00:40:22,320 --> 00:40:23,221 >> HE HAS TO WORK. 1316 00:40:23,221 --> 00:40:24,355 HE'S GOT A BABY. 1317 00:40:24,355 --> 00:40:26,357 HE'S GOT RESPONSIBILITY NOW. 1318 00:40:26,357 --> 00:40:27,626 HE CAN'T AFFORD TO STAY HOME 1319 00:40:27,626 --> 00:40:28,660 BABYSITTING ANYMORE. 1320 00:40:28,660 --> 00:40:29,628 HE CAN'T JUST SIT AROUND AND 1321 00:40:29,628 --> 00:40:31,029 WAIT FOR JOBS TO CALL HIM. 1322 00:40:31,029 --> 00:40:33,131 >> LIKE, IF I COULD GO BACK AND 1323 00:40:33,131 --> 00:40:34,566 STUFF, I WOULD JUST WAIT TO HAVE 1324 00:40:34,566 --> 00:40:36,935 SEX UNTIL I WAS OLDER AND JUST 1325 00:40:36,935 --> 00:40:39,771 MATURE ENOUGH, BECAUSE THEN YOU 1326 00:40:39,771 --> 00:40:42,908 END UP WITH HEADACHES EVERY DAY, 1327 00:40:42,908 --> 00:40:45,076 NOT SLEEPING, JUST A LOT OF 1328 00:40:45,076 --> 00:40:46,578 GROWING UP AND RESPONSIBILITY 1329 00:40:46,578 --> 00:40:48,113 THAT YOU DON'T WANT UNTIL 1330 00:40:48,113 --> 00:40:50,281 LATER ON, AND IT'S JUST 1331 00:40:50,281 --> 00:40:51,182 REALLY HARD. 1332 00:40:51,182 --> 00:40:52,851 BUT, IN THE END, LIKE, ME AND 1333 00:40:52,851 --> 00:40:53,719 IMAN ARE HAPPY. 1334 00:40:53,719 --> 00:40:55,621 AND THE BABY'S ALWAYS HAPPY, 1335 00:40:55,621 --> 00:40:57,288 NO MATTER WHAT, SO THAT'S ALL 1336 00:40:57,288 --> 00:40:57,956 THAT MATTERS. 1337 00:40:57,956 --> 00:40:59,958 [chime dings] 1338 00:41:14,573 --> 00:41:15,907 >> PEOPLE ALWAYS STARE AT ME 1339 00:41:15,907 --> 00:41:16,942 LIKE THEY'VE NEVER SEEN 1340 00:41:16,942 --> 00:41:18,143 A PREGNANT PERSON BEFORE. 1341 00:41:18,143 --> 00:41:19,511 >> I'LL HELP AS MUCH AS I CAN, 1342 00:41:19,511 --> 00:41:20,846 DEVON, BUT I'M NOT GONNA RAISE 1343 00:41:20,846 --> 00:41:22,313 THIS CHILD. 1344 00:41:22,313 --> 00:41:24,650 [baby crying] 1345 00:41:24,650 --> 00:41:25,684 >> IT SUCKS TO MOVE AWAY FROM 1346 00:41:25,684 --> 00:41:26,417 YOUR FAMILY. 1347 00:41:26,417 --> 00:41:28,520 YOU DO WHAT YOU GOT TO DO. 1348 00:41:28,520 --> 00:41:29,287 >> I JUST DON'T WANT YOU 1349 00:41:29,287 --> 00:41:31,289 TO GO AWAY.